

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
Multiamory | Pleasure Podcasts
Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.
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Feb 18, 2025 • 55min
517 - Breaking the Approval Cycle
In this discussion, the hosts tackle the deep-rooted need for approval and its effects on relationships. They dissect the differences between approval-seeking and people-pleasing, while exploring how personality traits influence these behaviors. Insights into 'approval addiction' reveal its impact on self-esteem and communication. The conversation also highlights the struggle of balancing self-worth with the pursuit of validation, and emphasizes self-discovery through disconnecting from social media. Practical tips for healthier relationships are shared, promoting emotional well-being.

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Feb 11, 2025 • 51min
516 - Is Solo Polyamory Right For You?
Dive into the world of solo polyamory! Discover its nuances and various forms, exploring how it differs from traditional relationship structures. The discussion reveals the importance of intentional communication and emotional responsibility in maintaining personal autonomy. Participants reflect on the growing acceptance of diverse relationship styles and how journaling can help evaluate one's personal needs. Lastly, unpack common misconceptions and encourage a compassionate approach to navigating non-traditional relationships.

Feb 4, 2025 • 59min
515 - Romanticization: Friend or Foe?
Explore the enticing but tricky world of romanticization and its effects on relationships and self-esteem. Discover the charm of the lo-fi hip-hop girl and how she symbolizes the allure of mundane life. Delve into the balance of idealization in romantic relationships and the importance of recognizing reality. Experience the contrast between media portrayals of urban life and the everyday struggles of its residents. Finally, embrace the beauty of imperfection and foster gratitude in your romantic and personal journeys.

Jan 28, 2025 • 49min
514 - My Metamour is Convinced I Hate Her. Help! Listener Q&A
Delve into the complexities of polyamory and metamour relationships, where the importance of open communication and self-awareness takes center stage. Discover how to navigate emotional challenges without falling into competition or hierarchy. Lighthearted reflections on dating and personal stories add warmth to the discussion, while insights on setting boundaries and fostering healthier interactions offer valuable guidance. Embrace the fluidity of connections and the journey of healing and growth within modern relationships.

Jan 21, 2025 • 1h 15min
513 - Our Body and Brain are Not Always on the Same Page: Remastered
Orit Krug, an award-winning dance/movement therapist, specializes in helping individuals and couples enhance intimacy by processing trauma. In this engaging discussion, Orit explores the emotional and physical impacts of jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. She emphasizes the power of movement therapy for healing and self-discovery, revealing how our bodies store trauma. The conversation also touches on navigating personal boundaries and the intricate connections between childhood experiences and current relationship dynamics, fostering deeper understanding and growth.

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Jan 14, 2025 • 60min
512 - Before, During, and After Opening Up Your Relationship
Explore the journey of opening relationships, examining emotional challenges and essential communication strategies. Discover motivations for non-monogamy and the importance of self-reflection. Learn how to nurture connections through intention-setting and the role of community support. Delve into balancing personal needs with joint decision-making and the emotional complexities that arise. Tips for maintaining trust and transparency highlight the significance of preparing for unexpected feelings in this transformative adventure.

Jan 7, 2025 • 1h 2min
511 - Protecting Your Relationships from the News
Dive into the impact of negativity bias on relationships and mental well-being. Discover how consuming fear-based news can distort perceptions and increase anxiety. Learn communication tools to combat these effects and foster healthier connections. Explore strategies for mindful media consumption and the importance of balancing negative news with positive developments. Plus, find out how regular family activities can enhance relationship satisfaction and promote a healthier emotional environment!

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Dec 17, 2024 • 56min
510 - Don't Let Envy Ruin Your Relationship
Dive into the intriguing world of envy in relationships! Discover the key differences between envy and jealousy, especially in non-monogamous contexts. Learn how feelings of inadequacy can warp your emotions and create tension. The discussion includes practical tools to transform envy into personal growth. Explore the dual nature of envy, from benign to malicious, and how social media can amplify feelings of discontent. Gain insights on effective communication strategies to strengthen connections and navigate the complexities of modern love.

Dec 10, 2024 • 59min
509 - Frank Smith Gets Real about Queer Polyamory
Join Frank Arthur Smith, a talented queer writer and producer known for his comedy series "Open to It," as he dives into the world of non-monogamy in queer media. Discover insights about the allure of darker narratives and how they resonate with audiences seeking hope. Frank discusses the unique blend of humor and emotional depth in queer relationships, while exploring the dynamics of jealousy and connection in polyamory. The conversation also highlights the importance of authentic representation and nuanced storytelling in reflecting the complexities of queer relationships.

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Dec 3, 2024 • 1h
508 - Four Steps to Stop a Conflict Spiral
Dive into the complexities of conflict spirals in relationships. Discover the STAR method for managing disagreements and the HALT acronym to identify emotional cues. Learn effective communication strategies to break negative patterns and the importance of reconnecting after arguments. Explore how understanding personal triggers can lead to healthier interactions and a more fulfilling partnership. The speakers emphasize the significance of emotional closeness in conflict resolution, providing valuable tools to help couples navigate tricky dynamics.


