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Chris Stefanick | Real Life Catholic
The world says the Catholic Faith is boring. And too often, we act like we believe it. Ready to live your Faith like an adventure instead? Chris Stefanick wants to help you live the JOY God created you for, right here and now. Hit Play and get rolling!
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Jan 24, 2026 • 6min
Feeling Small? Here's What God Thinks of You
Have you ever felt small? Like just one person among nearly 8 billion—how could you possibly matter?
That's no doubt how the apostles felt...fishermen of little consequence by the world's standards.
Until Jesus called them by using a phrase that rabbis would use to call specially gifted students: "Come follow me."
They were hearing something they'd dreamt of their whole lives—something they thought had passed them by.
That's why they dropped everything instantly.
They mattered to Jesus. And so do you.
God’s attention isn’t divided. He’s infinite. Which means He gives you His full, undivided love—right now...and he's calling you the same way: "Come follow me."
In those small-feeling moments, remember that God is perpetually pouring His grace over you. Sometimes we forget that God is there loving us, but He never forgets about us.
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. When do you most struggle with feeling insignificant or unseen? What triggers those thoughts?
2. How does the idea that God gives infinite attention to each person change the way you see your relationship with Him?
3. What would it look like for you to truly believe that God is calling you personally—not just Christians in general?
4. Are there moments in your life when you felt like God's call to you was clear? What were you called to and how did you respond?
5. What is one concrete way you can respond to God's call this week?
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Jan 20, 2026 • 57min
What the Catholic Church REALLY Says About Suicide | Fr. Chris Alar
Suicide rates are rising—and almost all of us have been touched by it. If you’ve ever wondered “What happens to someone who dies by suicide?” or felt crushed by fear, guilt, or unanswered questions, this episode will bring you real hope.
I sit down with Fr. Chris Alar, author of After Suicide, to unpack what the Catholic Church actually teaches: why suicide is grave matter, why that does not automatically mean someone is damned, and how God can work mercy in ways we can’t see.
Our conversation also touches briefly on the lie behind assisted suicide and Fr. Chris tells a beautiful story that explains the power of offering up your suffering as a prayer for the living and those who have died.
We also talk about practical warning signs and what to do when someone is struggling with suicidal ideation.
If you’ve lost someone, love someone who’s struggling, or you’re carrying silent pain yourself—this conversation is for you. God's mercy is real—and it's powerful beyond our human comprehension.
Get Fr. Chris' book "After Suicide": https://www.amazon.com/After-Suicide-Theres-Hope-Them/dp/1596144343
Highlights:
0:00 Intro
5:00 The myth: “Suicide = automatic hell”
9:45 Catechism 2282: mitigating factors & God’s mercy
22:45 Catechism 2283: don’t despair—God can act in ways we can’t see
29:10 Your prayers can still matter (even when it feels “too late”)
37:03 Why some people prefer legalism over mercy
42:12 Suicide today is not an epidemic but a pandemic
44:35 The #1 risk factor for those considering suicide
46:13 Warning signs + what to say when you’re worried about someone
50:11 “I’m a burden” — the lie behind assisted suicide/euthanasia
56:18 Closing prayer + blessing
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger or considering self-harm: please call 988 (U.S. Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or your local emergency number right now. If you’re outside the U.S., look up your country’s crisis line and reach out immediately.
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Jan 17, 2026 • 9min
Lessons in Joy from a Child's Funeral
I recently had the honor of being at the funeral of Micah Kim, the five-year-old son of my friend Paul J. Kim. And I don’t use the word honor lightly.
Because while the pain of losing a child is unimaginable…what I witnessed there was just as unimaginable: JOY.
At Micah’s wake, Paul stood next to his son’s casket—his little body dressed in cowboy boots—and he pointed and said:
“That’s my son’s body. He’s not there. My son is alive.”
Paul said they gave Micah the greatest gift a parent can give: baptism. His passport to heaven. And then I watched this family walk down the aisle behind the casket—hands on it, tears streaming down Paul’s face—and his other hand lifted high in praise as we sang Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.
Listen to my reflection to hear how Paul's witness of joy in the face of tragedy and Micah's brief life are both tied to the truth of our baptism—that we are beloved children of God and he wants us to live forever with him.
In baptism, we are sealed in this identity and receive our ticket to heaven. We just need to lean into his love and let his grace transform our lives.
Our days here are numbered. But heaven is real, it lasts forever, and you don't need to prove yourself to earn God's love. Receive it!
Follow Paul J. Kim on Instagram to see how God is already using Micah for his glory: https://www.instagram.com/heypjk
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Have you ever witnessed faith lived out powerfully in the middle of suffering? What impact did it have on you?
2. Do you think our culture understands joy the way Christianity does? Why or why not? How does the Christian understanding of hope differ from simply “staying positive”?
3. Does your baptism shape your identity? What does it mean to you that, at baptism, the Father looks at you and says, “That’s my son. That’s my daughter”?
4. Where in your life do you find yourself trying to earn God's love or prove your worth? How can you work against that mindset?
5. What can you do this week to live like holiness is your top priority? What needs to change?
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Jan 10, 2026 • 9min
You’re Not Abandoned in the Hardest Moments
Explore the unexpected ways God meets us in our lowest moments. Discover how the location of Jesus' baptism symbolizes divine presence in our struggles. Chris shares the warmth of God's words, reminding us we are cherished children, especially when times are tough. Hear a friend's inspiring journey of finding joy through faith amid trials. Learn practical ways to invite grace in dark times and lean into loving affirmations, offering hope when you feel abandoned.

Jan 3, 2026 • 10min
God is Hiding in Plain Sight | Reflection on the Epiphany of the Lord
God often reveals Himself in the ordinary, particularly during the celebration of the Epiphany. The scene centers on a humble child and a nursing mother, showing that divine beauty often hides in plain sight. The podcast explores how distractions have dulled our ability to recognize miracles around us. Emphasizing the importance of cultivating a contemplative heart, it encourages listeners to find God in everyday moments, from the Eucharist to family interactions. Chris concludes with a call to live in continual wonder.

Dec 30, 2025 • 1h 10min
How to Keep Your New Year's Resolution | Fr. Peter Mussett
Fr. Peter Mussett, a seasoned Catholic priest, shares profound insights from his extensive experience with confession. He explores why many struggle to change, emphasizing the crucial role of conscience and mercy. Discover how habit stacking can help break bad habits and why unforgiveness leads to temptation. Fr. Peter discusses the importance of moving from reactive to reasoned living and the transformative power of trusting God's mercy. This enlightening conversation offers practical strategies for real change and self-reflection.

Dec 27, 2025 • 7min
Surviving Your Current Chaos with Confidence
Discover the striking parallels between Old Testament Joseph and St. Joseph, illustrating deep themes of trust and divine plan. Both faced chaos and uncertainty yet found peace through faith. The connection between their experiences highlights how envy can lead to persecution. The podcast emphasizes that our personal struggles are just one page of a larger story that unfolds according to God's will. Gain insight into living confidently amidst life's challenges, inspired by the saints' trust in a grand narrative.

Dec 22, 2025 • 1h 8min
Exclusive Interview with Santa Claus | What It's Like to Be Santa (Eddie Cotter, Jr.)
Eddie Cotter, Jr. is not just a Catholic youth minister but also a talented Santa portrayal artist, known for his heartwarming role at Rockefeller Center. He shares how he accepted the calling to become Santa for his autistic grandson, making a profound connection. The discussion flows from captivating tales of Santa school to the deeper meanings of Christmas traditions. Santa himself joins in, reflecting on the essence of kindness, the hope behind the naughty list, and urging everyone to embody the spirit of generosity and love during the holiday season.

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Dec 20, 2025 • 10min
What are you really worth? | Advent Reflection
As Christmas approaches, the reflection highlights our true worth through the lens of the Christ child. Listeners are invited to see how God’s sacrifice reveals their value, encouraging self-care and dignity. The discussion stresses valuing oneself and others, likening it to the reverence of the Eucharist. It challenges negative self-talk and emphasizes understanding sin as a devaluation of our worth. The core message inspires taking a moment to reflect on our identity in Christ and to honor that intrinsic worth every day.

Dec 16, 2025 • 59min
How You Influence 80,000 People with Tommy Spaulding
Tommy Spaulding, leadership expert and author of The Gift of Influence, shares his journey from rock bottom to rediscovering his value as a child of God. He emphasizes that each person influences around 80,000 others, using the metaphor of a packed stadium to reflect on our impact. Tommy discusses the power of small gestures, like receiving 50 heartfelt letters from loved ones. He advocates for servant leadership over self-serving influence and highlights the importance of intentional interactions to create a legacy of love.


