What Would Love Do?

Men Who Do THIS Attract The Best Women What’s your impression of men who come across very fickle about what they want in life and in a relationship? They definitely lack confidence and are usually non-committal. These are the men who hesitate to do any type of inner work to figure out what type of life they envision. There’s a reason why people are confused about what they want (and yes, this goes for women, too!). And let me be clear…there’s nothing wrong with the guys who are trying to figure out what they want; they just might not be ready for the same level of commitment you desire. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to determine if your guy is sure of his life goals and what it means if he says he wants to keep things “casual”. Let’s talk about…Men Who Do THIS Attract The Best Women Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman Men are often slow to realize the benefits of doing personal development work, especially when it comes to healing trauma left from childhood and/or previous adult relationships. For generations little boys were taught to stifle their emotions and that they were sissies if they cried on the playground or ball field. Flight attendants on every flight tell us to take the oxygen mask first yourself before helping others and that’s true when it comes to relationships. If you’re carrying around “baggage” from earlier years, how on earth can you open up and create a solid foundation with your chosen partner? Chances are those issues will appear when you least expect it, causing friction in the relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it takes for a man to commit to you instead of looking for someone else to fulfill his relationship expectations. Let’s talk about…Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

80% of Men Over 40 Use Dating Apps For THESE Reasons Men and women alike are desperate for connection but find it increasingly difficult to meet people because of our busy lives. That’s where technology and dating apps can save the day because they allow us to meet people we wouldn’t normally encounter in our daily lives. While dating apps make the initial meetings easier, it’s still up to US to ask the deeper questions about what kind of life vision they see for themselves and their definition of ‘relationship’. Without having these connected conversations on a deeper level, you run the risk of wasting time with someone who doesn’t have the same outlook on life as you. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how technology plays a significant role in the dating world. Let’s talk about…80% of Men Over 40 Use Dating Apps For THESE Reasons Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Ways A Man Knows He’s With The One and He’ll Commit To Her Are you approaching dating from the soul or from a transactional viewpoint? Those who are soul-based really know what they want in a relationship. They have strong values and have set boundaries and standards about what type of man they’ll let into their lives. Those who are transactional care more about what they’ll GET out of a relationship, even down to who will pay for dates. Usually both people involved are takers who don’t look at relationships on a deeper level. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to evaluate your relationship from a soulful perspective and why wishing someone will change only leads to disappointment. Let’s talk about…5 Ways A Man Knows He’s With The One and He’ll Commit To Her Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How To End A Relationship With LOVE w/Katherine Woodward Thomas More often than not we hear about the messy breakups and the blame game about who was at fault for what. Rarely do we hear about couples who leave a relationship with respect for each other which can lead to respect for future partners as well as happy co-parenting. If a couple has significant differences, why can’t they just go their separate ways without drama, blame or shame? It IS entirely possible that two people can grow apart or their vision for their life changes. There’s no shame in that; that’s simply an example of human nature evolving. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about taking the blame and shame out of breakups and how to separate with love instead of hard feelings. Let’s talk about…How To End A Relationship With LOVE w/Katherine Woodward Thomas Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They’ll Commit In today’s casual hook up culture, it’s more difficult to determine which men are looking for casual situationships versus long term commitments. Men who want commitments ARE out there but knowing and understanding the process it takes to get to that point will ease any doubts you have. Most importantly, have fun while dating. Mindset can definitely play a role in how enjoyable the process is, so be open to having a fun experience. You know that famous Henry Ford quote, “Whether you say you can or cannot, you’re right”? The same is true with dating. If you’re convinced dating is a waste of time, then you’ll attract players. If you go into it with a positive mindset, you’ll attract men who meet your standards. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the commitment process and how to determine if your guy is moving forward or stuck in his comfort zone. Let’s talk about…Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They’ll Commit Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Can An Avoidant Man Speak My Love Language? We’re talking about love attachments styles today and it’s so important to learn about the different styles because one’s love attachment style can indicate whether you’re a good match and if he can fulfill your relationship needs. There are 3 main attachment styles (which stem from our relationship with our parents and/or caretakers) and under each one there are subcategories; but I’m keeping it simple today by talking about the Avoidant man who has difficulty maintaining healthy relationships. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to talk about attachment styles and love languages before getting intimate with your partner. Let’s talk about…Can An Avoidant Man Speak My Love Language? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Want To Keep A Man’s Attention, DO THIS! Let me be clear…it is not a woman’s sole responsibility to vie for a man’s attention. It takes two to have a strong relationship, which means the man should also be putting forth effort to drive the relationship forward. One partner doing 95% of the work is NOT a formula for success. But sometimes women can also get complacent, especially at the beginning of a relationship when the guy seems to be “all in” and is showing lots of attention. It’s natural to have that level of attention fade away, which often causes women to doubt if the relationship is doomed. Instead of jumping to that conclusion, it’s time to evaluate if this relationship is worth putting in more energy. And remember this quote from Matthew Hussey…”Attention doesn’t equal intention.” Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to keep a relationship interesting and how to rekindle a man’s attention. Let’s talk about…Want To Keep A Man’s Attention, DO THIS! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

What Could “Reality Dating Shows” Mean for Modern Culture? with Dr. Birnbaum If you check out any of the streaming services or major networks, you’ll find multiple reality shows about relationships. And they all need to be different to catch the viewer’s attention, so you’ll find multiple twists and plenty of drama. But are these shows healthy to watch? Do they put certain expectations upon us regular folks who are looking for love without the television cameras? It’s hard enough finding Mr. Right…do we now put extra pressure on ourselves to live up to these television “standards”? I’m thrilled to have this conversation with Dr. Frieda Birnbaum,  a well-respected research psychologist, author, speaker and podcaster. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how reality tv shows can skew our views of relationships in unhealthy ways. Let’s talk about…What Could “Reality Dating Shows” Mean for Modern Culture? with Dr. Birnbaum Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! Let’s be real…most guys in the dating world are thinking about one thing…SEX! And men from the Baby Boomer and Gen X generations were taught as children to hide their feelings. So, it’s no wonder that many midlife men are emotionally constipated when it comes to dating. They’re confused about why the women they date want to talk instead of hopping into bed. There’s no judgment from me. Sleeping with someone is a personal decision but I suggest really knowing what type of relationship you want. Do you want a lifelong partner or a friend with benefits? I’ve said before that sexual chemistry is awesome and can lead to a lot of fun but it’s not stable enough to support a long-term relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about starting those important conversations about values and lifestyle to determine if this is the guy for you. Let’s talk about…Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends