Earn Your Happy

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why a front row mindset is so important My personal turmoil with being in the front row How you can show up for yourself + others   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes I’ve been thinking at this topic for quite a bit; today we are talking about getting to that next level. This episode is all about getting you to be in your front row mentality in order for you to level up in your life! When it comes down to it, it’s not just the belief that you belong in the front row– it’s about creating your own accountability to SHOW THE HECK UP. Sometimes, it’s not only about showing up for yourself, but showing up for others as well. Listen in to today’s quickie as I share my own struggles with front row mindset + what I do to work through them! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

Topics discussed include the law of attraction, speaking your truth to your tribe, and the top three disciplines for a fulfilling life. Listeners ask about explaining the law of attraction to skeptics and dealing with disagreements within your tribe. The episode also features a review praising the podcast's motivation and realness.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: A little backstory on who Todd is and where he came from Stepping into his alter ego and what that did for him How to create your own anchor to bridge who you are and who you see yourself becoming An amazing research test The difference between the extraordinary world and the ordinary world Recognizing the deep root and working through it Todd’s letter writing practice The struggles that Todd worked through Who his book is for   Resources: Learn more: toddherman.me ; alteregoeffect.com Instagram: @todd_herman Read: The Alter Ego Effect Watch: 5 Secrets to Change Your Life Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Todd Herman joins me on today’s show! Todd is a High Performance Coach and Strategist for ambitious entrepreneurs, athletes and leaders that want to reach wildly outrageous goals. His signature system, The 90 Day Year, has been named the World’s Top Leadership & Skill Development Program—twice! I am so excited for you to listen to this episode because we are talking ALL about activating your heroic self. You may even find yourself creating your very own alter ego to call on!   Question Highlights: What started happening once you finally stepped in to your alter ego? How do you create an anchor for yourself? What are the steps of getting to the deep root and being able to work through it? What came up for you on the days you were struggling with imposter syndrome? Who is your book for?   Todd Herman is a High Performance Coach and Strategist for ambitious entrepreneurs, athletes and leaders that want to reach wildly outrageous goals.   He’s helped clients reach the Olympic podium, build multi-million dollar companies and establish brands that have become internationally known. He’s owned his sports science training company for over 20 years and his signature system, The 90 Day Year has been named the World’s Top Leadership & Skill Development Program—Twice!   He’s also the author of the forthcoming book, The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life. He dodges taxis in NYC where he lives with his wife, 2 little girls, and one little guy. And is currently the world's worst ukulele player. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What are you pretending not to know? Why don’t you do the things you know you should be doing? What don’t you know that you don’t know? If you achieved all of your life’s goals, how would you feel? How can you feel that along the way? What did I learn today, who did I love, and what made me laugh?   Resources: 35 Questions That Will Change Your Life Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes While searching for inspiration for this quickie episode, I came across this incredible article from Forbes that has 35 life-changing questions, and knew we had to talk about it! In today’s episode, I’m going to share a few of the questions that really spoke to me, and I’ll share my answers with you on the spot. Be sure to take some time today for yourself to look through the questions– they may just change your life like they’ve sparked change in mine! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Keeping high vibe while you’re wait to hear back for something Tips on putting on events and workshops Getting your creative juices flowing What we are resisting + fearing   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Fast Foundations Mastermind Read: The War of Art by Steven Pressfield   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Today, Evans and I talk about being high vibe no matter where you are in life, hosting events, and tips for getting your creative juices flowing!   Review of the Week: Jessib1981 I have followed Lori’s podcast for over 2 years and a few months ago moved across the country and lost my self-development groove. In turn, I recently found myself in a rut, feeling alone & unworthy. While I knew deep down I would find a way back, I had to think of what I needed. On my drive back to VA from WI, I listened to over 20 podcasts back-to-back and felt revived & resuscitated!! I hate to say how long it’s been since I’ve tuned in, but my new favorite episodes are Q&A with her assistant/friend Evans!!! They are awesome and hilarious. Just the vibes I need to surround myself with until I find more of my own tribe. Love you juggernauts!   Question 1: @nataliecturner “How to be high vibe while waiting? Ex: hearing about a work opportunity, text results, etc.”   Question 2: @sigsfitbits “Some tips on hosting your first workshop event?”   Question 3: @laurenrichellequigley “What is your favorite tip for getting your creative juices flowing?” Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Rachel’s childhood + her experience growing up The real fears we hold + how to release them Being criticised by family Understanding that you do not need to dilute your message Actions Rachel took in order to shift her mindset Rachel’s journaling tips Giving yourself permission to offend   Resources: Learn more: rachelluna.biz Instagram: @girlconfident Listen: Real Talk Podcast Read: Faith Activated ; Girl Confident Galley Check out: ThinkUp app Fast Foundations Mastermind   Show Notes Today I am joined by the incredible Rachel Luna! Rachel is a best selling author, international speaker, Sales Confidence Strategist + Master Coach, podcast host, mindset master. Rachel is one of those people who truly made an impact on me. What she practices and speaks about has given me so much freedom and clarity! This conversation with Rachel was SO fantastic– I know it’s going to cause you all to take total inspired action in manifesting the life and business of your dreams.   Question Highlights: For people struggling with their fear “roots”, what do you find that is really stopping them? What would you say to those who struggle with what their family will think? What did you apply to your mindset in order to make big things happen within your business? What do you say to people who are facing really difficult criticism?   Rachel Luna is a best selling author, international speaker, Sales Confidence Strategist + Master Coach. A former US Marine, this 4 foot 11 inch firecracker has a rocksteady reputation for inspiring confident action and helping her clients double, triple and quadruple their income. She's the host of the podcast, Real Talk with Rachel Luna where she dishes on how to gain more clarity and confidence in life and business. Rachel has created numerous courses, hosts live events throughout the year and is working on her upcoming book, Girl, Confident. An international speaker, Rachel has been invited to share her powerful talks all across the globe from the US to Europe to Japan and has been featured in Forbes, The Huffington Post, Success Magazine and Latina Magazine among many others. If you're looking for sales confidence, mindset mastery and marketing strategies that will boost your revenue while building your legacy, Rachel Luna is the girl you call. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The first step of finding clarity Asking better questions What clarity is + why it’s important What I’m currently struggling with What do you need more of? What do you need less of?   Resources: Fast Foundations Mastermind Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes   For today’s quickie episode, I want to talk about clarity! There is nothing more important than having clarity in your life around what you do, and around your vision for yourself and your future. I’m currently seeking clarity, and I’m coming to the realization that feeling stuck, confused, and uncertain are all the first steps to finding my own clarity. I today’s episode, I’m sharing what I’m currently struggling with, and how I’m working through it. I know that this episode with help you feel okay sitting with your uncertainty, and ultimately help you to find your clarity. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Shifting your victim mentality   Advice for putting yourself out there What I would be doing if I weren’t doing this What we do for facing fears   Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Today, Evans and I talk about what to do to get out of victim mentality, advice for putting yourself out there, what I’m pulling forward in my life, and what to do in the face of fear.   Review of the Week: Victoriaaplummer: “I absolutely love all of the wisdom and laughs that Lori imparts to her listeners! It literally brightens my day listening to her Questionably Awesome Days with her assistant Evans. I laugh the entire time. I stopped my workout and wrote this review because I couldn’t stop laughing at her and her husband’s podcast together. Besides being really funny the show has so much value for growing entrepreneurs like myself!”   Question 1: Nicole Wilson “What helped you/what shift did you have to make to tell your story/feel your story from less of a victim mentality to more of a journey/lesson mentality? (Your past as a child/assault) I feel when I share what happened in my past, I’m still very bitter about it but I know sharing my story helps others.”    “What advice do you have for someone who is putting themselves out there to the public more.... what should we expect? What should we avoid? What should we practice? I work for a corporate company and I’m concern about employees coming across my IG account. It’s nothing bad just ughhhh I’m more personal on my IG than I am at work because I’m a manager.”   Question 2: @taylorqwillmot: “If you could be doing anything else in life, what would it be and why?”   Question 3: @_caroline_fenge_: “What do you do when you are faced with un-kindess and fear?” Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Who Ashley is and how her path changed in college Putting her energy to finding a new job and moving to D.C. Exploring your interests and nudges Feeling safety within yourself Steps into finding clarity Foundational skill sets + core values and how to find yours Having a “You Turn” moment Sitting in the divine unknown Figuring out where we can find space for ourselves What is providing Ashley’s current clarity   Actually starting to take action + planning out your week What’s lighting Ashley up   Resources: Learn more: ashleyinternational.com Instagram: @ashleystahl Core Values Job Offer Academy Cake Publishing   Listen: You Turn Podcast ; How to Feel More Alive at Work episode   Show Notes Today I have Ashley Stahl on the podcast! Ashley is a counterterrorism professional turned podcaster, forthcoming author, and life coach who helps clients find their purpose, land more job offers, build their confidence, and launch successful service-based businesses. Ashley is easily one of my most genius friends, and is so down-to-earth. I’m so excited for you to hear this conversation with Ashley because it is FULL of tools for you, no matter where you are in life or business.   Question Highlights: What kept you following all of the nudges along the way? How do you feel safe to share who you are? What was your skillset you were using? Where can I take space when I have so many obligations? What is going on in your life as clarity for you? How do you get from working out your story to taking action? How should your weeks look? What’s lighting you up right now?   Ashley Stahl is counterterrorism professional turned podcaster, forthcoming author, and life coach who helps clients find their purpose, land more job offers, build their confidence, and launch successful service-based businesses.   Her e-course, the Job Offer Academy, has a methodology that’s helped more than 5,000 job seekers land job offers in 30 countries. Ashley also hosts inspirational guests each week on her show, the You Turn Podcast, with the intention of helping her listeners work on themselves, raise their confidence—all while taking life less seriously.   Ashley’s been named a “Top 99 Foreign Policy Leader Under 33” by Diplomatic Courier Magazine and Young Professionals in Foreign Policy. She’s a columnist for Forbes, and her work has been featured on TEDx, the Wall Street Journal, CBS, SELF, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune and more.   In addition to her coaching business, she’s the Founder of CAKE Publishing, a ghostwriting, copywriting and publicity house that helps influencers and companies strengthen their credibility through inspiring blog posts, PR placements and more.   Ashley earned her Master’s degree in international relations from King’s College London, and another Master’s in Spiritual Psychology at the University of Santa Monica. She holds a Bachelor’s degree from University of Redlands in government, history and French. She’s fluent in French and completely forgot how to speak Arabic, despite four years of studying it. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: A quote that I’m loving right now What a paradox is, and why I think they are important Discovering my paradoxes A few examples of the paradoxes that I believe for myself How to find your truth     Resources: Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019 Read: A Tribe Called Bliss ; White Hot Truth by Danielle LaPorte   Show Notes Today I wanted to talk to you about paradoxes. I found a quote that I’m loving, and I wanted to use that as a base to spark this conversation. “In contradiction and paradox, you can find truth.” I’d like for you to take a moment and think about what this means to you. A paradox is holding two opposing views as your truth, and I believe that understanding that paradoxes exist is only going to get you closer to finding your own truth, freeing yourself. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook