

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Traditional marriage counseling and marriage coaching will tell you to work on communication. A pastor might tell you to sacrifice more and forget about yourself.But, what actually works when it comes to creating a strong, passionate marriage? One that's full of love, connection and intimacy?Find out with us on our podcast, Strong Men Strong Marriages.Hosted by psychiatrist and marriage coach Mike Frazier, MD
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May 27, 2020 • 29min
How To Solve ANY Marriage Problem... My #1 Coaching Tool
No matter WHAT is happening in your marriage, whether it’s..-Infidelity-I love you but I’m not in love with you-Poor communication-Conflicts about sex-”I’m not sure why I feel the way I feel…” This tool will help you know EXACTLY...1. What is CAUSING the problem in your marriage2. What you can do to solve itThis is the #1 tool I use with my clients (and on myself).Summary:-STFAIR Model-Situation (facts only)-Thought (what you tell yourself about what happened)-Feeling-Action (what you do)-Intention (why you do it)-Result (what happens)If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

May 23, 2020 • 28min
How to Win Back Your Wife's Trust and Love - Even After Infidelity
If you have lost your wife's trust or love...Either by something BIG (like an affair)...Or by not doing the "little things" over time...There is a PROVEN strategy to win back that trust and love.And, there is ONE phrase that can SPEED UP that process.Summary:-Trust and love are LOST by breaking promises, big or small-Trust cannot be GIVEN-You have to EARN it by making and keeping small promises over time. Like building a house brick by brick-You must COMMIT to becoming a man of your word, and acting as the best version of yourself, EVEN and ESPECIALLY when you are not getting what you are hoping for from your wife.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife (even after infidelity)...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

May 21, 2020 • 28min
What To Do When You Lose Your Job
We are in unique times with the Coronavirus pandemic.Many people are losing jobs or having their hours reduced.It has even affected the most stable jobs... including my work as a psychiatrist.Here is my journey through my thoughts and fears about losing work... and how I got to a place of peace.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

May 17, 2020 • 27min
How To Stop REPELLING Your Wife... The Tale Of The Mosquito And The Dictator
Is your wife EXCITED to see you every day?Does she tell her friends how great you are?Does she tell your boys to be just like you, and your daughters to marry someone just like you?If not, you may be acting like a DICTATOR or MOSQUITO… and not even know it.See how you might be REPELLING your wife… and how to fix it in this episode.Summary:-When you don’t have a strong sense of self-worth, you tend to try to borrow it from your wife-You can do that by putting her down (dictator), or by constantly trying to get her attention, appreciation and affection (mosquito)-Often we switch between mosquito (bending over backwards for our wife) to dictator when our mosquito ways aren’t getting enough attention-The solution is finding love and respect for yourself that is EQUAL to your wife-Ask just right, listen just right, give just rightIf you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

May 17, 2020 • 24min
How Doing "Nice Things" For Your Wife Can Cause Problems
Can you do something nice for your wife… but STILL cause problems in your marriage?YES!See how doing the dishes (or other “nice” things) can either HELP or HURT your marriage.It all depends on how you SEE your wife.Summary:-Concepts from the book Leadership and Self-Deception from The Arbinger Institute-When you see your wife as a PERSON, you see her as HER OWN PERSON and someone you can serve-When you see her as an OBJECT, you see her as a vehicle, an obstacle, or irrelevant-You can still do “nice things” (like the dishes) but to GET something from her. This leads to PROBLEMS in the marriage.-When you don’t get the attention, appreciation or affection you want, you tend to see her as an OBSTACLE and start getting upset, disengaged, etc.-The solution: Choose to SERVE because you want to GIVE. Because you want to be that guy. Not because you want to GET or want her to ACT or FEEL a certain way.-This is also the MOST LIKELY way you will get attention, appreciation and affection FREELY GIVEN.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

May 14, 2020 • 27min
Why You Must STOP Trying To Make Your Wife Happy
Why You Must STOP Trying to Make Your Wife HappyYou’ve heard “Happy Wife, Happy Life.”Trying to live that phrase sent me to my car SCREAMING.Learn from this video why you must STOP trying to make your wife happy… And what to do instead.Summary:-You can’t control other people’s emotions… even their good ones-When you try, you are doomed to fail… AND you are being “manipulative,” which is unattractive-The solution is NOT to say “screw you, I’ll do what I want.”-It’s about sharing your TRUE self, serving because you want to be that guy, and finding solutions that are a win for BOTH of you… not a SACRIFICE that benefits one person and not the otherIf you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.You can also watch on YouTube here.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit MikeFrazierMD.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io

May 14, 2020 • 25min
Why Your Wife CAN NOT Make You Happy
If you find yourself saying "if my wife would just..."Appreciate me moreRespect me moreHave sex with me more, etc.You are falling victim to the common MYTH that your wife has to act certain ways for you to be happy.Find out how this belief is driving your wife AWAY and is REMOVING your power and strength... and what to do instead so you can feel STRONG and POWERFUL and ATTRACT your wife to you.If you enjoy the episode, make sure to leave a review in iTunes and share with a friend, so we can create stronger men and stronger marriages across the world.And, if you are ready to take your strength training and your marriage to the next level, visit StrongMenStrongMarriages.com to learn how.I'll see you there!Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife...And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… All while living true to Christian values...Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io


