

What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.
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Oct 31, 2023 • 1h 7min
Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit
Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit
Commitment for some men is a dirty word. Sometimes men are left reeling after a divorce, so the last thing they want is a serious relationship. When a man is widowed, they can feel guilt when they want to start dating. But none of these scenarios means they won’t ever commit; they just might take longer to figure out what they want in a partner.
Communication is everything when it comes to finding a partner. If you get into a good habit of communicating on a deep level early on in the relationship, you’ll discover whether you’re compatible early on. The men who cringe at the idea of sharing or who don’t want to go deep most likely aren’t ready to talk commitment.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about serious vs casual relationships and how to determine which one you’re in right now.
Let’s talk about…Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 28, 2023 • 1h 3min
Try THIS To Meet High-Quality Men Over 40 with Guest Sabrina Rising
Try THIS To Meet High-Quality Men Over 40 with Guest Sabrina Rising
I’m thrilled to have fellow coach Sabrina Rising as my guest because there are always different perspectives when it comes to giving advice and seeing the same situations from a male vs female vantage point.
One quote from this episode that really stuck out was, “You’re not making mistakes; you’re choosing different strategies.” We are SO hard on ourselves (me included!) that we often feel like we can’t ‘get it right’ when it comes to choosing a partner but I invite you to give yourself grace, regroup, and choose a strategy for approaching the dating world that feels like your most authentic self.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about different strategies for meeting men without sacrificing your own high standards.
Let’s talk about…Try THIS To Meet High-Quality Men Over 40 with Guest Sabrina Rising
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 24, 2023 • 22min
3 Early Signs He’s Ready For Commitment With You
3 Early Signs He’s Ready For Commitment With You
I do NOT believe that being in your midlife years condemns you to being single for the rest of your days. In fact, since we humans are living longer – many into their 90s – that should be even more incentive to enjoy the company of others and to embrace the dating process.
Yes, there are duds out there, but in general men want strong relationships just like women do. In many cases, the challenge is getting the guys to admit what they really want because not all men believe in the importance of personal or spiritual development. Many are happy with the status quo, which is fine, unless YOU want something more and you’re future ideas don’t blend together.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine if your guy is ready for commitment or is just placating you by saying yes to everything YOU want.
Let’s talk about…3 Early Signs He’s Ready For Commitment With You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 21, 2023 • 23min
Use THESE Techniques To Attract A High Quality Man
Use THESE Techniques To Attract A High Quality Man
Do you remember the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray? In the movie, his character wakes up to the EXACT same song on the radio and same conversations with coworkers and friends. It takes the whole movie and a lesson that he had to learn before he moved into a new day.
Sometimes the dating world feels like this movie. You attract the same type of guy and you realize after a couple of dates that he’s no different than the last two. I invite you to try something new – like the techniques I talk about in this episode – and take notice of whether your dating experiences change for the better.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about getting out of your comfort zone and trying new techniques to attract a high quality man.
Let’s talk about…Use THESE Techniques To Attract A High Quality Man
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 17, 2023 • 22min
Men (Over 40) Who Exhibit THIS Make Good Life Partners
Men (Over 40) Who Exhibit THIS Make Good Life Partners
Believe it or not, not all men over 40 are players and there are many who want to find a life partner. Yes, the over 40 age group often comes with trauma from divorce or other bad relationships but by no means does that mean finding a life partner after this age is out of the question.
Set your high standards, don’t be afraid to be picky with your dates, and remember that deep conversation will allow you to weed out those who just want to have a good time. At the very least, you’ll know within a couple of week if he’s playing you.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the inner characteristics and values that appear in men looking for life partners.
Let’s talk about…Men (Over 40) Who Exhibit THIS Make Good Life Partners
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 14, 2023 • 21min
Can He Love Me If Our Attachment Style Is Off?
Can He Love Me If Our Attachment Style Is Off?
Technology is wonderful but too much can obviously cause problems in our lives. One example is texting. The ability to send short notes to people is certainly convenient but in the dating world, depending on texting as a primary way to communicate can give a false sense of bonding or attachment.
When you’re looking for a relationship, real communication both in person and via phone calls is paramount to determine if you’re a good fit for each other. When someone is texting behind a screen, it’s very easy to craft the perfect responses or to appear that your values align. You can’t see the body language or hear the tone of voice while texting, so try not to get attached prematurely.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about attachment styles and how to determine if you’re a good match with someone.
Let’s talk about…Can He Love Me If Our Attachment Style Is Off?
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 10, 2023 • 21min
Do THIS To Meet A Quality Man Who Will Adore You
Do THIS To Meet A Quality Man Who Will Adore You
How many frogs have you kissed trying to find your prince charming? Many women complain that there are no good guys left in the world because they seem to always attract the guys who just want casual sex, who don’t value women, or who still have a lot of inner work to complete.
But I invite you to set your standards HIGH! What is YOUR definition of a quality man? When you close your eyes, how do you see your partner treating you? What do you desire from a relationship? Stand in your power and make a choice of what you want in your life and don’t settle for less.
Will this dream man show up tomorrow? Not likely. But setting standards will allow you to cut through the BS that some guys give off.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about loving yourself enough to be choosy in picky the guys you date.
Let’s talk about…Do THIS To Meet A Quality Man Who Will Adore You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 7, 2023 • 22min
Men Are Strongly Attracted to Women Who Have These Qualities
Men Are Strongly Attracted to Women Who Have These Qualities
It stands to reason that we are physically attracted to someone first before we get to know them. Afterall, outward appearance is eye catching; think about that ‘look across a crowded room’.
But physical attraction does NOT equal long term compatibility. You can have a great time in bed with someone but not connect outside of the bedroom. You can yearn to be with your person all day long but is that because you want to connect or because you want sex?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to raise relationships to a healthy foundation by connecting on a deeper level than just in the bedroom.
Let’s talk about…Men Are Strongly Attracted to Women Who Have These Qualities
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Oct 3, 2023 • 21min
Why Men (Over 40) Act Interested, But They Can’t Seem To Commit
Why Men (Over 40) Act Interested, But They Can’t Seem To Commit
We can answer a lot of questions about midlife men and their trouble with commitment if we look back in time. In their 20s, men were dating with a mission: To find a wife, settle down, and have the obligatory 2.5 kids.
Now skip ahead 20 years and the vast majority of men who are dating in their 40s or 50s have been divorced. Whether the divorce was amicable or not, men over 40 don’t have the same vision about dating as they did in their younger years. They often don’t want to repeat mistakes of the past, so they are more open to having a more casual relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about creating a vision of what dating life looks like after 40 and how to not settle if you meet someone with a different vision.
Let’s talk about…Why Men (Over 40) Act Interested, But They Can’t Seem To Commit
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Sep 30, 2023 • 21min
Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest??
Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest??
My coaching clients tell me all the time that when a guy goes silent – even when the chemistry is awesome – they have a difficult time not jumping to conclusions, such as, “He doesn’t like me; I hit a nerve; I did something wrong”. You know the routine. But those thoughts are really made up stories or assumptions.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Having amazing chemistry with someone does not mean you’ll have a successful long-term relationship. Chemistry certainly helps with the physical side of a relationship but if you want a long-term partner, you’ll both need to dig deeper and share your values and dreams to build a solid foundation.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why fear, frustration, and silence can manifest in a relationship and how to work around those emotions.
Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest??
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends


