

How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
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How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women.
Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice.
Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away.
No fluff.
No theory.
Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her.
New episodes every week.
Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice.
Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away.
No fluff.
No theory.
Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her.
New episodes every week.
Episodes
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Dec 21, 2017 • 53min
How To Tell Women What You Want Without Scaring Them Off
How do you state your intentions with women without coming across as needy or eager? And why is it important to state your intentions with women? On this weeks episode we dive into the benefit of clear intentions in dating. So many people are getting frustrated because their dating people who aren't on the same page as they are. Which is why getting clear on your intentions and then letting them be known is so important. Even if you are a woman, you will benefit from listening to this episode. We also discuss and over analyze: How to get clear on your intentions How to say your intentions in a calm, confident way How to figure out someone elses intentions to avoid frustration and pain And so much more! For more tips on how to attract, date, seduce and get any woman you want, go to winggirlmethod.com Sign up for banter lessons with Kristen. go to instantgo.com/kristencarney
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Dec 13, 2017 • 49min
Good Questions To Ask Women
We've talked about the approach over and over and over again. But what about after the initial approach? How do you keep the conversation going in a way that helps you connect to a woman and get to know her better? You ask questions!!! But what defines a good question and if you ask bad questions, will she find you unattractive? On this weeks episode we dissect the topics of questions to ask women that will get them to open up and connect to you. Even if you are a woman, you will enjoy this episode! Guest: Jason Horton
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Dec 8, 2017 • 40min
The Female POV on Sex: How & What Women Think About Sex
How and what do women think about sex? Is it different than men or is it the same? AND what do women think men think about sex? On this weeks episode we have Psychologist and Sexpert Amie Harwick on the show to explain how and what women think about sex and why it's so different from men. Even if you are a woman you'll love this episode. On this show we also discuss and over-analyze: How to talk sexually to womenHow to escalate a conversation from non sexual to sexualHow to approach women sexually without insulting or harassingHow to be blunt without being insultingWhat women think about men and sexAnd so much more! Guest: Amie Harwick
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Nov 22, 2017 • 58min
How To Be A Good Storyteller & Charming Conversationalist
Telling stories in a charming way that can keep others engaged and hanging off your every word is a HUGE asset. Not just with women.... with everyone. Being able to charm people with your words is the exact definition of charming and we want you to be charming. We brought in the storytelling and charming conversationalist guru Jeff Bellow to show you how you can easily become a master with your words. Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode. On this episode we also discuss and over analyze: how to talk to all different types of women and adjust your conversation to their style (shy women, aggressive women, strong women)The key to good storytelling and how to easily create a story out of thin airWhat every good story should haveThe common mistakes people make in conversation that have them going blankAnd so much more! Guest: Jeff Bellow More tips and advice on how to attract and get the girl go to winggirlmethod.com
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Nov 17, 2017 • 56min
How Women Define Sexual Harassment & Assault
Unless you've been living under a rock, you've seen what is going on in Hollywood right now with Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey and other huge players in the entertainment world. We want to be clear that from a female POV what these guys were doing was wrong. They raped, took advantage of and pushed themselves onto unwilling victims for their own power pleasure. We've talked to so many wonderful men who are confused by what is going on and unsure of how to move forward. Like you, they are scared out of their minds to approach or make moves on women because they're afraid of it being considered sexual harassment. On this weeks episode we do our best to explain that very fine line and hope that our direction will help you see the difference between building attraction with a willing party vs. raping them. We also discuss: How to check in with women on their comfort levels without being too overbearing or roboticHow to find your own moral compassHow to avoid being a wimp or a sour puss wi
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Nov 8, 2017 • 59min
How To Be Assertive With Women & State Your Intentions
This is the audio version of our live podcast that we did at the Zoosk headquarters where we over analyzed to death, how to be assertive with women and state your intentions. This topic has been popping up a lot. So many men don't know how to put their intentions out there with women AND be okay with the woman not being receptive to their advances. That's why on this episode we tell you how to be bold and not back down with women. Click here to meet other singles through Zoosk: http://bit.ly/2rRoVJy Guests: Nan and John from Zoosk
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Oct 26, 2017 • 60min
Why Women Talk About Other Guys & What To Do About It
If you've ever been shot down when asking for a girls number then this episode is for you! Jackie Gold joins us to break down and dissect the correct way to ask for a girls number and the mistakes so many guys make when asking that gets them labelled as creepy or worse... assaulter. Even if you are a woman you will love this episode. On this episode we also over analyze: What makes a guy creepy vs. confident Why women talk about their ex's AND what to do about it How to ask for a woman's number without getting arrested What is the fine line between assault and flirting/stating your intentions How to change a 1st impression And much more! Guests: Jackie Gold
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Oct 19, 2017 • 1h 14min
How To Know When She's DTF
Continuing with our blast from the past, we pull up an awesome old episode where a big group of ladies reveal how guys can tell when a woman is DTF (down to f*ck). It's also the very first time Adam Gilad was ever on our show. I actually remember him coming on the show and being blown away by the way he delivered his advice. It was so clear and concise and easy to follow. We talked with Adam about how to date younger women, which he is the master at. He's close to 60 and is always dating women in their 20's and 30's. He also threw out tons of tips and tricks for how to date online and make every woman want to get you offline. On this weeks show we also discussed and over analyzed: 1. Signs women give that tell a man they only want to be casual 2. 3 things about online dating most men don't know 3. How to write a profile that makes women write to you first 4. The key to writing a great profile And so much more!! Guest: Adam Gilad For more tips, tools and advice on how to attract, date,
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Oct 13, 2017 • 59min
How To Approach Women & Ask For A Date
Repeat Episode. An oldie but a goodie! “Seduction coach” Vince Kelvin & “Sex toy educator”/host of Playboy Radio’s “Play With Me” show, Miyoko, provide an interesting contrast on how to approach potential mates and make relationships work. We LOVE having Vince Kelvin on the show because he always delivers amazing guidance on HOW to do things. Lines, body language and overall mindset included. On this episode we also over analyze: how to be a modern man who can handle feminists, millennial women and women who hate menWhy older women can be easier to dateAnd so much more! Guests: Vince Kelvin & Miyoko
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Oct 5, 2017 • 52min
How To Learn To Be Charming
Repeat Episode but still a goodie ;-0 How the hell do you charm a woman?? There is so much mixed information out there. Which is why on this weeks episode we dive into what it means to be charming AND how to do it! Even though Marni was NOT on this episode it was great. Guests Jordan Harbinger and Michael Costa join Kristen to dive into how to be charming. On this show they also discuss: 1. Exercise for becoming good at small talk (The Tennis Ball Game) 2. Why you are awesome just because you listen to this show 3. Why your tonality is important and how to alter it 4. How to be a reflective listener 5. "The best way to be interesting is to be interested in others" how to authentically ask questions 6. How people learn to be charming And tons more! Guest: Jordan Harbinger & Michael Costa
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