Sex With Emily

It’s no mystery that things have been more stressful than usual these days. When life feels chaotic, our relationships and sex lives tend to suffer, and so it’s important to reset the mind and focus on the present. That’s why I’ve brought on my therapist Dr. Anadel Barbour to discuss the coping mechanisms and mindfulness techniques I use to reignite my best self.Dr. Barbour and I talk about EMDR therapy and its revolutionary healing power, specifically in the face of trauma. We also talk about the difference between your thoughts vs. the truth and how to eliminate overthinking in the bedroom. Stick around for the end of the episode, when Dr. Barbour leads us through a full body positivity scan because, let’s face it, loving a partner begins with loving yourself.For more information about Dr. Anadel Barbour, visit: anadelbarbour.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As many of you know, I’m obsessed with communication so it only makes sense that we look at word choice when talking about sex. In this epsiode, I meet with Amanda Montell, linguist and author of Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language, to explore the greater meaning, power, and historical importance of the words we chose to use. Plus, we delve into the origins of gendered slang like ‘vajayjay’ and offer positive alternatives to the current words in our sexual dictionary.In the second half of the episode, I take a few calls and answer questions on how to examine yourself after several failed relationships, increase enjoyment of oral sex, and have fun and safe sex in a noncommitted relationship.For more information about Amanda Montell, visit: amandamontell.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s throwback show, I’m revisiting my 2018 interview with Elizabeth Kott & Stephanie Simbari from the That’s So Retrograde podcast. We talk about mindfulness, wellness & how it relates to your relationships both with yourself and a partner.We also get into what all this “retrograde” talk really means, how it affects your life and some alternative ways to work on yourselves because we’re never done improving. Plus, how your gut relates to sexual health and acts like a second brain.For more information on Elizabeth & Stephanie, click below: That’s So RetrogradeFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’ve heard me talk about the importance of a woman’s orgasm but you’re still wondering, ‘what about men?’ On today's show, I give tips and tricks for both genders on how to achieve their most powerful orgasm yet. Then, I share toys specifically for male pleasure.Stick around for the end of the show because I answer even more of your questions and calls. Including, tips for oral sex, the importance of loving your body and confidence even if you Plus, I speculate on the distinction between someone who is interested in dating vs keeping it platonic.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I’m talking with sex, kink, and relationship educator Sarah Sloane from the dating app #Open about the reality of cuckolding, dating effectively after divorce and reigniting the connection with your partner.I explore consent as one of the sexiest things you can practice in a relationship, how you can use it to enhance intimacy and why it’s the hottest sex move you haven’t tried (yet).For more information about Sarah Sloane, visit: hashtagopen.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I’m talking with certified sexuality coach Shani Hart about how to keep yourself satisfied while you take care of your partner. Shani also gives us her helpful oral sex philosophy, tips for using toys together and talks about the importance of representation in the sex industry.I also talk to psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed, who joins us with her monthly astro-sex forecast for each sign. We dive deep into what IS sexy, why it’s necessary to be with someone who brings out the best in you and non-negotiables when it comes to self worth and self pleasure.For more information about Shani Hart, visit: hartsdesires.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder what the world would be like if we all felt comfortable talking about sex? We’d have way more pleasure, less shame and much healthier relationships. Not to mention that talking about sex increases desire and leads to a more satisfying life all around.In today’s episode I also cover how to plan a sexy staycation. It’s possible even if you’re stuck at home! I advise the best way to bring toys into the bedroom, why you should consider a lube shooter and the best time to communicate your needs to a partner.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When it comes to relationships, it’s not unusual to get into unhealthy patterns—so I'm going to help you identify some of the warning signs you might be ignoring. Whether you’re dating a perfectionist or a partner who is emotionally unavailable, there are some red flags that will never turn green.I also address why words are just as important as actions, how to spot if someone is emotionally detached and you’ll learn when and how to communicate difficult feelings with the people we love most.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I bring you a special combination of guests, to give you a unique perspective on the porn industry. I talk to legendary porn star and sex educator Nina Hartley, sex addiction specialist Dr. Marnie Breecker and ethical porn director Erika Lust.Nina Hartley shares her insights on her decades long experience in the porn industry, her personal relationships and advice on figuring out what kind of relationships work for you. Then, Dr. Breecker and I take a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction. Dr. Breecker is a therapist who specializes in sex addiction and she has advice for people who are struggling to break free.I also talk with erotic filmaker Erika Lust about her mission to create ethically minded films for all genders. Erika has been writing and directing for years so she’s full of insights about intimacy both onscreen and off.For more information about Nina Hartley, visit nina.comFor more information about Dr. Marnie Breecker, visit marniebreecker.comFor more information about Erika Lust, visit erikalust.comFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s show is all about you and answering your questions. One couple wants to know how to prepare for a threesome, another wants their partner to experiment with cuckolding. However you want to explore an open relationship, I cover the topics everyone should think about before pulling the trigger.Also, how to overcome anxiety in the bedroom whether it’s you or your partner with the distracting thoughts. Take a deep breath and listen in.For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices