

The Via Stoica Podcast — A Stoic Way of Life
Benny Voncken
Via Stoica is a podcast dedicated to Stoicism as a lived philosophy and a practical way of meeting modern life.
We draw from ancient texts and apply them to real challenges, emotional reactivity, discipline, purpose, relationships, and adversity.
This is not about abstract theory. It is about practice, with attention to what is within our control.
Each week, we explore Stoic themes through reflections, practical topics, and interviews.
The views expressed are my own and for informational purposes only.
Learn more at viastoica.com.
We draw from ancient texts and apply them to real challenges, emotional reactivity, discipline, purpose, relationships, and adversity.
This is not about abstract theory. It is about practice, with attention to what is within our control.
Each week, we explore Stoic themes through reflections, practical topics, and interviews.
The views expressed are my own and for informational purposes only.
Learn more at viastoica.com.
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Sep 19, 2025 • 8min
Stoic Quote: Life Is Long, If You Know How to Use It – Seneca’s Stoic Reminder
Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.In this Stoic Quotes episode, Benny reflects on the words of Seneca from his essay On the Shortness of Life. Seneca challenges the common complaint that life is too brief, reminding us instead that: “Life is long, if only you know how to use it.”Rather than blaming nature for giving us too little time, Seneca argues that the problem lies in how we waste it—chasing externals, worrying about the future, or clinging to the past. Benny unpacks how this insight shifts our perspective: life is not about how many years we get, but how we live each present moment with awareness and virtue.Drawing connections with Marcus Aurelius’ reflections on time and Epictetus’ call to focus only on what is in our control, this episode explores how attention and presence transform the quality of our days. By treating each moment as if it could be our last, we discover that we already have enough time, if we live it well.You’ll hear how slowing down gives life a deeper richness, why attention is a form of love, and how letting go of legacy and haste brings us closer to peace. Seneca’s reminder still speaks to us today: a fulfilled life is not measured by its length, but by the way we choose to use it.Perfect for anyone reflecting on time, meaning, and how to live more intentionally with Stoic wisdom.For more, check out this related article with quotes on how to use our time best:🔗 https://viastoica.com/10-seneca-quotes-on-time/And if you’re looking for more Stoic sayings, visit viastoica.com, where you’ll find hundreds of quotes with full references to the original texts:🔗 viastoica.com/stoic-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/marcus-aurelius-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/epictetus-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/seneca-quotesMake sure to subscribe for more Stoic Quotes episodes every Friday, as well as our Tuesday interviews and longer discussions.Support the show🌐 viastoica.com🌐 viastoica.com/stoic-life-coaching🌐 viastoica.com/benny-voncken🐦 /viastoica📩 Reach us: info@viastoica.comProduced by: badmic.com

Sep 15, 2025 • 25min
The Stoic Discipline of Assent: Control Your Mind, Control Your Life
Explore the Stoic Discipline of Assent, an essential practice for mastering our responses to life's impressions. Discover how pausing can transform impulsive reactions into thoughtful judgments. Learn from ancient philosophers like Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius about emotional regulation and decision-making. Gain practical techniques to distance yourself from immediate impressions and reflect on deeper truths. This engaging discussion also delves into how this discipline can enhance relationships and offer clarity in an age of rapid reactions.

Sep 14, 2025 • 8min
Stoic Quote: To Philosophize Is to Learn How to Die: Montaigne and the Stoic View of Death
Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.In this Stoic Quotes episode, Benny reflects on the words of Michel de Montaigne, the 16th-century French philosopher who pioneered the personal essay. In his famous essay To Philosophize Is to Learn How to Die, Montaigne reminds us that the purpose of philosophy is not abstract speculation, but preparation for the ultimate change: death.Drawing from Cicero and Plato, Montaigne writes that true philosophers are always practicing how to die, because in facing death, we learn how to live. Benny explores how this idea connects with Stoic thought: Marcus Aurelius’ meditations on constant change, Epictetus’ reminder that death can find us at any moment, and the Stoic practice of using mortality as a guide to live with clarity and purpose.In this episode, you’ll hear how contemplating death reduces fear, why practicing small farewells prepares us for life’s biggest transition, and how journaling about mortality can help us live more gratefully in the present. Montaigne and the Stoics alike show us that learning to die well is inseparable from learning to live well.Perfect for anyone reflecting on death in philosophy, exploring Montaigne’s essays, or seeking Stoic practices to cultivate peace and presence in daily life.You can also check out this post to learn more about how Marcus Aurelius reflected on death:🔗 https://viastoica.com/20-marcus-aurelius-quotes-on-death/In the Stoic Quotes series, we uncover timeless wisdom from Seneca, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and even later thinkers like Montaigne, exploring what they meant then and how we can live it today.If you are looking for more quotes like this one, visit viastoica.com, where you’ll find hundreds of Stoic sayings with full references to the original texts.🔗 viastoica.com/stoic-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/marcus-aurelius-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/epictetus-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/seneca-quotesMake sure to subscribe for more quote episodes every Friday, as well as our Tuesday interviews and longer Stoic discussions. Leave a comment if you have thoughts or questions; we might feature them in a future episode.Support the show🌐 viastoica.com🌐 viastoica.com/stoic-life-coaching🌐 viastoica.com/benny-voncken🐦 /viastoica📩 Reach us: info@viastoica.comProduced by: badmic.com

Sep 9, 2025 • 20min
The Stoic Discipline of Action: How to Live with Justice and Purpose
Explore the Stoic Discipline of Action and its relevance in our modern, digitally isolated lives. Discover the importance of living with justice and serving the common good through Stoic cosmopolitanism. Learn how to identify personal responsibilities using role ethics, and understand the moral implications of action versus inaction. Gain insights on aligning your decisions with virtue, navigating duties, and extending your concern from self to humanity. This enlightening conversation reveals practical ways to contribute positively to society.

Sep 5, 2025 • 8min
Stoic Quote: Epictetus on Approval: Why Seeking Praise Ruins Your Integrity
Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.In this Stoic Quotes episode, Benny reflects on Epictetus’ teaching from the Handbook (Enchiridion 23):“If it ever happens that you turn to external things in the desire to please some other person, realize that you have ruined your scheme of life. Be content then with being a philosopher in everything; and if you wish also to be seen as one, show yourself that you are one, and you will be able to achieve it.”Epictetus reminds us that chasing approval from others comes at the cost of our own integrity. When we shape our lives around external opinions, we compromise the only thing that is truly ours—our character. Instead, the Stoic path asks us to be satisfied with living according to virtue and reason, regardless of how others may see us.In this episode, Benny unpacks how people-pleasing undermines freedom, why approval is an unstable foundation for peace, and how journaling and self-reflection can help us become our own witness. You’ll hear how Stoic philosophy offers a way to step away from external validation and return to the inner compass of virtue.Perfect for anyone exploring Epictetus’s quotes on approval, the Stoic discipline of desire, and the challenge of staying true to your own principles in a world full of opinions.You can also check out this post to learn more about the background of this quote: https://viastoica.com/how-to-live-as-a-stoic-philosopher/In the Stoic Quotes series, we uncover timeless wisdom from Seneca, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and more—exploring what they meant then and how we can live them today.If you are looking for more quotes like this one, visit viastoica.com, where you’ll find hundreds of Stoic sayings with full references to the original texts.🔗 viastoica.com/stoic-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/epictetus-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/marcus-aurelius-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/seneca-quotesMake sure to subscribe for more quote episodes every Friday, as well as our Tuesday interviews and longer Stoic discussions. Leave a comment if you have thoughts or questions—we might feature them in a future episode.Support the show🌐 viastoica.com🌐 viastoica.com/stoic-life-coaching🌐 viastoica.com/benny-voncken🐦 /viastoica📩 Reach us: info@viastoica.comProduced by: badmic.com

Sep 2, 2025 • 31min
What Is the Discipline of Desire? A Stoic Guide to Freedom and Calm
Discover the Stoic Discipline of Desire and how it helps redirect our cravings inward for true peace and virtue. Learn why unchecked desires lead to anxiety and how to practice gratitude and journaling to align wants with inner values. Explore the difference between fleeting pleasures and lasting joy, and understand how comparison distorts our reasoning. Gain practical tools like pausing before impulses and reflecting on your true goals to cultivate freedom and calm in a world filled with distractions.

Aug 28, 2025 • 9min
Stoic Quote: Let Go of Desire — Epictetus on Finding True Satisfaction
Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the Podcast on Stoicism.In this Stoic Quotes episode, Benny reflects on Epictetus’ words from Discourses 3.9:“You too should drop your desire. Do not covet many things and you will get what you want.”For Epictetus, the path to freedom and peace begins with the discipline of desire. We often chase after externals — wealth, success, recognition — only to find ourselves restless and unsatisfied. The more we want, the less content we feel. But when we align our desires with what is truly up to us, namely virtue and right action, we discover lasting satisfaction.In this episode, Benny unpacks how Epictetus connects unchecked desire to frustration, anger, and fear, while showing that virtue is the only secure object of desire. You’ll hear how the Stoics distinguished between healthy wishes and destructive passions, and why letting go of unnecessary wants is the key to freedom.Perfect for anyone exploring Epictetus’s quotes on desire, the Stoic discipline of desire, and practical philosophy for living a more grounded life.In the Stoic Quotes series, we explore timeless wisdom from Seneca, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and more — discovering what they meant then and how we can live them today. In this episode, Benny connects Epictetus’ insight to the daily struggle of ambition, the need for role clarity, and the courage to choose virtue over externals.If you are looking for more quotes like this one, visit viastoica.com. We have hundreds of Stoic sayings with full references, so you can find them in the original texts or use them in your own reflections.🔗 viastoica.com/stoic-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/epictetus-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/marcus-aurelius-quotes🔗 viastoica.com/seneca-quotesMake sure to subscribe for more quote episodes every Friday, as well as our Tuesday interviews and longer Stoic discussions. Leave a comment if you have thoughts or questions — we might feature them in a future episode.Support the show🌐 viastoica.com🌐 viastoica.com/stoic-life-coaching🌐 viastoica.com/benny-voncken🐦 /viastoica📩 Reach us: info@viastoica.comProduced by: badmic.com

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Aug 25, 2025 • 58min
A Stoic Conversation with Dr. John Sellars: Stoicism Rediscovered Beyond the Buzzword
Dr. John Sellars, a leading scholar in Stoicism and a Reader in the History of Philosophy at Royal Holloway, shares his insights on the enduring relevance of Stoicism. He clarifies common misconceptions about the philosophy, including the ideas that it's unemotional or for men only. The conversation delves into his personal journey with philosophy, emphasizing the balance between ego and ambition. Sellars also discusses the appeal of ancient ethics in today's world, the impact of community on mental health, and the intriguing complexities of Stoic beliefs about determinism and divinity.

Aug 21, 2025 • 8min
Stoic Quote: Change Is Nature’s Way: Marcus Aurelius on Embracing Life’s Flux
Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.In this Stoic Quotes episode, Benny reflects on Marcus Aurelius’ reminder from Meditations 7.18:“Frightened of change? But what can exist without it? What’s closer to nature’s heart?”Change is constant — from the rise and fall of empires to the daily challenges in our own lives. Marcus wrote these words while facing war, plague, and political turmoil, reminding himself that change is not something to resist but the very pulse of nature itself.Discover how the Stoics saw change not as an enemy but as the natural order of things. Learn how this view can help you face uncertainty with courage, accept the inevitability of loss, and meet each moment with wisdom and strength. Perfect for anyone exploring Marcus Aurelius' quotes on change, the Stoic view of nature, and practical philosophy for adapting to life’s challenges.In the Stoic Quotes series, we uncover timeless wisdom from Seneca, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and more — exploring what they meant then and how we can live them today. In this episode, Benny connects Marcus’ insight on change to Stoic physics, the cycle of renewal in nature, and the courage to face the unknown with dignity.If you are looking for more quotes like this one, visit viastoica.com. We have hundreds of Stoic sayings with full references, so you can find them in the original texts or use them in your own work.🔗 https://viastoica.com/stoic-quotes/🔗 https://viastoica.com/seneca-quotes/🔗 https://viastoica.com/epictetus-quotes/🔗 https://viastoica.com/marcus-aurelius-quotes/Make sure to subscribe for more quote episodes every Friday, as well as our Tuesday interviews and longer Stoic discussions. Leave a comment if you have thoughts or questions — we might feature them in a future episode.Support the show🌐 www.ViaStoica.com🌐 https://viastoica.com/stoic-life-coaching/🌐 https://viastoica.com/benny-voncken/🐦 /viastoica📩 Reach us: info@viastoica.comProduced by: http://badmic.com

Aug 19, 2025 • 59min
A Stoic Conversation with Dr. Ranjini George: Where Buddhism Meets Stoicism
In this episode of The Via Stoica Podcast, Benny and Brendan speak with Dr. Ranjini George, a writer, teacher, and scholar who bridges the worlds of East and West. Formerly an Associate Professor of English at Zayed University in Dubai, and now teaching Creative Writing and Arts & Humanities at the University of Toronto, Dr. George brings decades of experience exploring the overlap between philosophy, literature, and lived practice.We trace her journey from growing up in India and Kenya, to teaching in Oman and Dubai, to immigrating to Canada, where she began weaving meditation, Buddhism, and Stoicism into her teaching and writing. Dr. George shares how Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations and Thich Nhat Hanh’s writings became constant companions, how Donald Robertson’s How to Think Like a Roman Emperor deepened her Stoic path, and why she believes both traditions offer a daily, practical way to train the mind.The conversation explores where Buddhism and Stoicism align, in mindfulness, compassion, and resilience, and where they diverge. We talk about journaling as a form of self-inquiry, the importance of suffering “intelligently,” and what it means to pursue meaningful work without being consumed by comparison or self-cherishing. Dr. George also reflects on her books Through My Mother’s Window and her works-in-progress, Blue Flowers and Miracle of Flowers, and how storytelling itself can be a philosophical act.Whether you are drawn to Buddhism, Stoicism, or simply the search for a good life, this episode offers insight into building your own philosophy of life with compassion, wisdom, and presence.You can explore Dr. Ranjini George’s novel excerpt on Modern Stoicism: https://modernstoicism.com/blue-flowers-novel-excerpt-by-ranjini-george/You can also find her teaching at the University of Toronto School of Continuing Studies: https://learn.utoronto.caSupport the showhttps://viastoica.comhttps://viastoica.com/stoic-life-coachinghttps://viastoica.com/benny-vonckenhttps://viastoica.com/brendan-hoglehttps://x.com/ViaStoicainfo@viastoica.comProduced by: http://badmic.com


