The Patrick Madrid Show

Patrick is asked if the Alpha program in Catholic parishes aligns with evangelization. He issues a challenge—can Relevant Radio replace the need for such programs by fostering a deeper faith through daily listening? Plus, Patrick navigates the delicate terrain of marital responsibilities, providing heartfelt counsel to a young married mother on balancing family life and NFP.   FBI boards ship in Baltimore bridge collapse, reportedly opens criminal investigation Email – Should the Catholic Church use “Alpha” as an evangelization tool? (05:13) Therese - My husband is not open to NFP, but he still wants to be intimate, and I am not ready for another child. What should we do? (12:37) Josh Raymond – Travel to the National Eucharistic Congress with Relevant Radio (18:48) Michael - I feel like I am self-sabotaging and don't know what to do. I am a 50-year-old man looking for a spouse. I feel like I found someone who would be really good but I panicked after meeting her. Sylvia - I am going to Cave Creek, AZ, and I am wondering if you could recommend a good traditional parish for me to go to? Martin - My cousin is a non-practicing Catholic who is marrying a non-practicing Catholic. His sister who is lesbian will be the 'best man'. What should I do in this situation? Mike - My sister is protestant and I offered to get a priest for anointing of the sick. She doesn't think the she needs the Church? (48:56)

Patrick shares invaluable insights into the teachings of Jesus regarding adultery of the heart and the damage wrought by consenting to lustful thoughts. He explores the distinction between temptation and sin, and the power of cultivating virtues of purity and chastity to combat lustful inclinations. He also delves into the controversial topic of liberation theology, providing clarity needed to navigate such complex issues with an unwavering Catholic perspective.   Patrick continues his conversation with Mike from the end of the previous hour. Mike’s sister is not Catholic but Mike would like her to have the anointing of the sick Jonathon – Is the boat Jesus was in a metaphor for the Church? (05:48) Linda - Is it okay to refer to Jesus as our “Brother” instead of Jesus as our Lord and Savior? (13:40) Weldon - My brother left the Catholic Church and he told me that God doesn't create the flesh when babies are made. (16:57) Joe - What are the ramifications of lust on the soul? (21:04) Kelly - What do you think about liberation theology? My women’s group is doing a study on Job by Fr. Gustavo? It seems problematic to me. (30:59) Preston Alex - Travel to the National Eucharistic Congress with Relevant Radio (37:33) Carol - Is there any legitimate reason for someone to leave the Church? (45:23)

Patrick offers compassionate advice to Christine who opens up about her daughter’s struggle with alcohol. He recommends resources such as the book "Dying for a Drink" and introducing the support group Catholic in Recovery. The conversation continues with Rosie whose family is reeling under the impact of her husband's severe alcoholism. Patrick empathizes with her challenging situation and emphasizes the urgency for her husband to seek help.   George - On Facebook, I am seeing some people claiming to be pro-choice Catholics. What does that mean? (00:52) Audio: Bill Maher acknowledges that abortion is murder, but he’s okay with that Katie - How do I handle a situation where a non-practicing Catholic is upset that she is being asked to read at a Catholic Wedding? (09:27) Tony - What do you think of Gen 4:6-7 about controlling your anger? Email – Will our glorified bodies lose their tattoos in Heaven? (20:25) Christine - My son-in-law shared with me that our daughter is an alcoholic. She has been away from the faith for a long time. (22:19) Patrick recommends the book “Dying for a Drink” by Anderson Spickard Jr. and Barbara R. Thompson Rosie - What should I do with my husband who has a drinking problem? (28:56) Josh Raymond – Travel to the National Eucharistic Congress with Relevant Radio (36:02) Kevin - When should we 'turn the other cheek' and when should we NOT 'turn the other cheek'?

It can be confusing to understand what actually constitutes euthanasia.   Patrick dives into a profound discussion with 16-year-old Elizabeth from Minnesota about the intricacies of euthanasia, life support, and the principle of double effect, all through the lens of Catholic moral theology.   Elizabeth, curious and concerned, asks about the Church's stance on euthanasia and the moral implications of withdrawing life support. Patrick clarifies that the Church vehemently opposes euthanasia as it involves intentionally ending an innocent life, categorizing it as a grave sin.   The conversation deepens as Elizabeth wonders about the morality of discontinuing artificial life support for someone unlikely to recover. Here, Patrick introduces the concept of "ordinary" vs. "extraordinary" means of sustaining life. He explains that while ordinary means (like feeding and hydration) must always be provided if the patient can physically tolerate them, extraordinary means (like a ventilator) may be ethically withdrawn if they no longer contribute to the recovery or the continuation of life.   Enter the principle of double effect, a crucial element in Catholic moral reasoning that Patrick lays out. This principle helps distinguish actions with dual outcomes—where one is intended and ethical, while the other, although foreseen, is unintended. For instance, removing a life support machine is intended to cease the intervention that prolongs dying, not to cause death itself.   Patrick uses the example of an ectopic pregnancy to further illustrate this principle. In such cases, removing the affected fallopian tube to save the mother's life, though it results in the loss of the baby in the womb, is morally permissible because the death of the little child is not the intended effect.   👉 Key Takeaways: Euthanasia and Intentional Killing: Always immoral as they involve the direct intention to end life.   Withdrawing Life Support: Can be moral if it constitutes an extraordinary means and death is not the intended outcome.   Principle of Double Effect: Allows for actions that have both a positive intended effect and an unintended negative consequence, under specific conditions.   If you're intrigued by the nuances of moral theology, Patrick recommends the book Life Issues, Medical Choices which explores these topics in greater depth.

Patrick shares an email about the Birds and the Bees and living on a farm. Dave – Do angels suffer in hell? Patrick discusses the nature of angels from a Catholic Point of view. E-Frank- Is it legal to object to a ceremony in the church? (20:11) Break 1 (22:05) Elizabeth - what does the Church teach about euthanasia and is there ever a time when it's alright? Patrick talks about the principle of double effect. Wonder what that is? Check out Elizabeth’s call. Ed - I was baptized as a baby and when I was 11 I was baptized again in a different church. does this do anything to my original baptism? (36:46) Break 2 (37:47) Patrick shares an email about a Jesuit high school that has gone woke. Patrick gives his thoughts. Melissa - Curious about why it was a lamb that was killed at the last supper? Even back in Abraham's time they were killed. Why sheep? were goats always bad?

Sarah - how do you explain sacramentals to people without it sounding superstitious? (7:00) Patrick - Does the Catholic church teach divine simplicity? And what are your thoughts on it? Lonny - When Satan fell, wouldn't a higher level of angel need to challenge him? Why St. Michael? (15:02) Jim - Confession - the only sins i ever have are in my thoughts and I get rid of them right away. I don't know what to confess when I get there. (21:34) Break 1 Leticia - In California, most of our cities are named after saints. I think we have a sleeping giant here and we need to pray. David - (on lamb call) Jesus is the ultimate Shepard. (36:13) Break 2 (37:04) Does a couple need to break up if they are intimate before marriage? Patrick answers this question. Jan - (on Elizabeth’s call) I had a similar experience when I was pregnant. They said that the baby was stressed and if he was, he was already gone.

(0:31) Mike - I have a son that is estranged from me. I've tried to talk to him but he wants nothing to do with me. Is there anything I can do about it? Christina - on double effect - if mom finds out she is pregnant and uses the medication that induces labor but not anything else, is that still wrong? (19:59) Break 1 Tim - what are your thoughts on things like pyramids, lost technology, and aliens? Anita - Who determines what music is acceptable for mass? Is this new music an act of disobedience? (30:02)) Mike - Why is it alright for a child to receive the Eucharist when they don't totally understand but someone who hasn't taken the classes is not allowed to? (35:20) Break 2 (36:08) Lizeth - I came from a very broken family. We have just started coming together. I found out that we were all listening to Relevant Radio and It's like we are all on the same journey back to God and each other. Carl - (On the estrangement call) Keep working at it. It's all in God's time and never give up. Ryan - you mentioned a movie Days of wine and roses. I wanted to comment on that. Carol - How can I be less afraid of dying? I am 82

Let's dive into a conversation that many Catholic parents ponder over: "When and how do I have THE talk with my kids?"  Patrick Madrid received a question from a concerned mom, Sandra, who was wrestling with this very question. Sandra and her husband have two boys, aged 9 and 11, and they're at a crossroads about who should lead this delicate discussion and when.   Patrick's advice? Go for it, but with a strategy!    Father Knows Best? Yes, says Patrick. He leans towards the idea that dads should initially take the helm, when it comes to their sons. The magic age? Eleven seems to be the sweet spot, considering the societal influences kids are exposed to today. Why dads? It's about creating a comfortable space for questions and understanding, minus any awkwardness.   Moms, You're Up for Daughters: Patrick shared how, in his own family with 11 kids, he chatted with his sons, while his wife chatted with their daughters.   The Walk-and-Talk Method: Ever considered a heart-to-heart in a cemetery? Sounds gothic, but Patrick found this serene setting perfect for "the talk." Why? No distractions, just peace, making it easier to chat about becoming a man, the changes to expect, and the birds and the bees, all wrapped up in a message of love, growth, and the beauty of life's cycles.   Keep It Light, Keep It Right: The discussion doesn't have to be a somber affair. Infusing humor and keeping a light-hearted tone can help ease any tension. Remember, it's about opening a dialogue that continues as your child grows, ensuring they know they can always come to you with questions or concerns.   School Talks & Peer Chatter: Patrick emphasizes the importance of parents taking the lead before schools or friends do. Misinformation is rampant, and a guided, loving conversation from a parent can set the right foundation for understanding sexuality in the context of love, marriage, and procreation.   TL;DR: Patrick champions a thoughtful approach to discussing sexuality with children, aiming for an atmosphere of openness and trust. The goal? Equip kids with knowledge, grounded in faith and family values, ready to navigate the world informed, confident, and connected to their parents.    Your Turn! When did you have "the talk" with your kids, or how do you plan to approach it?

Is it ever permissible to lie? Patrick explores St. Augustine's take, dissects the Catechism's stance, and weighs it against real-life, high-stakes scenarios. Patrick also tackles some intriguing biblical questions, from Mary's role in Jesus' miracle at Cana to the details surrounding His burial cloth.   Daniel - Is it always a sin to tell a lie? (01:00) Yollie – Did Mary tell Jesus to make more wine at the Wedding of Cana? Did the soldiers break Jesus' legs? (12:25) Steve - In John 20: it says the burial clothes are two separate pieces, but the Shroud of Turin is only one piece of cloth. Why is there a discrepancy? Email – Question about feeding tubes and end of life decisions Neil (email) – My company only lets me invest half of my 401K the way I want, and the other half supports companies that support abortion. What should I do? Matt (email) - What should we do if we receive unclear or seemingly extraordinary penances that may be nearly impossible to fulfill completely? (32:29) Michelle - If we have a perfected body in heaven, do we get a perfected body in hell also? (40:12) Miles – Having a questionable 401K is remote cooperation, much like a mail man delivering pornography. I don't think it is wrong.

The birds and the Bees: Patrick tackles a subject close to the heart of every parent—navigating the delicate conversation about sexuality with our kids. Patrick suggests the ideal age to talk about these changes, who should lead the discussion, and he shares personal stories and strategies that work. Patrick connects the dots between childhood, adolescence, and becoming a well-rounded adult, providing wholesome, virtuous guidance every step of the way.   Patrick speaks to the importance of praying for those who have died (00:41) Terence – Why do Catholics need to marry in the Church? (05:03) Patrick shares how he gave “the talk” to his sons (19:31) Anne - When I gave “the talk” to my oldest daughter, she didn't believe me. She thought it was too ridicules. (41:30) Nora - Thank you for talking about the birds and the bees. I was told about it from my uncle, which was not very helpful. (47:23)