The Sensitive and Neurodivergent Podcast with Julie Bjelland , LMFT

Dive into the topic of burnout recovery and prevention, particularly for sensitive and autistic individuals. Burnout is a pervasive challenge for many neurodivergent people, and Julie provides practical tools, strategies, and insights to help listeners identify, manage, and prevent burnout. Topics Covered: Understanding Burnout: Emotional, physical, behavioral, and sensory signs of burnout, including chronic fatigue, irritability, and decision-making struggles. Why Sensitive and Autistic People Are More Prone to Burnout: The impact of sensory overload, emotional exhaustion, chronic masking, and societal pressures. Consequences of Chronic Burnout: Links to chronic illness, autoimmune conditions, and the differences between autistic burnout and depression. Early Signs of Burnout: How to recognize creeping burnout and respond before it worsens. Burnout Prevention Strategies: Sensory Care: Building a sensory toolkit with items like noise-canceling headphones, sunglasses, and fidget tools. Scheduling regular sensory breaks and creating sensory-friendly environments. Setting Emotional Boundaries: Why boundaries matter for energy preservation and emotional safety. Tips for communicating boundaries effectively and overcoming guilt. Restorative Routines: Incorporating daily practices such as morning rituals, nature walks, and evening wind-downs. Proactively planning downtime around high-energy days to maintain balance. Burnout Recovery Tools: Permission to Rest: Rest as a necessary and productive part of long-term health. Physical Recovery: The importance of prioritizing sleep, nourishment, hydration, and gentle movement like yoga or stretching. Mental and Emotional Recovery: Grounding exercises, journaling prompts, and engaging in passions or special interests. Long-Term Resilience: Designing a burnout-resistant life by honoring sensory and emotional needs, reducing masking, and celebrating authentic self-expression. The importance of treating self-care as a daily practice and adjusting plans as needs evolve. Takeaways: Burnout is not a personal failure but a sign that your body and mind need care. Recovery and prevention require intentional self-care, boundary-setting, and creating routines that align with your unique needs as a sensitive or autistic individual. Explore More: Book a session with Julie for personalized support: https://www.juliebjelland.com/consultations-with-julie Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community for daily connection and resources. https://www.juliebjelland.com/sensitive-empowerment-community Watch my free boundaries webinar: https://www.juliebjelland.com/free-masterclasses-with-julie#masterclasses-healthy-boundaries Take my popular self-paced courses to learn practical tools to support your well-being: https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-online-courses Read more about chronic health conditions common in the sensitive and autistic: https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-blog/why-chronic-health-conditions-are-higher-in-sensitive-and-autistic-individuals-by-julie-bjelland-lmft Learn 5 Steps to better sleep: https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-improve-sleep Favorite Products, including the electrolytes and earplugs I talked about: https://www.juliebjelland.com/sensory-friendly Explore everything on my website: https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Your well-being matters, and small steps can make a big difference. Take time to care for your beautiful, sensitive self. 🌟 I’m Julie Bjelland, LMFT, Consultant and Specialist in Late-Discovered Autism in Sensitive Women (AFAB), a neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. I empower sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to embrace their authentic selves, improve their well-being, and thrive. Through my global support hub, I offer online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars to reduce overwhelm and balance the sensitive nervous system. As a proud LGBTQ+ member, I am dedicated to creating safe, inclusive spaces for all.

The discussion highlights why sensitive individuals, especially women, discover their autism later in life. It debunks the harmful myth that autism is a trend, emphasizing that many experience heightened empathy. The podcast addresses the concept of masking, which can lead to anxiety and burnout. Listeners learn about 14 common traits of autistic adults, and the conversation promotes self-compassion and understanding of the spectrum of autism. Ultimately, it advocates for better awareness and acceptance of neurodiversity.

Description:In this episode of The Sensitive and Neurodivergent Podcast, Julie Bjelland explores how injustice can deeply affect sensitive and neurodivergent individuals. With heightened empathy and a strong sense of fairness, many of us feel overwhelmed by the injustices we witness in the world. Julie shares 10 actionable strategies to help you manage these emotions, find empowerment, and prepare for meaningful action. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to acknowledge your feelings without judgment. Tips for focusing on what’s within your control. The importance of self-care and stepping into your light. Building confidence and empowerment to take action. Practical grounding techniques for when emotions feel overwhelming. How to reframe injustice to align with your values and purpose. The power of community and connecting with like-minded individuals. Links and Resources: Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community Explore More Resources From Julie Bjelland Bio I'm Julie Bjelland, LMFT, Consultant and Specialist in Late-Discovered Autism in Sensitive Women (AFAB), I am a neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. I empower sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to embrace their authentic selves, improve their well-being, and thrive. Through my global support hub, I offer online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars to reduce overwhelm and balance the sensitive nervous system. As a proud LGBTQ+ member, I am dedicated to creating safe, inclusive spaces for all. Discover more at JulieBjelland.com.

Life can feel overwhelming and distressing in uncertain times, especially for sensitive and neurodivergent people. That’s why it’s even more important to turn inward, ground ourselves, and find a sense of stability within. By nurturing our inner world, we can create a safe, steady space amidst the external chaos, allowing us to respond with greater calm and resilience. Welcome, everyone, to The Sensitive and Neurodivergent Podcast. I’m Julie Bjelland, a psychotherapist specializing in high sensitivity, late-discovered autism in women, and neurodivergence. This podcast is a space for you to find comfort, connection, and tools to navigate the unique challenges we experience. In today’s episode, we will engage in a grounding meditation to help sensitive and neurodivergent individuals find calm during uncertain times. When life feels overwhelming and distressing, it’s a signal to turn inward. For those of us who are sensitive, these feelings can be magnified, making it essential to ground ourselves and cultivate a sense of stability within. By focusing on our breath, reconnecting with our bodies, and practicing mindfulness, we can nurture a steady anchor amidst external chaos. It’s not about ignoring the world but about creating a sanctuary within ourselves. This meditation is a gift to yourself—a way to reconnect with your inner strength, to feel rooted, and to find comfort and safety within your own body. I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s take this time together to pause, breathe, and ground ourselves in a moment of peace. You are welcome to show up just as you are, without any pressure to feel or be a certain way. This is your space to simply be. If you’re seeking further support, visit my website at www.SensitiveConnection.com, where you’ll find additional free meditations, resources, and a loving Sensitive Empowerment Community for deeper connection and mutual support. Thank you for being here, and take extra good care of your beautiful, sensitive self. I’m Julie Bjelland, LMFT, a psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. I specialize in high sensitivity and adult-discovered autism. My passion is helping you live with more self-love and self-compassion and flourish more fully in the world. I’ve developed tools to balance the sensitive nervous system and reduce challenges so you can reach your fullest potential. My global support hub includes online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community, a top-ranked podcast, articles, webinars, and more. I’m a proud neurodivergent and queer therapist, and my mission is to create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. I look forward to supporting your journey. Learn more at https://www.juliebjelland.com/

We are all too often bombarded by disturbing and distressing media and this can be extremely overwhelming for sensitive people. We can find it extremely challenging to manage the intensity of emotions that are often felt from over-witnessing suffering and violence in our media. As a result, we can spend a great deal of energy intentionally avoiding being exposed. Some things are, however, simply can't be avoided. In this insightful interview, Dr Melanie Joy shares the psychology of why we turn away from the things we desire to change the most and shines a light on common misconceptions around what is required to instigate change. Melanie discusses how easy it is for our nervous systems to become dysregulated without adequate self-care to build resilience around challenging issues and gives practical suggestions for self-regulation strategies. Throughout the interview, the topic is discussed in general terms with particular reference to animal welfare, reflective of Melanie's expertise in this area. The Podcast is Founded by: Julie Bjelland, LMFT, a psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. I specialize in high sensitivity and adult-discovered autism. My passion is helping you live with more self-love and self-compassion and flourish more fully in the world. I’ve developed tools to balance the sensitive nervous system and reduce challenges so you can reach your fullest potential. My global support hub includes online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community, a top-ranked podcast, articles, webinars, and more. I’m a proud neurodivergent and queer therapist, and my mission is to create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. I look forward to supporting your journey. Learn more at JulieBjelland.com

Episode Highlights: Feeling Misunderstood: Julie and Willow explore the emotional impact of being misunderstood as sensitive and neurodivergent individuals, and how these experiences shape self-image and relationships. From Misunderstanding to Belonging: Julie shares contrasting experiences of recently feeling misunderstood in one situation and deeply connected in another. The Power of Belonging: Both hosts discuss the healing power of finding spaces where you are understood and valued, with Julie reflecting on her bonding experience in the Autistic Women’s Group. Self-Acceptance and Boundaries: They highlight the importance of setting boundaries and embracing self-acceptance, especially with those who may not fully understand or accept you. Grief and Emotional Processing: Julie opens up about her grief journey after her mother’s passing, emphasizing the need to create space for emotional healing. Community and Connection: The hosts stress the value of community for fostering a sense of belonging, particularly within the Sensitive Empowerment Community. Self-Care Tips: Practical advice on self-care practices that can help improve emotional well-being, especially during difficult times. Autism and Health Awareness: Julie encourages listeners with chronic health issues to explore the possibility of neurodivergence by taking her free autism quiz. Julie’s Resources & Links Explore all of Julie’s resources at https://www.SensitiveConnection.com Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community for live events, meet and greets, and niche support groups.: https://www.juliebjelland.com/sensitive-empowerment-community One-on-one with Julie: Therapy, Coaching, Consultations for the sensitive and neurodivergent and Autism Assessments: https://www.juliebjelland.com/consultations-with-julie Free Autism Quiz, Research, and Resources for the Sensitive: https://www.juliebjelland.com/autistichsp Explore Julie’s Courses for the Sensitive and Neurodivergent: https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-online-courses Explore Julie’s Resources for the Sensitive and Neurodivergent at https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Willow’s Resources & Links Book a free discovery call with Willow: https://training.inluminance.com/20-minute-session Interested in training to become an HSP Specialist? Visit: https://inluminance.com/the-coaching-program/ Find out more at https://inluminance.com Bios Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. She specializes in supporting high sensitivity, neurodivergence, and adult-discovered autism. Julie has developed tools to help balance the sensitive nervous system, reduce challenges, and help individuals reach their fullest potential. Through her global support hub, she offers online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community, a top-ranked podcast, articles, webinars, and more. As a proud neurodivergent and queer therapist, Julie’s mission is to create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. Learn more at https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Willow McIntosh is the founder of Inluminance and has been working in purpose alignment and lightworker facilitation for 17 years. He specialises in initiating people with High Sensory Intelligence to experience their reality as a gift that can be implemented into valuable products and services. https://inluminance.com/

In this episode of the HSP and Neurodivergent podcast, host Julie Bjelland and Willow McIntosh explore how to find light in the darkness, even during grief and difficult times. They discuss the importance of intentionally seeking joy, even in small moments, and how this practice helps manage overwhelming emotions and build resilience. Julie shares her personal experiences with grief after losing her mother, highlighting the physical and emotional toll it took on her and how finding moments of joy, like photography, helped her heal. The conversation touches on the challenges sensitive and neurodivergent individuals face, such as sensory overload and emotional depth, and the need for self-care, processing time, and emotional validation. They emphasize how acknowledging emotions without judgment and practicing self-compassion can ease the emotional burden. Willow adds insights into the journey of aligning with one's purpose, especially in business, and how important it is for sensitive people to embrace their truth and strengths. The episode supports and encourages those navigating emotional challenges and seeking resiliency and balance. Julie’s Resources & Links Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community for live events, meet and greets, and niche support groups.: https://www.juliebjelland.com/sensitive-empowerment-community One-on-one with Julie: Therapy, Coaching, Consultations for the sensitive and neurodivergent and Autism Assessments: https://www.juliebjelland.com/consultations-with-julie Free Autism Quiz, Research, and Resources for the Sensitive: https://www.juliebjelland.com/autistichsp Explore Julie’s Courses for the Sensitive and Neurodivergent: https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-online-courses Explore Julie’s Resources for the Sensitive and Neurodivergent at https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Willow’s Resources & Links Book a free discovery call with Willow: https://training.inluminance.com/20-minute-session Interested in training to become an HSP Specialist? Visit: https://inluminance.com/the-coaching-program/ Find out more at https://inluminance.com Bios Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a Licensed Psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. She specializes in supporting high sensitivity, neurodivergence, and adult-discovered autism. Julie has developed tools to help balance the sensitive nervous system, reduce challenges, and help individuals reach their fullest potential. Through her global support hub, she offers online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community, a top-ranked podcast, articles, webinars, and more. As a proud neurodivergent and queer therapist, Julie’s mission is to create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. Learn more at https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Willow McIntosh is the founder of Inluminance and has been working in purpose alignment and lightworker facilitation for 17 years. He specialises in initiating people with High Sensory Intelligence to experience their reality as a gift that can be implemented into valuable products and services. https://inluminance.com/

Welcome to this episode of the HSP and Neurodivergent Podcast with Julie Bjelland, LMFT, and guest Willow McIntosh. This episode celebrates the 5th anniversary of the Sensitive Empowerment Community. We discuss milestones, including reaching listeners in 183 countries and ranking in the top 1.5% of podcasts globally. Season Two Kickoff: Julie shares exciting news about starting Season Two after completing 200 episodes in Season One. Global Reach: The podcast now reaches 183 countries, highlighting the wide impact on sensitive and neurodivergent individuals worldwide. Grief and Growth: Julie opens up about her personal experience with grief after the loss of her mother and discusses the emotional growth that follows deep emotional pain. Diet and Health: Willow shares his journey of improving his health by cutting out processed foods and how mindful eating has helped balance his energy and digestion. Joy and Mindfulness: Both hosts discuss the importance of finding small moments of joy during difficult times, as part of the healing process. Photography as a New Joy: Julie is excited about a new hobby—photography—capturing nature and bird photos as a way to bring joy into her life. Community Growth: Updates on new groups within the Sensitive Empowerment Community, providing diverse and safe spaces for connection and support. Spiral Up Depression Group Sensitive Sages (60+) Autistic Women’s Group Soul Sanctuary for HSPs of Color Rainbow Room (LGBTQIA+) HSPs in Heart-Centered Business Self-Discovery Journey Course Discussions Julie’s Resources & Links Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community for live events, meet and greets, and niche support groups.: https://www.juliebjelland.com/sensitive-empowerment-community One-on-one with Julie: Coaching, Consultations for the sensitive and neurodivergent and Autism Assessments: https://www.juliebjelland.com/consultations-with-julie Explore Julie’s Courses for the Sensitive and Neurodivergent: https://www.juliebjelland.com/hsp-online-courses Explore Julie’s Resources for the Sensitive and Neurodivergent at https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Willow’s Resources & Links Book a free discovery call with Willow: https://training.inluminance.com/20-minute-session Interested in training to become an HSP Specialist? Visit: https://inluminance.com/the-coaching-program/ Find out more at https://inluminance.com Julie Bjelland is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. She specializes in supporting high sensitivity, neurodivergence, and adult-discovered autism. Julie has developed tools to help balance the sensitive nervous system, reduce challenges, and help individuals reach their fullest potential. Through her global support hub, she offers online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community, a top-ranked podcast, articles, webinars, and more. As a proud neurodivergent and queer therapist, Julie’s mission is to create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. Learn more at https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Willow McIntosh is the founder of Inluminance and has been working in purpose alignment and lightworker facilitation for 17 years. He specialises in initiating people with High Sensory Intelligence to experience their reality as a gift that can be implemented into valuable products and services. https://inluminance.com/

In this episode of the HSP and Neurodivergent podcast, I share insights on managing the tough days that sensitive individuals often face. After recently losing my mom, I’ve realized how crucial it is to have a "Sensitive Person's Toolkit" to help navigate overwhelming emotions, sensory overload, and other unique challenges. I discuss common struggles like emotional burnout, strained relationships, social exhaustion, and grief, offering practical tips and tools, such as the use of cold water and ice for immediate relief, practicing self-compassion, and grounding techniques. I also invite you to join the Sensitive Empowerment Community, where you can connect with like-minded individuals in a supportive, ad-free environment. We’re celebrating our 5th anniversary with a special live chat on September 24th, and I’m excited to announce a new live course, "Nurturing Compassion as a Way of Being," starting September 16th, led by the amazing Gracie King. This course is free for all members and will guide you in cultivating compassion in your daily life. If you're looking for more support, visit sensitiveconnection.com to find resources, book sessions, and explore the tools I recommend for sensitive individuals. Please like, subscribe, and share the podcast to help others find this supportive space. Resources Mentioned in Episode Join the Sensitive Empowerment Community: SensitiveCommunity.com (get free access to the upcoming Nurturing Compassion Course Book Session with Me Course Mentioned: Get 50% off today! The HSP Toolbox Course: Daily tools to balance the sensitive nervous system Product Recommendations for the Sensitive including the essential oils, calming device, and all the products mentioned in this episode. Blog Post: The Sensitive Person's Toolkit for Tough Days by Julie Bjelland, LMFT Free 4/2/7 Calming Breath Technique and get signed up for my weekly newsletter to stay informed of new episodes and resources. Free Webinars: I mentioned the Sensory Overload one and the Sensitivity and Anxiety one. Learn more here Free Meditations on the Podcast: www.HSPpodcast.com and click the meditation button Free Teaching of the 3-Step Self-Compassion Practice I shared Directory of Sensitive and Neurodivergent Therapists, Healers, Coaches Explore all resources on my website: SensitiveConnection.com I’m Julie Bjelland, LMFT, a Psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment, specializing in high sensitivity, neurodivergence, and adult-discovered autism in women and AFAB individuals. I love developing tools that balance our sensitive nervous system, reduce challenges, and help us reach our fullest potential so we may excel in our unique talents. I’ve created a global hub of extensive support, including online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community—a nurturing sanctuary—a globally top-ranked podcast, articles, free webinars, and more. My passion is helping create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. LGBTQIA+ and Neuroaffirming. Learn more at JulieBjelland.com

In this episode, Sensitive Empowerment Community members Carol Huckle and Carolina Mariposa co-host quarterly Intuitive Parenting events, in which members discuss the joys and challenges of parenting as HSP's, while supporting one another in our parenting and caregiving journeys. While these events are not normally recorded to maintain privacy of participants, Carol and Carolina hosted this public Q&A session in which SEC members submitted written questions ahead of time. The themes that arose included how to support our sensitive children with intense emotions, how to stay calm while we support our children, and how to help everyone in the family thrive through the stresses of major transitions and unexpected events. Co-host: Carol Huckle - co-author of the new children’s book series, The Adventures of Niko, the Highly Sensitive Dog and co-hosts “Intuitive Parenting” events inside the Sensitive Empowerment Community to support caregivers of sensitive little ones. As a volunteer Children's Librarian leading pre-K through 5th-grade reading groups, she often wished for books with characters that reflected the unique traits of bright, sensitive children. An introverted child, Carol’s favorite books were her best friends, inspiring the character Buttercup. Buttercup’s passion for research was inspired by Carol’s daughter, whose literary explorations discovered the unique, joyful dance of the blue-footed booby. This inspired the wonderfully extroverted character Blueberry. Carol is thrilled to collaborate with Julie in creating characters that celebrate being their authentic, unique selves! Get the book at https://www.juliebjelland.com/childre... Co-host: Carolina Mariposa - Carolina is an HSP mother of a preschool age sensitive and empathic child and will answer questions related to her specialty of HSP Youth/Therapy/Family Counseling. Carolina Mariposa , M.S., M.I.M., is a licensed psychotherapist and medical intuitive who specializes in working with highly sensitive children, teens and parents.  She is passionate about teaching HSP's to connect with their innate wisdom so that they feel more grounded, joyful, creative and empowered.  While she is endorsed in California as an Early Childhood Mental Health Specialist, she loves supporting children of all ages and collaborating with those who see parenthood as an opportunity for personal and spiritual growth.  You can learn more about Carolina's work by visiting https://www.butterflygrovehsp.com/ Carolina has also featured on the HSP Podcast Episode 153: Strategies to Support Empathic Kids, Teens and Parents Episode 167: Helping our Young HSP Adults Through Times of Transition Julie Bjelland, LMFT - Founder of the HSP and Neurodivergent podcast, a Licensed Psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment, specializing in high sensitivity and adult-diagnosed autism in women. I love developing tools that balance our sensitive nervous system, reduce challenges, and help us reach our fullest potential so we may excel in our unique talents. I’ve created a global hub of extensive support, including online courses, the Sensitive Empowerment Community—a nurturing sanctuary—a globally top-ranked podcast, articles, free webinars, and more. My passion is helping create a world where differences are embraced as strengths and celebrated. LGBTQIA+ Affirming. Learn more at https://www.juliebjelland.com/