The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Many couples go into marriage having "expectations" or "myths" about how things "should" be in marriage, and most often they are much different than either spouse expects. In this episode, Nick and Amy share the myths, and things they thought were true about marriage that turned out to be totally false (myths) such as marriage would always be full of passion and romance, both spouses would enjoy sex and have matching libidos, both spouses would know what each other wants in the bedroom and figure it out quick, and both spouses could last a long time and sex would be "a marathon".  Nick and Amy also took a poll on instagram and had hundreds of great responses of what myths they had before getting married such as: The husband would have a higher sex drive than his wife, or that they would have sex much more than they do. Instead of feeling let down or feeling like something is wrong in your relationship because what you expected is not the way it is, know that almost every relationship experiences this, but don't let your expectations (or the myths) keep you from finding and having  "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship. Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Elaine and Abe Ramero with the "Love is in the air" podcast about how couples can find balance when dealing with different sex drives. Most couples deal with this, so this is something that is completely normal, but there are ways to help both couples be satisfied when dealing with sexual desire imbalance as both the low desire and the high desire partner are equally responsible for changing the level of sexual intimacy in the relationship. If you are one of those couples, this episode will walk through the steps and ways to help create that balance so you can find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship,Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy discuss the importance of having a "Physical Intimacy Checkup" together as a couple to make sure you are on the same page in your sex life. As most causes of divorces are sex and finances, it is so important to have good open discussions with your spouse about "the bedroom".  In this episode we discuss "why" it is so important to discuss this as a couple, "how" you should discuss it, "what" to discuss, and ways to make it easier to have the discussion. As you have open communication about sexual intimacy in your relationship, you will see your sex life as a couple transform into something even more amazing and beautiful (Ultimate Intimacy).For more details, check out our blog article on this subject by clicking HEREDon't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy open up and get vulnerable and share funny and embarrassing experiences they have had, and fun things they have done and do in their marriage to keep things fun and exciting. This episode will make you laugh and give you ideas to help spice up your marriage.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In Episode 21 Nick and Amy discuss many of the reasons why some spouses do not want to have sex, and some solutions to those reasons. When a spouse does not want to have sex, there is a reason behind it causing them to not want or desire it, but many couples avoid talking about it or addressing the issue and it becomes worse over time. If the reason can be identified, and discussed, it can most often be resolved. Some of the reasons include:  Fear of intimacy, sexual dysfunctions, self confidence issues, stress, distractions, and more. Some are short term and others can be long term and permanent if not addressed. With open communication, and sometimes help from the right expert, most issues can be resolved and couples can find "Ultimate Intimacy" again in their marriage.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we discuss what husbands wish their wive's knew about sex. We took a poll on our social media and asked this question to the husbands,  and had a ton of great responses  and almost every response was exactly what we had prepared to discuss and cover in this podcast!So many problems in marriage happen because of lack of communication, or not understanding how the other spouse "really" feels. We discuss and answer a lot of questions in the episode such as "How does rejection impact a husband?" and  "What do most husbands want more than anything" as well as other vital things that husbands want their wive's to know.Also don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

This is a must listen for all the husbands out there to find out what their wive's are really thinking and wanting :). Nick and Amy talk with Certified Marriage and Life Coach Delonda Owens Tucker about what wive's wish their husbands knew about sex. Do a lot of wive's want to try new things in the bedroom?  What can a husband do help get his wife get in the mood, and many other things you wont want to miss.For more information about DeLonda click HERE or visit the app and find her books under the products section under books.Also don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy talk with Mike and Carlie Kercheval, with Marriage Legacy Builders, and Christian Marriage Adventure about ways to become "one" in marriage. These include how to invest in your spouse, letting go of the past, not forgetting to take care of your own needs, setting goals together and of course how to become "one" emotionally and physically.For more information about Mike and Carlie click HERE And of course you can find many of their great articles, podcasts and other information on the Ultimate Intimacy App.Also don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to have "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In episode 17 Nick and Amy talk with Joseph and Marissa Msefya, certified marriage coaches and Forever Marriages about the 5 ways to build financial intimacy. As many divorces happen due to  money issues, Jospeph and Marissa share tips and easy ways to build financially intimacy in your marriage. This is truly an episode you will not want to miss.To learn more or to contact Joseph and Marissa click HEREAlso don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to have "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode Nick and Amy talk with "Wife Coach" Brenda Moore about vulnerability, and the power of forgiveness that can truly change your marriage.You can learn more about Brenda and her services by clicking HERE Also don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to have "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyappEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!