

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
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Dec 14, 2021 • 35min
44. Our Favorite Marriage Quotes of 2021 To Help Your Marriage
Nick and Amy talk with Akida and Tisha from Couples Connect who have some amazing quotes that can help your marriage. Why is it important to invest in your marriage just like you do financial investments? Can surrounding yourself with couples who have great marriages help yours? Do you look at your spouse and focus on their qualities or their flaws?So much of marriage is perception and how you view and see things through your own eyes. This is a great podcast with simple sayings and reminders as to what you can do to make your marriage more successful and happy!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameAnd check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together all found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Dec 7, 2021 • 37min
43. ALL ABOUT SEX: Sexpectations, What Is Healthy Sex In Marriage, Rejection, And The Importance Of Sex
Lets talk about sex... Nick and Amy discuss Sexpectations in marriage, what healthy sex in marriage looks like, how to address sexual rejection, and the importance of sex in marriage.Almost all couples deal with some sort of sexual imbalance in their marriage as men and women were created with physiological differences... and this is completely normal! So how to do couples get on the same page (or close to) when it comes to sex? Are you afraid to talk to your spouse about your sexual needs? Are you comparing your sex life to others and feel like something is wrong with yours? Are you wanting to learn how to deal with different sexual desires and sex drives and improve your physical intimacy as a couple? This is the episode for you!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameAnd check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together all found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 30, 2021 • 33min
42. 10 Ways To Strengthen Sexual Intimacy During The Holidays
It's the holidays and that busy, stressful time of year again! But that doesn't mean your sex life has to suffer! Your intimacy can be at the highest peak this Holiday Season. In this episode we talk about 10 different ways to keep the Magic in your relationship this Christmas such as: how to connect more intimately daily, how to bring more Christmas romance into your sex life, and how important it is to know your spouses love language and the perfect gifts to fit their language! Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameAnd check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 23, 2021 • 39min
41. How To Bring Back The Honeymoon Stage (sex and intimacy) In Your Marriage
For most couples, when they first get married there are no kids, fewer responsibilities, and a lot less stresses in life. You spend tons of time together and focus all on each other. But that all changes when the kids start coming, careers start getting established and life gets busy. In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Randall and Serena Johnson (The Union Johnsons) about the 7 things couples can do to bring back the passion, excitement, emotional and sexual intimacy in their marriage just like the honeymoon stage... and yes, it is possible!If you are a couple that is looking for ways to re-kindle the fire in your marriage, then this episode is for you!Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameAnd check out our amazing new Ultimate "Intimacy Box" with tons of great products for some unforgettable nights together found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 17, 2021 • 34min
40. How Anxiety Impacts Marriage And Intimacy
In this episode Amy and Nick have the pleasure of visiting with Author Rikki Cloos about how anxiety can impact your relationship and intimacy. So many people (about 50%) deal with some sort of anxiety, and with all the issues going on in our lives that number is increasing as there are so many things to be anxious over. Anxiety is an intimacy blocker and it can make it difficult to connect and hear and understand each other. We discuss what anxiety looks like and how to know if you or your partner is suffering from it. We dive into how anxiety can ruin a relationship and what you can do to prevent it from happening. Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HERE Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 10, 2021 • 34min
39. Porn = Poison In Your Marriage That Will Destroy All Areas Of Intimacy
Nick and Amy interview Tammy Hill who is a licensed marriage and family therapist. We discuss how pornography damages and impacts marriages and the effects it has on both the viewer and the spouse. Tammy states that porn is usually a scapegoat for what is really damaging the relationship and it is an equal opportunity toxic poison. Porn is something that can impact all relationships and needs to be constantly fought against. Some of the key points in this podcast are tips on how to avoid allowing porn into a marriage, how to set boundaries, how porn impacts BOTH spouses, what the most common myths are about porn, and what couples who are dealing with porn in their marriage can do to begin healing from it.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HERE Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review, thank you.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 3, 2021 • 33min
38. How To Stay Present During Sex
Do you ever feel like it is hard to focus during sex? Are you often thinking about other thing, making sex much less enjoyable? Why is it so important not to be distracted during sex and what issues can this cause in your relationship? In episode 38, Nick and Amy have the pleasure of interviewing Dr Kristie Overstreet who is a clinical sexologist, sex therapist, and psychotherapist and podcaster with the "Fix Yourself First" podcast. There are so many things that keep us distracted, and it is often hard to stay present during sex, making it less enjoyable in marriage. In this episode, we cover these important questions and discuss why it is so important to stay focused and present, and how couples can focus and get rid of the distractions during each moment of sexual intimacy. Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HERE Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyappIf you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and reviews if you have time to leave a review, thank you.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 27, 2021 • 32min
37. Understanding Your Desire Styles... For More Frequent And Better Sex!
In this episode Nick and Amy talk about an article written by Cindy Scharkey titled "Understanding your desire style for better sex.” One of the most common arguments in marriage is over how often a couple is having sex. It comes down to one spouse wanting it more than the other which can lead to trouble in the bedroom... and overall relationship issues. It is so important to understand each others "desire styles" and just because couples have mis-matched desire styles doesn't mean something is wrong with you or your spouse, it just means you have a different. When you better understand each other’s differences and discuss openly, things can change in a very positive way. Most men have a spontaneous desire, women are more responsive, and then there is combination desire. In this episode, you will learn about the different desire styles, and how to find balance and Ultimate Intimacy together.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 22, 2021 • 42min
36. Sexual Intimacy is VITAL for Survival in Marriage
"In marriage, sex is like food. It is a basic need vital for survival and it should be healthy, enjoyable and frequent. If it's not enjoyable it will feel like a chore, if it's not frequent you will feel starved, and if it's not healthy it can cause harm.” - Oliver and Denise Marcelle.That is a pretty bold statement, but very true. Just as our bodies need food to survive, so is sex in marriage. It is vital to surviving and having a happy and healthy marriage. In this episode, Amy and Nick have the pleasure of talking with Oliver and Denise Marcelle - Authors, speakers, marriage coaches and podcasters, about why sex is vital for survival in marriage, why is it important for sex to be enjoyable, and why frequency is so important. Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 13, 2021 • 22min
35. How Your Words Can Build or Destroy Intimacy
We often don't consider how what we say to our spouse can impact our emotional and physical intimacy as a couple, but what we say, and how we say it can have lasting effects for the positive or the negative. Are we expressing gratitude for the things our spouses do and the what we have, or are we looking at the negative things and allowing those to bring us down? Do we look at the glass as "half full" or "half empty" and how are we looking at our relationship with our spouse? Do we show respect by what we say to our spouse, or how we are communicating? Nick and Amy share some experiences and their thoughts on how our words can impact our intimacy.Don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Check out our amazing products to help your emotional and physical intimacy such as:- Conversation Starters- 150+ Date Night Ideas- Truth or Dare Game- Romantic and Sexy Coupons- Bedroom GameCheck them out HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!


