

Sex With Emily
Dr. Emily Morse
Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.
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Oct 14, 2025 • 49min
The Heart Tongue Technique That Changes Everything"
Susan Bratton, a renowned sex educator and author, shares groundbreaking insights on improving orgasmic intercourse. She reveals that misunderstandings, not physical limitations, often hinder pleasure. Discover the transformative "Heart Tongue" technique, which refocuses intimacy. Susan discusses the importance of slowing down and the unique anatomy that enhances arousal. Plus, she offers tips on positioning and practices like yoni massage to maximize sensitivity. This enlightening conversation reshapes how we approach pleasure in partnerships.

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Oct 10, 2025 • 29min
The Most Common Fantasy in America (You'd Be Surprised)
Dive into the intriguing world of cuckolding, a surprisingly common fantasy. Discover why partners might want to watch their significant others with someone else and the importance of setting boundaries. The discussion touches on navigating post-breakup challenges while living with an ex and the role of solo pleasure. Explore unique fetishes like ABDL and how to distinguish between desires that are essential versus optional. Plus, learn about alternative avenues to fulfill sexual needs without a partner's involvement.

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Oct 7, 2025 • 58min
Why You're Addicted to Drama (And How It's Hurting You)
Dr. Scott Lyons, a psychologist and author of Addicted to Drama, unpacks the intriguing concept of drama addiction, explaining how it manifests beyond chaos through overscheduling and fear of stillness. He highlights the biological appeal of drama, including its ability to numb pain and energize individuals. Through listener questions, Scott offers insights on turning trauma into authentic connection, addressing intimacy issues, and utilizing grounding techniques. He emphasizes the importance of embodiment in overcoming dramatic patterns for healthier relationships.

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Oct 3, 2025 • 30min
Locktober: How to Do Chastity Play Safely
Explore the intriguing world of chastity play and the essentials of penis cage safety. Discover tips for easing a partner into anal rimming, addressing masculinity myths, and fostering open communication. Dive into the challenges of mismatched libidos and the journey of reclaiming sexuality after divorce, with practical advice on solo pleasures and exploring new dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our bodies and fostering connection beyond the bedroom.

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Sep 30, 2025 • 1h 2min
How Porn Can Actually Improve Your Sex Life
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Wednesday Martin, a cultural anthropologist and sex expert, explores the complex world of pornography with Dr. Emily Morse. They dive into how porn influences sexual behaviors and communication in relationships, examining listener concerns and discussing the historical context that fuels anxiety around it. They also reveal research showing no link between porn and sexual aggression, and emphasize the potential of porn as a tool for discovery. The conversation emphasizes the importance of consent, communication, and balancing erotic exploration with healthy boundaries.

Sep 26, 2025 • 37min
When Your Friend Ruins Your Relationship By Sharing Your Past
This podcast dives into the complexities of sexual compatibility and relationship dynamics. The hosts explore the repercussions of friends revealing intimate pasts, stressing the importance of boundaries. They discuss the validity of refusing threesomes as a solution for a struggling marriage and offer alternatives for reconnecting. Painful sex is addressed with empathy, with advice on medical support. Lastly, the conversation emphasizes the necessity of open discussions about sexual desires to prevent heartache.

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Sep 23, 2025 • 45min
How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life
Joining the conversation is Violet Benson, a comedian and blogger known for her candid insights on relationships. She discusses pausing penetrative sex to tackle unhealthy intimacy patterns and the importance of setting boundaries. Violet also shares her emotional journey through egg freezing, detailing unexpected hormonal challenges. The duo explores how to differentiate between genuine connection and unhealthy attachment. Plus, they offer dating tips emphasizing vulnerability and authenticity, turning clinginess into a strength.

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Sep 19, 2025 • 50min
Why Your Partner's Sexual Past Is Haunting Your Present
This episode dives deep into the impact of partners' sexual pasts on current relationships. A caller grapples with intrusive thoughts, while another explores how daydreams might lead to premature ejaculation. The conversation shifts to practical tips for finding a third partner for threesomes, stressing the importance of setting boundaries. Moreover, the discussion normalizes the use of toys for orgasms and tackles emotional obstacles in intimacy, offering strategies to enhance solo pleasure during tough times.

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Sep 16, 2025 • 44min
The 4 Secrets to Amazing Oral Sex (From a Sex Educator)
In this engaging discussion, Shani Hart, a passionate sex educator and owner of Hart's Desires, and psychologist Jennifer Freed delve into the essence of true sexiness rooted in authenticity and confidence. Shani shares a game-changing tip for maintaining arousal during oral sex with a Magic Wand! They discuss how to redefine attraction beyond societal labels, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and genuine connections. The pair also highlight the significance of quality pleasure products and educate listeners about the empowerment found in embracing their unique desires.

Sep 12, 2025 • 40min
"What Happens When You Stop Reacting and Start Responding"
In this engaging discussion, comedian Adam Ferrara, known for his humor and insights, dives into the distinction between reacting and responding in relationships. He shares tales from his Italian upbringing, revealing how it shaped his emotional responses. Adam's breakthrough on separating worry from responsibility provides valuable perspective on anxiety. He also highlights his shift from ADD medication to meditation, showcasing its role in navigating emotional challenges. The conversation emphasizes the importance of open communication and understanding in nurturing intimate connections.


