

Autism Parenting Secrets
Len Arcuri, Cass Arcuri
Are you a parent of a child with Autism? Are you ready to rise above the diagnosis? Each week on Autism Parenting Secrets, we are going to share how you can rise up and become the parent you need to be. Get personalized support at: elevatehowyounavigate.com
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Apr 22, 2025 • 57min
Mold Inspections MUST Be Reliable & Strategic
Welcome to Episode 252 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week, we're diving deeper into a hidden threat that impacts far too many families: mold. Not just visible mold—but the kind that’s lurking, undetected, and driving chronic health issues.Our guest, Brian Karr, is a certified microbial investigator and co-founder of We Inspect. He returns to expose the flaws of standard mold testing and reveal what truly works.You’ll discover why conventional inspections often miss the mark, how hidden mold can persist without active leaks, and what it takes to identify and remove it effectively. Brian shares practical, actionable advice every parent needs to hear.Don’t rely on guesswork when it comes to your family’s health.The secret this week is…Mold Inspections MUST Be Reliable & Strategic You'll Discover:Common Myths About Mold (4:40)The Right Way To Test For Mold (9:04)The Two Goals Of A Quality Home Inspection (17:52)How To Prioritize Remediation (26:50)Problem Locations Within The Home To Focus On (38:16)The Dust Test Explained (44:51)About Our Guest:Brian Karr, a second-generation indoor environmental consultant, specializes in assisting hypersensitive individuals with complex medical conditions by identifying and addressing mold, mycotoxins, and other indoor pathogens in their homes, leading to significant improvements in their health.As the co-founder of We Inspect and The Dust Test, Brian has become a recognized authority on mold and biotoxin issues for medical professionals nationwide, having assisted over 5,000 hypersensitive individuals in creating healthier living environments.Beyond his consulting role, Brian is dedicated to education within the environmental and health industries and among consumers. He accomplishes this through speaking engagements at international health conferences and industry training symposiums. Additionally, Brian democratizes knowledge through his popular podcast, #moldfinders: RADIO, and comprehensive training programs that empower both consumers and health practitioners to properly navigate mold and biotoxin issues.Yesweinspect.comReferences in The Episode:The Dust TestTo schedule a free call with We Inspect, click here.Autism Parenting Secrets, Episode 95, Mold Is A Bigger Threat Than You Think, Dr. Pejman KatiraeiDr Pejman Katiraei Substack, 50% of AUTISM May Be Due to Dampness and MoldAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Apr 15, 2025 • 33min
Stabilize The NERVOUS SYSTEM, Unlock MOMENTUM
Welcome to Episode 251 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked factors keeping our kids from thriving — a dysregulated nervous system.If your child seems anxious, reactive, or shut down, it’s not who they are — it’s how their body is responding to stress. When their system is stuck in survival mode, growth and connection can feel out of reach.That’s why I’m thrilled to welcome back Dr. Tony Ebel, Pediatric Chiropractor and founder of The Perfect Storm framework. He leads PX Docs, a national network helping families calm the chaos by focusing on what’s happening neurologically.When the nervous system resets, massive breakthroughs are possible. The path forward gets so much clearer.If you’re ready to understand what’s really going on beneath the surface — and what you can do about it — this episode is for you. The secret this week is…Stabilize The NERVOUS SYSTEM, Unlock MOMENTUM You'll Discover:Why Chiropractic is the Foundation of Healing (3:58)The Perfect Storm Sequence (8:55)The Case For Neurotically Focused Chiropractic (13:49)The Massive Prevalence of Birth Trauma (16:13)C-Section Births and Their Effects (17:12)The Backstory of The Perfect Storm Framework (23:35)A Step Parents Would Like to Skip, But Can’t (29:33)About Our Guest:Dr. Tony Ebel is a husband, father of four, and a Certified Pediatric + Wellness Chiropractor with 15 years of clinical experience. For over a decade, he’s trained chiropractors in the protocols he developed for neurodevelopmental challenges like autism, ADHD, sensory issues, epilepsy, and anxiety. He leads the Perfect Storm clinic, taking on complex neurological cases from around the world, and his clinical program — now taught through Life University — has over 700 graduates. Dr. Tony is passionate about helping parents understand how the nervous system plays a key role in natural, drug-free healing.Instagram @pxdocsFacebook: Dr. Tony Ebel & The PX Docs NetworkYoutube: @pxdocsPodcast: The Experience Podcast w/ Dr. Tony EbelWebsite: www.pxdocs.comReferences in The Episode:Registration for the Autism Virtual Summit (or replay): What's Working Best Right Now: Helping Kids with Autism Thrive thepxdocs.com/summitWhat are the Lasting Effects of C-Section Complications?Documenting HopeAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Apr 8, 2025 • 14min
Tap Your FULL Capacity To Help Your Child
Welcome to Episode 250 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This episode is different.It’s just me — no guest, no script — sharing the most important message I’ve ever delivered.I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really keeping parents stuck. And no, it’s not the diagnosis. It’s not a lack of options.It’s that we’re not fully equipped for this journey — and that disempowerment leads to unnecessary suffering for us and our kids.If you’ve been grinding, trying everything, and still feel like your child isn’t progressing, this episode is for you.I get it. I’ve lived it. And now, I want to show you a better way — one that’s grounded, empowering, and incredibly effective.This is your invitation to rise. To stop spinning. To lead with certainty, love, and purpose.The secret this week is…Tap Your FULL Capacity To Help Your ChildYou'll Discover:The Real Reason Your Child Isn’t Progressing Faster (5:12)Why Your Own Transformation Is The Fastest Path Forward (10:03)What It Means To Navigate Smarter, Not Harder (13:34)A Sneak Peek Into The Accelerator (16:55)References in The Episode:The ALL IN Parent ACCELERATOR: Dynamic, real-time personalized support for ALL IN Parents 👉 www.elevatehowyounavigate.comIf this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. You’re not alone — and your breakthrough might be just one bold step away.

Mar 27, 2025 • 40min
It’s Going To Be OK
Welcome to Episode 249 of Autism Parenting Secrets. This week, we welcome Kate Swenson, creator of Finding Cooper’s Voice (with over a million followers) and author of the national bestseller Forever Boy.Her newest book, Autism Out Loud: Life with a Child on the Spectrum, from Diagnosis to Young Adulthood, released in April 2025, brings together three autism moms—Kate, Carrie Cariello, and Adrian Wood—each offering an honest look into their parenting journey.This book is raw and real. It explores the ups, the downs, and the everyday wins—along with the harder truths, like how a diagnosis impacts marriage, family dynamics, and mental health.At its heart, it’s a powerful reminder that you’re not alone—and that there’s strength in community and our shared stories.The secret this week is…It’s Going to Be OK You'll Discover:The Shift That Makes Everything Better (4:58)The Backstory of Finding Cooper’s Voice (17:09)The Importance of Finding YOUR Tribe (24:51)Why The Middle Is The Place To Be (31:57)About Our Guest:Kate Swenson is the creator of the blog and Facebook page Finding Cooper’s Voice. Her debut Forever Boy was a National Bestseller. She speaks regularly about autism, parenting, and motherhood, and is a contributor to TODAY Parents, The TODAY Show, and the Love What Matters blog. Her mission is to create a safe space for families of children and teens with special needs to come together and laugh, cry, and support each other. She lives in Minnesota with her family.www.findingcoopersvoice.com/www.facebook.com/findingcoopersvoicewww.instagram.com/findingcoopersvoiceReferences in The Episode:Autism Out Loud: Life with a Child on the Spectrum, from Diagnosis to Young Adulthood by Kate Swenson, Carrie Cariello and Adrian WoodForever Boy: A Mother's Memoir of Autism and Finding Joy by Kate SwensonAdditional Resources:Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow us on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Mar 20, 2025 • 44min
Stop Guessing – PERSONALIZE Your Child’s NUTRITION
Welcome to Episode 248 of Autism Parenting Secrets. We’re excited to welcome back Julie Matthews to the show. In episode 201, she shared how science supports diet changes—and this week, we’re diving even deeper.Julie Matthews is a Certified Nutrition Consultant and published researcher specializing in personalized nutrition for complex neurological conditions like autism and ADHD. For over 20 years, she’s helped families use food to support their child’s health and well-being.She’s the author of the award-winning book Nourishing Hope for Autism and co-author of two research studies demonstrating the power of nutrition and therapeutic diets for autism.Her latest book, The Personalized Autism Nutrition Plan, was just released in March 2025. It’s a step-by-step guide designed to help parents like you optimize nutrition for your child’s unique needs.The secret this week is…Stop Guessing – PERSONALIZE Your Child’s NUTRITION You'll Discover:Why PERSONALIZATION Is So Key (5:38)A Step By Step Plan To Diet Changes (9:10)Common Root Causes You Can Address With Diet (16:25)Gut Issues Are Easy To Miss (20:48)Intuition vs. Addiction (25:30)Ways To Help Your Child Get On Board (29:58)Why Comfort Foods AREN’T Helping Your Child (34:09)The Balance To Strike (38:54)About Our Guest:Julie Matthews is a Certified Nutrition Consultant and published researcher who received her master’s degree in medical nutrition with distinction, from Arizona State University. She has specialized in children’s nutrition and complex neurological conditions, most notably autism spectrum disorder, for over 20 years. Julie sits on the Nutritional/Medical Advisory Board of the Autism Nutrition Research Center and helps children, families, and clinicians from 146 countries with her online resources, nutrition programs, and professional training courses.Julie has educated parents and health professionals on how to use personalized nutrition and therapeutic diets to help children thrive at conferences in more than sixty-five cities over three continents including Medical Academy of Pediatric & Special Needs (MAPS), Integrative Medicine for Mental Health (IMMH), and American Academy of Anti-Aging Medicine (A4M). She has been featured in newspapers and blogs, and on podcasts, radio, and television including CBS. She has co-authored peer-reviewed research studies demonstrating the efficacy of nutrition and therapeutic diet intervention for ASD.When she is not studying the latest nutrition research, supporting families, or experimenting with new recipes in her kitchen, she can be found camping with her daughter, hugging redwood trees, and gardening.nourishinghope.comBioIndividualNutrition.comReferences in The Episode:The Personalized Autism Nutrition Plan: Nourishing Hope for Kids with ASD, ADHD, Anxiety, and Neurodevelopmental Delays by Julie Matthews, M.S.Autism Health Summit April 11-13, 2025 in San Diego, CA - use code AHS50 for a discountAdditional Resources:Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Mar 13, 2025 • 42min
JOINING Is Your Way IN
Welcome to Episode 247 of Autism Parenting Secrets. In this episode, we’re diving into a game-changing approach that shifts everything for parents of a child with autism—the power of true connection.Our guest is Amanda Louison, CEO and Senior Program Advisor at The Option Institute and the Autism Treatment Center of America. She has been immersed in The Son-Rise Program® for over 16 years, working directly with families and children to foster deeper connections through love and acceptance.And this episode is especially meaningful to me because Amanda was personally part of my son Ry’s journey. She helped him want to form a bond with other people—something that was completely life-changing for our family.Through her experience as a facilitator, advisor, and leader in the Son-Rise Program®, Amanda has helped thousands of parents see their child through a new lens—one that opens the door to greater joy, connection, and growth.Discover how shifting from a need for change to an acceptance of the now can revolutionize your parenting journey. The secret this week is…JOINING Is Your Way INYou'll Discover:How The Son-Rise Program Started (5:31)The Difference Between WANT and NEED (13:39)A Different Way To See Stimming (15:01)What JOINING Looks Like (21:16)Red and Green Lights To Notice (30:29)A Mindset Shift To Make And A Mistake to Avoid (34:03)About Our Guest:Amanda Louison is the CEO & Senior Program Advisor at The Option Institute and the Autism Treatment Center of America. With over 15 years of experience in The Son-Rise Program®, she has dedicated her career to helping parents foster deeper connections with their children through love and acceptance. Originally drawn to the program through her own journey as a parent, Amanda became a Son-Rise Program® Child Facilitator and later a Senior Program Advisor, guiding families in applying the program’s principles. Now, as a leader in the organization, she continues to support both parents and staff in creating transformative experiences for children on the autism spectrum. Amanda’s passion for empowering families remains at the heart of her work, making her an invaluable advocate for parents navigating this journey.www.autismtreatment.orgwww.option.orgReferences in The Episode:The Autism Treatment Center of America, to Speak To A Program Advisor Call (413) 229-2100The Option Institute Additional Resources:Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensiveTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Mar 6, 2025 • 38min
SCREENS Prevent Connection
Welcome to Episode 246 of Autism Parenting Secrets. In this episode, we tackle a critical issue affecting every family—the hidden dangers of screen overuse. Our guest, Melanie Hempe, is the founder of ScreenStrong, a movement dedicated to helping parents reclaim childhood from the grip of screens. When her oldest son dropped out of college due to video game addiction, Melanie used her nursing background to develop a science-backed solution for her younger children, leading to the creation of ScreenStrong, a nonprofit that helps families eliminate toxic screen use and the conflicts it creates.Through her Be ScreenStrong Substack, ScreenStrong Families podcast, and media appearances, Melanie empowers parents with practical strategies to delay harmful screen exposure and foster real-world connections. Today, we’ll explore the science behind screen addiction, how screens disrupt social and emotional development, and—most importantly—what parents can do to create a healthier, more connected home.The secret this week is…SCREENS Prevent ConnectionYou'll Discover:The Worst Screen Type And The Worst Device (4:09)The Case Against ISOLATED Use (11:13)Why Understanding The Neuroscience Is So Key (18:22)What Your Child Wants MORE Than Tech (22:29)A Strong Call To Action (27:48)Screentime Myths That Just AREN’T True (31:08)About Our Guest:When her oldest son dropped out of college due to a video game addiction, Melanie Hempe used her nursing degree from Emory University to create a better, science-backed screen solution for her three younger children. The success of these solutions compelled Melanie to found ScreenStrong, a nonprofit that empowers parents to eliminate toxic screen use—and the conflict it creates—from their home. ScreenStrong’s proactive, neuroscience-based solution of delaying social media, smartphones, violent video games, and pornography through adolescence has improved the mental health, life skills, and relationships of countless teens and families across the world. Melanie writes the weekly “Be ScreenStrong” Substack and hosts the popular ScreenStrong Families podcast. She has been featured on CBS, CNN, NPR, Fox, The Wall Street Journal, the Screened Out documentary, and other media outlets. Her Kids’ Brains and Screens series is available for all ages in book and curriculum formats.Melanie lives in North Carolina with her husband, Chris, and their four children. She believes it’s never too late to reverse screen addiction and reconnect with your kids.https://screenstrong.org/about/References in The Episode:https://screenstrong.org/ScreenStrong Families PodcastAdditional Resources:Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensiveTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Feb 27, 2025 • 39min
EVIDENCE-BASED Treatments FIRST
Welcome to Episode 245 of Autism Parenting Secrets. In this episode of Autism Parenting Secrets, we’re joined by Dr. Richard Frye, a renowned child neurologist specializing in neurodevelopmental disorders, to explore the critical medical insights that can help children with autism thrive. Dr. Frye shares his expertise on mitochondrial dysfunction, immune system dysregulation, and other underlying medical issues affecting autism. We discuss the importance of evidence-based treatments, foundational aspects like sleep and gut health, and the significance of a tailored approach to each child's unique needs. Join us as we delve into the strategies and emerging interventions that offer the most promise for helping children with autism live their best lives.The secret this week is... EVIDENCE-BASED Treatments FIRSTYou'll Discover:Two Connected Challenges to Tackle Early in the Journey (4:15)Signs of Poor Gut Health (11:29)Three Key Issues You Can Measure and Treat (19:58)Why Mitochondria Matter So Much (22:49)The Importance of Folate Metabolism (25:35)Why Less Is MORE (34:43)About Our Guest:Dr Frye is a Child Neurologist with expertise in neurodevelopmental and neurometabolic disorders. He received an MD and PhD in Physiology and Biophysics from Georgetown University. He completed a residency in Pediatrics at the University of Miami, Residency in Child Neurology and Fellowship in Behavioral Neurology and Learning Disabilities at Harvard University/Children’s Hospital Boston, and Fellowship in Psychology at Boston University. He also received a Master’s in Biomedical Science and Biostatistics from Drexel University. He holds board certifications in Pediatrics and Neurology with Special Competence in Child Neurology. He has authored over 300 publications and book chapters and serves on several editorial boards.Dr. Frye is a national leader in autism spectrum disorder (ASD) research. He is President and Chief Scientific Officer of the Autism Discovery and Treatment Foundation, Chief Medical Officer of the Neurological Health Foundation, Director of Research and Neurologist at the Rossignol Medical Center, and Principal Investigator at the Southwest Autism Research and Resource Center.He has led several clinical studies on children with ASD, including studies focusing on defining the clinical, behavioral, cognitive, genetic, and metabolic characteristics of children with ASD and mitochondrial disease and several clinical trials demonstrating the efficacy of safe and novel treatments that target underlying physiological abnormalities in children with ASD, including studies on leucovorin, cobalamin and tetrahydrobiopterin and has an ongoing multicenter controlled clinical trial on leucovorin, neuroimmune modulators and photobiomodulation.https://drfryemdphd.com/References in The Episode:Medical Academy of Pediatrics & Special Needs MAPSAdditional Resources:Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensiveTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Feb 20, 2025 • 28min
One CONFERENCE Can Change EVERYTHING
Welcome to Episode 244 of Autism Parenting Secrets. In this episode, we welcome back Tracy Slepcevic, a dedicated advocate for parents navigating the autism journey.Tracy—a U.S. Air Force veteran, speaker, and certified integrative health practitioner—is also the author of Warrior Mom: A Mother’s Journey in Healing Her Son with Autism. Her insights have empowered countless parents, and now she’s taking her mission even further with The Autism Health Summit: Journey to Wellness—an annual in-person event happening this April in San Diego.We explore the life-changing impact of attending conferences, the latest breakthroughs in autism treatments, and the power of building an informed, supportive community.The secret this week is... One CONFERENCE Can Change EVERYTHINGYou'll Discover:Virtual vs. In-Person Learning Value (7:20)The Myriad of Topics Covered at the AHS Summit (13:18)The Basics To Start With (17:48)Why You CAN Trust The Process (20:58)About Our Guest:Tracy Slepcevic is a certified integrative health practitioner, speaker, and Air Force veteran. She is the bestselling author of Warrior Mom: A Mother’s Journey In Healing Her Son with Autism and the founder of Autism Health, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, as well as the Autism Health Summit. She is educated in the field of Complementary and Alternative Medicine and has dedicated over 16 years to researching various treatments and therapies for individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder. Over the years, she has worked with many doctors, scientists, advocates, and researchers, and she has made it her mission to educate families on the importance of living a healthy lifestyle.tracy@autismhealth.comReferences in The Episode:https://autismhealth.comhttps://ahsconference.com - use code AHS50 for a discountWarrior Mom: A Mother’s Journey In Healing Her Son with AutismAutism Warrior Mom SubstackAdditional Resources:Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensiveTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow Cass & Len on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Feb 13, 2025 • 45min
See The World Through THEIR Eyes
Welcome to Episode 243 of Autism Parenting Secrets. We’re thrilled to welcome Dr. Pejman Katiraei (Dr. K) back to the show!Dr. K is one of the nation’s most highly trained integrative pediatricians, dedicated to helping children with learning and behavioral challenges thrive.Since 2008, he has been at the forefront of integrative and holistic medicine, guiding thousands of children with complex health issues toward true healing.What makes Dr. K’s perspective so powerful is that he’s lived it. As a child, he battled anxiety, ADHD, and depression—until he discovered how to heal himself.Now, he’s on a mission to help parents see the world through their child’s eyes and truly understand their struggles.The secret this week is… See The World Through THEIR Eyes You'll Discover:The Treatment That’s Helped Dr. K. The Most (5:31)The Impact Of An Overactive Immune System (15:13)The Two Most Common Presentations of Mold (27:16)Why Your Child Is More Susceptible To Harm (33:54)One Reason Why Kids Are So Rigid (38:22)About Our Guest:Dr. Pejman Katiraei (Dr. K) is a board-certified pediatrician who completed his undergraduate at UCLA and then obtained his osteopathic medical degree at Western University. He completed a pediatric residency at Loma Linda University, where he stayed on as a teaching faculty for over 4 years. He has also completed two fellowships in integrative medicine and has over a decade of clinical experience helping children with severe learning and behavioral challenges. Dr. K is now in private practice in Santa Monica, where he focuses on helping children with mold-related illnesses, autism, and other mental health challenges.Wholistic KidsWholistic MindsReferences in The Episode:Autism Parenting Secrets - Episode 95: MOLD Is A Bigger Threat Than You Think with Dr. Pejman KatiraeiAutism Parenting Secrets - Episode 208: Brain Allergies Are In the Way with Dr. Pejman KatiraeiSubstack: On A Mission To Help A Million Kids Heal From Autism by Dr. Pejman KatiraeiAutism Parenting Secrets - Episode 240: Regulate Brain Mast Cells with Dr. Theo TheoharidesDr. Theoharides, PhD, MDAdditional Resources:Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensiveTake The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?To learn more about us at www.autismparentingsecrets.comBe sure to follow us on InstagramIf you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.


