Fatherhood Field Notes

On this Friday Craft of Fatherhood episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, Ned shares about a recent shift he's implemented in his family's morning routine: a ten minute time sharing something they're thankful for within the family, then naming somebody they could be praying for... and then doing it.This comes on the heels of asking questions about how we can be really modeling to our kids a lifestyle that will affect the next 100 years, even 1000 years of our family legacy. It's huge.Listen to day and let us know in the comments and your reviews what changes you've been making in your family routine. Then share this episode with a dad!---------Got a son ready to enter manhood? He needs a rite of passage. Check out Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's books hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

By popular demand, we dug deep into the archives to bring you a rewind of an oldie but a goodie from 2020 when Ned sat down with former UFC fighter and Hall of Famer Urijah Faber.Urijah and Fatherhood Field Notes Guide, Ned Schaut, sit down to talk Fatherhood and Dad Life. In 2019 Urijah came out of retirement and fought Ricky Simmons, knocking him out in 46 seconds.But 2019 was also the year that Urijah became a father, one of his life goals... and true to his character, when he goes in, he goes all in. Now in 2020 his family grew with the birth of his second child. Urijah is an intentional man, making the most out of life.You can watch the interview here on YouTube.---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.comEach week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

What if the secret to truly impactful fatherhood isn’t about being perfect but about being present, vulnerable, and intentional?In this episode, Ned's friend, dad and entrepreneur "Hype Man Dan" Chang shares how his own painful childhood fuels his deep commitment to his kids, to revealing the subtle but powerful shifts that transformed his marriage and parenting. His story is a reminder: your legacy can be rewritten, starting today.Timestamps:00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Dan’s journey02:10 - Feeling young at heart despite age03:11 - Highlights from pickleball rivalries & lessons in resilience04:05 - The importance of carving out time with family and friends05:23 - The value of real, honest conversations in male relationships06:39 - What Dan does for a living: Collectibles, art, and entrepreneurship08:15 - From corporate sales to high-end collectibles - Dan’s hustle09:33 - The art and value of Magic: The Gathering and rare trading cards10:24 - The significance of original artwork and grading in collectibles11:56 - Wisdom for entrepreneurs and dads: Perseverance & authenticity12:29 - Overcoming childhood poverty and rejection to build a legacy14:43 - The impact of absent fathers and the importance of presence16:01 - Appreciation and lessons learned from Dan’s dad18:12 - Healing from past abuse and breaking the cycle of generational trauma20:00 - The power of empathy, forgiveness, and choosing a positive legacy22:13 - How Dan’s family history influences his parenting style24:55 - The importance of forgiving past hurts for healing and growth27:01 - Building trust and meaningful bonds with stepchildren28:51 - Embracing imperfect fatherhood and intentional presence31:29 - The significance of instinct, action, and calm leadership34:24 - Self-awareness, humility, and growth as a dad37:00 - Navigating marriage challenges and personal development40:23 - Supporting children’s unique spiritual journeys43:53 - The character traits and skills Dan hopes for his sons45:11 - Honesty, trustworthiness, and the importance of authenticity46:32 - Cultivating human connection and critical thinking in children48:57 - Rebel and create: Disrupting selfishness and promoting service51:04 - Practicing gratitude, presence, and small acts of kindness55:05 - Investing early in legacy and financial wisdom58:47 - Teaching kids about money, consumption, and delayed gratification60:17 - Practical advice for fathers on vulnerability and being present61:37 - The ultimate reward of family connection and authentic love---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.comEach week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

In this episode of Craft a Fatherhood, Ned talks about how powerful he's found it to be intentional about asking his kids a question every day. Big things happen. How are you inquiring about the thoughts, hopes, dreams, challenges your kids are having? Ned has a challenge for all of us on how we can change the very trajectory of our kids' lives just through intentional curiosity.He also shares some thoughts about how to envision the future you want your kids to live, work backwards with a plan for how to get there, and to really live it.---------Got a son ready to enter manhood? He needs a rite of passage. Check out Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's books hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreate

In this episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, host Ned engages in a deep conversation with Mike Yarbrough, co-founder and co-owner of Rustic & Main and Wolf & Iron. They explore the complexities of fatherhood, marriage, and personal growth. They also discuss the importance of connection, communication, and the role of spirituality in parenting.Mike shares his journey of overcoming personal challenges like his marriage and his relationship with his own father. He also talks about getting help with attachment issues. He offers quite a few nuggets on the significance of creating meaningful moments with children, and the impact of homeschooling on family life. The conversation emphasizes the need for fathers to embrace vulnerability, set aspirations for their role, and actively participate in their children's lives. Mike's insights and experiences provide valuable lessons for fathers seeking to navigate the journey of parenthood with intention and purpose.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Backgrounds04:17 Reflections on Age and Personal Growth07:28 Marriage Challenges and Growth10:22 Parenting and Raising Young Adults13:26 Business Ventures and Entrepreneurship16:27 Creating Meaningful Connections through Rings19:15 The Role of Fathers in Family Dynamics20:21 Navigating Teenage Years and Independence21:45 Building a Foundation of Thoughtful Christianity24:57 The Importance of Engaging with Church Messages25:24 Homeschooling Insights and Educational Choices32:21 Making Life Decisions as a Family36:50 Elevating the Role of Motherhood37:52 Creating a Brotherhood for Men40:20 Reflecting on 12 Years of Creation42:00 The Impact of Writing and Connection43:17 Building Community Through Guilds44:45 Fatherhood and Personal Connections47:28 Embracing Fatherhood: Lessons Learned50:15 Advice for Young Dads55:19 Healing Through Connection and Vulnerability---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.comEach week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

In this episode of Craft a Fatherhood, Ned talks about finally getting into golf, being surprised to still to get to know his wife more and the importance of dating your wife. He shares about the significance of rest through the concept of Sabbath. He encourages fathers to actively engage in their families' interests and to create meaningful connections with their partners and children.---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

In this engaging conversation, Patton Dodd, author of the recent book The Father You Get: And the Ones You Make, Believe In, and Become, shares his insights on fatherhood, personal growth, and the power of windshield time with your kids.Dodd reflects on his journey through the challenges of growing up with a removed and isolated father who created hurt and pain in most of his relationships and growing up to turn that into resolve. He emphasizes the significance of vulnerability and mere presence in building connections with his children, while also addressing his own insecurities. The discussion highlights the need for fathers to create safe spaces for open conversations and to rebel against the insecurities that can hinder their relationships with their kids.Order your copy of Patton's book here and be sure to leave a review: https://amzn.to/3ZvTrtk---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?www.adventureoffatherhood.comwww.rebelandcreate.comEach week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

In this Craft of Father episode of the Fatherhood Field Notes podcast, Ned tells about his "death hike" adventure led by his teenage daughter. He reflects on the evolving journey of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of legacy, family values, and the transition of children into independence. He shares his thoughts about his children's adventures and the challenges of homeschooling, while also discussing the significance of intentional fatherhood and mentorship.Takeaways:Adventures with our kids foster independence.Navigating independence is a key part of parenting.Intentional fatherhood requires active engagement.Rites of passage are ongoing throughout life.Teaching dependence on God is crucial.Building relationships with our children is essential.Fatherhood is a journey of personal growth and mentorship.---------This episode is sponsored by Genesis - a Rite of Passage by Rise Up KingsOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

In this episode of the Craft of Fatherhood Podcast, host Ned Schaut reflects on his journey as a father, sharing insights from his experiences and conversations over the past year. He emphasizes the importance of observation in parenting, how impactful it can be to have annual family meetings for reflection on the year and connection, and the sheer power of setting goals and dreams as a family.---------Is your son coming of age as a man? He needs a rite of passage.Check out Genesis. www.riseupkings.com/ffn---------Liked this episode? The Craft of Fatherhood is a weekly short reflection by Ned. For the full Fatherhood Field Notes podcast, check out the weekly releases on Tuesdays!---------Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis

Jim Morrison, a 26-year veteran of marriage and father of three (ages 24, 22, and 19), shares his unconventional approach to fatherhood that rebels against the idea that parenting ends at 18. As an insurance broker with 36 years of experience, Jim has learned to prioritize presence over perfection, building a family culture around travel, embracing failure as a gift, and maintaining deep relationships with his adult children. From coaching losing baseball seasons to picking his son up from LAX at 9 PM just to be the first face he sees, Jim demonstrates that fatherhood is a marathon requiring consistent showing up. He discusses the power of experiences over possessions, the importance of teaching financial literacy, how he and his wife navigated a five-year break before marriage, and why he believes surrounding your kids with the right community matters more than constant advice-giving. Jim's philosophy centers on making his children feel valued and important—not just loved—while preparing them for independence through international travel, mission trips, and letting them experience failure. This conversation will challenge fathers to think differently about their role beyond the teenage years and inspire them to create a family legacy built on experiences, presence, and unconditional relationship.Chapters:(00:00:00) - Introduction: Three Key Nuggets on Fatherhood(00:17:00) - The Role of a Father: Being Present(00:21:00) - When Did Fatherhood Click?(00:24:00) - The Gift of Failure: Book That Changed Everything(00:30:00) - Supporting Adult Kids Without Enabling Them(00:36:00) - Learning from His Own Father's Story(00:42:00) - Choosing Relationship Over Being Right(00:46:00) - Why Family Travel Became Their Foundation(00:50:00) - Favorite Family Vacations: Croatia and Africa(00:55:00) - Work Will Always Be There—Your Kids Won't(00:56:00) - Legacy: Making People Feel Valued and Important---------Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:Rise Up Kings Genesis - a rite of passage for young men & dadsRise Up Kings Genesis