Decisions, Decisions

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Mar 17, 2026 • 1h 49min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 55 | Beers, Buckets & Booger Sugar

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking the controversy surrounding the NBA’s canceled Magic City Night, beginning with a breakdown of what the event represented and why its cancellation sparked debate around women’s agency, exploitation, and optics in sports entertainment [ 01:51 ]. The discussion deepens into the complexities of women’s autonomy within adult entertainment spaces and how societal judgment often conflicts with personal choice and economic reality [ 24:40 ], followed by a broader cultural reflection on how strippers are perceived and stigmatized in society despite their influence on music, nightlife, and pop culture [ 29:07 ]. The hosts then examine the role of corporate influence in shaping community narratives, questioning whether brands selectively engage with culture for profit while avoiding accountability [ 34:18 ]. From there, the conversation expands into celebrity behavior and public scrutiny, analyzing how high-profile actions shape cultural expectations and discourse [ 36:46 ], alongside a critique of the hypocrisy behind moral outrage in media and online spaces [ 39:40 ]. The crew also highlights Bam Adebayo’s record-breaking performance and the mixed reactions it received, using it as a lens to explore how athletes are celebrated or minimized depending on narrative framing [ 41:30 ], before diving into the broader impact of celebrity influence on societal standards and behavior [46:48 ]. A deeper conversation follows around morality in sports, accountability, and the gray areas within personal relationships [ 51:45 ], including discussions on violence, responsibility, and how society assigns blame [ 57:21 ]. The episode then shifts toward family dynamics and communication, particularly the importance of honest dialogue between parents and children in navigating identity and societal expectations [ 01:13:35 ], before expanding into the broader impact of celebrity culture on social issues and public opinion [ 01:16:59 ]. The hosts also examine Jay-Z’s role within capitalism and community responsibility, debating what obligation influential figures have to the communities they come from [ 01:17:28 ]. Closing out the episode, the conversation tackles the intersection of sexuality, masculinity, and public perception [ 01:30:27 ], challenging traditional norms and unpacking how societal expectations continue to shape identity, behavior, and relationships in modern culture [ 01:43:34 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 16, 2026 • 1h 10min

EP 464: Jezebels

On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy talk about a first-class flight experience and airplane etiquette, including a moment involving a flight attendant and confidence in first class, before sharing stories about nightlife and a situation involving a confident dancer. The ladies address fan reactions from the previous episode, respond to comments from listeners, and discuss being called “jezebels,” including reactions to Sarah and conversations around the term. They also read and respond to audience comments, discuss whether Weezy’s list has changed, and talk about advice from Christian friends in their lives, faith-based perspectives on relationships, and the eternal fight with public perception.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 11, 2026 • 29min

You've Got Decisions: The Baby is His How Would You Feel?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 10, 2026 • 1h 23min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 54 | A.I. Dead Presidents, Epstein DNA & The Angry Black Man

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and the king of headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation that blends current events, personal storytelling, cultural critique, and conspiracy-laced debates. The discussion kicks off with a breakdown of trending headlines and the crew’s signature “ignorant thoughts” on the week’s biggest topics [ 03:01 ], before shifting into personal updates, celebrations, and behind-the-scenes moments from their lives outside the studio [ 06:01 ]. The hosts then share humorous stories involving social experiments and unexpected food adventures that spark commentary about social norms and curiosity-driven experiences [ 09:01 ], leading into a remix-style conversation about pop culture, internet discourse, and shifting cultural narratives [ 11:49 ]. The energy continues with nightlife stories and party culture reflections [ 15:10 ], before the conversation pivots toward politics and current affairs, examining the broader social climate and the way media narratives shape public understanding [ 18:13 ]. Technology enters the discussion as the hosts debate the expanding role of AI in media, storytelling, and historical interpretation [ 22:00 ], which leads naturally into conspiracy theories and contentious conversations surrounding COVID-era vaccine debates [ 27:10 ]. The dialogue intensifies as the crew unpacks controversial claims about Epstein’s alleged influence on mRNA technology and elite power structures [ 42:01 ], before transitioning into a deeper examination of the struggles Black men face navigating visibility, opportunity, and stereotyping in Hollywood and entertainment industries [ 51:50 ]. From there, the hosts explore the complex dynamics of respect, influence, and power within professional environments [ 01:00:24 ], particularly as it relates to identity, credibility, and gatekeeping in predominantly white industries. The conversation expands into the intersection of race, gender, and workplace authority, highlighting how Black men and women assert their presence while navigating cultural expectations and systemic barriers [ 01:10:02 ]. The episode closes on a lighter note with a spontaneous freestyle segment and playful cultural commentary that captures the crew’s humor, chemistry, and ability to blend serious discussion with entertainment [ 01:15:30 ].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 9, 2026 • 1h 19min

EP. 463: Letting Go Of Your Boyfriend For Your Husband Pt. 2 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the hosts debate expectations in partnerships, Cam Newton and marriage, and whether Mandii might actually be afraid of becoming a wife before Sarah closes out the episode with the three things that are important to her in life in order of importance. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 4, 2026 • 26min

You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My relationship?

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 3, 2026 • 1h 19min

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 53 | Missiles, Magic City & Mythical Negros

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee, deliver a culturally sharp discussion spanning Black History Month, Women’s History Month, politics, reparations, and celebrity influence, beginning with reflections on the importance of honoring Black and women’s contributions beyond performative celebration [01:55]. The conversation quickly pivots to the controversial partnership between the Atlanta Hawks and Magic City, unpacking what it says about Atlanta’s identity, capitalism, and cultural branding [02:52], before settling into guest introductions and commentary on podcast dynamics and media chemistry [03:45]. The hosts address online criticism and gender discourse in digital spaces [05:10], share anecdotes from a night out in Atlanta that spark conversations about networking, optics, and influence [09:17], and reflect on ignorance in the context of current events and viral headlines [14:29]. The episode deepens with a historical lens on the NAACP’s rebranding efforts and legacy [15:50], followed by a candid dialogue about exceptionalism within the Black community and the pressures it creates [20:07]. A thoughtful debate on reparations, land ownership, and economic justice unfolds [23:01], layered with broader commentary on Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity [25:52]. Later, the crew analyzes the viral Tez Johnson proposal controversy and what it reveals about social expectations and public judgment [36:27], before shifting into urgent discussions around the Epstein files, political apologies, and elite accountability [43:14]. The hosts confront difficult societal conversations surrounding pedophilia and institutional complicity [51:58], examine rising geopolitical tensions and concerns about global conflict [57:02], and close with a powerful call to action encouraging awareness, civic engagement, and informed participation in today’s socio-political climate [01:11:27]. Blending cultural commentary, political analysis, and social critique, this episode underscores the importance of engagement, accountability, and historical literacy in navigating modern America. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Mar 2, 2026 • 1h 21min

Ep. 462: Third Engagement’s The Charm Pt. 1 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

***TRIGGER WARNING***** Mentions of DV  This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Sarah Fontenot for an unfiltered conversation about love, marriage, and everything they don’t tell you before you say “I do.” Sarah opens up about waiting until marriage, navigating dating in Canada, and the realities of going from friend to wife, plus her three rings and two very different engagements. The episode dives into marriage counseling, gossiping as adults, and whether you should ever let your man propose at a baby shower. Things get spicy as the trio debates cheating, sex workers and accountability, side chick energy, emotional affairs, independence in relationships, and the boundaries around husbands having close female friends.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Feb 28, 2026 • 1h 12min

Decisions, Decisions: From Porn to the Pulpit (feat. Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord)

The Black Effect Presents... Decisions, Decisions!  **Trigger Warning: SA, SH, Trafficking ** This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord, author of From Porn to the Pulpit, as the episode opens with prayer before Danielle shares her introduction to ministry, the difficulty of speaking about mental health, and her early experiences with exploitation while underage, including her pregnancy and the moment her mother learned the truth. She discusses running away after giving birth, entering the stripping industry, the assumptions placed on her about sex work, being introduced to drugs through a church connection, her first client, life on the blade, and her transition from prostitution to porn, including the reality of her clientele, while the conversation also explores morality within sex work, the possibility of returning to a corporate career, the classification of sugar babies, and the demands tied to maintaining a luxury lifestyle. Danielle recounts surviving multiple overdoses, the role of scripture in her life, the emotional response her story brings out in the room, her turning point, a kidnapping in which she believed she would die before being freed by a stranger, and the events that redirected her path back to faith and ministry, along with a discussion on language, her story being adapted into a stage play, and her present-day work. Support Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord: https://linktr.ee/daniellewmm EP 460: From Porn to the Pulpit (feat. Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord) OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Feb 25, 2026 • 32min

You've Got Decisions: What Did He Say??

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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