

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Jan 7, 2023 • 22min
What To Realistically Expect From Your Wife
Episode #611 Do you know what happens when you show up as an Alpha in your relationship? This is exactly what we teach in The Activation Method because it changed everything. If you want to find the Alpha within you, then start standing up for yourself and be a leader who wants the best for your family. In this episode, you will learn why you shouldn't expect anything from your wife and how to set clear boundaries with your partner. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 5, 2023 • 29min
The Routine Cycle
Episode #610 What are the 3 key components of routine? What are the 4 E's in taking action? Align your routine with your goals and allow yourself to grow if you want to get what you deserve. It's time to make changes that improve your progress. In this episode, we're sharing the importance of having a routine and what you can do to establish a routine so you can make your days more productive. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 3, 2023 • 18min
Revisit: Groundhog's Day - Repeating The Past
Episode #609 Are the complaints you have the same as the ones you had last year, or 2 years ago? Are you repeating patterns of the past? Where are we? Until we get honest with ourselves, we're not going anywhere. Change should start within you. It starts with being honest about where you are currently. Take an assessment to see if you're repeating mistakes of the past. Einstein said, "You can't solve a problem with the same level of thinking that creates it." If you want to make sure this year is different, change your filter and shift your thinking. The fastest way is to hire somebody and find a coach or a mentor to give that outside perspective. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being honest with yourself about where you are currently and the value of getting a fresh perspective from a coach or mentor to change your thinking. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 31, 2022 • 22min
The Mind-Blowing Revelation About The Illusion Of Control
Episode #608 What are the two areas of your life that you want to control? The only person you can control is yourself because you have the power to choose how you respond in every situation so move forward to engage in personal growth. In this episode, we will learn why control over others is an illusion and how to let go of what's uncontrollable in life so that you can achieve positive results. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 29, 2022 • 26min
Revisit: What's The ONE Thing Your Wife Would Change About You?
Episode #607 If your wife could change ONE thing about you, what do you think it would be? What does it mean to be a man of your word? A lot of guys make commitments and promises to their wives, to their families, and to themselves - then constantly break them or fail to follow through. Your identity to her will become a man she cannot trust. When you lose these "micro-commitments" and someone can't trust you, it's like the emotional bank account is bankrupt. Recognize the pattern you're in, stop trying to do more to be better, and realize that you're on the right path with The Activation Method. In this episode, you will learn how to have better communication, how to be the man of your word, how to make your wife feel taken, the power of the Triad of Connection during The Activation Method, and the 3 key action steps to take today. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 27, 2022 • 23min
Revisit: Roommate With A Ring
Episode #606 On wedding days, you have high expectations for your future together. You anticipate becoming a 'power couple'. But over time the potency of your union starts to slip away, and you find yourself split apart and drifting further away from each other. When this happens, often the guy falls into deactivated mode and tries to repair the marriage by making his wife happy...but that doesn't work either. Before you know it, you and your wife have become more roommates than you are lovers. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a roommate with a ring, the reasons why you start feeling like roommates, and how to reconfirm your commitments to each other. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 24, 2022 • 27min
You Won't Believe What These Successful Businessmen Are Doing On Christmas Eve!
Episode #605 Do you remember your last holiday? What are the three things that your wife wants from you during the holidays? If you want to enjoy your holidays with people you love, then focus on leading the family as a Chief Fun Officer because you deserve a great marriage. In this episode, we're talking about why holidays are so stressful and what you can do to make the holidays more meaningful with your family. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 22, 2022 • 17min
The Fastest Way To Fix A Struggling Marriage Without Your Wife's Help
Episode #604 Did you know that 70% of divorces are initiated by women? With that number going up to 90% if she has a college degree? So if things aren't going well in your marriage.... what's holding you back from saving it? YOU need to take ownership of your life EVEN if she doesn't want to make a change. Because you can change your entire marriage by just showing up differently because she is responding to how YOU show up in the relationship. In this episode, we talk about the fastest way to fix a struggling marriage as an Alpha and what to do to be more interesting to your partner so you can keep the spark alive in the relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 20, 2022 • 23min
The Price People Pay For Pleasing Others
Episode #603 Be honest with yourself... Do you please others to avoid conflict? In this episode, we're sharing the consequences of being a people-pleaser and what to do to stay true to yourself so you can build the life you want. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 17, 2022 • 25min
Are You In Integrity?
Episode #602 Are you choosing your friends wisely? If you're making excuses and waiting for others to take the lead, then you might be stuck in victim mode. It's time to take ownership of your life by maintaining your integrity. In this episode, we will learn why you're refusing to take responsibility for your life and what you can do to prioritize yourself so you can prepare for success. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.


