ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka

Vanessa Gorelkin, a licensed therapist and executive coach, specializes in helping ADHD women find clarity and stability. In this discussion, she introduces Internal Family Systems (IFS) as a game-changer for emotional dysregulation. Vanessa explains how our brains' 'manager' and 'firefighter' parts operate, offering strategies to reduce shame. The conversation emphasizes the importance of compassion over harsh self-criticism, and how understanding our internal parts can foster self-acceptance and emotional balance. Join them for practical tips to thrive!

Tired of ADHD strategies that don’t work? Here’s what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup___How do you thrive in one of the most demanding industries in the world, while quietly navigating ADHD the whole time?Nancy Shapiro spent 33 years as a senior executive at the Recording Academy, home of the GRAMMYs, where she led all twelve regional chapters and built groundbreaking programs that changed the face of music education and artist development. But behind the scenes, she was often working twice as hard to manage distraction, emotional intensity, and the quiet self-doubt that comes with an undiagnosed ADHD brain.In this conversation, Nancy and Tracy discuss drive, resilience, and the unique energy ADHD women bring to leadership. Nancy shares how she built a legacy in the music industry while masking for decades, what changed after her diagnosis, and why executive coaching has become a new mission in this chapter of her life. She opens up about perfectionism, relationships, the power of creative instinct, and how women like us can channel our intensity without burning out.They also explore how ADHD can both fuel ambition and quietly sabotage it—and what happens when women finally stop performing and start living in alignment with how they’re wired. Nancy’s story is about more than music. It’s about identity, reinvention, and finally giving yourself the grace you’ve always given everyone else.Whether you’re in the music world or not, Nancy’s story is a powerful reminder that ADHD doesn’t disqualify you from success—it’s part of what makes your brilliance so undeniable.Resources:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancy-shapiro-741255218 Send a Message: Your Name | Email | Message If this podcast helps you understand your ADHD brain, Shift helps you train it. Practice mindset work in just 10 minutes a day. Learn more at tracyotsuka.com/shiftInstead of Struggling to figure out what to do next? ADHD isn’t a productivity problem. It’s an identity problem. That’s why most strategies don’t stick—they weren’t designed for how your brain actually works. Your ADHD Brain is A-OK Academy is different. It’s a patented, science-backed coaching program that helps you stop fighting your brain and start building a life that fits. 👉Learn more here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/aok-academyLearn more by connecting with Tracy through Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest, or visit adhdforsmartwomen.com.Are You Ready to Discover Your Brilliance? Order Now: https://tracyotsuka.com/book2 Visit our website:  https://tracyotsuka.com  

Dr. Lorre Laws, a bestselling author and integrative nursing professor, discusses the complex relationship between trauma and ADHD, especially for high-functioning women. She emphasizes that you can't out-organize trauma or burnout, but healing begins with awareness and simple practices like breathwork. Lorre shares her personal journey of connecting trauma to ADHD and offers compassionate tools for emotional regulation. The conversation also highlights the importance of community support and embracing ADHD strengths in the healing process.

Vickie Howell, a creative force in the modern craft movement and founder of Stitchwell Social Club, shares her journey of self-discovery through crafting after being diagnosed with ADHD at 51. She explains how fiber arts became a critical tool for focus and emotional regulation. The conversation dives into the underestimated mental health benefits of crafting, the societal perceptions of creativity, and the importance of building a community around shared challenges. Vickie also addresses imposter syndrome and the need for recognition of ADHD strengths, particularly among women.

Jessica Michelle Singleton, a no-filter comedian and podcast host, shares her journey navigating life with ADHD. She discusses how her chaotic upbringing fueled her comedic talent and resilience. Diagnosed in college, Jessica reveals how perfectionism nearly derailed her career. The conversation dives into the unique challenges faced by women with ADHD in the comedy scene, family dynamics, and the power of embracing one's 'too much' personality. Her story is a hilarious and empowering reminder of the strength found in authenticity.

Tired of ADHD strategies that don’t work? Here’s what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup___What happens when the thing you thought wasn’t for you, like meditation, turns out to be exactly what your brain needed?Kelly Smith is a meditation teacher, yoga instructor, podcast host, and the creator of Mindful in Minutes, which has guided over 23 million meditations to date. Diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia, Kelly grew up feeling like she didn’t quite fit anywhere. School was a struggle, friendships were hard, and her self-esteem took a major hit. But everything began to shift when, at just 16, she discovered yoga and mindfulness as a way to support her mom through breast cancer and to reconnect with herself.In this episode, Kelly and Tracy talk about why traditional meditation advice often fails ADHD women and what actually works instead. Kelly shares her unique approach to building a sustainable meditation practice that doesn’t require perfection or stillness. Sometimes it just takes a few moments of self-awareness to create a real shift. They talk about creative batching, emotional regulation, her color-coded systems, and why walking without your phone might be more powerful than you think.Whether you’re curious about meditation, skeptical of mindfulness, or simply looking for a way to feel more grounded, this episode offers a fresh and practical take. It’s about finding calm in ways that work with your brain, and creating space to come back to yourself.Resources:Website: https://www.yogaforyouonline.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yogaforyouonlinePodcast: Mindfulness in Minutes MeditationYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mindfulinminutes Send a Message: Your Name | Email | Message If this podcast helps you understand your ADHD brain, Shift helps you train it. Practice mindset work in just 10 minutes a day. Learn more at tracyotsuka.com/shiftInstead of Struggling to figure out what to do next? ADHD isn’t a productivity problem. It’s an identity problem. That’s why most strategies don’t stick—they weren’t designed for how your brain actually works. Your ADHD Brain is A-OK Academy is different. It’s a patented, science-backed coaching program that helps you stop fighting your brain and start building a life that fits. 👉Learn more here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/aok-academyLearn more by connecting with Tracy through Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest, or visit adhdforsmartwomen.com.Are You Ready to Discover Your Brilliance? Order Now: https://tracyotsuka.com/book2 Visit our website:  https://tracyotsuka.com  

Latrice Prater, a Navy veteran and founder of the Digital Solutions Team, shares her inspiring journey as an ADHD entrepreneur. After her diagnosis in her 30s, she pivoted from traditional careers to build a neurodivergent-friendly agency. Latrice discusses the pitfalls of cookie-cutter business strategies and the importance of creating systems that embrace one's unique brain. She opens up about motherhood, burnout, and the liberation she found in automating tasks, showcasing how understanding ADHD can empower women to thrive in their businesses.

Elizabeth Elfenbein, a creative powerhouse and founder of Under the Sisterhood, shares her transformative journey. She discusses how her late ADHD diagnosis shaped her understanding of creativity and fulfillment. Elizabeth emphasizes pursuing one's passions and leveraging the unique strengths of an ADHD brain for innovation. The conversation touches on parenting ADHD children, the need for supportive environments, and the importance of self-care practices like meditation. She inspires listeners to embrace their authentic selves and redefine success.

Tired of ADHD strategies that don’t work? Here’s what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup___How do you build a writing life when your brain refuses to follow rules? For Paulette Perhach, the answer has always been a mix of creativity, structure, and compassion.Paulette is an award-winning author, writing coach, and creator of the Writer’s Mission Control Center and Finishing School for Writers. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Vox, Glamour, The Washington Post, and Cosmopolitan. But before all that, she was a gifted kid with a brain full of ideas—and no clue why some things came so easily while others felt impossible.In this conversation, Paulette shares how growing up with undiagnosed ADHD and without financial resources—shaped her writing path, her self-image, and her relationship with money. She talks with Tracy about the emotional cost of feeling "less than," the unpredictability of social energy, and how finding a creative community changed everything. Diagnosed in adulthood, she finally began to understand the why behind her chaos and built systems that helped her move from intention to execution.Paulette also breaks down her FINISH framework, a six-part approach to help ADHD writers build structure, create momentum, and finally complete the work they care about. She shares how she bootstrapped her own software tool to support writers like her, and why creating spaces that center neurodivergent needs isn't just helpful—it's transformative.Whether you're a creative with too many ideas or someone still trying to trust your voice, Paulette’s story will make you feel seen, inspired, and ready to try again, with a little more self-compassion this time.Resources:Website: https://www.pauletteperhach.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulette-perhach-23b12832 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulettejperhach X: Send a Message: Your Name | Email | Message If this podcast helps you understand your ADHD brain, Shift helps you train it. Practice mindset work in just 10 minutes a day. Learn more at tracyotsuka.com/shiftInstead of Struggling to figure out what to do next? ADHD isn’t a productivity problem. It’s an identity problem. That’s why most strategies don’t stick—they weren’t designed for how your brain actually works. Your ADHD Brain is A-OK Academy is different. It’s a patented, science-backed coaching program that helps you stop fighting your brain and start building a life that fits. 👉Learn more here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/aok-academyLearn more by connecting with Tracy through Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest, or visit adhdforsmartwomen.com.Are You Ready to Discover Your Brilliance? Order Now: https://tracyotsuka.com/book2 Visit our website:  https://tracyotsuka.com  

In this enlightening conversation, Julie Jancius, known as The Angel Medium, shares her journey as a spiritual teacher and best-selling author with ADHD. She discusses how intuition can be harnessed as a superpower for those with ADHD, emphasizing the deep emotional and empathic abilities that come with it. Julie reflects on her personal experiences with traditional ADHD solutions and shares how energy healing transformed her life. The duo also explores breaking cycles, fostering creativity, and embracing authenticity—all while advocating for the power of listening to one's internal compass.