

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Eric Zimmer
Build resilience. Cultivate self-compassion. Live with purpose. The One You Feed brings conversations with leading thinkers — James Clear, Susan Cain, Tara Brach, and more — to help you navigate life’s challenges and feed your good wolf. No perfection, just direction, insight, and the small, consistent actions that make a meaningful life.
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Dec 19, 2025 • 1h 12min
Why Anxiety is a Habit - and How Curiosity Helps Break the Loop with Dr. Jud Brewer
In this episode, Dr. Jud Brewer explains why anxiety is a habit and how curiosity breaks that habit loop. He explores the difference between the feeling of anxiety and the mental habit of worry, and why curiosity and self-compassion are essential for real change. Drawing from his clinical work and research on digital therapeutics and AI-supported therapy, Dr. Brewer shows how learning from setbacks—and building distress tolerance—helps us recognize progress, unwind shame, and create lasting transformation.
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Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways
Exploration of mental health and the role of habits in anxiety management.
Discussion of the parable of the two wolves and its relation to neuroscience and habit reinforcement.
Examination of the science of habit formation and the limitations of traditional habit replacement strategies.
Insights into digital therapeutics and the development of app-based mental health treatments.
Analysis of the potential and challenges of AI in therapy, including ethical considerations.
The importance of human connection in therapy and the unique value of human therapists.
The role of curiosity in managing anxiety and the distinction between anxiety as a feeling and worrying as a behavior.
The impact of self-criticism and shame on behavior change and the importance of self-compassion.
Techniques for cultivating distress tolerance and the gradual process of emotional growth.
Mindfulness practices, such as noting, to enhance awareness and reduce reactivity in challenging situations.
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr. Jud Brewer, check out these other episodes:
How to Manage Your Hunger Habit with Dr. Jud Brewer
Habits for Healing Anxiety with Dr. Jud Brewer
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Dec 17, 2025 • 53min
Listen Now: Decoding Women’s Health with Dr. Elizabeth Poynor
Here’s a preview of a new show from our friends at Pushkin Industries and the Atira Health and Research Institute. On Decoding Women’s Health, Dr. Elizabeth Poynor makes the science of women’s health accessible—from hormones to metabolism to longevity—so you can thrive at any stage of life. A world-renowned gynecologic oncologist and advanced pelvic surgeon, Dr. Poynor speaks with leading physicians, researchers, and educators to share the latest science on women’s wellness, disease prevention, and what it really means to age on your own terms.
Dr. Poynor recently sat down with preventive neurologist Dr. Richard Isaacson, who shares how to know if you’re at risk for Alzheimer’s, how shifting hormones can make women especially vulnerable, and what steps to take for better long-term brain health. For more episodes on how to improve your health during midlife, find Decoding Women’s Health with Dr. Elizabeth Poynor wherever you get podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 16, 2025 • 1h
Designing a Life That Supports You: Presence, Beauty, and the Power of Environment with Nate Berkus
In this episode, Nate Berkus explores what it really means to design a life that supports you—not through perfection, but through presence, beauty, and the power of environment. Drawing from decades of work and his own personal journey, Nate reflects on how our surroundings quietly shape our habits, emotions, and sense of self. He shares how moving through profound loss changed the way he understands home, meaning, and the moments that matter most. Through deeply human stories—including a transformative Oprah makeover—Nate reveals how small, intentional changes and genuine listening can create spaces that support healing, authenticity, and connection.
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Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways
The influence of environment and design on personal growth and habits.
The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to personal choices and mindset.
The significance of “the moments in between” in fostering genuine connections.
The impact of parenting on awareness and presence in daily life.
The importance of meaningful design that reflects personal stories and aspirations.
The relationship between emotional well-being and physical spaces.
The transformative power of small, intentional changes in one’s environment.
The role of gratitude in overcoming past hardships and shaping identity.
The necessity of human connection and understanding in design and life.
The balance between personal taste and collaboration in shared living spaces.
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Nate Berkus, check out these other episodes:
Failure as Fertilizer: Learning to Bloom Again with Debbie Millman
Creative Thinking and Action Through Designs with Sarah Stein Greenberg
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Dec 12, 2025 • 1h 2min
When Your Brain Won’t Fit the World: Finding Your Creative Path with ADHD with Andy J. Pizza
In this episode, Andy J. Pizza joins Eric Zimmer for When Your Brain Won’t Fit the World: Finding Your Creative Path with ADHD, a conversation about creativity, identity, and what happens when you stop treating yourself as a problem to fix. Andy shares how discovering ADHD helped him reframe years of self-doubt, better understand his parents, and build a creative life that actually fits the way his mind works. Together, they explore self-acceptance, the role of labels, and how art can become a powerful way to excavate who we really are.
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Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways
ADHD as a form of neurodiversity rather than a personal deficit
The connection between ADHD and creativity, imagination, and divergent thinking
How self-compassion supports mental health and sustainable personal growth
The role of diagnosis and language in understanding identity and behavior
The influence of childhood and family dynamics on self-perception
Moving from self-criticism to self-acceptance in creative and personal life
Creativity as a tool for self-discovery, meaning, and emotional insight
Designing habits and environments that support how your brain works
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Andy J. Pizza, check out these other episodes:
Creativity as a Cure with Jacob Nordby
Eric Tivers on ADHD in Adults
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This episode is sponsored by:
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Dec 9, 2025 • 1h 1min
The Price of Wanting: How Desire Shapes Happiness, Fulfillment, and Who We Become with Eric Jorgenson
In this episode, Eric Jorgensen discusses the price of wanting and how desire shapes happiness, fulfillment, and who we become. He explores the power of useful beliefs, agency, and a growth mindset. Eric also delves into authenticity versus attachment, the role of judgment, managing desires, and the influence of environment on habits. Drawing on thinkers like Naval Ravikant and Elon Musk, discover practical strategies and philosophical insights for living intentionally, fostering optimism, and building a fulfilling, empowered life.
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Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways:
Personal growth and mindset development
Cultivation of positive habits and beliefs
The parable of two wolves representing internal good and bad qualities
The concept of “useful beliefs” and their role in achieving desired outcomes
The importance of agency and a growth mindset in personal development
The impact of internal narratives on self-perception and motivation
The balance between authenticity and attachment in relationships
The development of judgment and its significance in decision-making
The challenge of managing desires and their effect on happiness
Strategies for creating an environment that supports positive habits and reduces temptations
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Eric Jorgenson, check out these other episodes:
Are Your Desires Really Yours? How to Recognize and Reclaim What You Truly Want with Luke Burgis
How to Find Zest in Life with Dr. John Kaag
By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed, and we greatly appreciate it. Thank you!
This episode is sponsored by:
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Dec 5, 2025 • 1h 6min
From Family Secrets to Self-Discovery: How Understanding Our Past Heals Us with Carmen Rita Wong
In this episode, Carmen Rita Wong shares her journey from learning family secrets to self-discovery and how understanding our past heals us. She delves into forgiveness, personal responsibility, and the impact of upbringing, as well as practical strategies for self-examination and habit change. Carmen shares how therapy, compassion, and embracing her complex heritage helped her build resilience and authenticity, offering listeners insights on navigating identity, breaking cycles, and finding peace with the past.
Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways:
Exploration of complex family history and identity
Discussion of the memoir "Why Didn't You Tell Me"
The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to personal growth
Themes of forgiveness and personal responsibility
The impact of childhood experiences on adult life
The role of therapy in healing and self-examination
Navigating multicultural identity and heritage
The process of uncovering family secrets and understanding one's origins
The importance of empathy and compassion in human relationships
Strategies for habit change and personal transformation through small, intentional actions
For full show notes, click here!
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By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed, and we greatly appreciate it.
Thank you!
This episode is sponsored by:
Aura Frames: For a limited time, save on the perfect gift by visiting AuraFrames.com /FEED to get $35 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames – named #1 by Wirecutter – by using promo code FEED at checkout. This deal is exclusive to listeners, and frames sell out fast, so order yours now to get it in time for the holidays!
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Dec 2, 2025 • 1h 4min
You Become What You Practice: What It Takes to Heal Individually and Collectively with Prentis Hemphill
In this episode, Prentis Hemphill discusses how you become what you practice and what it takes to heal individually and collectively. Prentis explains how healing as an ongoing practice, the importance of embodiment, and the intersection of personal transformation and activism. Prentis also shares insights from their work in healing justice and the Black Lives Matter movement, emphasizing the power of community, somatic practices, and love as a force for change. This conversation highlights how cultivating awareness and relational skills can foster both individual and systemic healing, offering hope for more connected and compassionate futures.
Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways:
Healing as an ongoing practice rather than a fixed destination.
The significance of embodiment practices in personal transformation.
The relationship between internal healing and external activism.
The impact of cultural practices and ancestral rituals on healing and community connection.
The interplay between self-acceptance and self-improvement.
The role of somatic awareness in understanding oneself and others.
The influence of aikido principles on personal and relational dynamics.
The importance of community and mutual aid in the healing process.
The challenges of navigating trauma within systemic contexts.
The transformative power of love and connection in fostering change.
For full show notes, click here!
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Nov 28, 2025 • 57min
Embracing Uncertainty: The Key to True Intimacy and Connection in a Chaotic World with Prince EA
In this episode, Prince EA discusses the importance of embracing uncertainty as he delves into the key to true intimacy and connection in a chaotic world. He explores what it means to be truly present, mindful, living consciously, and how daily choices shape our lives. Prince EA shares his personal experiences with depression and healing through spirituality, science, and creative expression. The conversation explores meditation, the value of not knowing, and the power of community and self-inquiry in overcoming challenges, ultimately offering hope and practical tools for living a more conscious, fulfilling life.
Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways:
Mindfulness and its significance in daily life
The concept of conscious living versus being on autopilot
The parable of the two wolves representing fear and love
The impact of habits on personal development and mental health
Personal experiences with depression and the importance of self-awareness
The role of spirituality and science in understanding mental health
The importance of social support and community in recovery from depression
Different meditation practices and their benefits
The distinction between “insane” and “unsane” mindsets
The value of curiosity and openness in relationships and personal growth
For full show notes, click here!
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This episode is sponsored by:
Uncommon Goods has something for everyone – you’ll find thousands of new gift ideas that you won’t find anywhere else, and you’ll be supporting artists and small, independent businesses. To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/FEED
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Nov 25, 2025 • 55min
How to Live Gratefully When Life Isn’t Going Your Way with Kristi Nelson
In this episode, Kristi Nelson discusses how to live gratefully when life isn’t going your way. She explores how to learn to cultivate unconditional gratitude – appreciating life itself, even amidst difficulty, aging, or illness. Kristi shares insights from her cancer journey, explores the difference between circumstantial gratitude and deeper gratefulness, and offers practical exercises for embracing aging with self-compassion. Together, she and Eric discuss mindfulness, the impermanence of life, and how to find meaning and presence in each moment.
Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
Key Takeaways:
Concept of "gratitude without conditions" and its significance.
Difference between circumstantial gratitude and deeper, unconditional gratefulness.
Personal experiences with mortality and illness influencing perspectives on gratitude.
Importance of mindfulness and living in the present moment.
The role of impermanence in cultivating a meaningful life.
Cultural narratives around aging and the pressure to defy it.
Embracing the natural process of aging with grace and acceptance.
Practical exercises for self-acceptance and connection in the aging process.
Shifting perspective from obligation to opportunity in daily life.
The interplay of joy, grief, and the complexity of human emotions in the context of gratitude
For full show notes, click here!
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Have you ever ended the day feeling like your choices didn’t quite match the person you wanted to be? That’s exactly why I created The Six Saboteurs of Self-Control—a free guide that helps you recognize the hidden patterns that quietly derail your progress and offers simple, effective strategies to move past them. If you’re ready to take back control and make meaningful, lasting change, download your free copy at oneyoufeed.net/ebook. Let’s make those shifts happen, starting today.
By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed and we greatly appreciate it.
Thank you!
This episode is sponsored by:
Uncommon Goods has something for everyone – you’ll find thousands of new gift ideas that you won’t find anywhere else, and you’ll be supporting artists and small, independent businesses. To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/FEED
LinkedIn: Post your job for free at linkedin.com/1youfeed. Terms and conditions apply.
Persona Nutrition delivers science-backed, personalized vitamin packs that make daily wellness simple and convenient. In just minutes, you get a plan tailored to your health goals. No clutter, no guesswork. Just grab-and-go packs designed by experts. Go to PersonaNutrition.com/FEED today to take the free assessment and get your personalized daily vitamin packs for an exclusive offer — get 40% off your first order.
Grow Therapy – Whatever challenges you’re facing, Grow Therapy is here to help. Sessions average about $21 with insurance, and some pay as little as $0, depending on their plan. (Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plans. Visit growtherapy.com/feed today!
AGZ – Start taking your sleep seriously with AGZ. Head to drinkag1.com/feed to get a FREE Welcome Kit with the flavor of your choice that includes a 30 day supply of AGZ and a FREE frother.
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Nov 21, 2025 • 58min
The Three Levers of Change: How to Shift Your Mindset, Motivation, and Methods for Success with Jim Kwik
In this episode, Jim Kwik explores the three levers of change and how to shift your mindset, motivation, and methods for success. Jim shares his journey overcoming a childhood brain injury and how he discovered practical methods to drive change. He also introduces his “brain animal” framework for understanding how we learn and discusses the importance of self-awareness, living by core values, and making intentional choices. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own growth, embrace self-compassion, and take practical steps toward a more limitless life.
Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!
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Key Takeaways:
Personal growth and self-improvement
Overcoming adversity and challenges
The importance of mindset and motivation
The concept of "feeding the good wolf" within oneself
The role of choices in shaping one's life and identity
Strategies for navigating grief and personal loss
The significance of core values in decision-making and behavior
Understanding different cognitive brain types and their impact on learning and communication
The power of self-awareness and introspection
Practical methods for enhancing brain function and overall well-being
For full show notes, click here!
Connect with the show:
Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPod
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify
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By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed and we greatly appreciate it.
Thank you!
This episode is sponsored by:
Uncommon Goods has something for everyone – you’ll find thousands of new gift ideas that you won’t find anywhere else, and you’ll be supporting artists and small, independent businesses. To get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/FEED
LinkedIn: Post your job for free at linkedin.com/oneyoufeed. Terms and conditions apply.
Persona Nutrition delivers science-backed, personalized vitamin packs that make daily wellness simple and convenient. In just minutes, you get a plan tailored to your health goals. No clutter, no guesswork. Just grab-and-go packs designed by experts. Go to PersonaNutrition.com/FEED today to take the free assessment and get your personalized daily vitamin packs for an exclusive offer — get 40% off your first order.
Grow Therapy – Whatever challenges you’re facing, Grow Therapy is here to help. Sessions average about $21 with insurance, and some pay as little as $0, depending on their plan. (Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plans. Visit growtherapy.com/feed today!
AGZ – Start taking your sleep seriously with AGZ. Head to drinkag1.com/feed to get a FREE Welcome Kit with the flavor of your choice that includes a 30 day supply of AGZ and a FREE frother.
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