

The Modern Manager
Mamie Kanfer Stewart
Host Mamie Kanfer Stewart shares practical approaches to help you be a great manager. Learn more at: https://themodernmanager.com/
Solo episodes are like mini-courses, providing actionable tips based on experience and research. Guest episodes are engaging conversations that elicit insights and suggestions for how to apply the ideas.
Learn more about effective meeting practices, communication skills, managing conflict, team building, time management, group dynamics, goal setting and accountability, team competencies, productivity and collaboration technologies, organizational culture, and more.
Be sure to follow the podcast on your favorite platform so you never miss a new episode!
Solo episodes are like mini-courses, providing actionable tips based on experience and research. Guest episodes are engaging conversations that elicit insights and suggestions for how to apply the ideas.
Learn more about effective meeting practices, communication skills, managing conflict, team building, time management, group dynamics, goal setting and accountability, team competencies, productivity and collaboration technologies, organizational culture, and more.
Be sure to follow the podcast on your favorite platform so you never miss a new episode!
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Sep 25, 2018 • 20min
19: Time Management Methods, Mindsets, and Approaches
For many of us, there never seem to be enough hours in the day. Our to-do lists seem to accumulate new tasks faster than we can cross them off. There are demands from colleagues and clients at work, family obligations, and social responsibilities. And in addition to all the things we’re supposed to do, there are things we wish we had time to do - like going to the gym, cooking, playing an instrument or reading a book for fun, or getting a full 8 or 9 hours of sleep at night - that feel impossible to try to squeeze in.
While it’s true that we probably can’t do everything (at least at the same time), on the whole, when you approach your time with intentionality, you may be surprised by how much you can accomplish in 24 hours. In this episode, I discuss 4 time management strategies I use to manage my time as a busy entrepreneur, mom, wife, and philanthropist, plus some pro-tips for effective time management.
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Read the article based on this episode: Time Management Strategies Every Manager Should Know
Key Takeaways:
Do fewer things. Question whether everything you're doing needs to be done at all, and if yes, can it be done for less time or less frequently.
Delegate. Determine what can be off loaded from your plate and who can take it on best.
Use a 2x2 matrix: "Things only I can do” vs “Things someone else can do” and “Things I like to do” vs “Things I prefer not to do.” This will help you determine what to hand off.
Think of time as abundant or expansive. Prioritize things that are important and give up those activities that don't serve you.
Look for ways to streamline your work.
Bundle similar tasks
Automate with technology
Time-block tasks to avoid spending too long on them
Develop your skills and become more efficient
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Sep 18, 2018 • 32min
18: Be a Culture Change Agent with Wes Kao
Whether you're trying to build a high performing team or transform your organization's culture, you need to be a change agent. When it comes to changing culture, thinking like a marketer can help. In episode 018 I speak with Wes Kao, an expert in marketing, product, and growth, and former Executive Director of Seth Godin’s altMBA. We talk about generating buy-in for bigger culture change work as well as creating a high performing team culture in which people take ownership.
Key Takeaways:
Culture is simply 'how we do things around here.' It subconsciously impacts how we engage at work - are we proactive, do we take ownership, etc.
Changing culture is, in part, marketing. We're selling ideas to our team members, supervisors, and colleagues.
If your values are out of line with those of your organization, (1) move to a different organization or (2) frame your idea in ways where people who are attached to the status quo don't feel threatened.
You want your idea to be new and interesting, not new and scary.
Culture change happens person by person. It needs to be continually reinforced.
Create a foundation of psychological safety so people are able to share their ideas without feeling foolish.
Combine psychological safety with rigor. This means you encourage people to share out-of-the-box ideas knowing that they will be met with a rigorous discussion. That response is not because the ideas are bad or the person was wrong to share them, but because we have a culture of rigor when it comes to debating ideas.
In a high performing team, everyone thinks like an owner and is proactive, people care about each other, and people ask question and think critically.
Read the article based on this episode: How Rockstar Managers Tackle Changing Culture
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KEEP UP WITH WES
website: https://www.weskao.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/weskao/
Seth Godin's AltMBA: https://altmba.com/
Email: wes@weskao.com
Twitter: @wes_kao

Sep 11, 2018 • 21min
17: Put your Team First
Almost everything you do as a manager can be influenced or framed by the mindset of serving your team: in the level of autonomy you provide, in how you invest in people’s growth, and in the culture of respect and gratitude that you build, and beyond. With the servant leadership approach, your job as a manager changes from that of conductor to that of coach and cheerleader. When you can make a few small adjustments in how you act towards and with your team, your people will have the space and confidence to do their best work.
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Read the article based on this episode: Servant Leadership: Leading from Behind
Key Takeaways:
Servant leadership means putting your team first in order to unleash the potential of your people.
Try adapting your approach to what works best with each of your team members.
Prioritize the person and their ability over your own convenience. Coach them rather than 'doing it for them.'
If you work in a large organization, the bureaucracy can be suffocating. You must clear the path, keep things moving up above, and prevent unnecessary stressors for your team.
Trust your team. Accept that sometimes this means they will fail.
Speak last in meetings. Make space for other people to share first so you don't shut down the conversation before it begins.
Be willing to be wrong. Apologize when you make a mistake and admit when you don't know something.
Get it touch! Email me at mamie@mamieks.com

Sep 9, 2018 • 8min
PYB 1: Pick Out The Raisins
This is the first bonus episode in the Parenting Your Business series. In these episodes, I talk about my experiences as a parent and manager or business leader, comparing situations and learnings.
In this episode, I talk about the things we do for our team members that they should really do for themselves.
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Sep 4, 2018 • 31min
16: Building an Agile Team with Sinead Condon
Is it possible for non-technical teams to benefit from practices like agile that were created by and for engineers? What if we’re not in a tech or software development space? How can non-techie managers take agile and use it for the growth of their teams? If you’ve heard about agile, but are still unsure what it is, you’re not alone. In this episode, I speak with Sinead A. Condon, Transformation Strategist for CA Technologies. We discuss agile priorities and ceremonies and agile for non-techies.
Key Takeaways:
Agile is both a mindset and a series of processes, ceremonies and structures.
An agile mindset is one which prioritizes delivering value, continuous improvement, speed and collaboration.
The daily standup is one of the most common agile practices. Individuals share what they completed yesterday, what they're working on today, and what (if anything) is standing in the way of getting their work done.
Practicing agile includes keeping a running to-do list (back-log) of tasks that need to be completed and then prioritizing on a regular basis.
The 'retrospective' is a ceremony in which the team looks for ways to improve. After a cycle of work (either time or project based), people ask 'what can we do better?'
Agile means working in shorter time periods (sprints) and in multiple iterations.
Most important to the agile mindset is curiosity. Keep asking what your stakeholders value and whether your actions are delivering adequate value given the efforts.
Read the article based on this episode: Agile for Non-Techies: What Every Manager Should Know
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KEEP UP WITH SINEAD
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sineadcondon2/

Aug 28, 2018 • 15min
15: Invest In Your Team
The decision to invest in your employees can be one of the smartest decisions you make as a manager. When you allocate money, time, or energy to an employee’s growth, the benefits for them, for you, and for your business can be profound. Learn ways to invest in people individually and as a team.
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Read the article based on this episode: Invest in Employees for Growth and Success
Key Takeaways:
Investment means you deal with the cost now in order to reap the benefit later.
Everyone benefits when you invest in your team members. Employees feel more engaged and grow their capabilities. This, in turn, makes your job easier as a manager, freeing you to do other work.
There are multiple ways to invest in people. Leadership consultants Mike Figliuolo and Victor Prince created a great framework.
Talk with your employees about growth. There is greater buy-in when you decide together what to focus on and how.
Consider the employee's learning preferences when deciding on investment approaches.
Be sure to invest in your team as a whole and in yourself too!
Get it touch! Email me at mamie@mamieks.com

Aug 21, 2018 • 31min
14: Personality and Preferences with Rob Toomey
Diversity in the workplace is getting a lot of attention these days. As we build awareness of and increase the range of diversity in its many forms, one we mustn’t overlook is personality. Our workplaces are already quite diverse in this respect and as managers, we must be capable of working with people who have different preferences than we do.
Todays guest, Rob Toomey is President at TypeCoach. TypeCoach helps companies improve communication and achieve goals through the application of personality type, specifically the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). To get free access to TypeCoach's tools, join the Modern Manager community on Patreon.
Key Takeaways:
Most of the time, we function in our default mode which means we communicate and collaborate in ways that feel most natural to us.
Great communicators and collaborators are able to adjust to work in ways that are most effective for those they are engaging with.
Make space for introverts in meetings. Give them time to process the information prior to the meeting. Use a 'check-out' at the end of the meeting for final thoughts.
If you're a big-picture manager but you have team members who need more details, spend extra time time clarifying the end goal, processes and any detailed information even if it feels tedious to you.
Feedback will resonate more when it speaks to people's primary motivations.
Pause before you give feedback or respond. Ask yourself: What is the best approach to take in light of this particular person?
Personality and preferences appears in teams and can cause conflict when not addressed.
Some people prefer to think in light-bulb innovation (brand new ideas) and others pre to think of process innovation (improving on what exists). Neither is better or worse, but they can create conflict amongst the group when doing both at the same time.
Set time in a brainstorm meeting for each type of thinking rather than combining them into one.
Read the article based on this episode: How to Manage and Leverage Personality Types for Greater Success
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KEEP UP WITH ROB
Website: www.Typecoach.com Twitter: @rvtoomey

Aug 14, 2018 • 17min
13: Essential Communication Skills
As managers, we’re constantly communicating with others by email, chat, phone, and in meetings. We share instructions, feedback, praise, and gratitude. We provide information, ask questions, and offer suggestions. In this episode, we discuss the communication skills every manager (not leader) needs.
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Read the article based on this episode: 5 Communication Skills to Make You a Rockstar Manager
Key Takeaways:
Share the right information at the right time.
Provide clarity and be direct. What actions should the person take? What should they do with this information?
Provide context so the person understand 'why' not just 'what'.
Check for understanding. Avoid asking 'yes or no' questions like 'does that make sense?' which can make someone feel embarrassed that they don't understand.
Listen actively, respond to cues from the other person.
Match the medium to the content. Consider which mode of communication - email, chat, meetings, etc - will be the most efficient and effective at delivering the message.
Say what needs to be said, even if it's hard. Give feedback, share unpopular opinions and speak up.
Get it touch! Email me at mamie@mamieks.com

Aug 7, 2018 • 36min
12: Designing Conversations with Daniel Stillman
We have conversations every day. We have them with our family and friends, our colleagues at work, and strangers at the grocery store. We have them online. We have them in our heads. Most conversations happen organically, but what happens when you approach a conversation with the mindset that it is an experience which can be designed, and how does it transform the conversation and the outcomes? Daniel Stillman, conversation designer, and I discuss the ins and outs of designing a conversation in ways that build deeper human connections and achieve outcomes.
Key Takeaways:
A conversation should begin before you get together. Find a way to entice people to join you so that they want to be in the conversation.
Avoid being vague about the purpose of the conversation. Few people feel good about attending a meeting when they don't know what's going to be discussed.
End a conversation with intention. Reiterate the positive outcomes to elevate the mood.
Engage participants in giving feedback using the Rose-Thorn-Bud technique in which people need to share 2 things they like (rose), two that could be improved (thorn) and 2 ideas they have (bud).
Use drawing (instead of writing) to elicit new information and spark creativity. Drawing often relaxes people and lowers barriers.
Cultivate and sustain your internal conversation through a practice such as mediation.
Read the article based on this episode: How to Use Conversation Design to Transform Your Team
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KEEP UP WITH DANIEL
Daniel's podcast: www.theconversationfactory.com
9 Conversations book: https://publishizer.com/nine-conversations/
Book giveaway: http://theconversationfactory.com/giveaway

Jul 31, 2018 • 15min
11: The Enjoyment Equation
Enjoyment may not be the first thing that comes to mind when thinking about work, but it’s a critical ingredient to building a thriving team. In order for each person to flourish, they need feel a bit of joy in the work they do, the team they do it with and the environment in which they do it.
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Read the article based on this episode: A New Recipe for Success: Enjoyment at Work
Key Takeaways:
Help people find the right balance their skills with the amount of challenge in their work.
Kim Scott, in her book, Radical Candor, defines 'rockstars' and 'superstars' as two different mindsets on what a person wants out of their job and career growth. Matching the role's demands to the person's desires will increase their enjoyment.
Help each person see the meaning and purpose of their work. Link the individual's work to the team's success and the organization's success and mission.
Encourage more fun in the workplace. Having moments of fun can build bonds, lighten the mood, and reduce stress.
Provide autonomy and generate buy-in. It's funny how we can enjoy or dread the same activity based on whether it feels like our choice to do it.
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