

The Money Advantage Podcast
Bruce Wehner & Rachel Marshall
Personal Finance for the Entrepreneurially-Minded!
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Apr 11, 2022 • 18min
Rich vs. Wealthy – Why Mindset Matters!
Do you want to be rich, or do you want to be wealthy? There’s a huge distinction between being rich vs. wealthy. Understanding the difference is the missing ingredient you need to truly enjoy your money.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2X6mPMi9Q0
So, if you want to be wealthy, find out the one thing you need to create wealth that makes a real difference, not only in your life but also in generations to come… tune in now!
Table of contentsRich vs. Wealthy: What's the Difference?Make Your Money Do The MostWhat is Your Money’s Purpose?The True Freedom of Cash FlowSpending Your Time on Things That MatterGenerational LegacyRich vs. Wealthy: Which One Are You?My Upcoming Book
Rich vs. Wealthy: What's the Difference?
You might be wondering why I’m stressing this distinction, but there’s a good reason. If you’re rich, you can have a high standard of living. You can probably buy things that you want without thinking too deeply about the implications. Begin rich means you can do all the things that you wanted to do when you sought to be rich in the first place.
But there comes a time when you may realize that, as an entrepreneur, you have limitless earning potential. It’s well within your control to increase your income and put new business on the books, create new products and so much more. It’s at this stage that you may have a revelation of sorts.
[1:45] “If you make this money and you spend the money, there’s still something more. There’s something missing. There’s this part of you that realizes, well, you can buy all the things, but what then? What next? How do you make it really matter?”
The truth of the matter is that being rich simply means you have a high standard of living. That’s it. And that’s okay. But being wealthy means your money does the most for you.
Make Your Money Do The Most
When your money is doing the most for you, it’s actually operating within its own purpose and contributing back to your life. Wealth does more than increase your standard of living. It also creates cash flow and allows you to help other people besides you.
[2:45] “Just consuming leaves us feeling empty. I mean, there’s really only so much we can purchase.”
There’s only so much that money can do when you are consuming. The deeper, underlying desire of a “consumer” mentality is connection and purpose. That’s what people want. And it requires you to give a higher purpose to your money, rather than the act of consuming alone.
What is Your Money’s Purpose?
[5:00] “Really, what I think about when I think about money doing more for me is really, I have to conceptualize where can I put my money? What are the options for the things I can do with my money?”
Ultimately, there are only three things you can do with your money. You can spend it, you can save it, or you can invest it. Making more money seems like a good solution to many problems, but ultimately it’s only one piece of the puzzle. The missing component to many wealth-building journeys is a fulfilling plan for saving and investing that gives your money purpose.
So you must identify the purpose of your money. If you just want to have a bigger pile of money, you’re still going to run up against the feeling of frustration and emptiness that you might be feeling. Instead, you have to look a bit deeper to find your money’s purpose.
If you’re building time and money freedom, then you have the capability to have all of your needs met through cash flow from your assets. Then you can spend your time on what you choose to be doing. You can cultivate this through investing in businesses and assets that are sustainable and create cash flow.
The True Freedom of Cash Flow
This differs from having a high salary or earning a paycheck from the work that you do. Because the foundation of cash flow that you build from your savings and investments will actually allow you to choose how you spend your time. This includes your work life—this cash flow model prevents you from working a job you hate simply because it makes you rich. Instead, every additional second of your time can be spent doing exactly what you want to be doing, including your work choices, because you’re earning enough passive cash flow to make that decision independent of your “needs.”
[7:25] “This is separate from just having a high paycheck or a lot of income from the work that you do, because at no point can you step out of living that life and still have the money flow in. You need to continually have more launches or more projects or more programs or more clients in order to have that income stream.”
Self-sustaining assets give you the ability to make money independent of the time you spend. You are no longer trading dollars for time.
Spending Your Time on Things That Matter
As great as a life on the beach with your family may sound, we believe that’s not what people really want. At least not permanently. There’s only so much time you can spend in relaxation before it, too, becomes draining. People want purpose, and using our time to be of service gives more meaning to those moments spent with family or relaxing.
However, when you have time and money freedom thanks to cash flow, you get to decide where you contribute and create meaning. This is a key distinction between rich vs. wealthy.
Generational Legacy
One way to create more meaning with your money is to use your time and skills to contribute to your family’s growth and understanding of wealth. The time you spend now with your children can help their children and your grandchildren’s children after that. When you consider your time and knowledge as a part of the legacy you pass down, then you don’t just focus on accumulating money to gift to them. You also help your children cultivate a mindset that can help them grow, save and invest their own wealth, and instill principles and values in them. When you raise your children to have this mindset, you also help them to one day raise their children the same.
[9:50] “Wealth means your money is doing the most. The most possible… not just for you, but for generations past you. That means you’re thinking about a legacy; that means you’re thinking about generations ahead… What are they going to be capable of because of the money that you are creating and managing well today?”
Rich vs. Wealthy: Which One Are You?
Making money may make you rich, but having money and managing it well is really what can make you truly wealthy. This requires you to shift your focus from earning and consuming, and also look at investing and cultivating resources that generations beyond can benefit from.
You can save a pile of money, and pass it on to them, for them to become consumers. And that’s okay. But you can also train them to think of wealth as something beyond cash and embody that in their own lives.
[11:20] “My vision for my children and my grandchildren and my great-grandchildren is to be able to give them the keys and the tools and the character to be able to manage whatever resources come to them from me and from their own production…”
My Upcoming Book
I have been working on a book that addresses this very concept of generational wealth, and what it means to be rich vs. wealthy. In part, I did this because I think of my family as a team, and we want to help other families do the same. In the book, I address the ins and outs of creating wealth, creating cash flow, and transferring assets (including the instructions for the next generation).
You can’t just have the money or the systems. You also need guidance within your family, so that each member of your team is on the same page. Meeting and identifying the purpose of your money together can help everyone to walk more fully in their power, or their “A game.” If you’re interested, you can subscribe to our email list to get updates on the book’s release.
Are You An Influencer?
As I’m getting ready to launch my book, I’m opening up a pilot group coaching opportunity just for influencers (authors, speakers, coaches, investors, who love their family and want to do the most with their money. Email me at hello@themoneyadvantage.com for more information about Generational Legacy Coaching.

Apr 4, 2022 • 47min
Accelerate My Revenue: High Ticket Sales and Virtual Events, with Eileen Wilder
Did you know that it’s possible to compress your annual goals and accomplish them in a day? With virtual events, all things are possible. Here’s your permission to blow the lid off your expectations for your income! Eileen Wilder, known as “The Queen of Stages,” is a master communicator, trainer, teacher, and advocate for growing (and monetizing) your personal influence for more impact, more income, and most of all—more fun!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jQIaviWgBjA
So today, find out how you can accelerate your revenue, leverage your time, and scale your business in 2022… tune in now!
Table of contentsThe Beginnings of Accelerate My Revenue Combatting InsecurityStop Seeing Money as LimitedHow to Find Your ConfidenceThe Power of Virtual EventsKnow Your AudienceGetting “Big Numbers” with a NicheAbout Eileen WilderConnect With Eileen WilderBook A Strategy Call
The Beginnings of Accelerate My Revenue
Eileen Wilder began her journey as a pastor, and together with her husband decided to explore the online space. This entrepreneurial journey eventually led to Eileen’s first six-figure day. In a single day, she earned $108,000. This occurred about three months into her entrepreneurial journey and sparked her understanding of the power of speaking.
It wasn’t just an incremental journey; it was a quantum leap for Eileen and her family. Immediately, this spurred them to pause everything and try to figure out exactly what they did so they could replicate it. This led to them passing the million-dollar mark of revenue well within a year, and even exceeding that.
[5:38] “I just want to encourage you. 2021 was not great for many, many reasons, on so many fronts. I have disastrous things that happened in my [life]; you know health reasons, loss of [a] family member. However, the opportunity to impact more lives has never been greater, as a result of what happened in 2021. As a result of covid. shutting things down, the online virtual space is exploding, and virtual events are repeatedly, systematically, day-by-day are doing six and seven-figure days.”
If you have a message, or what Eileen calls a stirring in your heart, there has never been a better time to get that out into the world.
Combatting Insecurity
Finding exponential growth is possible, no matter who you are. However, it requires transformational thinking. Insecurity, self-doubt, and low confidence can all get in the way of the message you have to share with the world.
[7:45] “Brendon Burchard said, ‘Your internal insecurity is not market reality.’ And oftentimes what’s happening internally in our mental mind drama, the mind movies we have, and the stories we’re telling ourselves…is actually not the market reality. The market is trading billions of dollars every day–products, programs, services. And get this: they’re inferior to what you offer.”
The first step to your journey of success is to stop allowing your internal insecurity to sabotage your potential impact on the world.
[8:44] “There’s more than enough for all of us to have more than enough, with more than enough left over.”
Stop Seeing Money as Limited
The next hurdle to combat is just as Eileen says above. It’s easy to believe that money is finite, however, the world simply does not work that way. Money is an exchange of value, and if you can provide value, abundance will follow. If you improve someone’s life, their life grows and so does yours.
Don’t fall into the mental trap of limitation. If someone gets more money, that does not mean there’s less of the pie available to you. It can actually raise the bar for everyone, and what someone earns is simply a fun fact. Another person’s earnings do not have a bearing on your own earnings.
You also likely won’t serve everyone with the message you have to offer the world, as Eileen points out. That doesn’t mean your income is limited, and in fact, it can even create more freedom for you to be yourself and trust that the right people will follow.
[9:40] “I also believe that people are assigned to us. You know, I come from this faith-based background as a pastor, so I have this real strong belief in the scripture and the Bible and truth. And it’s not what everyone believes, and that’s great… Jesus said ‘my sheep know my voice,’ and it’s amazing how I feel that your sheep are connected to your voice. Like your people will come to you when you share your voice.”
The competition is just a story. If you share your voice, the right people will show up, and you won’t be fighting with anyone else to reach those people in a genuine way.
How to Find Your Confidence
[11:15] I feel like the more you share your voice, your message, you find out what’s resonating with your audience.”
Even at a time when Eileen didn’t feel confident in what she had to share, she shared anyway. She started with a little email list where she would share words of encouragement and other messages. And the positive feedback she received encouraged her to do more and revealed what resonated with her audience.
[11:56] “So often we don’t think our superpower is that super until we start to use it. And then the world reflects back to us, cheering us ongoing, ‘Share more, share more.’”
The Power of Virtual Events
One of the incredible things that came out of the pandemic was an almost overnight, worldwide adoption of online video conferencing. People of all sorts of career paths had to adapt to meet and work online in this way. This quickly led to the adoption of online events, too. While they existed, the pandemic created a necessity for these types of online events.
Eileen has been using Zoom and the online space to host her own virtual events, too. 4-hour masterclass sessions are a popular event that she hosts, as well as five-day challenges. These differ from Summits because Summits typically involve a variety of speakers.
[17:47] “With virtual events, we really just click ‘open the room’...you know, send out the Zoom link, and then we just all gather. And it’s usually you or just one other person being the main guest speaker. What that does is provide singularity of focus on the sales message. So dominating the stage yourself is actually really what I think is most helpful for the people you’re called to serve because they need your tips, your strategies.”
Eileen’s model is fairly simple. She gets on Zoom and talks to her people, and at the end of a call, she makes an offer. That’s it.
Know Your Audience
The beauty of this type of work is that there are people from every walk of life seeking help for nearly every kind of problem. You just have to hone in on your specific area of expertise. Once you do that, Eileen suggests finding what questions your audience is asking. If you can identify that “number one” question, you can make a large impact early on.
Getting people SEEMS like a hurdle, but in actuality, it’s easy to find the right people. Your numbers won’t matter as much as your authentic connections with people who value exactly what you offer. And your audience will grow as you build your reputation for being exactly who you are.
Getting “Big Numbers” with a Niche
[25:19] “We used to think it took so many people… to do big numbers. We have found, and ourselves have done it ourselves, less than 200 people on an event is a million-dollar day. Two hundred people…I did, and my students have done, six-figure days with less than 20 people in the room. Isn’t that crazy town?”
You don’t have to have a massive setup or a Tony Robbins-sized audience to make an impact and accelerate your revenue. The value that you create is based on your ability to connect on a personal level with people, and solve problems for them. If you have even a few people who want to spend their time with you, and find it to be a valuable thing, your offer or product is probably going to speak to them too. So don’t let fear that your audience isn’t big enough keep you from getting started.
About Eileen Wilder
Eileen is known around the internet as "The Queen of Stages" - a master communicator, trainer, teacher, & advocate for growing (and MONETIZING) your personal influence for more impact, more income, and most of all - more fun!
Connect With Eileen Wilder
Learn about speaking at Accelerate My Revenue eileenwild@gmail.com1-202-297-3143
Book A Strategy Call
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Mar 28, 2022 • 37min
The Marshall Family Bank, Pt. 1: Why We Started a New Life Insurance Policy
Do you want to accumulate reserves and investible capital where it’s safe and liquid, so you have the cash to invest in the widest range of circumstances? Come behind the scenes as we talk about our Marshall Family Bank in real-time.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmDrsECWJ8Y
Today, we’re talking about our recent whole life insurance policy conversion with a 1035 exchange. We’ll discuss the original policy and what prompted the conversion. We also cover how we structured the new policy, what riders we added and why, and our updated cash value, dividend, and death benefit performance.
So, if you want to see exactly how we’re growing our family bank to continue today… tune in now!
Table of contentsHow We Started the Marshall Family BankThe First PolicyWhy the 1035 Exchange?What is Demutualization?How Does a 1035 Work?The Old vs. New Marshall PolicySo Why a 1035? Execute TodayBook A Strategy Call
How We Started the Marshall Family Bank
The Marshall Family bank had to start somewhere, so we want to start by sharing our beginnings with you. Originally, we gravitated toward whole life insurance because we were between opportunities. We were also seeking a safe place to store our cash. This was about 9 years ago.
Liquidity was one of our top priorities because we were saving almost 50% of our W-2 income in precious metals, which lacked the liquidity we needed. We still have precious metals in our portfolio today. However, after saving such a significant portion of our income, it was clear that better liquidity would be beneficial. This compounded with the realization that we needed some diversity in our assets since precious metals rise and fall in value.
It was about this time when infinite banking crossed our radar. We were searching for more liquidity and safety. The idea was appealing because we recognized the long-term benefits of a cash flow system.
[2:55] “This was when we really sunk in our teeth to the idea that whole life insurance can be a place to store cash, it can be specially designed as infinite banking to have the capital reserves, grow cash value, pay dividends because it’s a mutual policy, and also have a death benefit that transfers your legacy. And we’ve had an evolution, over the course of our life, of recognizing we also need to have human life value, which means having as much death benefit as we can have.”
The First Policy
With our first policy, we didn’t yet have the long-term vision we have now. Sometimes we didn’t pay the full premiums, and we added PUAs where we could. However, we are thankful we got started at all, rather than waiting. It still helped us to be in a better position than we would be without it. In fact, we used the policy frequently while we had it.
This policy was a $10,000 annual premium, insuring Lucas. We used it for several loans over the years, including our business and real estate investing. We’ve paid these loans back, and it’s been a great storage tank for the capital we have.
In the time since we started this policy, we’ve learned a significant amount about policy design and structure. It’s because of our knowledge that we decided to do a 1035 exchange of our first policy into a new life insurance policy.
Why the 1035 Exchange?
One reason that whole life insurance can be a great tool for wealth storage and building is that it’s flexible. If your income increases, you can get another life insurance policy and keep your others intact, effectively building a portfolio of policies. This is one reason we thought it would be interesting to have this conversation since we did a 1035 exchange instead of simply starting a new policy.
[8:40] Bruce: “Very rarely should a person 1035 a whole life policy to another whole life policy—unless they have specific reasons for doing it.”
Some of the reasons people 1035 whole life insurance into other whole life insurance are:
To receive better service from a new life insurance company,
More death benefit,
Better (or different) policy design.
However, when you do a 1035 exchange, you're starting a new policy altogether. That means you're starting from ground zero in terms of building cash value and liquidity. You may also end up reducing some of the benefits. This is why, for many people, 1035 is not ideal.
One reason we sought a 1035 exchange for this first policy was to benefit from a different policy design. Like we said, we began our first policy with less knowledge than we have now. We might have done some things differently, otherwise. Now, the Marshall Family Bank has a defined purpose. So, we want our policy to be in alignment with that purpose going forward.
We also moved to a life insurance company we had more faith in. We’ve never been afraid that the death benefit would disappear. However, we prefer to stay with a mutual company, and we wanted to avoid the possibility of our company demutualizing. While it’s hard to say for certain whether that will happen, sometimes there are signs in how the insurance company operates and handles their own money.
What is Demutualization?
A mutual life insurance company is a company that is owned by the policyholders. Mutual companies pay dividends to the policyholders because they are partial owners. When a company demutualizes, it often means it’s bought out by someone else, and it becomes a stock company. As you can probably guess, this means the company becomes owned by stockholders and pays dividends as such.
The infinite banking concept works so well with mutual life insurance companies in part because of the dividends. After all, they support uninterrupted compounding and help policies grow. Bruce experienced this with one of his policies, where a company demutualized. Although he stopped earning dividends, he decided to keep the policy rather than 1035 into a new dividend-paying policy.
He kept his policy because he started it when he was young, so his leveraged death benefit was really high. For him, it was worth keeping in place for the death benefit alone. This happened in the 90s, and the policy is still strong.
How Does a 1035 Work?
When you’re starting a 1035 exchange, you start the process the way you would when you’re purchasing a new life insurance policy. In other words, the application process is the same. During the discovery process, you list your existing life insurance policies. During this stage, you can determine if you want to do a 1035 exchange on any of your policies. This means you would use the cash value from an existing policy to pay for paid-up additions, with no tax ramifications. (If you just liquidate the policy without an exchange, you would pay income tax on the amount above premiums paid into that policy.)
When you do a 1035 exchange, you pay your premium first. Then the company initiates the exchange of funds into the new policy. There’s a set amount of death benefit you can get, based on this premium. Because the policy is paid up, you have access to a high cash value, the same way you would with the original policy. Then the company sends a letter to the previous company, giving them 90 days to transfer the policy funds.
At this point, the original company will send you a letter asking you if you’re sure. This letter lists the benefits you are giving up. If you’re working with an advisor or advisory board on this process, you have probably already discussed the pros and cons of this choice. Then, you must respond to the letter, giving your consent to transfer the funds. At this point in the process, you need only wait for the company to transfer funds.
The process takes some time so that all the legal bases are covered.
The Old vs. New Marshall Policy
Our initial policy in the Marshall family bank was $10,000 a year in premium. Since we hadn’t fully funded the policy, it wasn’t performing the way it was projected.
At the 9-year mark, we were in the ballpark of about $61,000 of cash value, and about $445,000 of death benefit. We didn’t reach the “break even” point because we were not maximally funding our policy. At this 9-year mark, we decided we wanted to start paying $20,000 in premium. So we applied for the new policy, paid our initial premium of $20,000, and then worked on the 1035 exchange to move the $61,000 over. We used this $61,000 of cash value to make a single premium payment that went into the policy as a paid-up additions rider.
In the first year of the new policy, what we’re looking at is a new total death benefit of about $827,192. The original policy had a death benefit of $445,000, so there’s a significant increase in total death benefit. But, it’s interesting to note that in this new policy, the money transferred only contributed to $150,000 worth of the new death benefit. So there’s a loss that occurred in that transfer, even if the total death benefit increased.
Part of the reason there’s a loss is due to age. $60,000 of single premium buys less death benefit the older you get. This is just a function of life insurance and the actuarial data that goes into the cost calculations.
So Why a 1035?
In part, we felt that the knowledge we’ve gained about policy design would be put to better use in a new policy. We believe that in the long-term, this new policy will do more for our family-banking system and our money’s purpose than our original policy.
We’re also comfortable making this decision because we have other life insurance in place, and are seeking to insure up to our human life value, including term insurance. In other words, we have a foundation that allows us to make an informed choice like this. If this was our only policy, this may not have been the ideal solution.
The design of our new policy has ensured that we can pay as much premium as possible for as long as possible. We also want more safety and liquidity,

Mar 21, 2022 • 58min
7-Figure Business Owner and the Legacy Blueprint, with Joe Evangelisti
How do you get life-changing transformation and master the game of business? Joe Evangelisti has built an 8-figure empire and has helped hundreds of entrepreneurs and business owners to cross the 7, 8, and 9-figure mark. Interested in being the next 7-figure business? Don't miss this opportunity to learn from one of the greats.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_d_IsQBXhtM
To find out how to pivot to unlock your true potential, put aces in their places, and develop a winning culture… tune in now!
Table of contentsLife-Changing TransformationMindset TransformationHow to Build ConfidenceCreate a 7-Figure Business by Getting a LifeDon't Be the ArsonistHow to Get Started Building a TeamHow to Be a Team LeaderWhat Does it Mean to Pivot?The Power of Aces in Their PlacesFostering Company CultureStrong Leaders Create Strong LeadersHow to Live Life NowConnect with Joe EvangelistiAbout Joe EvangelistiBook A Strategy Call
Life-Changing Transformation
Joe Evangelisti is a master of transformation and doesn't let the circumstances drag him down. In fact, his early business experiences have primed him to find opportunities in what others might consider dire circumstances.
[4:00] “I was lucky I got into real estate in 2007, which a lot of people were in real estate back then. It was kind of a weird year to get involved in it, but it taught me a lot. Because we thought we were going to hit the ground and flip dozens of houses and make tons of money, and it couldn’t have happened any differently, right?”
Joe got into the real estate market with his own cash and was already two or three properties deep when the market crashed. Yet, he credits this time as teaching him valuable lessons in how to pivot and course-correct his investments in order to make lemonade out of lemons.
[5:00] “I think early on in my career, the first five or six years, it was just a matter of putting all of my time and effort into hustling, grinding, and figuring out until I nearly had a burnout in my early 30s and realized hey, this isn’t the way to do it.”
Mindset Transformation
It was this shift in mindset that Joe credits with helping him build the multiple successful businesses he has today. It's the same mindset he's helped others adopt to build their own 7-figure businesses and beyond. First, he recognized that there doesn’t have to be an endless grind with no satisfaction. Secondly, he learned that you must also be the kind of motivated person that can find and create solutions no matter the odds. Some of the most successful entrepreneurs Joe can identify have been through some of the most terrifying financial scenarios, and come out on top because they’re able to see it through and course correct.
[7:20] “The characteristic that I see in real winners is the fact that they just don’t ever stop. Right? They don’t ever give up, they just keep pushing no matter how bad things are.”
How to Build Confidence
[8:10] “One of my strong unique abilities is the ability to get people to recognize not only their authenticity but the value they bring, right? I think that the challenge that so many entrepreneurs have is they’re trying to be somebody else. They’re trying to be somebody they’re not. When you can recognize your own brand, your own authenticity, what your own value is, what you can bring to the table, what is the byproduct of that? The byproduct of that is confidence. When people give up, what they’re lacking is confidence.”
Joe asserts you maintain your confidence by maintaining your identity because confidence comes from authenticity. And all people have an innate ability to recognize authenticity. It shows when you're donning a facade, or being someone you're not. Joe even goes so far as to say that vulnerability can help you be more authentic. The problem is that so many people are afraid of being open and vulnerable. If you want to create real, human connections with clients, business partners, and even team members, try opening up and being more vulnerable about who you truly are.
Create a 7-Figure Business by Getting a Life
So what do you do, as an entrepreneur, if your life is not about the grind? Can you truly build a 7-figure business without working yourself 24/7?
Well, Joe's true secret to success is about finding balance. Entrepreneurs typically become entrepreneurs so that they can live a certain lifestyle. Joe realized after about 5 or 6 years that he was throwing away that life by dedicating every waking moment to the “hustle.” He was losing out on family time, not taking care of himself, and overall just not living the life he envisioned for himself when he started.
[13:08] “I thought to myself: I’m not taking care of myself, I’m not taking care of others, who am I taking care of? What’s the point of this? And that’s when it all kind of culminated, to me, and I realized if I can be that productive in three hours, why do I take fourteen hours to do it?”
Eliminating the "grind" begins with redefining productivity. You have to ask yourself, what does a productive workday really look like? We typically look to the outside world to define this, but it's actually crucial to look inwards. Be brutally honest. If you can do something in less time, more efficiently, isn’t that the more productive thing? It’s not about hours spent, it’s about things accomplished. Joe calls this “creating decades and turning them into days.” In other words, making your work life efficient, so you don’t wake up in ten years and wonder what you’ve done with your time and where the years have gone.
Don't Be the Arsonist
[13:45] “The secret behind it is, these fires, these busy people that are always patting themselves on the back…they’re secret arsonists, right? They’re behind the building and they’re lighting it on fire, so the next day they can come to work and they can put it all out and say they did a great job. But busy does not necessarily mean productive, and I think it’s the biggest challenge that a lot of people face. They feel like they’re busy, but they’re not actually moving the needle, they’re not getting any closer to their goals.”
In some ways, the way our society views retirement feeds into this mindset. Many people believe that they should spend their working years grinding in order to retire. However, this can lead to an imbalanced lifestyle. Too many people miss out on the important things that happen during this stage, they miss out on life, and the relationships and experiences that are possible. But what if you dared to ask, what happens if you set your life up so that you forget to retire?
How to Get Started Building a Team
Breaking away from the mindset that being busy means being productive is hard. It’s also hard to outsource work you don’t enjoy, usually because it’s hard to accept that you should. After all, you're capable of doing the work. But just because you can do something, doesn't mean you're the right person to do it. Resist the urge to keep doing tasks you don't love just because you can. Building a team where everyone is working in their unique ability is the beginning of your journey to scaling your business.
So where do you get started?
Joe says the 80/20 rule is a good place to start. What is the 20% of your work that generates 80% of your revenue? If you can identify this, then you identify what you can do more of. By extension, you identify the things you can do less of, and therefore offload to a team member who may be more skilled, or desire that kind of work more.
How to Be a Team Leader
To be an effective team leader, Joe says you must learn to lead yourself. So many entrepreneurs attempt to hire a team too soon, and end up feeling like they’ve been burned. Joe asserts that these types of mistakes occur when you haven’t started your team by leading yourself. What does this mean?
[21:35] “In order to be an impactful leader for a team, we have to be an impactful leader on ourselves, right? We have to control our schedules, we have to control our routines and rituals, we have to control our mindset, we have to control our attitude and how we’re showing up to meetings, and how we’re showing up to everything in life. Once we control that side, now we become somebody that people want to follow, that people want to emulate, that people want to become a part of your vision.”
And this isn’t a static goalpost, it’s actually something to work on continuously. You can always become a better leader for yourself and, by extension, your people. Even Joe still works with his own coach.
[23:40] “I’m improving every day–-I have coaches, you know? Like I don’t just coach, I’m getting better every single day. I was on the phone yesterday with my coach for two hours. So I think that it’s important to realize that learners are leaders and leaders are learners. We’re constantly… evolving.”
What Does it Mean to Pivot?
We’ve talked about the need to “pivot” when, as an entrepreneur, things don’t go as planned. What does that mean? Well, Joe points out that a staggering number of businesses fail. And many of these failures seem to stem from being unable to pivot in bad times. There’s a common mindset that some businesses can only operate one way. If it doesn’t work out, then there probably isn’t another way to do things. This, however, is a limiting view that keeps business owners stuck.
[24:45] “Bruce really touched on this earlier. What do great leaders do? They learn how to take decisive action when they get hit with a roadblock or an obstacle or a speed bump… The good news is, for most business owners is obstacles are the adversity that a lot of times will actually plant the seed of opportunity for you.”
Covid is a great example of an opportunity for many business owners. Of course, there are some business models that really had little room to pivot. However,

Mar 14, 2022 • 1h 6min
TMA on the Banking with Life Podcast
This week we have the pleasure of joining James Neathery on his podcast, Banking with Life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VTr7vMxoyQU
If you want to better understand the importance of life insurance as a foundational tool, and how it integrates into a family banking system...tune in now!
Show Notes:
0:00 James Neathery introduces The Money Advantage team: Rachel Marshall, Lucas Marshall, and Bruce Wehner.
3:00 The more quality information about infinite banking and finance out there, the better. Separating the noise from the truth.
5:40 Rachel shares how The Money Advantage team met Nelson Nash, author of Becoming Your Own Banker.
8:15 Lucas touches on the importance of the IBC and life insurance industry sticking together and applying the principles of legacy to create a broader sense of community.
11:30 James says. “Every business has a ferocious need for capital and cash flows.”
12:15 What is family and heritage, and how does money impact that? How does it contribute to generational wealth?
12:55 How the Marshall family implements a family banking system, and how this system has adapted over time.
14:30 How do you ensure that your legacy and money are used in accordance with your family values?
16:30 The benefits of a family banking system over time.
19:30 The benefit of being surrounded by like-minded, entrepreneurial people.
20:20 Where to store your capital for safety and liquidity.
21:25 What is a leveraged-up death benefit, and why is it so profound?
24:15 Bruce shares why he decided to open a life insurance policy on his father.
28:25 What does it mean to have a family enterprise, and how can you be successful?
29:15 What is the “rugged individualist” in the financial industry? How do you move toward a family-focused financial system?
33:15 IBC in theory versus in practice.
35:00 Infinite banking starts at the idea level: you have to reconcile the idea with your finances first.
38:15 The reason you want to step into the role of the banker is that it gives you control. Control gives you options.
40:15 The power of how Nelson Nash taught IBC.
41:50 How people form their opinions on whole life insurance.
45:10 How do you handle people who challenge your understanding or beliefs?
48:30 “Most people’s understanding of life insurance is based on someone else’s misconception.”
49:45 The importance of a solid financial foundation.
53:00 Being available versus being on demand.
54:00 Working with ideal clients.
55:45 The Fed doesn’t understand banking.
1:03:20 Closing thoughts.
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Mar 7, 2022 • 55min
How to Make Money Online, with Brian Dixon
Where do you start in navigating a clear path to impact and income? How do you make money online?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipnicQQZvkk
Brian Dixon says to start with your people. He’s the marketing mentor and business coach who helps you get the clarity to grow your business.
So if you want to create a sustainable business, market with confidence, and make money authentically … tune in now!
Table of contentsStarting Your Entrepreneurial JourneyStart with Value to Make Money OnlineYour Past Can Direct Your FutureBrian’s 3 Steps to Finding PurposeThe Power of a Growth MindsetConnect with BrianAbout Brian DixonBook A Strategy Call
Starting Your Entrepreneurial Journey
One of the great things about entrepreneurship is that you can start anywhere, with anything. The world has need of many types of people. Brian Dixon's journey began with music. Aside from writing and performing music, Brian learned how to cold-call venues… and he enjoyed it.
[4:41] “That for me was like my first entrepreneurial journey; [it] was just being the guy that went and got the gigs for the bands. And then I’m like, ‘Wow, people come to the show, so let’s sell them something.’”
Brian’s music journey helped him become a better entrepreneur and taught him the skills needed to provide value to his people. For example, playing gigs helped him learn what kind of merchandise people wanted. This is how you grow a business: find something you love, and learn how to market and grow that into something that creates value for the audience that loves and wants what you offer.
Start with Value to Make Money Online
The key to creating a valuable online business is to do or create something that people want. It’s the secret to all businesses. Money follows value because money represents value. One of Brian’s early businesses began as a way to help the people close to him. In fact, it wasn’t even designed to be a business. He just saw a need for something in the world and made it.
[10:32] “My wife and I took spring break that year and instead of going on vacation, which was well earned working with middle school kids, we decided to stay for a week, for all of spring break, pull ourselves up into the video studio at the school, and we filmed a DVD. And it was called ‘The Internet and Your Kids: Healthy Habits for a Safe Online Home…’ I didn’t even think it was a product yet…I just want[ed] to help these families.”
Brian and his wife simply made the DVDs because they saw that it would help relatives, parents of students, and the students themselves. They sent the files to a print-on-demand company, ordered a few for the classroom, and next thing they knew they had made their first $800.
Your Past Can Direct Your Future
[16:06] “I just fell in love with the idea that I have a message that matters, but you have a message that matters. And I can make a bigger dent in the universe, right, I can make a bigger impact in my lifetime when I help other people figure out how to take the message out of their heart and out of their head and get it onto the web.”
The answer to your purpose, Brian believes, is to look to the very things you or your loved ones have overcome, because chances are there are other people with those same struggles who need to get where you are.
[18:56] “I’d say you have to mine your past for diamonds. You look back and you go, what is it that I have overcome? What is it that I have struggled with, or somebody that I love and know has struggled with, and I helped them?”
Brian’s 3 Steps to Finding Purpose
When Brian helps clients find their own voice and business, he uses a three step process to unearth their message. The first step is to identify the pain points that you have experience solving. Then, you find the promise, or the promised land. You might be there right now. As Brian puts it, the ‘you’ who was experiencing the pain in the past wants to be where you are now, on the other side of the problem.
The third step is to identify the path to get to the promise. In other words, you know the pain you’ve experienced, you know what’s on the other side of that pain. Now you just need to retrace those steps to guide others along that path too.
Once you know your “3 Ps,” Brian suggests sharing it for free. Talk about it on social media, and connect with people with who your message resonates. Eventually, a next step will reveal itself; people will reach out and ask you how you did it.
[22:07] “You can help people who are stuck where you used to be stuck. And you’re the best case study because you’ve lived it, like you’re still here today, and that’s awesome.”
The Power of a Growth Mindset
Brian shares in building his own business, he found early on that he wasn’t getting repeat clients. After some time, he decided to send out a survey to his contacts for feedback. Surprisingly, a lot of his feedback was that he wasn’t focused enough on relationships. So he used that feedback to really nurture his clients.
What really drove Brian’s growth, though, was that he had the ability to separate feedback from personal attack. In other words, the responses to his survey were not about his character flaws. The feedback simply represented how Brian was showing up for clients, and it wasn’t in the way that many of them wanted. So he adjusted. We can all be more growth-minded if we detach our ego from our business and simply look at our ability to show up and solve problems for people in the most effective way possible.
Of course, there’s a balance to strike. Some people may find that their business is too relationship-driven for some clients, and it takes longer to get down to business. Knowing who you are and how you get results is as important as showing up for clients in the ways they need you to.
[39:01] “I think if I end up at the top of the mountain and the top of my industry, but I burned all these bridges along the way, that’s not success. In the same way it’s not success if my kids hate me, it’s not success if my clients hate me.”
Connect with Brian
Brian Dixon brian@briandixon.combriandixon.com/blueprint1-6194567579
About Brian Dixon
“And I believe that you were made for a purpose. By clarifying your calling, discovering your audience, and creating your products, you can navigate a clear path to impact and income.
My mission is to help authors, speakers, and aspiring messengers to create a sustainable business through navigating tech overwhelm, learning to market with confidence, and making money authentically!
Your message matters! I'm here to help you share your message authentically, make money ethically, and grow your business sustainably.”
Book A Strategy Call
Do you want to coordinate your finances so that everything works together to improve your life today, accelerate time and money freedom, and leave the greatest legacy? We can help! Book an Introductory Call with our team today https://themoneyadvantage.com/calendar/, and find out how Privatized Banking, alternative investments, or cash flow strategies can help you accomplish your goals better and faster. That being said, if you want to find out more about how Privatized Banking gives you the most safety, liquidity, and growth… plus boosts your investment returns, and guarantees a legacy, go to https://privatizedbankingsecrets.com/freeguide to learn more.

Feb 28, 2022 • 1h 4min
Financing with Infinite Banking
Why is financing with Infinite Banking better than paying cash?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZzQ73xBl2TE
Today, we’re answering a listener question about the Infinite Banking Concept. And we're going back to Nelson Nash's book, Becoming Your Own Banker to explain the concept.
So, if you want to better understand the Infinite Banking Concept and how it helps you make more effective financial choices that put you in control… tune in now!
Table of contentsAnswering a Listener QuestionHere’s Dave’s original question:The Short Answer to Financing with Infinite BankingWhat Are the Options for Financing a Car?Why Use a CD?Why You Wouldn't Want to Buy a Car With Cash?The Math of CompoundingIs Financing with Infinite Banking "Paying Yourself Interest"?How is This Method Not a Wash?What Insurance Has that Cash Alone Does NotBook A Strategy Call
Answering a Listener Question
We love to see what our community is saying, and answer any questions. Recently, we had an insightful question from a listener named Dave. Dave's done the homework and read up on Infinite Banking. His question gets to the heart of the concept, so we wanted to dedicate some serious time to answering it.
Here’s Dave’s original question:
"...I do have a question regarding the chart and explanations on page 41 where Nelson Nash discusses the different ways to purchase a car. Methods A, B and C are very familiar to me, but method D and E are new concepts to me. It never occurred to me that I could purchase a car using the Bank C/D method, which shows to be superior to paying cash. Since this is the banking "concept,” but just using someone else's bank I think it is important that I understand how this works and I am just not quite grasping it. I think it would be helpful to me if you could explain and provide examples of how the Bank C/D method works and why is it more effective than paying cash. I can see from the chart that it is obviously better, but I just don't totally understand why. Somewhere I am missing something in my understanding of this concept and I'm not learning it very well from the book. Maybe I am just not seeing the math the same way and it doesn't seem to be explained very well in the book, at least to me. If I store money in a bank and earn interest, but take out a loan from the bank to make a purchase isn't it a wash? Where is the leverage and how does that benefit me? Is it because the interest rate on the C/D is higher than the borrowed interest rate? I know that you have recently been answering questions on your podcast and I hope you will find it worth your time to address this one. It seems to be at the center of how this concept works and once I understand that I think I may have a breakthrough in my understanding. Thanks for your time and effort.”
The Short Answer to Financing with Infinite Banking
Dave’s question is a great one that really addresses why someone would use infinite banking. We think, first of all, that what Nelson Nash did with his book is create options. There are different reasons, both personal and economic, to finance a car with each of his examples. However, leveraging a life insurance policy is often not considered among all the options. Primarily for the reasons that Dave brings up in his question–people aren’t familiar with it, and it can seem complicated.
The short answer is that using life insurance to fund a car allows you to take advantage of uninterrupted compounding. Because while you may pay interest on a loan, you’re also earning interest on the full value of your cash value. This means that you can both take advantage of capital without losing the momentum of your accumulation account's ability to earn interest and grow.
[8:52] “Nelson used to always talk about this: It’s not about the rates of return… it’s about who’s controlling the banking function.”
The person who controls the banking function has the flexibility. While a principle of infinite banking is to be a good steward of your account and pay loans back diligently, a policy loan does have flexibility. With a bank loan, you cannot decide to lower your payment or skip your payment without a penalty. If you wish to do so with a policy loan, you can. Being the banker gives you power.
What Are the Options for Financing a Car?
We’d like to reiterate that the point of Becoming Your Own Banker is not to share the “only” way to do things. Instead, it reveals options and helps expose the pros and cons for each. For example, leasing a car can be the most expensive way to finance a car. And at the end of the lease, you don’t own the car. However, a lease can enable you to drive a car outside of your typical means. While we aren’t recommending this, it’s simply an option. The problem with leasing a car, however, is that there can often be a lot of unknown costs. Most leases, for example, have a mileage cap. Driving over that cap can incur expensive fees, which take many people by surprise.
Other than leasing a car, you can also finance a car through a bank loan, or you can pay in cash. These three methods of financing are all relatively straightforward, and each have pros and cons. In terms of pure cost, leasing is often more expensive, and you typically don’t own the car at the end of the transaction. A loan may be slightly less expensive in the long run, yet you’re still paying interest. Many people see cash as the most advantageous way to buy a car because it eliminates interest payments. Yet, it doesn’t eliminate the interest “cost.” Instead, you incur “opportunity cost,” because you lose the ability to use the lump sum of cash elsewhere, including an interest-earning account.
See: The Right Way to Spend Money: Spender, Saver, or Steward?
Why Use a CD?
In Becoming Your Own Banker, Nelson Nash mentions using a CD (Certificate of Deposit) from a bank as a way to finance a car. This is a similar option that allows you to accumulate money at a higher interest rate than a simple savings account. Once you’ve accumulated (which is necessary for both a CD or life insurance policy), you can utilize the cash stores.
This can be a more efficient way of buying a car than paying in cash. The reason is that not only have you built up capital with which you can borrow; you’ve also created a system of money that is earning a small percentage. If you withdraw enough from your CD to purchase your car, and then continue to buy CDs that earn an interest rate–enough to “catch up” to what you’ve taken–you can combat opportunity cost.
[22:22]“The person who chooses to capitalize a bank of their own by using a CD is at least doing the capitalization. They value putting capital aside and getting that to work for them and earning a return. [They’re] not just letting it sit in a bank account, barely earning anything.”
Why You Wouldn't Want to Buy a Car With Cash?
If you have the cash to buy a car, why wouldn’t you just do that? This is one of the most common questions when talking about financing. After all, you can clearly see that paying cash eliminates all interest payments, right?
While many people may prefer to pay cash if they can, it’s not as efficient as many people think. This all comes down to “opportunity cost.” If you pay for a car in cash, you don’t have to pay interest, however, you also lose the opportunity to earn interest. In the right financial vehicle, this can make a huge difference.
The Math of Compounding
The more you accumulate, the better the compounding effect will be. If you liquidate your money in a typical savings account, you lose the ability to earn interest on that sum, and your money becomes less efficient. In the same way, paying for a car with cash can cause you to lose potential earnings. Not only does your cash lose future earnings potential—but the account you’ve drawn from also loses the momentum of compounding.
Dividend-paying whole life insurance policies, for example, can actually create a lot of opportunities for you. Let’s say that with dividends and interest, you earn about 5% on your account. Additionally, your premiums also contribute to your cash value. Every time your account increases, you’re earning on that new total. That’s the compounding effect.
The point is not just that you’re earning a rate of return with whole life insurance. The wider benefit is that your reserves are not disturbed, and yet you still have access to them. When you remove money from your savings account or CD, you are only earning interest on the remainder. With a policy loan, you continue to earn interest on the full amount of your assets, while also leveraging it for a purchase.
Is Financing with Infinite Banking "Paying Yourself Interest"?
[25”52] “To put this in layman’s terms, currently every insurance company except a few…are all hovering around five percent, because they base it upon the Moody Bond Index. The interest rate that you have to pay back to the insurance company. So Nelson would say, why not charge yourself eight percent, why not charge yourself ten percent?”
That additional three or five percent that you charge yourself is going into the PUAs. It’s not magic, it’s simply a way to encourage you to save more money, and accumulate more efficiently. It’s important to note that you are not paying yourself interest, though you may hear this from some people. You are simply paying into the PUAs, or paid-up additions, which are an optional portion of your whole life insurance. If you’re already maximizing your PUAs, there will be no room to make additional interest payments into your policy.
[29:50] “When you borrow from your cash value in a whole life insurance policy, there is an interest rate associated with paying back that loan. The interest rate, say it’s five percent, is not interest you pay to yourself, that’s the interest you pay to the insurance company for the use of their money.”

Feb 21, 2022 • 59min
How to Raise Great Kids and Create Generational Family Wealth, with Keith Whitaker
How do you raise confident, successful, happy children who use their uniqueness to contribute the most in the world? What kind of family leadership do you need, so that you build strong families? And what is the secret to generational family wealth, really?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUGCz2R830g
Parenting is one of the most complex tasks we will ever face. It can feel like a mountain of skills our kids need to gain—everything from arithmetic to writing essays to public speaking to driving to finding their passion, choosing a college, a career, and a mate, to making and managing money, and eventually raising their own family.
Families with money have compounded challenges. That’s because, often, the rising generation is overlooked, falling into the shadow of silence.
We’re talking with Keith Whitaker, an educator who consults with leaders and rising generation members of enterprising families. The last time we had him on the show we discussed his book Complete Family Wealth.
Today we’re exploring the question: how do I parent well and teach my children to become wise stewards of wealth, so that money doesn’t corrupt them?
So, if you want to help your children to make good decisions as they decide on a college major, choose a career path, find a partner, parent their own children, use and make money, and ultimately serve as the bridge to connect families across generations, you need to hear this one thing. Tune in now!
Table of contentsGenerational Family Wealth: Qualitative WealthHuman CapitalThe Three Stages of LifeCommunicating with Your ChildrenUnderstanding Your ChildrenExamining Your Ideas About MoneyThe Family BusinessGenerational Family Wealth: The Voice of the Rising GenerationYour Hopes vs. Their HopesConnect with Keith:About Keith WhitakerBook A Strategy Call
Generational Family Wealth: Qualitative Wealth
There's quantitative wealth, and then there's qualitative. The former is money—what most people think of as wealth. However, when looking at a unit, in the context of generational family wealth, it's critical to examine qualitative wealth. In other words, we must consider "human capital" as a part of the family's wealth.
Human capital is comprised of personal strengths, passions, and skills that every human possesses. Knowing and fostering human capital as a part of the family wealth system is crucial. This is what helps our children to become well-rounded, capable, and confident people. People who can thrive and carry on the family legacy, for true generational family wealth.
So how do parents help their children grow their human capital?
Human Capital
[5:28] “Even though the context is family, the focus is on individuals, and that goes back to another principle we have. Our own thinking about family wealth is that really great families or healthy families are made up of great or healthy individuals. So sometimes, especially in the context of large financial wealth, people have a tendency to focus on the family. Having a hundred-year family plan, having a hundred-year constitution, talking about family values–-all of those things are important, but they really pale in comparison to the importance of helping each individual in that family grow and be as healthy as strong, as confident in him or herself as can be.”
Without fostering individual confidence and capability, you can have all of the documents and mission statements in the world, and they will simply be words. You must raise children who feel heard, and can develop their own unique abilities in a way that serves the family's greater purpose.
Keith suggests you ask yourself what good parenting is? This question is important regardless of wealth because every family involves parenting. Only then can you layer on the aspects of parenting with wealth involved.
The foundation of this conversation is good parenting, and what that looks like to you. Then you can introduce special considerations that come with significant wealth. These components combined allow you to raise children who are confident and capable. And, they can also understand the context of generational family wealth.
The Three Stages of Life
Once you've considered your parenting style, you must adapt to your children's needs. Keith breaks down the stages of life into three major categories—each having different needs. First, you have your young children, from infancy to about eleven years old. Then, you have children from twelve to twenty, in the prime of their school-years. Finally, you have people twenty-one and older.
The first stage, parents are the major influence. Children in this stage use their parents as their primary example for behavior. At the middle stage, children begin to develop more tightly knit friendships, and their circle widens. People at this stage are firmly in their schooling years, and they have more mentors in their lives. Then, you have children who are 21 and up—they're leaving school and entering the workforce. This is the time where children become adults, and start shaping their own lives, and building families. It's the epic journey stage.
Throughout these stages, parents must navigate verbal communication–what you tell kids to do—and non-verbal communication, which is what you teach through example. For younger children, those behavioral, non-verbal communications are the MOST important. Young children watch you closely, and they pick up habits and behaviors from you at this stage.
Communicating with Your Children
This is an important time to ask yourself: do your actions line up with the things that you say and are trying to teach to your children?
For the middle group, verbal communications are more important. However, you also have less of your children’s time and attention, so you must be more strategic. Spend more time, at this stage, being intentional with what you say to your children.
Above all, it's important that your actions and words truly align with the values you say are important to you. For example, if acts of service are your greatest value, acting in alignment with that is crucial. It's how you teach your children what it means to be of service to others. The words you speak will also have a profound impact.
So while it’s great to outline your values in words, as a point of reference, it's even more important to live and speak in accordance with those values. Especially in your darkest hours. This is what your children will learn from you, after all.
Understanding Your Children
Your children, while able to learn and adopt habits, also have their own God-given nature, or disposition. Recognizing that your child is an independent person with their own nature can help you better connect with and understand them. This is especially true if their nature is much different from yours. All children are different. And knowing your child's nature can help you instill the right habits for success in your child.
Habits are learned through imitation. Therefore, the things that you do tend to have a larger effect on your children than the things you say. If you want to model good personal grooming, better eating habits, or foster a love of reading—doing those things yourself will go a long way. Your children will pick up some of your habits through imitation, so being aware of what you project is important.
Next to action, speech is the weakest cause of action. We tend to over-focus on speech—in other words, what we tell our children to do or value. This, however, is the weakest compulsion to take action. Of course, words become more important as your child ages. The key is for your actions and words to match; your children will notice.
Nature and habit together inform what your children do, and how they do things. The secret is to understand your children and who they are, and to develop habits in alignment with your own values that your children can pick up.
Examining Your Ideas About Money
In the context of wealth, what you say and do will rub off on your children. In order to impart the wisdom of wealth that you have to your children, it’s crucial to recognize your own story about money. Do the deep internal work of understanding the factors that are driving your words and actions around money so that you can project the right messages and habits to your children.
This means addressing your fears about money, fixing your relationship to money, and being very careful how you talk about it in front of your family. A scarcity mindset can even extend to non-financial topics, so practice abundance in all things.
The Family Business
Many families of means have aspirations for their children to join the family business one day. Keith shares an interesting insight about his approach with his family and those he consults. He shares that it's important to give children their own time before pulling them into the fold of the family business.
In other words, let them make their own way for a while. If you were hiring outside the family, you'd likely be seeking someone with experience. Give your children the same leeway. First, this ensures that they can develop a sense of self outside of the family business. They'll learn more about who they are and what they want outside of the family business for the first 3-5 years of their career. Then, if they do choose to join the family business, they can come back into the family fold with confidence and certainty that they’re a good fit for the job.
This is much better all-around for children–it eliminates entitlement and also lets children know that they are still of value if they choose a different path. This also gives your children the space to learn how to make it on their own. This is knowledge that can only help them.
Generational Family Wealth: The Voice of the Rising Generation
When wealth is involved, how do you keep from overshadowing your children?

Feb 14, 2022 • 52min
The Love of Money: Is it the Root of All Evil?
Many people believe that money is the root of all evil. But is money really evil? Is the love of money evil?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1zVsI6Inpg
Today, we’re taking on a topic that creates so much confusion, tension, and challenge for people. We’re talking about money, the love of money, and the real root of all evil.
And we’re revealing how this one huge mistake in our thinking literally causes all the money problems we see in our own life and the world.
So if you want to dig deep into what the love of money is—and what it isn’t—so that you can flourish in the right relationship with people, yourself, and with God… tune in now!
Table of contentsWhat Does the Bible Say About the Love of Money?Understanding the Context of Money in the BibleIs This “Prosperity Gospel”?Reconciling What We Know with What We DoIs Money the Root of All Evil?New Living TranslationThe MessageThe Amplified TranslationThe Love of MoneyWhy “Loving Money” is EasyMoney is a ToolParting Thoughts About the Love of MoneyBook A Strategy Call
What Does the Bible Say About the Love of Money?
Earlier this year, we had special guest Rabbi Daniel Lapin join us to talk about his book Thou Shall Prosper. We thought his biblical wisdom about money was so profound, and we actually had him join our show two more times this year. However, we also received many comments about biblical interpretation. We thought it would be a good idea to break down what we interpret in the Bible.
As we lay the groundwork for this discussion, we think it’s important to point out that English-speakers are reading a translation. We don’t have the benefit of reading the text in its original language. As such, there are many modern translations we can seek, with different interpretations. Then, on top of that, we have our own human interpretation of the texts we read.
The Money Advantage is not a ministry, but a business. As entrepreneurs, and particularly as ones in the financial, we talk about money. Wealth can be a taboo topic in many religious circles, and in an effort to talk about money from all angles, we want to touch on biblical wealth. Whatever you believe, we think this topic can help to assuage shame or guilt around money.
Understanding the Context of Money in the Bible
Many people draw their feelings and philosophy on money directly from the Bible. When you’re building and protecting your wealth, it’s important to have a solid understanding of things so that you can make the best decisions possible. Without it, you’re financially coasting.
We think this same logic can apply to your understanding of money in a biblical sense. If your entire philosophy of money is Biblically centered, it makes sense to dig deeper. The more you can understand the cultural context and original meaning of the text, the more concrete your understanding can be.
Is This “Prosperity Gospel”?
Prosperity Gospel is a term that often comes with negative connotations. Wikipedia defines this as:
A religious belief among some Protestant Christians that financial blessing and physical well-being are always the will of God for them, and that faith, positive speech, and donations to religious causes will increase one's material wealth.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prosperity_theology
This, however, is not the reason that we find value in looking at the Biblical context of money. We believe that wealth is something accessible to all and is directly proportional to the amount of value you provide others, and the number of people you provide value to. However, we live in a society that often vilifies wealth, which can cause negative feelings to fester within us all.
However, based on our own understanding of the Bible, we see that wealth is not “evil,” or something to be despised. This does not, however, mean that we advocate that the wealthy are favored by God more than others.
We are proponents of obtaining wealth through peaceful trade, and believe it’s noble to do so. We aren’t saying that God promises you wealth in the 20th century if you simply have faith—we believe that money is a tool, it’s amoral. It’s a magnifier of your soul–it will make you more of who you are.Lucas Marshall - The Money Advantage CEO
The core of our belief is that each individual is talented and gifted in a unique way. When you can use those talents and gifts to create value for others, you can become wealthy–no guarantees.
Reconciling What We Know with What We Do
The bottom line: the Bible influences the way much of our country thinks about money. False interpretations can lead to shame, guilt, and internal conflict that hold people back from taking control of their money.
The belief that money is evil often exists simultaneously in our minds with a desire or drive to make more money. This incongruence can be damaging for many people. It causes many people to question what it says about them that they care about something that is “evil.”
Is Money the Root of All Evil?
Let’s consider different translations of a popular passage about money: I Timothy 6:9-10
New Living Translation
9 But people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish and harmful desires that plunge them into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Timothy+6%3A9-10&version=NLT
The Message
9-10 But if it’s only money these leaders are after, they’ll self-destruct in no time. Lust for money brings trouble, and nothing but trouble. Going down that path, some lose their footing in the faith completely and live to regret it bitterly ever after.https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Timothy+6%3A9-10&version=MSG
The Amplified Translation
9 But those who [are not financially ethical and] crave to get rich [with a compulsive, greedy longing for wealth] fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction [leading to personal misery]. 10 For the love of money [that is, the greedy desire for it and the willingness to gain it unethically] is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves [through and through] with many sorrows.https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Timothy+6%3A9-10&version=AMP
The Love of Money
These translations have subtle differences, yet one thing is clear. It’s not money itself that is evil, it’s the love of money or the lust for it over all else. We interpret this that those who put money above all else, selfishly, can succumb to disaster. When money becomes more important than God and other people, it becomes a problem.
In the original Greek text, as the New Testament was originally written, “love of money” is a single word in Greek: Philarguria. The most accurate translation we have in English is “avarice,” which Merriam-Webster defines as “excessive or insatiable desire for wealth or gain.”
The deeper you study, the more you see these words come up: covetous, greedy, cruel, extortion, self-seeking, and unethical. In all senses, the flaw here is not money, but people who will do unethical things to obtain money.
Loving money properly translated results in either:
covetousness: "ruthless self-seeking and an arrogant assumption that others and things exist for one's own benefit."avarice: "miserly and stinting, withholding and keeping such things as thou hast, without rightful need."
Why “Loving Money” is Easy
[25:43] “It can feel that the answer to having everything that you want in life is more money. And it can feel that there’s never a point that you have enough…If you’re always seeking more money, the challenge can be that when you get the ‘more money,’ you still feel the emptiness. You still feel that somehow there’s still not enough.”
Many times, money can feel like the answer to all of our problems. We think money will bring more success, deeper relationships, more time…the list goes on. However, putting money above all can actually weed out the things we want to keep in our lives. In the end, if we’re not satisfied now with the things we DO have that make our lives richer, the pursuit of money will continue to lead to feelings of emptiness. And unfortunately, this persists unless we change our money mindset.
[28:00] “If we can figure out how to be content and at peace with exactly what we have, right now…then having more will feel good. But if ‘enough’ doesn’t satisfy, there’s no amount of money that will ever be enough.”
Furthermore, desiring money isn’t inherently wrong. It’s the unhealthy relationships with money that can corrupt. In other words, money before all else, including people, quality, and ethics.
Money is a Tool
Rather than seeing money as a cure, it’s wiser to view it as a tool. When we do good, honest work, in service of other people, money is often a natural result of that. Providing value and service to our fellow man can create wealth as a by-product. So it stands to reason that when we care for others and the work that we do for them, we create value for ourselves.
In this scenario, there’s love, not evil. And because you are putting people (and God) first, above money, you are not going down that self-destructive path. If you make more money, your soul is not inherently at risk. You won’t sabotage yourself for creating money as a result of helping others.
When you recognize your own value and the value of those that you serve, you will lift a lot of the limits you place on yourself about money and wealth.
[42:10] “The proper love of money, then,

Jan 31, 2022 • 44min
What Is a Modified Endowment Contract?
What is a Modified Endowment Contract, and what does it have to do with life insurance?
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If you’re using Infinite Banking as a savings tool, you want to avoid having your policy become a MEC. But what exactly are modified endowment contracts? How does it change the taxation on your life insurance policy? Why does it exist, and when might you want to use a MEC?
If you want to know more about how to use Infinite Banking to accomplish your financial goals… tune in now!
Table of contentsWhy the MEC Rule ExistsDefining the Modified Endowment ContractHow Modified Endowment Contracts WorkThe Tax Consequences of Modified Endowment ContractsThe 7-Pay TestIs There An Upside to Having a Modified Endowment Contract?How to Avoid MEC StatusStay Strategic, Not OverfundedBook A Strategy Call: Build a Policy That Works for YouWe offer two powerful ways to help you create lasting impact:
Why the MEC Rule Exists
Back in the late 1980s, the IRS noticed that some people were putting large sums of money into life insurance policies, not to protect their families, but to take advantage of the tax-free growth.
These policies were being used more like investment vehicles than insurance. So in 1988, Congress stepped in and created the Modified Endowment Contract rule as part of the Technical and Miscellaneous Revenue Act (TAMRA).
The goal wasn’t to punish anyone. It was to make sure that life insurance stayed true to its original purpose - protecting families, not becoming a tax shelter. A modified endowment contract life insurance policy is simply one that crosses the funding limits and gets reclassified for tax purposes.
MEC rules don’t penalize policyholders; they just keep life insurance structured fairly. By drawing a line between insurance and investment, the IRS helped preserve the benefits of permanent life insurance for those who use it as intended.
Defining the Modified Endowment Contract
There are a lot of great reasons to have a whole life insurance policy. This includes tax advantages, uninterrupted compounding growth, and income protection. It’s the ideal vehicle for an infinite banking strategy; however, you can lose these benefits if you overfund your policy.
When you put too much money into a whole life insurance policy, it becomes something called a Modified Endowment Contract. When a policy becomes an MEC, it loses its tax advantages. The IRS created this legislation to cut down on what they deemed as taking advantage of life insurance.
The original purpose of life insurance's tax advantages was to incentivize people to buy insurance. That’s because life insurance can protect families financially from a loss of income during a difficult time. This also prevents the government from having to commit tax dollars toward supporting these families. The government first implemented these benefits with a specific purpose in mind: to be a win for families. They didn't create the advantages as a loophole.
In order to protect the original intent of life insurance—to provide a death benefit—the IRS decided that if policyholders didn’t follow certain guidelines, it would functionally be classified as an investment, rather than an insurance policy.
How Modified Endowment Contracts Work
Let’s consider an example. Say you want to buy a life insurance policy with a $1 million death benefit. The least you can pay, or the “floor,” is going to be term insurance. This is the most affordable premium option; however, it only includes the temporary death benefit and nothing more.
What you can pay on a million-dollar policy, however, is a sliding scale. You can have different life insurance products or structures that change the premium. For example, you can have whole life insurance, structured in a few different ways. Typically, the higher your premium, the more benefits you get, including living benefits like a cash value account.
A whole life insurance policy structured for infinite banking is at the top of this scale. Largely because of all the living benefits. Tax-favorable growth, uninterrupted compounding interest, and tax-free access via policy loans. These are just a few benefits, on top of your permanent insurance.
The MEC rule creates an official “cap” to the sliding scale, preventing people from paying beyond the maximum, as they did prior to the late 80s. Now, if you go through the pay ceiling, you still have life insurance, but it will no longer have the same tax treatment.
You might say it’s like crossing a line between tax-free savings and a taxable investment. Once you go beyond the threshold, the policy keeps functioning, but the tax perks change.
Even when a policy becomes a modified endowment contract, it still provides a death benefit and permanent coverage. What changes is how you’re taxed when you access the living benefits, like loans or withdrawals.
The Tax Consequences of Modified Endowment Contracts
With a modified endowment contract, your death benefit still passes to your heirs tax-free; however, your living benefits no longer receive the same tax advantages. If you take a policy loan with an MEC contract, you will have to pay income taxes on that money. Additionally, if you withdraw money from your cash value before age 59 ½, you will be subject to penalties.
An MEC policy gets similar treatment as a 401(k) or an IRA. If you are choosing to use whole life insurance primarily as a savings tool, or as an infinite banking policy, it’s important that you don’t MEC your policy.
The 7-Pay Test
To determine which policies are classified as modified endowment contracts, the IRS uses a test known as the 7-pay test. Essentially, to keep a policy from becoming a MEC, one must pay premiums for at least 7 years. In addition, the death benefit must be suitable for the premium, as calculated by actuaries.
In other words, if you over-fund in less than 7 years, your policy becomes a modified endowment contract. For example, single-premium life insurance policies will always be a MEC because they’re over-funded within the 7-year time frame.
This 7-year window can also start over any time there’s a material change. A material change is an event that increases the death benefit of your policy beyond its normal growth. If you have a convertible term insurance rider, for example, and then you convert the term later, the 7-year window starts over.
The specific calculations can be complicated, and even now, the limits of endowment contracts are changing under the updated 7702 rule. However, when you buy a policy with a mutual life insurance company, it sends reminders if you overfund your policy. In other words, you won’t accidentally MEC your policy; your insurance company will give you a heads-up.
Is There An Upside to Having a Modified Endowment Contract?
There’s not necessarily a benefit to having a modified endowment contract; however, it’s not always a bad thing to MEC a policy.
While a MEC changes the tax treatment of the living benefits, the death benefit of a MEC still passes tax-free to heirs. If you don’t foresee leveraging your living benefits and want to maximize your legacy in a short time frame, you might not mind having a MEC. This is especially true if you’re funding a policy later in life and feel like you’re catching up.
The premiums you pay translate directly to cash value growth, and the cash value is the accessible portion of your death benefit. So when you over-fund the policy, you can also drive up the overall death benefit. It’s just an inefficient way to do things if you hope to use your cash value for life insurance loans.
Some people also intentionally use a modified endowment contract for quick growth when access to liquidity isn’t their main concern. That said, most people using Infinite Banking prefer to avoid MEC status, since tax-free access to cash value is central to the strategy.
The real takeaway from this is that any policy has the potential to become a Modified Endowment Contract if it’s not watched over carefully and funded correctly.
How to Avoid MEC Status
The best way to avoid accidentally creating a modified endowment contract is to be intentional with how you fund your policy. MEC status doesn’t just happen overnight; it’s the result of putting in too much money, too fast, without staying within IRS guidelines.
One key tip is to work closely with an experienced life insurance advisor who understands how endowment contracts work and how to structure your policy properly. A well-designed policy will include built-in buffers that keep you safely below the MEC limits, even if you’re contributing aggressively.
It’s also important to fund your policy gradually. Life insurance companies track your premium schedule and will typically send alerts if you’re close to triggering modified endowment contract status. Pay attention to those notifications, and don’t ignore them.
Finally, be aware that policy changes can reset the clock. Adding riders or increasing your death benefit can trigger a “material change,” which starts a new 7-pay test. That’s why it’s always smart to double-check with your advisor before making major adjustments.
Stay Strategic, Not Overfunded
A Modified Endowment Contract isn’t a mistake; it’s just a classification. It tells you how the IRS views your life insurance policy for tax purposes. Understanding what triggers MEC status can help you fund your policy more effectively and keep your Infinite Banking strategy working the way it’s meant to.
When you plan ahead, work with knowledgeable advisors, and keep an eye on long-term impacts, you can avoid unintentional overfunding and preserve the full benefits of your policy. The key is to stay strategic, so your policy stays efficient, tax-advantaged, and aligned with your goals.
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