

The Female Dating Strategy
The Female Dating Strategy
Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @FemDatStrat Instagram: @_TheFemaleDatingStrategy
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Jul 2, 2025 • 1h 6min
Emotional Maturity: The Foundation of a Secure Partner
The Queens unpack emotional maturity, why it’s the core of any functional relationship and how to recognise it (or the lack of it).
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Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 11min
Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip
Rose is joined by Sarah from Lainey Gossip to dissect the deeply embedded inequalities in the filmmaking and film criticism industries.
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Jun 18, 2025 • 47min
Momsplaining Love: A Mother's Day Special
The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating.
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Jun 11, 2025 • 41min
Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity
Lundy Bancroft, a respected author and expert on domestic abuse, joins to tackle the topics of toxic masculinity and coercive control. He highlights how abusive behavior is learned, not innate, and contrasts the effectiveness of intervention programs versus traditional therapy. Lundy discusses the impact of media and socialization on young boys, warning against romanticizing harmful traits. He shares strategies for women to identify red flags in dating and emphasizes the importance of strong personal boundaries and collective support among women.

Jun 4, 2025 • 41min
The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward
The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged.
Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558
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May 28, 2025 • 37min
Gaslight, Deflect, Repeat: The Logical Fallacies Used to Derail Women's Standards
Originally a bonus episode for our Patreon Queens, this deep dive is now unlocked for the public! In this episode, the Bonus Queens break down the most common logical fallacies men and society at large use to dismiss women’s boundaries, dodge accountability, and manipulate the dating narrative in their favour.
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May 21, 2025 • 47min
Safety First! Non-Negotiables for Smart Dating
The hosts dive into essential dating safety tips, emphasizing the importance of trusting your instincts. They advise against going to each other's homes early on and recommend using video calls for vetting. Other highlights include the importance of keeping your location private, carrying cash, and having a safety plan. They discuss spotting red flags, such as evasive answers and negging behavior. Social media sleuthing and even background checks emerge as valuable tools for ensuring safety while dating, stressing the need for boundaries and self-respect.

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May 14, 2025 • 44min
Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of Masculinity
Dr. Gail Dines, a noted feminist and founder of Culture Reframed, returns to tackle the perilous impact of pornography on modern masculinity and relationships. She discusses how hyper-sexualized media shapes aggressive behaviors in young men and the normalization of harmful narratives surrounding boys. Dines emphasizes the importance of nurturing empathy in boys and critiques the romanticized portrayal of prostitution in film, shedding light on the harsh realities women in the sex industry face.

May 7, 2025 • 54min
Being Hot and Having Fun With Amber Akilla
The Queens are joined by special guest Amber Akilla to discuss the ins and outs of how to live your best life.
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Apr 30, 2025 • 55min
Dating, Trolls, and Male Loneliness
Join a lively discussion as the hosts and their guest, Lisa, dive into the challenges of online dating and the pervasive issue of male loneliness. They explore how cultural upbringing impacts relationship dynamics, especially contrasting Slavic and American values. The talk shifts to celebrity relationships, questioning the authenticity behind public pairings. With a sharp critique on the dark effects of pornography, the conversation wraps around to the importance of personal development in fostering healthy relationships and self-empowerment.


