So Good Sisterhood

Boundaries in Relationships Season 2 | Bonus Episode How do you know when to establish a boundary in a relationship? And how do you communicate that boundary graciously? Pastors Irene & Jimmy Rollins join Pastors Todd & Julie for a rich conversation about how we can protect what’s most important by establishing guardrails in our lives and relationships. So Good Moments: How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship. The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability. Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them. What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person. How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life. How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail. Questions for Reflection:How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode? What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important? Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give? Resources: Book: Boundaries Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question 

Boundaries in Relationships Season 2 | Episode 8How do you know when to establish a boundary in a relationship? And how do you communicate that boundary graciously? Pastors Irene & Jimmy Rollins join Pastors Todd & Julie for a rich conversation about how we can protect what’s most important by establishing guardrails in our lives and relationships. So Good Moments: How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship. The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability. Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them. What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person. How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life. How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail. Questions for Reflection:How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode? What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important? Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give? Resources: Book: Boundaries Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question 

Relationship Q & A - Part 1 Season 2 | Episode 7You asked, they answered! Pastors Julie Mullins and Lisa Duvall dive into your relationship questions—from friendship tensions to motherhood mishaps. In this episode, you’ll learn how to get out of a negative cycle, extend grace, and walk in humility.So Good Moments: How to push pause and redefine a relationship when it's been stuck in a negative cycle.Practical advice for navigating difficult relationships and ensuring the gap of tension doesn’t grow wider.How to choose presence over perfection in motherhood and why it’s important to “keep the door open” as a mom. Words of wisdom from a former single mom.How to stay confident as a teenage girl. The art of balancing confidence and humility (and how competence helps).Questions for Reflection:Are there any relationships in your life that need redefining? What would it look like for you to put on the “grace filter” in your relationships?Pastor Julie said “Decide what matters most and focus your attention there”—what matters most in this season? Resources: Friendship: It’s ComplicatedNecessary EndingsBoundariesForgiving What You Can’t ForgetLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question

How to Discover Your Purpose and Own Your LifeSeason 2 | Episode 6Do you feel like you’re going through the motions in life? Author and leadership coach, Lance Witt, wants you to live with intention and purpose. In this episode, Lance shares questions to help you define your purpose, practical tips for simplifying your life, and how to make God’s glory your personal North Star. So Good Moments: The two Greek definitions for “time” (and why one of them matters most).The question Lance asks himself every morning to keep God’s glory at the forefront of his mind. How to get started with crafting a life purpose statement. Lance’s best advice for how to lead yourself. Lance’s 3-part formula for a simple life. What the Apostle Paul says about ambition. Questions for Reflection: What does Scripture say about why you’re here?What are your desires and passions?What do you care about and feel convicted about? What do other people say you’re good at? Lance’s purpose statement: “To steward my one and only life, I need to love God deeply, lead myself tenaciously, shepherd my family intentionally, and coach and serve others unselfishly.”  Resources:Lance’s Book “Your One Life.”Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question

Regaining Vision After You’ve Been BlindsidedSeason 2 | Episode 5Whether you’ve experienced the hurt of a betrayal or the shock of being blindsided, Pastor Charlotte Gambill wants to show you how to recover your vision and regain your strength. In this episode, Charlotte shares how to uncover your blind spots, take a step towards healing and begin to see clearly again. So Good Moments: What happens when our spiritual vision gets injured. Jesus’ response in Mark 8 to the man who was blinded by unbelief. How to move to a mature place of “self-editing” when it comes to your blind spots. What accountability really is (and why it gets a bad rap). How Charlotte leans into the promptings and nudges from God. Why the Church needs more vessels for God—and less ornaments. Question: What is your now word?  Resources:Dare to BeCharlotte’s Mentorship ProgramLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question

Becoming The Friend You Wish You HadSeason 2 | Episode 4Whether you are in middle school or middle-aged, relationships can get complicated. Pastor Julie and her dear friends Irene Rollins and Sarah Keller discuss what they learned from friendship failures, the gift of forgiveness, and how to become the friend you want.So Good Moments: The common denominator in every relationship. How to ensure relational mistakes don’t become relational regrets. The root cause of offense and hurt—and how to choose another option!What forgiveness really looks like. The crucial difference between forgiveness and reconciliation.What boundaries are and how to set them.Question: What does forgiveness mean to you?Resources:Find Irene: Two Equals One Find Sarah: Next Level ChurchPastor Julie’s Daily DeclarationsLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a QuestionRecommended Books: Friendship: It’s ComplicatedThe Bait of SatanNecessary EndingsBoundariesForgiving What You Can’t Forget

Woman Up! Rising to the Call of LeadershipSeason 2 | Episode 3Do you ever feel like you don’t have what it takes to be in ministry or leadership? Pastor Lori Champion can relate. In this episode, Pastor Lori shares how she went from running away from ministry to stepping into her calling as a pastor.  So Good Moments: The story of how Lori surrendered her dreams and gifts to God.Lori’s vision behind her book Woman Up! How an altar moment brought healing after a tragedy and numb season.How to fight for unity when you’re hurt in church.What being a ‘helper’ really means Biblically. The benefits of women in leadership.Question: What’s your now word? Resources:Pastor Lori’s BookLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question

Valentine’s Day Special: What Matters Most in RelationshipsSeason 2 | Episode 2What is the secret sauce for building solid and lasting relationships? In this episode, Pastors Todd and Julie share their own relationship trial and errors, as well as practical tips on communication, conflict, and commitment. So Good Moments:  You asked, they answered! Pastors Todd and Julie respond to your questions, which leads to their worst Valentine’s story and advice for singles. Why authenticity is critical no matter what stage of life you’re in. How to gain a vision for your relationship or marriage. The key difference between being a peace-faker and a peace-maker. The ABCs of conflict resolution (including the right and wrong way to apologize). The long-term fruit of being committed to what matters most. Question: What relationships do you need God to give you a vision for? Resources:Pastor Julie’s 2022 Reading ListLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question

The Key to Miraculous Breakthrough In Every RelationshipSeason 2 | Episode 1Season two is here—and it’s all about relationships! Relationships can be our greatest source of joy but also our greatest source of pain. To kick off the new season, Pastor Julie shares the key to seeing miraculous breakthrough in every relationship. So Good Moments: You asked, she answered! Pastor Julie spills the tea on everything from her reading list for 2022, to her most embarrassing moment on stage. Why it’s a good thing that you don’t have all the answers, and what’s more important. What Jesus visiting His hometown can teach us about our relationships today. The epidemic of dishonor in our culture and what God wants to release instead. The best way to be competitive in your own home (hint, it’s not optional).How dishonor can become a huge disruption to supernatural work. Question: What will you do to cultivate an atmosphere of honor to release the supernatural in your relationships this week? Resources:Pastor Julie’s 2022 Reading ListLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question

Episode 6: A Fresh Start: Trauma Is Real, but Resilience Is So GoodIn the last podcast episode of the season, Pastor Irene Rollins shares about celebrating six years of sobriety and how facing her past allowed her to embrace her new beginning. Pastor Irene is a certified emotional health coach, co-founder of Two Equals One marriage ministry, and is a part of the teaching team at Christ Fellowship. This episode will inspire you to enter the new year with healing for your past and expectancy for your future. So Good Moments: How Irene developed a dependency on alcohol, almost lost her family, and started her journey of recovery in rehab. Why our past doesn’t stay in our past and how to recognize the reality of both trauma and resilience. The top two things Irene learned in rehab that work for everyone. The healing power of connection, sharing emotions, and making amends.Why New Year’s resolutions don’t work and what to focus on instead. Question for Reflection: What’s your now word? Resources:Article: Top Reads for the New YearFind Support: Celebrate Recovery Join a Group: Reengage or Married GroupLearn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood Ask a Question