The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice.
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice.
Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
buymeacoffee.com/drpsychmom
Join my secret FB group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!
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Mar 19, 2024 • 17min
If Your Wife Finds You Attractive It Doesn't Really Matter (In This Sense)
It doesn't really matter how hot your wife thinks you are, although you can certainly be hoodwinked by an entire industry looking to tell you that becoming hotter will lead to more sex. Here's why and how attraction doesn't matter... and the case where it does.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Compatibility Is SO Important!! (And Happy Anniversary To Me And My Husband)"!
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
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Mar 17, 2024 • 20min
Sex Positive/High Libido Women May Feel MORE Of A Drop Hormonally With Age
Whenever I post about the incendiary idea that humans age and drives decline, some women say they are more comfortable now than when younger, which can compensate. In this episode, I discuss high vs low libido women over time, and drive over time as well. As usual, join my Facebook group if you want to see where some of these podcast topics originate!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Compatibility Is SO Important!! (And Happy Anniversary To Me And My Husband)"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Mar 13, 2024 • 16min
Don't "Try To Be More Interesting" To Make People Interested In You
Many preoccupied attachment people think they need to develop extra hobbies or travel more or make themselves "more interesting" in order to attract people or maintain the interest of their spouse. This is not accurate. Do things you want to do if you want to attract people who value you for you!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "'Porn Doesn't Create Masturbation' Is Wrong"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Mar 11, 2024 • 23min
Fighting About Loading The Dishwasher? Listen To This
This is a huge waste of the only time you have on this planet. Listen up for what you're really fighting about and how to think about it differently. This went longer as expected as I touched on individual-level, couples-level, and even societal-level reasons for these types of arguments!!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "'Porn Doesn't Create Masturbation' Is Wrong"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Mar 9, 2024 • 17min
"I Just Want To Be Alone" Is Now Considered A Healthy Female Ideal
It's the era of no touch! Women who feel this way are now extolled in the media. Why this hurts marriages... but also individuals, and how to situate this in the context of social trends.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "'Porn Doesn't Create Masturbation' Is Wrong"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Mar 5, 2024 • 19min
Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad
I have long noticed that guys who remarry women with kids get a lot of love from their wives, and this topic just came up in my Facebook group as well. And it's my own situation, fwiw! What is the reason, and how can you understand it in a way that helps you get the same love from your wife if you aren't remarried?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Dirty Talk Fails To Turn On Your Wife"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! Or click blue subscribe button on my Facebook page. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Mar 3, 2024 • 17min
Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women
The prime years of your life can look different based on your personality, gender, and values. Here is how nostalgia for your "prime" looks for many men and women I see in my practice, and how this impacts their relationship in different stages. Also, what if you didn't feel you had a prime?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Dirty Talk Fails To Turn On Your Wife"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Mar 1, 2024 • 23min
Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age
Men in earlier generations admitted this freely. Here's why they don't anymore! Included: The Coolidge Effect, testosterone, porn, and more!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Dirty Talk Fails To Turn On Your Wife"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Feb 26, 2024 • 15min
Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either!
Discussion on how sex can be a proxy for connection for preoccupied attachment styles. Emphasis on maintaining balance between connection and autonomy in relationships. Exploring risks of tracking intimate data and importance of human connection. Caution against prioritizing sex and coercive tactics. Importance of balancing emotional connection and personal space in relationships.
Feb 24, 2024 • 15min
Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce
If you're finding this very difficult, then here's a breakdown of why and what to do!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Sulking When You Don't Get Laid Is As Wrong As Sulking If Your Kids Don't Listen"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
