What Would Love Do?

Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully We’re diving deep into what intimacy means and why it’s the cause of so many breakups. Normally we think of physical intimacy as being sex and a non-existent sex life can certainly cause a break up. But there are different levels of intimacy that we’re discussing today. Being the provider – as so many men were taught in their youth – is not as important in the midlife years. Most single midlife women have their own careers and have their own financial plans in order. So, men need to do more than provide a paycheck to show their partner that they are committed to their future. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why most relationships end and how to create more intimacy in your relationship (and I don’t just mean sex). Let’s talk about… Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share This episode is from my appearance on Eric Coplen’s The Music of Life channel and I wanted to share it because it’s important to remember that men can also be deeply affected by life events and failed relationships. I get vulnerable and honest here, discussing the aftermath of my divorce, getting laid off from my corporate job, and the market crash of 2008. All of these things happened in a short period of time and it really put me in a tailspin. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about men’s reactions to traumatic events and why women are willing to nurture men even when their lives seem to be falling apart. Let’s talk about… How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney Your past does not determine your future. You’ve probably heard that before and you might even think, “Oh, that’s easy for him to say,”  but my friend and guest, Patty Tierney, is proof positive that you CAN change those lessons learned in childhood. Patty shares about how she became a people-pleaser as a child and then transformed into a truth goddess as an adult. Of course, this type of transformation does not happen overnight; it’s a daily practice but well worth the effort and commitment if you want the change badly enough. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about staying true to yourself and how the path to healing is not a straight line. Let’s talk about…High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce Going through a divorce is traumatic. Even if you have the most amicable divorce, there’s still a level of trauma that upends your life and plants the seeds of how you’ll go forward emotionally. Like it or not, a divorce changes your view on relationships and messes with your emotions. If you’ve never done any personal development, now is the perfect time to start. At the very least, show yourself some self-love and commit to yourself that you will strive for what YOU want the rest of your life to look like. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how divorce changes our feelings and thoughts and how to love ourselves going back into the dating world. Let’s talk about… 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Words are powerful. Whether someone is praising you for a job well done or cursing you out in a fit of road rage, you know exactly what’s happening in each situation. But words can also be deeply nuanced, in the case of claiming to love someone. Do they love you like they want to spend the rest of their life with you? Or do they love you in the moment until someone else more spectacular comes along? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being honest with our feelings and learning how to express those feelings with your partner. Let’s talk about… Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good When we have busy lives, we tend to take the good things for granted. But when you take someone for granted, you run the risk of them getting bored or feeling unappreciated. Ultimately you run the risk of them leaving. This is where committed conversations are so valuable. Instead of sticking to the surface details of “how was your day,” get vulnerable and TELL your guy why you appreciate him. This type of communication is SO much more than simply saying, “Thanks for making dinner.” And if your guy is willing to get deeper, that’s a really good sign to keep having these conversations. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to have deep, committed conversations so no one feels unappreciated or disrespected. Let’s talk about… 3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest If you’re a regular follower, you know I’m a big proponent of women standing in their power and not giving it away to men. So, even though this title might imply that I’m shifting my views, keep listening. Also remember that it takes two to form a relationship and keep it going. So, just because we’re focused on feminine ways today doesn’t mean the men are off the hook. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the innate gifts of men and women plus how women use their natural instincts to fuel a relationship. Let’s talk about… 5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Have you heard of this saying: “Men marry women hoping they DON’T change and women marry men hoping they DO change.” I don’t really know how or when this saying originated but I wonder why men and women fall into this trap. Of course, people change over time. It’s inevitable as humans. But is it really our responsibility to force change on someone? Or to criticize any changes that occur? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it takes to go ‘all in’ with a relationship and how to work through differences. Let’s talk about… Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki While it’s a good thing that being in therapy is becoming more socially accepted, someone who is in therapy does not always equal the perfect relationship choice. Just like doing personal development work does not guarantee becoming a well-adjusted person. Therapy and personal development have become crutches to some extent, like a green flag that this is a person worth dating because they’re doing the work. But there are plenty of well-adjusted men (and women) who had wonderful upbringings and have never set foot in a therapist’s office…does that make them unworthy of a date? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why we rely so much on “therapy” and “personal development” as barometers for good dating prospects. Let’s talk about… Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away I’ve lost count of the times women have told me they are afraid to speak their true feelings because of how their guy will react. Instead of jumping to the idea that this guy must be a horrible human or that she’s a little mouse, let’s look at this from the perspective of how self-love can help her gain the confidence to speak what’s on her mind. If you feel like certain topics are off limits in your relationship, I invite you to think about why this is the case. Is this relationship fulfilling and loving…even if you don’t use your voice? Is this relationship a true partnership…even if you keep things to yourself? How can you work on YOU so you gain the confidence to have tough conversations with your partner? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to gain confidence when it comes to open communication and why certain topics make you clam up. Let’s talk about… How to Express Your Feeling without Scaring Him Away Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends