

Sari Swears
Sari de la Motte
Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)
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Nov 5, 2021 • 19min
Ep. 135 - Why "How Does That Make You Feel" is a Terrible Question
Y'all know I hate the "hobbies" question. But there's another question I hate and that is: "How does that make you feel?" There are several reasons for that, which I'll discuss in this episode, but I'll also teach you how to reverse engineer the self-coaching model to get at what jurors need to be feeling in order to take action for you. I explain it all in this episode. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Oct 29, 2021 • 25min
Ep. 134 - Four Questions to Help Jurors Give You the Principles in Your Case
You do NOT want to miss this episode. Here's why: in this episode I walk you through the four questions you can use to get the jurors to give YOU the principles in your case instead of the other way around. It's groundbreaking and yet utterly simple. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Oct 22, 2021 • 37min
Why You Need to "Empty Your Cup"
Coach Joon is back! We're chatting today about how you need to let go of what you've learned up until this point to in order to learn the H2H method. If you try to fit all your previous learning into the H2H method you're going to get seriously frustrated. We explain why in this episode. Give it a listen. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Oct 15, 2021 • 29min
H2H Opens Today! Here's 3 Reasons You SHOULDN'T Join
We open the H2H Crew today for the last time in 2021. We hope you consider joining. It's AWESOME. But there are THREE reasons you shouldn't join. I tell you what they are in this episode. Give it a listen.

Oct 8, 2021 • 24min
Ep.131 - Why Winning Trial Wont Solve Your Problem
Winning trial won't make you happy. Yep, you read that right. It might make you temporarily happy, but it won't solve your problem. What's your problem you ask? And how to solve it? This podcast episode answers that question and many more. Give it a listen. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Oct 1, 2021 • 17min
Why Youre Resisting the Designed Alliance
The designed alliance is one thing that really holds the From Hostage to Hero method apart from other trial methods or techniques. People LOVE it, but also…struggle with it. I think I know what's behind that struggle, and what it is might surprise you. If you struggle with the designed alliance or want to learn more about it, give this podcast episode a listen. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Sep 24, 2021 • 25min
Ep.129 - Fear is TOTALLY Normal. It's Also TOTALLY Optional
Back in July, this quote by Rick Friedman got posted in the From Hostage to Hero FB group: "Fear is unprofessional." And even though I gave context for the quote in my podcast, and used Rick's analogy of why he said it, people.had.thoughts. LOTS of thoughts. I've been DYING to comment on this ever since, because here's the thing: Fear is TOTALLY normal. It's also TOTALLY optional. And if that statement pisses you off, you most definitely need to listen to this podcast. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

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Sep 17, 2021 • 28min
Ep.128 - When Growth Gets Out of Control
Well. I promised to share my big learnings from my medical leave and this podcast is the first of many. Here's the gist: For YEARS, maybe even my entire life, I've carried around this thing called "angst." I've tried to get rid of it through therapy, through coaching, through self-help books and a myriad of other things, but it never left. Until now. If you too carry around your own angst, you won't want to miss this podcast episode. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Sep 10, 2021 • 18min
Ep. 127 - I'M BACK BABY! (health update and what's coming next…)
I'm BACK! After a 12-week medical leave, I'm back at work and back at the microphone. I've got a lot of people to thank, and some updates to give you. But I also want to tell you about my last 12 weeks, the big revelation I had, and what this means for the podcast episodes to come. It's so good to be back. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Sep 3, 2021 • 20min
Ep. 126 - How to Empower Jurors to Fight for You in the Verdict Room
What do jurors need at the end of trial? Empowerment. Jurors have gotten a lot of information over trial, but now they need the tools to fight for you in the verdict room. In this podcast episode I'll show you how to empower jurors by returning to a very important part of your opening statement, bringing jurors full circle at the end of trial. Give it a listen. * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning? I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your problems for you. Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel


