The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

We have been watching a show called “Married At First Sight” where 3 relationship and marriage experts/therapists match up couples who then  get married without ever seeing each other prior to getting married. One of the reasons we wanted to watch the show is a couple of the couples from previous seasons in the show, who actually stayed married, have been proponents of our app and have promoted it.It also intrigues us to see couples who haven’t been married before, that are usually in their late 20’s to late 30’s, get married and see if they can fall in love and actually make it work together. We decided to do this podcast episode based upon what we have learned from watching a couple seasons of Married at First Sight, because every time get done watching some episodes, Amy and I look at each other and express how grateful we are for each other and to be married to each other. Often times many of us think the grass is greener on the other side because of what we see on social media or the movies. We have an illusion that things should be perfect. Every time we watch the show, we even more come to the realization that what we have is amazing as many couples just can't find love, get a long, and most the couples end up in divorce.After listening to the episode we hope you realize how lucky you are to have each other and that you can be grateful for what you have instead of focusing on what you don’t have, because most people would give everything they have to have what you have in marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There are many types of sexual intimacy within a marriage and a time and place for each of them. Many couples only experience sex when the time is right, they are both in the mood (or the lower desire spouse approves of it) and the experience is typically the same each time. But sexual intimacy in a relationship doesn't have to be that way! There are MANY ways to experience sex in a relationship and in ways that can make it much more enjoyable, and foster a deeper connection between a couple.In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the various types of sex within a marriage, and why it is so important to experience each one of them periodically in your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Are you a wife that gets frustrated because your husband can't read your mind, doesn't know your thoughts, how you are feeling, or even what you expect of him? Are you a husband that lacks mind reading abilities and doesn't always know what your spouse is thinking, feeling or wanting?It's normal to hear comments from women like "my husband should know how I feel.. I shouldn't have to tell him" or "he should be able to see that I am frustrated!"Image the pressure this puts on a husband to have to try to figure out what his wife wants, needs and expects of him without her communicating it to him.When this happens, the frustration builds up for both spouses which can cause a lot of contention in the relationship when it could have been avoided by simply communicating with each other.Most husbands truly want to give their wife everything they want and desire. And all a wife has to do is tell him what she needs. Yes.. it is just that easy for most relationships.In this episode,  we talk about the reasons why mind reading doesn't work, and why you need to avoid it in your marriage.  We also share the reasons why wive's need to communicate clearly with their husbands. There are many negative consequences that can result from this mind reading assumption.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this insightful podcast episode, Nick and Amy dive into the intricate relationship between parenting older kids and teens, and intimacy within a marriage. We hear from many couples who are struggling with kids and express how their marriage is negatively affected in so many ways because of it.As parents, we invest tremendous effort in guiding our kids toward success and happiness. However, the evolving dynamics can sometimes lead our children down unexpected roads, causing strains on a marriage. We unravel the ways in which these changes can create barriers to intimacy and communication between spouses.Tune into this episode to discover practical strategies for maintaining connection and fostering intimacy amidst the challenges of parenting older kids and teens. Join us as we talk about bridging the gap between parenting and maintaining a thriving, intimate relationship!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

It's time for Sexy September YAY! Are you ready to join us and dive headfirst into a month of intense romance, fiery love-making, and unbreakable connection?  We have all tried a new diet or set a new goal, and have laid out a plan and agenda for this goal right?  It helps to have structure and plans... and this is exactly what we have created for your marriage! It is an entire month plan and it's not just a recharge; it's a Relationship Revolution that's guaranteed to ignite fireworks no matter where your intimacy stands!  Wave goodbye to ordinary marriage challenge calendars you cross off each day, and say hello to an ultimate bundle of pure relationship recharged activities! You get to choose your own adventure by picking and choosing challenges that resonate with you and your spouse. But that's not all – we've prepared a stunning assortment of printable love notes, a position poster, initiation cards, plus an array of date night concepts and a shared bucket list that will help you plan together and take your date nights from routine to exciting! Remember, a joyful marriage thrives on intention. We hope you will join us this next month in this marriage challenge! Click HERE for the Sexy September Challenge!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We have had many couples we know personally, as well as others from our app and content messaging us, stating that they are losing physical attraction to their spouse or that they no longer feel physically attracted to their spouse for various reasons. The common questions are, "What can I do to regain physical attraction to my spouse again?" or "What can I do to make my spouse feel physically attracted to me again?" "What if I don't feel attractive anymore, and it is affecting my desire to be intimate with my spouse?"In this podcast episode, we discuss this important topic and the things couples can do to rekindle that physical attraction and become more appealing to their spouse.This might have less to do with the way you look and more to do with the emotional connection, self-confidence, positivity, and happiness in your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the 10 things couples need to start normalizing in their marriages.  We tend to think that certain things are not normal such as setting boundaries, having conflict in the relationship and many other things so we try to stay away from doing them. This can be very unhealthy for our relationships. Normalizing these 10 things in your marriage will greatly enhance your intimacy and relationship. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There have been many times in our marriage where we have been doing something just because we do it, that we later recognize it has had a profound positive impact on our relationship. We weren't doing it because we were trying to fix or improve anything, but just doing it because we enjoyed it, and then realize the benefits have been amazing!For example, we take a lot of showers together at night. It is a time where we can relax at the end of the day and not be disturbed, get cleaned up before bed, spend good quality time together, and have some of our most meaningful and breakthrough conversations have happened during this time together. It is also a great way to get in the mood and better your chances at being physically intimate.Many couples complain they don't have time to spend together, and according to an article by Focusonthefamily.com, the average couple spends less than 4 minutes per day in meaningful conversation! YES.. you heard that correctly.No wonder couples are having so many issues and not connecting emotionally or physically. In this episode, we talk about how doing this one thing together often can make a huge positive impact in your marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

For most couples, it is the little things that they stop doing that cause the big things to snowball in their marriage.. and often times even lead to divorce. We ran across a great news article that talked about the 2-2-2 rule that couples say is the key to a happy marriage. After reading the article.. we agree. If couples can do these  3 simple things in their relationship, they will most likely see their marriage thrive. We are one of those couples that have seen our marriage transform because we implemented these things into our marriage on a regular basis.In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the article and the 2-2-2 rule and the simple things you can do to implement the 2-2-2 rule into your marriage. It really is the small and simple things that can cause great changes in your relationship.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We men drive ourselves crazy wondering why our wives don't crave sexual intimacy as much as we do! After all, most of us are good-looking, romantic, great fathers, and awesome husbands! It's baffling how they can keep their hands off of us!In one of our recent conversations, Amy dropped a truth bomb about one of the reasons she doesn't crave intimacy as much as I (Nick) do. Her explanation made total sense to me, and we found a great solution. We agreed that we needed to do a podcast and share it with you!So, if you're a husband who can't figure out why your wife doesn't crave intimacy like you do, or if you're a wife who feels the same way Amy did, you need to listen to this episode. We discuss the reasons why your wife might not crave sexual intimacy as often as you do, AND we talk about things you can do to increase your chances of enjoying more intimate moments.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!