

Before You Kill Yourself: a suicide prevention podcast.
Leo Flowers
When the pain feels unbearable and we feel alone in our suffering this podcast will sit with you. Let's rediscover our purpose, reduce our pain and regain our sense of belonging. Join comedian Leo Flowers M.A. as he shares his own journey through suicidality, interviews guests with lived experiences and discusses with experts on how to escape the flames and create a life worth living.
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May 22, 2023 • 42min
Mateen Stewart: Grieving the death of his mom; EMDR; Potato Diet; How to get a doctor to listen to you
Comedian, Mateen Stewart, joins me to discuss how therapy helped him grieve the death of his momhis uncle's death by suicidehow he lost 50lbs in seven weeksSurvivor's remorseGrief triggersHow heart disease looks different in womenWhy reading to your child is so importantSponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 19, 2023 • 6min
The Power of Five Minutes: How Five Minutes Can Save Your LIfe, Create Your Purpose, Increase Your Productivity and Improve Your Health
We can do so much in five minutes from taking a nap, practicing an instrument and saving our lives. Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 18, 2023 • 15min
Lessons Learned from Whitney Houston's life: How to stop comparing ourselves to others and start enjoying the life we're living
Leo discusses: our public, private and secret lifeshe had a gift and smoking killed it. we have to protect our giftshe didn't enjoy it, it was to pay bills she did it for the fans and bills instead of an internal locus of control: challenging selfshe missed her opportunity for growth at the superbowl. it could've been her Miley Cyrus wrecking ball moment. despair leads to depression then we compare ourselves to others and/or past self not realizing the roles might reverse; when we compare we're not accepting ourselves, not recognizing room for growth, "i"m not what I used to be" Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 17, 2023 • 19min
The Suicidal Mind (pt. 2 of 3): psychological needs and the dread of getting older
In today's episode we discuss: What are our vital psychological needsHow to get our psychological needs met Why we fear getting oldSponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 16, 2023 • 36min
The Suicidal Mind (pt 1 of 3): Where do you hurt and how can I help?
Today's episode we discuss:Takeaways from the book, "The Suicidal Mind," by Edwin S. ShniedmanWhat two questions to ask someone who is suicidalWhat our psychological pain stems fromHow to reduce our pain to find peacePurchase "The Suicidal Mind": https://shorturl.at/MNW57Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!!1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 15, 2023 • 57min
Shaun Randall: Divorce, drugs, suicidal thoughts and why choosing the safe path leads to suffering
Author, Shaun Randall, joins me to discuss: How to get our worthiness from ourselves instead of othersPursuing success but neglecting wellnessHis journey through divorce, drugs and suicidal thoughts to peace, gratitude and serviceFalling in love in Lima, Perumeditating for 3-4 hoursdeath of his fatherThe detriment of being consumed with trying to feel betterQuotes from this episode: "I wish I had known to ask for help sooner." "I felt like I failed at life." "When the wound heals, there will be a scar." "I was consummed with trying to feel better.""There's something bigger than me I have to find.""The universe gave me what I needed, before I got what I wanted.""99% is a bitch. 100% is a breeze.""Focus on who you are becoming in the process." "It's ok to hurt." Biography: the author of A Peace of My Mind and Words Like Wine, recently released his debut novel, Letters From Lima. The new book takes readers on a journey inside a world they never knew existed to uncover the truth and discover themselves all over again.He aims to help people find inner peace and contentment amidst the chaos of modern life. Ancient Latin American wisdom and Eastern philosophies permeate Randall’s work while he employs a dry sense of humor and employs a dry sense of humor and Zen-like deadpan. His unique style encourages us to look inward in order to make decisions for themselves, rather than be swayed by external influences. Through his writing, he strives to help people choose their own paths and embrace the miracle that is reality.Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 11, 2023 • 37min
The trap of perfectionism and how to escape it
We discuss how the ways in which perfectionism impacts your mental health and how to escape it to find serenity, peace and get unstuck. Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 8, 2023 • 57min
Paula Cohen: Panic attacks, trauma bonding and how to upgrade/update our mental health
Cofounder of "Health 5D" and , Paula Cohen, joins us to discuss:how wisdom teeth removal can cause panic attacks, depression and panic attacksbiological and integrative dentist remove toxins from bodytrauma bonding/painsadness and aggression, "aggression is my way out"how our perception of pain, people and purpose impact usMasaru Emoto and water experiments...How music affects your emotionsTrauma bonding and how to heal relationship with parentsWhy triggers are opportunities for healingHow perceptions can free us or imprison uswhy we become used to the pain - not comfortable with silence is ptsd - chat GPT or learn microsoft wordhow to upgrade and update our mental healthwhy the second brain is in your gut"it's not fair to let go of everything because a part of you is in pain."Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 4, 2023 • 18min
The number one reason why social media contributes to depression, anxiety and loneliness
Leo Flowers discusses how social media contributes to our mental health issues and how to combat the effects.Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/

May 1, 2023 • 58min
Mastering Social Skills: How Brenden Kumarasamy Teaches Us to Build Relationships, Navigate Difficult Conversations, and Bring Joy to LIfe
Brenden Kumarasamy helps purpose-driven entrepreneurs master public speaking & share their ideas. We discuss: Why it's easier to say "no" than to say "yes"How to confront loved ones lovinglyQuestions to ask at the dinner tableWhy communication is more about energy than techniqueWhat does needing "alone time" meanHow to meet people in social settingsWhy immigrants have a higher median income per household How to sprinkle bliss onto your calendarWhy it's valuable to BE INSANE or BE THE SAMEWEBSITE/CONTACT: https://www.mastertalk.ca/Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let’s get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/


