Shameless Leadership

Mindset is everything. It can make you and it can break you. When it comes to winning at life, you have to do a lot of mindset work. It’s the only way to see your gifts, appreciate your gifts, and fully utilize your gifts. A mindset reset can help you find joy and success in the most difficult of situations. A champion mindset keeps you resilient and powerful at all times. If you think about the people around you who are winning at life – you can probably see that they do indeed have a champion mindset. In this episode, I’m going to share with you how you can have a champion mindset through 6 steps: Relentless pursuit and focus Putting on blinders Protecting your headspace (get rid of crabs) Taking radical responsibility for reprogramming self-limiting beliefs Viewing everything as practice Staying in motion/momentum Links Mentioned: Free ebook: 15 Minute Manifest Book: You Are a Badass At Making Money Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

RB Fast is a leadership coach for schools and nonprofits based in Denver, CO. She travels the globe facilitating workshops and retreats focused on team building, strategy, and leadership growth. From large conferences to private boardrooms, RB shows up as a partner and guide for every client. When she isn't helping organizations realize their big vision, she's probably in her garden and kitchen preparing delicious food for the people she loves, including her beloved husband, Steve, daughter, Mia or snuggling her fur babies, Moe and Dexter. RB started her journey into motherhood as a full time student and bartender who could only afford to take 9 days of maternity leave. 9 days. The journey inspired her to take conscientious action to create a more powerful life. Today, she is very thoughtful and intentional in how she weaves social justice and advocacy into her parenting and her professional work with non-profits. Listen in to hear RB share: The value of creating your own beautiful space Her 9-day maternity leave and the postpartum depression that followed What life was like working as a bartender until 3:30 am and being a full-time student with a newborn baby How she started a business by making a list of her skills and posting it to Facebook Survival vs perfectionism – and why survival mode is way more productive and perfectionism might be a luxury you can’t afford The importance of learning and listening to others stories/experience/perspectives The advocacy path learning/questioning/action  Links Mentioned: SMA Ep 234: Megan Flatt: How to Own Your Mama Advantage Connect with RB: Beeline Consulting Resource: Nonprofit Board Health Checkup RB on Twitter RB on Instagram  Website: Vote Smart   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s easy for us to underestimate our own power. Giving birth is the single most powerful a woman can do. I chose to do it unmedicated. I don’t think this is necessarily the best way, but it’s the way I chose. And my low-risk pregnancy allowed me to do this at home. I learned through my home birth experience that I can do really hard things. That said, I would not opt for another unmedicated birth. It’s interesting how experience can change our perspective, isn’t it? This is the story of Vinnie’s birth and my maddening realization that sometimes the only way out is through.Thank you to our sponsors: Care.com: Save 30% off your Care.com Premium Membership by going to Shameless Mom. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Christine McAlister is an entrepreneur, business coach and the author of The Income Replacement Formula: Seven Simple Steps To Doing What You Love And Making Six Figures From Anywhere.An expert on turning tragedy into triumph, she founded her company, Life With Passion, after the full-term stillbirth of her first daughter, Maeve.She's been featured in Inc., Business Insider, The Huffington Post, and the Entrepreneurs On Fire podcast. Christine helps high-achievers all over the world to quit and stay out of their 9-5s, by building businesses out of their passions.Christine and her husband and 2-year old "rainbow baby" Fiora live with their 2 rescue dogs, near their Arabian horses, in Louisville, Kentucky.I wanted to have Christine on the show to talk about her traumatic story of loss and how she found herself a completely new person a few years later. We talk about how motherhood changes us forever, especially in the face of loss and trauma.Christine’s passion and energy are infectious. It is so clear that she has built the life that is best for her passions and she’s obviously very talented when it comes to helping others do the same!Listen in to hear Christine share: How she endured the loss of her daughter, Mauve, and the lessons learned from her trauma Why she left a successful business to build something new Why she believes, “when the mindset is strong, the strategy is simple.” How to identify your passions and determine if you should (or shouldn’t!) build a business around them The 7 steps of a freedom based lifestyle Links Mentioned: Get a free chapter of Christine’s book: Life With Passion Get Christine’s book: The Income Replacement Formula Join Christine’s private Facebook group Christine on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I’m going to be a little controversial here and tell you that if you feel you don’t have enough time in your day, it’s your own fault. I don’t say this because I doubt you are super busy. I know you have a lot of balls in the air. I totally get it. But I also know that the constant overwhelm of busyness is usually due to two things: Taking on too many things and not being clear on what you need to say no to Poor planning/use of the precious time you have I don’t say any of this to point fingers or place blame, as I don’t think I’ve ever met a mom who didn’t struggle with this. So, I promise, we are all in this together.How about we get serious about owning out time and feeling in control of our days, shall we?Listen in as I give you 6 proven tiny tweaks to help you better manage your day and increase your productivity. Warning: the implementation of any one of these tweaks will ease your overwhelm tremendously. Be prepared to feel lighter and more free almost immediately.Links Mentioned: Shameless Mom Momentum Mamas Wait List Podcast: Online Marketing Made Easy With Amy Porterfield Product Recommendation: Panda Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Beryl Young is a Shameless Mom to her 8-year-old daughter, as well as the founder of Recapture Self and creator of Momtography® photography classes. Inspired by Beryl’s traumatic entrance into motherhood, Momtography® began in 2011 in the DC Metro Area as a creative business experiment. Over the past 7 years, Momtography® has expanded to include an online learning experience and local classes across the US taught by licensed teachers in 12 cities. Beryl calls herself a creative coach who grants women permission to seek an identity beyond motherhood using creativity as a tool for living a bigger, bolder, more meaningful life.Beryl is a highly inspired and creative woman who will motivate you to seek new creative pathways for sure. I had so much fun chatting with her and I’m pretty sure she will spark something in you as well.It can be very challenging to find creative outlets when you are managing the overwhelm and necessary nitty-gritty of motherhood. Beryl is going to teach you how to start digging into creative spaces in simple and fun ways. Listen in to hear Beryl share: The value of living in integrity personally and professionally How family planning and trauma changed her professional direction How to use The 100 Steps Project to initiate creativity How you can communicate with your partner to get more time to pursue your interest Life hacks to get creative and stop over thinking everything How to stay wildly creative and also be successful as an entrepreneur How getting tattooed and dying her hair helped her thrive with anxiety Links Mentioned: Connect with Beryl: Recapture Self SMA Ep 234: Megan Flatt: How to Own Your Mama Advantage SMA Ep 200: Gretchen Rubin: The Four Tendencies Beryl’s Free Photo Challenge  Beryl on Instagram Beryl on Facebook       Thank you to our sponsors:PlanetBox Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Last month, we found ourselves in the middle of a string of traumatic lies at the hands of someone we trusted on the most vulnerable level. Managing that kind of deceit was overwhelming. It took some time to figure out how to move forward.When someone breaks your trust in a big way, it’s easy for your mind to go to dark places. It’s easy to give into fear. It’s easy to make up stories in your head that do not serve you.In this episode, I’ll share how someone deceived my family and our community. I’ll also share how I managed this situation. As someone who can’t even handle being told a white lie, this was a tough situation for me. But I learned how to not make it about me and how to move on, even feeling some compassion for the person who caused so much harm.I’m sharing this episode in hopes it will help others who have been deceived on any level and might be struggling to process the deceit and move forward.Links Mentioned:Join the Momentum Mamas Wait List: Shameless Mom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lauren Golden is a Shameless Mom to 3 kids and loves helping mamas free themselves from the 9-5 grind. She launched The Free Mama Movement to show working moms that they don’t have to choose between family and financial stability. Hundreds of families today are happier and more fulfilled thanks to Lauren and her online programs. Whether you’re a single mom, a military mom, or a mom in a two-parent family who doesn’t want to sacrifice your time with your babies in order to provide for them, Lauren wants you to know that you don’t have to.Today, as the fearless leader of The Free Mama Movement and a thriving community of over 3,500 women, Lauren is passionate about showing other moms how to start and run a successful freelancing business from home. In her upcoming book, she shares her own story — along with plenty of practical advice for anyone looking to leave the 9-5 behind and make a real living from home. Lauren has amazing energy and I knew within moments of starting this interview that we would have some magical synergy. I am so excited to introduce you to Lauren, her story and her work!Listen in to hear Lauren share: How a traumatic loss changed her life and made her quickly quit her job How she went about “crafting” the life she really wanted Her belief in the “have-it-all” lifestyle The negative impact of business building on a marriage Why “busy” is a dirty word How to cut your responsibilities in half Links Mentioned: Connect with Lauren: The Free Mama Movement Lauren on Facebook Lauren’s free Free Mama Movement Facebook group Lauren on Instagram Thank you to our sponsors: Canidae: We talk about families, and your pet is an important part of your family and they deserve the best. Go to Canidae to try CANIDAE for free by requesting a free sample and get other special offers! care of: For 25% off your first month of personalized care/of vitamins, visit Take Care of and enter the code SHAMELESS at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Everyone struggles with Imposter Syndrome. EVERYONE.Over the last year or so I have been noticing how prevalent Imposter Syndrome is among some of the most successful people I know. It has become abundantly clear that we all struggle with feeling worthy. So, now that I’ve confirmed that this is a problem for you, lol, I’m going to talk to you about how to manage it.Listen in to hear me share: What Imposter Syndrome is and how it might be impacting your life The time I saw Macklemore struggle with Imposter Syndrome How I see the women over apologizing, minimizing, and giving away their self-worth The negative feedback loop that keeps you stuck in Imposter Syndrome mindset 3 ways you can stop shrinking 6 ways to improve your confidence in less than 10 minutes a day 5 ongoing practices that will help you overcome Imposter Syndrome Links Mentioned:SMA Episode 149: Stop Saying SorryThank you to our sponsors: Canvas People: To get a FREE 11x14 canvas print (just pay shipping) of any of your photos, text SHAMELESS to 484848. Daily Harvest: To get 3 FREE cups/smoothies in your first order, go to Daily Harvest and enter the code SHAMELESS at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Please Note: This is Part 2 of Danny-J’s story. If you didn’t listen to Episode 246 last week, go back and listen to that first!Danny-J is an award-winning entrepreneur, coach, podcast host, and storyteller. As the former founder of The Sweaty Betties, an online fitness community, Danny-J discovered the most effective method for capturing attention and increasing revenue—sharing personal and brand stories. Danny-J's work can be heard in her weekly podcast, The Best Life Podcast and can be followed in real time on all the social media platforms.As a real-life example of "Truth is Stranger than Fiction" she uses her real "Jerry Springer Life" stories to engage with her audience, teaches life lessons and inspires others to rewrite their stories. Danny-J now teaches innovative brands and influencers to close more sales, become better leaders and blow up their brands with the irresistible power of sharing. She also helps tens of thousands of families become debt-free by sharing her real life getting out of debt story and challenge #FindTheMoneyProject.I have been following Danny on social media for a while now. When I learned she gave up a baby for adoption as a teen mom, I asked her to come on the show to be interviewed as a Shameless Mom. Danny’s story is filled with trauma and heartache, but it ends in triumph and so much love and joy that she could never have anticipated as a young desperate and clinically depressed young woman. In this interview, we dive deep into Danny’s childhood, which was deeply impacted by her family’s religion, sexual abuse at the hands of her cousin, learning her biological father was a sperm donor, a serious eating disorder, depression with ongoing suicidal ideation, and a pregnancy at age 15 that ultimately saved her life. Listen in to hear Danny share: How having a baby at 16 saved her from her eating disorder, depression and suicidal thoughts How giving up her baby actually gave her life purpose again How her grown daughter coached her on meeting her sperm donor bio dad last year How opening all the doors in her biological family relationships has improved all her relationships with her parents Why she is a Shameless Mom even though she didn’t raise her daughter Links Mentioned: Connect with Danny: Danny J Danny’s podcast with Jill Coleman: The Best Life Podcast(Episodes 18 and 19 are her adoption story and her interview with her daughter) The Best Life Podcast on Instagram Danny J on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices