

Decisions, Decisions
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
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Aug 4, 2025 • 1h 7min
EP. 432: Financing Your Friends, Freaky Cosplay, & Furries
This week’s episode dives right in as Weezy shares her experience at the Beyoncé concert and the beauty of everyday life in France. Mandii opens up about her newly single status and what it’s like being back in the mix. The duo talks UNC-tions, navigating transactional relationships, and making sure your man is in check.They also react to the viral B. Simone clip about friends asking for too much, unpack the history of pet play and kink culture, and take a deep dive into the world of furries—from TikTok trends to cosplay motivations. And yes, we end with Mandii’s spock ears. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 30, 2025 • 19min
You've Got Decisions: He Takes PREP (Follow-Up) Ft. Assante
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 28, 2025 • 55min
EP. 431: The Problem With Ordering Fajitas, Good Nut, & Fertility Rituals
This week Mandii & Weezy are going solo again! Mandii kicks things off with her thoughts on Othello on Broadway. After that, Weezy unpacks the stress of making birthday plans. They also break down “The Fajitas Paradox” (yes, it’s a thing), showing up in a completely different fit, and share a powerful excerpt from their New York Times bestseller No Holes Barred, diving into what a healthy relationship really looks like. Things take a wild historical turn as they explore ancient fertility rituals and ask: were Greek gods actually real? To top it all off, the ladies share their favorite kind of nut — and it’s not what you think. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 23, 2025 • 21min
You've Got Decisions: My Partner is Ashamed of How We Met
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 21, 2025 • 56min
EP 430: God Helping You Cheat, Recycling Date Spots, & The Kama Sutra
This week these New York Times Bestsellers are going SOLO! Mandii opens up about how things have changed since moving to Atlanta, while Weezy shares her date night plans and gets into a spicy debate on whether it's wrong to recycle date spots. Things take a chaotic turn as Weezy recounts a dramatic choking incident, and the ladies share an exclusive excerpt from their New York Times best-selling book No Holes Barred. The conversation heats up with viral reactions — including being “graced by God” to help a husband cheat, and a wild story of a mistress setup gone up in flames. The duo then reflect on the challenges of cheating, dive into the origins of the Kama Sutra, and wrap with a deep discussion on morals, virtue, and ATL culture. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 16, 2025 • 22min
You've Got Decisions: Post IUD D
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 14, 2025 • 1h 12min
EP 429: Essence Fest 2025 (Ft. Kandi Burruss)
Mandii and Weezy are back with a wild new episode featuring Grammy winner and TV powerhouse Kandi Burruss! The duo kicks things off with a hilarious Essence Fest 2025 recap, including Mandii nearly getting robbed by some aggressive studs and the thrill of becomingNew York Times best sellers. Then, it's a live sit-down with Kandi to talk about balancing motherhood, marriage, and the real tea behind the ladies’ new book, No Holes Barred. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 9, 2025 • 1h 6min
Discussing No Holes Barred w/ Passport Cutty
OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 7, 2025 • 53min
EP 428: Aphrodisiacs, Bone Structure, & Beautiful Baby Daddies
In this week’s episode, the ladies kick things off with some uplifting news about a friend beating cancer, before diving into a candid conversation about IVF and the surprisingly strategic side of choosing a baby daddy with elite genetics. They reflect on bone structure, beauty, and how all of it ties into society’s declining birthrate. A quick political moment featuring Pete Buttigieg sets the stage for a wild ride through toddler drama, social media clapbacks, and an unforgettable reading from No Holes Barred. They also highlight Naomi Campbell’s timeless influence and take a sensual detour into the world of aphrodisiacs — from olives and ancient Indian texts to bizarre Victorian beliefs involving goat testicles. It’s smart, spicy, and a little unhinged — just how we like it. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 2, 2025 • 27min
You've Got Decisions: To Leave, Or Not To Leave?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


