How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

In this insightful discussion, confidence coach Kelly Tao, a wing girl for Marni's Inner Circle, shares her expertise on unlocking inner confidence in dating. She emphasizes self-trust and the thrill of taking risks to form genuine connections. The trio candidly explores the dynamics of age gaps in relationships, highlighting the appeal of older men for their maturity while discussing compatibility over age. Packed with practical tips, it’s a vibrant conversation aimed at helping men engage more confidently in their romantic pursuits.

What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic self.Spencer breaks down how unconscious language patterns fuel anxiety and resistance—and then flips the script with a live, on-air language coaching demo with Marni. Watch (okay, listen!) as he rewires her inner dialogue in real time to eliminate approach anxiety using easy, practical shifts you can apply today.This isn't just theory—it's transformation you can hear. If you've ever struggled with self-talk that kills your vibe before you even say hello, you need this episode in your ears.🔥 Tune in to learn: The secret power of precise language How to eliminate approach anxiety through word choice Real-time mindset rewiring in action This one’s a game changer.>>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession⁠⁠>>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tori Helf, a trauma expert and transformation specialist with three psychology degrees, dives deep into the impact of hidden trauma on our lives. She explains how both significant and subtle past experiences shape our self-confidence and dating dynamics. Tori offers practical tools to identify and heal these hidden wounds, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in fostering healthy relationships. The discussion also includes humorous anecdotes and insights on navigating modern dating while enhancing emotional connections.

Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and a somatic sex coach, shares how to enhance intimacy and pleasure in relationships. She emphasizes the art of being a 'detective' in the bedroom—understanding what a woman likes through intuitive, playful communication. Listeners will learn about the nuances of consent, arousal patterns, and the importance of building connection before intimacy. Celeste’s actionable tips aim to boost men’s confidence and transform their approach to sexual exploration.

What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.We dive into: What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychology How to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to create polarity and deeper emotional connection Personal stories from our own relationships where embracing shadow energy created surprising breakthroughs A grounded, practical guide to shadow work — and how to do it without spiraling or getting stuck in shame If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of you you’ve been told to hide — this episode is your permission slip to bring it into the light (and use it well).This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want.Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it.We also dive into: How to find and pursue the right woman for you How to build a strategy for attracting a specific girl How to get different types of women based on what you want How to mentally overcome obstacles without ever stepping into therapy ...and so much more.Don’t miss this one — it’s packed with fresh insights that could change the way you see yourself (and how women see you).This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this engaging discussion, hypnosis and charisma coach Wendy Packer shares her expertise on rewiring the subconscious for confidence and attraction. She reveals practical tools to replace limiting beliefs and embrace a magnetic identity. Wendy explores what true charisma is, shares phrases to enhance lovability, and discusses how to balance giving your partner what they want while maintaining your own identity. Whether you're looking to level up or understand the dynamics of attraction, her insights are invaluable.

In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected.We also unpack the common myths about arousal, the options we didn’t even know were on the table, and why pleasure is never one-size-fits-all.This one is equal parts educational, liberating, and empowering. You might never approach sex the same way again.>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work with exclusively with Kristen here spots are limited): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically.She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communication that truly feels attractive and emotionally safe. We also get real about how things like hormones, life experience, and shifting priorities impact how women date and what kind of connection they’re open to now.If you’ve ever wondered how to better connect with women in their 50s or you're re-entering the dating world yourself, this conversation is packed with what you need to know to date in this age range successfully. Need personalized coaching to get out of your dating rut?? >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relationships. If yours isn’t serving you well, don’t worry, Dr. Bobby provides practical tools to help you shift toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices