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Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born; they’re made. Many leaders reach points in their careers where what worked yesterday doesn’t work today. This Monday show helps leaders thrive at these key inflection points. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak shares insights from a decade of leading a global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, proven leaders, expert thinkers, and deep conversation have attracted 50 million downloads and over 300,000 followers. Join the FREE membership to search the entire leadership and management library by topic at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Apr 8, 2013 • 43min
83: Seven Ways to Stop and Think
7 Ways To Stop and Think
Jeff Weiner, the CEO of LinkedIn, posted an article this past week titled The Importance of Scheduling Nothing. Here are seven ways that you can also stop and think:
1) Stop telling yourself the lie that next week/month/year will be better
2) Book time to think each day, especially if you are a scheduler
Dedicate time each day to think
If you really want to discover what’s important to you, check your calendar and your bank account
Check out this advice from Ursula Barnes, the CEO of Xerox
3) Brainstorm with yourself before brainstorming with others
Check out the interview with Leigh Thompson on the most recent HBR Ideacast highlighting the truth about creative teams
4) Turn things off
Turn off the phone and email
Here’s a recent New York Times article citing research on the importance of freeing our brains
5) Write stuff down
Check out David Allen’s book Getting Things Done
Michael Hyatt produced a podcast on the Lost Art of Note-Taking on episode #47 of his show, This Is Your Life
I use the Moleskine notebook for Evernote for all my note-taking…but it’s more important you have and use a system, than what the system is
6) Put things into “later” buckets
I do this most actively for physical mail, bills, and online articles
I use Pocket to save things to read later
I use Buffer to queue posts to my social networks
7) Start saying no to more
Start with something small
Are you getting at least as much as your are giving? (financial, enjoyment, love, contribution to the world)
I’ve left some professional organizations where the above wasn’t the case
Bonus) Eliminate choices that may seem sacred
Get rid of TV?
Do you need to always be tied into the internet?
This week, I’m taking 15 minutes every day to stop and think…please join me. Connect online to discuss your results!
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Apr 1, 2013 • 40min
82: How to Attract and Grow an Online Network, with Lynette Young
Lynette Young: Google+ for Small Businesses
Virtually everyone wants to build their professional network, but few people are truly effective at doing it in person – and many believe it’s ever more challenging online. On this episode, I welcome Lynette Young from Purple Stripe Productions and author of the book Google+ for Small Businesses. Over 1.5 million people follow Lynette online, so she brings a lot of credibility and experience to those of us who want to engage online more effectively.
Please note that since this episode originally aired, Google has permanently sunsetted the Google+ social media network.
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Mar 25, 2013 • 42min
81: Why Personal Leadership Is Great Business, with Jamie Welsh
Jamie Welsh: Red Willow Group
When any of us are seeking better results, our first inclination is often to explore how we can change others. In reality, one of the best changes we can make is to first look at ourselves. In this episode, I welcome Jamie Welsh from Red Willow Group to explain how she coaches business leaders to look inward first when there are trying to create outward results.
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Mar 18, 2013 • 39min
80: Ten Steps to Create a Recognition Program, with Michelle Smith
Michelle Smith: O.C. Tanner
Vice President, Business Development for O.C. Tanner
The 10 steps we discuss:
Strategic planning
Understand your audience
Fact finding
Program structure
Communication
Type of awards
Budget
Measurement
Tracking
Analysis
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Mar 11, 2013 • 37min
79: The Benefits You Get From a Recognition Program, with Michelle Smith
Michelle Smith: O.C. Tanner
Vice President, Business Development for O.C. Tanner
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Mar 4, 2013 • 29min
78: How to Control Worry, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Towards the end of his life, Mark Twain famously said, “I’m an old man and I’ve known many troubles, most of which never happened.” Like Twain, many of us find ourselves captivated by worry on a regular basis. In this episode, we’ll take a look at this human reality and some of the things that each of us can do to better control worry, both professional and personally.
Make a decision that it’s OK to worry once in awhile
Take Dale Carnegie’s advice of “What’s the worst that can happen?”
Get out of your own box and focus on serving others rather than worrying about ourselves
Address challenges proactively – when there is trouble, take action!
Live in day-tight compartments
Some of the books we mentioned on this episode are:
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers
Getting Things Done by David Allen
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Feb 25, 2013 • 35min
77: Leading with Purpose, with Heather Backstrom
Heather Backstrom: Executive Coach
Some people live about 90 years. Some people live one year, 90 times. Which one are you and how does it affect your leadership of others and yourself? In this episode, my guest Heather Backstrom and I discuss the topic of purpose and how clarity of purpose can help us be more effective leaders and have more balanced and fulfilled lives.
Not clear on your values? My one-page values exercise is available at this link.
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Feb 18, 2013 • 28min
76: How to Handle People Who Smell, with Jacquelyn Thorp
Jacquelyn Thorp: Train Me Today
Sometimes things show up in the workspace that we don’t want and didn’t anticipate. In this episode, my guest Jacquelyn Thorp and I discuss what to do when someone on your team smells and is causing issues for colleagues. Jacquelyn brings her experience from handling this situation many times to help us address this proactively.
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Feb 11, 2013 • 22min
75: Are You Making These Mistakes When Pitching an Idea?
Bringing smart ideas to the table isn’t enough; we also need to be able to sell those ideas. The best idea communicated poorly will fare much worse than a mediocre idea communicated well. In this episode, I’ll examine what you can do to help your ideas take off.
Six mistakes you may be making when pitching a great idea:
1) Neglecting to interact with the people who are impacted most by your idea.
2) Ignoring people who could help you.
3) Spending too much time on the unimportant details.
4) Assuming the “pitch” is the decision point.
5) Failing to strategize how to work around obstacles.
6) Hesitating on bad news.
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Feb 4, 2013 • 35min
74: Communication in a Family Business, with JoAnne Norton
JoAnne Norton: Family Business Consulting Group
Family businesses account for 60% of all jobs in the United States and 98% of all companies elsewhere. The dynamics of family business are unique and communication becomes even more critical. In this episode, I interview family business consultant JoAnne Norton of the Family Business Consulting Group on how family business can prosper from one generation to the next with effective communication.
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