

What Would Love Do?
Jonathon Aslay
The What Would Love Do? Podcast explores life, love and inner peace through and with the eyes of love.
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Sep 21, 2024 • 0sec
Avoid Making THIS Mistake If He Seems To Be Pulling Away!
Avoid Making THIS Mistake If He Seems To Be Pulling Away!
Communication is paramount in any relationship but especially when you’re dating someone new. You shouldn’t be afraid to bring up important topics to see if you’re compatible and if you sense him pulling away or going silent, talking about what’s happening is healthier than letting your mind make up stories about what’s happening.
You’ll discover a variety of reasons why men pull away and that doesn’t mean that you’ve done something wrong. I know many of my coaching clients put that responsibility on their own shoulders when that’s usually not the case.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the reasons men go silent and how to calmly get him to talk about his thoughts and feelings.
Let’s talk about…Avoid Making THIS Mistake If He Seems To Be Pulling Away!
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Sep 17, 2024 • 0sec
6 Factors That Determine His CAPACITY To Commit To You
6 Factors That Determine His CAPACITY To Commit To You
What is dating? Most people think it’s about having fun and being romanced but ultimately, it’s the vetting process to determine if someone is capable of being a committed partner to you.
Dating is also a time to break free of the old thinking that chemistry equals a solid relationship. With the divorce rates still hovering around the 50% mark, when will we learn that there’s more to a strong relationship than just sex?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to be committed to someone and how we can enhance our relationships by understanding the points in my relationship iceberg model.
Let’s talk about…6 Factors That Determine His CAPACITY To Commit To You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Sep 14, 2024 • 0sec
Green Flags Men (over 40) Exhibit If They’re A High-Quality Guy
Green Flags Men (over 40) Exhibit If They’re A High-Quality Guy
It’s so easy to talk about the negative red flags about guys in the dating world but that can build fear into a lot of women, sometimes to the point where they give up on dating altogether. So, in this episode I’m focusing on the green flags – or hints – that a guy is high quality and has the emotional maturity to go further in a serious relationship.
And yes, this is so much deeper than whether or not he is financially self-sufficient. We’re deep-diving into this topic to really understand what it means to share the same values and how to figure out if your lifestyles are compatible and if you can talk about more than the weather.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about emotional maturity and how to recognize if your guy is capable of being a partner instead of a friend with benefits.
Let’s talk about…Green Flags Men Exhibit if They’re a High-Quality Guy
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Sep 10, 2024 • 0sec
Don’t Let THIS Ruin Your Love Life with a Man
Don’t Let THIS Ruin Your Love Life with a Man
Every human on earth has some sort of trauma that we’re dealing with which can affect any aspect of our lives. And the word “trauma” doesn’t only describe violent or abusive incidents. Minor incidents that we remember from our past can ultimately affect our personalities and our future actions and I attribute that as trauma as well.
My guest today is author Jeff Brown and we’re talking about how to work through trauma with our partners instead of letting it fester. When partners are vulnerable and share their deepest fears while supporting each other through their own personal development journey, very often those relationships get stronger and they learn how to connect in a deeper way.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about trauma accumulation and how to work through the trauma in a safe space with our partners.
Let’s talk about…Don’t Let THIS Ruin Your Love Life with a Man
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Sep 7, 2024 • 0sec
#1 Sign A Man (over 40) Will Be Loyal and Commit to You
#1 Sign A Man (over 40) Will Be Loyal and Commit to You
Most people in midlife are done with the dating games and are looking for a committed relationship. Whether it leads to marriage or not, being committed to someone requires loyalty and emotional maturity. As you have probably discovered, many midlife men are low on the emotional maturity scale.
But that doesn’t mean these men don’t exist or can’t increase their emotional maturity. Anything is possible but THEY have to want to improve themselves. You can make the suggestion and support them, but these men have to do the work.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why emotional maturity is so important and how you can support your guy if he’s willing to do the work.
Let’s talk about…#1 Sign A Man (over 40) Will Be Loyal and Commit to You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Sep 3, 2024 • 0sec
If He DOES THIS, Then He’s A Man Who Lies! #TheGoldenBachelor
If He DOES THIS, Then He’s a Man Who Lies! #TheGoldenBachelor
I don’t know many people who have tolerance for lying, especially those who are looking for a long-term relationship. How can you say you’ll have honest discussions about your life’s desires if you lie about anything?
Even the smallest lies can blow up in your face and we’re diving in to examining how Gerry on The Golden Bachelor lied throughout the show and hurt his chances at making things work with Theresa.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why lying is always a bad idea and how the smallest lies can lead to bigger lies that you might not recover from.
Let’s talk about…If He DOES THIS, Then He’s a Man Who Lies!
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Aug 31, 2024 • 0sec
3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!!
3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!!
In today’s casual dating culture, it’s pretty easy to get companionship and sex without a commitment. Many midlife adults settle for that type of situationship because they think they’re past their prime for a long-term commitment.
My friends, I beg you not to settle for less than what you want. You can have a strong, committed relationship without necessarily getting remarried. You do not have to settle for living in separate homes or seeing each other only a few times each week if you want more than that.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about deciding what type of relationship YOU want and how to know if your guy is committed to you or just wants a companion.
Let’s talk about…3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!!
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Aug 27, 2024 • 0sec
7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You
7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You
Did you know that serious relationships are on the decline? With our casual dating environment, it’s much easier to “hook up” or find a Friends with Benefits situation than it is to dive deep with someone to find a life partner.
What are your intentions about finding a relationship? Are you OK with something casual? Or do you want to get married? Being honest with yourself allows you to vet the men who come into your life and say goodbye to the ones who are not on the same page as you.
Remember…physical chemistry is fun but it’s not a solid foundation for a long-term relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to recognize if your guy isn’t as serious about your relationship as you are.
Let’s talk about…7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Aug 24, 2024 • 0sec
Revisiting the 6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman
6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive – Part 2
Have you set yourself up for success or disappointment? Chemistry is NOT the end all/be all of a relationship. True friendship is the solid foundation upon which every relationship can flourish.
However, through the years we have been taught that chemistry is what will predict the future of our relationship, which leads many of us to disappointment when that chemistry fizzles out.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to build a friendship in the dating world and how to put chemistry in a lower priority.
Let’s talk about…6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive, Part 2
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Aug 20, 2024 • 0sec
Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You
Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You
When a man is fearful of commitment, there’s often an underlying reason (or many). Those reasons are usually rooted in some kind of pain or trauma and some men go to great lengths to cover up that pain.
Vulnerability and honesty about feelings need to happen for commitment to occur. That might entail a good amount of personal development work, both singly and together, but it IS possible to move forward past the pain and into a season of loving commitment.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to halt self-medication and release those inner demons holding you back from love.
Let’s talk about…Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends


