Unashamed Unafraid

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Nathan Maxwell returns after a lost recording to share updated perspectives on recovery and marriage. He recounts early exposure to pornography in fourth grade, his parents’ divorce, his half-brother’s suicide, and how shame and suppressed grief fueled compulsive porn use and a growing need for validation from various sexual partners. Nathan describes how religious culture, lack of sex education, and scrupulosity shaped a belief that God hated him, contributing to misery and suicidal ideation. Recovery began when a church member introduced him to Unashamed, Unafraid, 12-step meetings, and boot camp. Nathan now lives with a changed view of God as a loving Father, and ongoing growth through setbacks and sobriety since November 2024.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.comTimestamps:00:00 Guidebook Update01:32 Nathan Returns03:24 Roots of Addiction17:14 Bootcamp Breakthrough19:01 Learning Gods Love26:33 Golden Nuggets of Recovery

**Click here to buy tickets to the Utah Coalition Against Pornography Help, Hope, and Healing Conference on March 14th, 2026.Make sure to use the code ucap2026 for $10 off your ticket!In this episode of Live Unashamed, the hosts discuss the importance of slowing down in the journey of recovery from sexual addiction. They explore how rushing through recovery can lead to overwhelming feelings and failure, whereas taking time to pause, reflect, and integrate new practices can lead to more sustainable progress. The conversation covers practical strategies such as focusing on one or two recovery tools at a time, practicing mindfulness and stillness, and building self-awareness of emotional states. Tune in to learn how taking it slow can help you achieve lasting recovery.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome01:35 Today's Topic: Slowing Down in Recovery02:07 The Importance of Slowing Down06:31 Practical Steps to Slow Down07:42 Integrating New Learnings12:52 The Power of Stillness and Meditation20:40 Final Thoughts and Viewer Engagement

This episode dives deep into the raw truth that sobriety is vital, shame is a battle, and authentic recovery requires honesty and courage. Listen as Troy shares his powerful story, struggles, and how God's grace rewrites everything.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.comTimestamps:00:00 - Why sobriety must be at the heart of recovery02:10 - The destructive power of pornography and shame’s role03:21 - Personal admission: the struggle of honest recovery05:19 - Sobriety vs. recovery: understanding the difference07:58 - Troy’s childhood, exposure, and early struggles with addiction10:45 - The cycle of addiction and the power of honesty14:14 - Crowning moment: finally coming clean after years of hiding16:58 - The courage it takes to attend your first recovery group18:28 - Defining true sobriety: what it really means to be free22:35 - The role of shame, pride, and accountability in lasting change28:30 - How shame can be the enemy of long-term sobriety33:11 - Different perspectives on God: from Santa to Loving Guide40:44 - Practical steps: trying differently when stuck in recovery42:51 - Embracing honesty: the key to living unashamed

In this episode of Live Unashamed, we discuss a pivotal quote from The Stick of Joseph podcast about resisting temptation not by direct confrontation but by turning towards positive actions and thoughts. Our conversation covers the importance of connection with others, honesty, and creating a lifestyle centered around connection and healing. Listen as we share our experiences and practical advice on turning the light up in recovery.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections01:52 The Power of Brotherhood in Recovery02:43 Discussing a Thought-Provoking Quote04:11 Applying the Quote to Recovery05:08 Strategies for Managing Temptation07:47 The Importance of Connection and Honesty10:34 Building a Lifestyle of Recovery20:09 Final Thoughts and Viewer Engagement

In this enlightening episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we delve into the challenging yet transformative journey of porn addiction recovery with Dr. Trish Leigh, a cognitive neuroscientist. Dr. Leigh shares her unique approach of using EEG technology to understand and regulate the brain's functioning, helping individuals overcome compulsive sexual behaviors. She discusses the impact of dopamine dependency and the importance of unwiring, rewiring, and hardwiring the brain for long-term recovery. This episode is packed with insights and practical strategies for anyone struggling with or supporting someone through porn addiction recovery.To connect with Dr. Leigh:WEBSITE AND YOUTUBE: https://drtrishleigh.com/ / https://www.youtube.com/@DrTrishLeighFOR BRAIN BASED CONDITIONS: https://www.youtube.com/@SupernormalbyDrTrishLeigh/videosFOR PARTNERS: https://www.youtube.com/@sanityafterbetrayal / https://sanityafterbetrayal.com/INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/drtrishleigh/BOOK: https://drtrishleigh.com/book/Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:16 Meet Dr. Trish Leigh: Cognitive Neuroscientist02:16 Understanding Porn Addiction and Brain Function03:09 The Recovery Process: Begin, Continue, and End04:16 Using EEG Technology in Recovery08:10 The Impact of Dopamine on Addiction12:17 Unwiring and Rewiring the Brain24:20 Strain Brain vs. Drain Brain26:22 Building a Strong Relationship26:49 The Impact of Porn on Brain Development28:16 Understanding Feedback Loops29:04 Implementing Brain Rewiring Strategies31:16 The Role of Neuroplasticity33:37 The Science Behind Brain Changes35:17 The Importance of Dopamine Regulation39:21 Using Technology for Brain Health42:55 Final Thoughts and Resources

In this episode, we introduce Madi Davis, host of 'Sisters on the Front Lines', who brings a fresh perspective on women's struggles with pornography. Join hosts Sam, James, Chris, and Madi as they discuss the unique challenges women face, the impact of shame, and the importance of connection. Madi shares her personal journey and highlights valuable resources that support women in their recovery. This episode is a must for anyone looking to understand and support women dealing with pornography addiction. Check out Madi's podcast & connect with her here: https://www.instagram.com/sistersonthefrontlinesMake a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:46 Meet Madi Davis: Host of Sisters on the Front Lines02:45 The Unique Challenges Women Face with Pornography Addiction04:33 Stories of Struggle and Shame08:48 Finding Resources and Support10:58 Messages of Hope and Recovery18:37 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this special episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we welcome Madi and Douglas, who share their experiences with pornography addiction and recovery. They represent the Un-Alone Club at BYU, a student organization aimed at supporting individuals struggling with pornography and other related issues. Douglas discusses his personal journey with addiction recovery, including how he overcame shame and learned to communicate openly with his wife. Madi shares her efforts in starting a podcast focused on helping young women struggling with pornography. Together, they emphasize the importance of community and connection in overcoming addiction. Tune in to hear their inspiring stories and insights on living unashamed and unafraid.Follow the Un-Alone Club on Instagram!Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid01:27 Meet Madi and Douglas01:47 The Un-Alone Club at BYU02:38 Madi's Podcast Journey06:41 Douglas' Personal Story07:51 Douglas' Mission Experiences08:35 Douglas' Recovery Journey11:54 Douglas' Relationship and Marriage17:07 The Un-Alone Club's Activities21:00 Understanding Ego Dystonic and Pornography21:27 Empowering vs. Disabling Labels21:55 Guest Speakers and Diverse Perspectives23:27 The Importance of Community24:11 Pornography as a Symptom24:55 Religious Perspectives on Pornography29:20 The Power of Connection29:57 Personal Stories and Experiences35:45 Starting the Club and Its Impact39:39 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Join the Unashamed Unafraid crew for a Live Unashamed episode where they openly discuss their experiences with sexual addiction, recovery, and the journey to self-forgiveness. Through heartfelt conversations, they explore the immense challenges of forgiving oneself despite being forgiven by others, the power of brotherhood and support, and how spirituality plays a crucial role in healing. Dive deep into personal stories, struggles, and moments of divine revelation that helped shape their paths to redemption. Whether you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode is a powerful testament to the transformative power of grace and self-compassion.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:52 Discussing Self-Forgiveness03:01 The Role of Brotherhood in Recovery05:57 Personal Stories of Forgiveness09:04 The Journey of Recovery15:34 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Austin Hamilton, a professional coach specializing in pornography and sexual addiction recovery, shares his transformative journey from struggle to healing. He recounts his pivotal 'D-Day' moment and emphasizes the power of truth-telling in rebuilding intimacy and connection. Austin discusses the impact of childhood trauma on addiction, the importance of self-compassion, and guiding clients through narrative-based recovery. His insights on journaling and using personal stories to foster honesty make for an inspiring conversation on vulnerability and authentic living.