The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Apr 22, 2021 • 28min

Your Business Is A Reflection Of You

Episode #343 One of the biggest positive shifts that can happen in a business is when its leaders commit to personal accountability. When leaders hold themselves to the highest standard, it naturally follows that they inspire everyone around them to that same height. By the same token, when your business isn't going well, that's often a reflection of what is going on for you. It is a reflection of how you live your life. It goes both ways. Look at the biggest complaints that you have in your business and in your relationship. Look at all Five Territories. You'll see that your complaints have a lot in common. Your staff, their attitudes, and the work environment are ultimately a direct reflection of you. In this episode, we are going to talk about standards and the idea of accountability - putting in the time, effort, and energy - and what you can do when your business is not working as it should. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 20, 2021 • 29min

One Life!

Episode #342 Are you getting the most out of life? Are you making this one life count? Are you thriving in each of the Five Territories? This ticket is a reminder that we have One Life to live. Make it count and make the most of this one life that we've got. Live in a way that touches and moves you - rather than living it from scarcity. Ask yourself: What areas do I want to improve in, and what areas do I want to change? Take massive action. If you want to change something do it now and don't complain. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a "ticket to ride" and how to make this One Life thrive in the Five Territories. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 17, 2021 • 28min

When DIY Doesn't Work

Episode #341 What can you do when DIY doesn't work? What will it cost you? Drywall is something that a lot of people think they can do on their own. Seems easy enough, right? If you've ever tried, you know it's much harder than it looks to do even a decent job. If you want your drywalling done right and looking good, it's simple - hire a professional. The harder a thing is to do well, the more you need an expert. Work with professionals and make sure things are done right. As you might have guessed, this goes for building up your relationship, too. The idea of doing it on your own seems manly. But if you don't do it right, another man is going to come in and tear it all down. We don't have the luxury of having a second or third chance. So rather than doing it on your own, hire a professional, have them come in, and have it done right the first time. In this episode, we are going to talk about the DIY approach to relationships and what will it cost you if it doesn't work. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 15, 2021 • 34min

Do The 5 Love Languages Actually Work? With Franco Burrows

Episode #340 How do you show love? How do you want to receive love? How do you determine your partner's love language? A love language is a tool for enhancing or amplifying your relationship, but you have to build the relationship's foundation first. Starting with a solid foundation, you'll be able to understand how best to use this powerful tool. Once you discover your love language and acknowledge the love language of your partner, you will begin to see the connection and passion between you grow stronger. In this episode, you will learn the importance of building a solid foundation in your relationship, the importance of determining your partner's love language, and how to use this tool to grow stronger and closer together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 13, 2021 • 22min

Roommate With A Ring

Episode #339 On wedding days, you have high expectations for your future together. You anticipate becoming a 'power couple'. But over time the potency of your union starts to slip away, and you find yourself split apart and drifting further away from each other. When this happens, often the guy falls into deactivated mode and tries to repair the marriage by making his wife happy...but that doesn't work either. Before you know it, you and your wife have become more roommates than you are lovers. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a roommate with a ring, the reasons why you start feeling like roommates, and how to reconfirm your commitments to each other. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 10, 2021 • 24min

What Happened On Doug's Recent Birthday

Episode #338 Happy Birthday, Doug! What realizations and reflections did he have while celebrating his birthday? He woke up next to his wife in the morning and they made love right away. She prepared all his favorite food. She made an amazing breakfast. She arranged a special day just for him. It was an amazing time. The moment she smiled and looked at him with admiration and respect, he had a moment of reflection and looked back at the way things used to be in their life. He was thinking back to the time when he and his wife were going through a rough patch - remembering that journey between what they used to be to what they are today. In this episode, we are going to talk about the reflections Doug had while celebrating his birthday and how to be able to get into the marriage you dreamed about when you first got together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 8, 2021 • 35min

Two Ways To Increase Your Sexual Market Value

Episode #337 What is your market sexual value? How can you calculate your SMV...and what can you do to get that number up? Are you finding yourself in the nice guy trap? Are you in a deactivated state? Let's say you're a stock in an open market. Let's also say that you are fully owned by your wife. If your stock price has been going down since you got married, wouldn't it make sense to trade some of it on the market for a stock that's rising in value? Your wife made an investment, and she's looking for you to go up in value. Your external attitude (physical appearance, etc.) and your internal attitude (character - who you are as a man) is very important. Your energetic presence precedes you. If somebody is investing in bettering themselves, their market value is going to go up. If you apply an external look with an internal game, it's game over. Your sexual market value will never go down. In this episode, we are going to talk about how discipline and honesty affect your sexual market value, how to know what things to change to better yourself, and the two main ways to increase your sexual market value. Get a free quiz to determine your sexual market value and what you can do to increase it here - https://thepowerfulman.com/smv __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 6, 2021 • 24min

Being Your Wife's Bitch

Episode #336 She's taken on the role of an alpha, and it's turned your relationship upside-down. No balance, no boundaries, no activation. Start communicating what is acceptable and not acceptable in a calm and firm way. Establish boundaries. Staying connected while maintaining those boundaries is very important. It's how you build respect and admiration. When you realize that you've become "deactivated", take immediate and massive action. Being activated is being an alpha. Get tuned in and turned on to yourself and get fired up about who you are as a man. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do to stop being your wife's bitch, how to get activated, and be an alpha in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Apr 3, 2021 • 22min

Are You Begging For Sex?

Men often find themselves begging for sex, driven by a need for intimacy or fear of infidelity. This begging is seen as needy and lacks attraction. Awareness is crucial; many men don't realize how unappealing it is. A shift in power dynamics can occur by practicing engaged indifference and understanding that they don't need to beg. The Triad of Connection offers a roadmap to rebuild attraction and desire, reminding men to align with their confident selves. Ultimately, it's about moving from a state of begging to one of healthy activation.
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Apr 1, 2021 • 25min

From Arguing 3 Times A Week To Sex 3 Times A Week

Episode #334 In a marriage, little things start to creep in - resentments, arguments, you know how it goes. And your old ways of dealing with this "creep" don't work very well anymore. The real problem is that you're so focused on the negative experiences and emotions in the relationships that the scales get unbalanced and you can't move forward. You get stuck, and the problems keep coming. Learn how to stop focusing on the negative and start balancing out the scale. Do something different. We need to get those scales to neutral and then back to positive using the Triad of Connection. It's a simple process made up of simple changes. Remember, when we properly focus on the positive, the negative doesn't seem to matter. In this episode, we are going to talk about the analogy of scales, what the Triad of Connection is, and how it can help you to go from heated arguments to hot sex two to three times a week...or more! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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