

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
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Nov 21, 2023 • 1h 2min
211. There Is Hope In Recovering From Porn Part 2. Jason's Wife's Perspective
We often hear what the men are going through and the struggles they face with a porn addiction, but we seldom hear how their addiction impacts their wive's, and the struggles and anguish women go through as well because of their husbands addiction.In our last episode 210, we interviewed Jason, a husband who has a porn addiction, lost his job and tried taking his own life. In this episode (211), we interview Jason's wife where she shares her perspective and experience in dealing with this addiction in their marriage. She also shares the things they have done as a couple to work on overcoming the addiction and regain trust in the relationship.This was a truly remarkable podcast and we hope and pray it provides hope to all those couples out there dealing with a porn, or any type of addiction in their marriage, or can offer insight as to why you should try to keep porn out of your marriage at all costs.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 17, 2023 • 42min
210. There Is Hope In Recovering From Porn Part 1. The Amazing Story Of Jason
In episode 203 - Why Keeping Porn Out Of Your Marriage Matters, we talked about the impact porn has on marriages, shared some important statistics and ways to keep it out of your life. We also discussed why you should keep porn out of your marriage at all costs.In this episode, Nick has the pleasure of interviewing Jason, a good Christian husband and family man who started looking at porn at an early age, and eventually became so addicted to it, he lost his job, and even tried taking his own life. But God had different plans for him as you will hear in this incredible story he shares. Jason opens up and shares his AMAZING journey, experience and the things he has done in his life to try to overcome this addiction. This episode will provide HOPE to those who may be struggling with porn in their life. This is one of the most inspiring episodes we have ever done and one you should absolutely listen to regardless of your experience with porn. Coming up in the episode following this one, we interview Jason's wife and get her experience and thoughts so check that one out as well.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 14, 2023 • 33min
209. The Comparison Epidemic: Don't Let This Disease Kill Your Marriage
In today's digital age, it's hard to escape the allure of social media. We're constantly bombarded with carefully curated snapshots of others' lives, and it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison. But have you ever considered how this seemingly harmless habit can have a profound impact on your marriage?Join us on this episode as we explore the perilous consequences of constantly comparing your life on social media to others. We delve into why this habit can erode the foundations of your relationship, causing couples to lose sight of the important things that truly matter.Discover why this can lead to a lack of appreciation for your spouse and the life you've built together. Unearth the way it fosters ingratitude and impatience, making it challenging to focus on the present moment and the love that surrounds you.We'll share insights, personal stories, and expert advice on how to break free from the comparison trap and cultivate a more mindful, fulfilling marriage. And of course, answer the question "how to keep the comparison epidemic from destroying your marriage"If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 10, 2023 • 32min
208. Parenting Boundary "Must Have's" To Keep Your Sexual Intimacy And Marriage Strong
How do your parenting boundaries impact your sexual intimacy? In this episode we dive in and expose the reasons why you need to have boundaries with your kids to keep your sexual intimacy strong in your marriage. Some of the boundaries we discuss are:Why you shouldn't allow your young kids to sleep in your bed (and you shouldn't let your older kids as well).Why you need to prioritize your marriage.Why it is essential to have curfews for your bedroom and alone time.Why you need to be on the same team. That doesn't mean you have to always agree.Why you need to have date night and time just for the two of you.It is essential for you to prioritize your marriage and establish boundaries with your kids. If you set boundaries with each other to protect your marriage, why would you not establish boundaries with your kids as well? Check out this great episode if you want to connect on a deeper level as a couple.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 7, 2023 • 39min
207. The Things That Shut Down A Spouse Emotionally And Sexually... Our Poll Answers
What if the key to a fulfilling marriage was right at your fingertips? We're talking about emotional intimacy, the foundation of a vibrant and satisfying relationship. In our recent poll, an overwhelming 94% of you agreed that a strong emotional bond should be the cornerstone of a thriving marriage and that you emotionally have to be connected before the desire for the sexual connection.In this episode, we'll unpack this concept, exploring the things that shut down both emotional and sexual intimacy. We'll also delve into the role of emotional connection as a precursor to sexual intimacy, underscoring why it's vital to address and resolve issues that may be causing emotional shutdowns.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nov 3, 2023 • 39min
206. Amazing Emotional And Sexual Intimacy Is Built On Being Vulnerable
Being extremely vulnerable in marriage involves sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, fears, and desires with your spouse in a way that creates a deep and intimate connection. The more you are vulnerable with each other, the more trust and connection you will have as a couple. In this podcast episode Nick and Amy share the ways you can be more vulnerable and open up together as a couple. If you want your emotional and physical intimacy to grow deeper and stronger, then this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 31, 2023 • 33min
205. Answering The Common Questions We Get Asked About Sexual Intimacy
We get asked a lot of common questions on our social media and through email about sexual intimacy, so for this podcast we thought it would be great to answer the common questions people have.Some of these questions include:How can I get my spouse to want more sexual intimacy?What are the best ways to talk about sex as a couple without having it cause an argument?Sex is not a priority and we can never find the time for it. What can we do?How to deal with differences in sexual desire (high desire/low desire spouse)What to do when your spouse isn't comfortable with certain sexual things.And much more. We share and answer many of the questions from our polls we took.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 27, 2023 • 28min
204. Why Saying "I Love You" Isn't Enough. Love Is A Verb
We love the saying "actions speak louder than words" because it is so true! We can say "I love you" to our spouse all the time but that really means nothing unless it's backed up by actions. Love is a verb which requires action on our part.Yes, it is important too to express love verbally as well, but words without actions mean nothing. In this episode we talk about how you need to show and express love in ways your spouse will know you love them, and it is not good enough to just say "I love you."If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 24, 2023 • 44min
203. Why Keeping Porn Out Of Your Marriage Matters
In this episode we discuss why you should keep porn out of your marriage, and life. We share some shocking statistics, share experiences and talk about how to know if you have a porn addiction.Pornography is like a plague that can (and will) destroy marriages and families and we believe this is one of the things that will destroy our society. Pornography is everywhere! It shows up on social media, tv, movies, and romance novels. So what can you do to keep porn out of your life? Find out in this episode.Even if you don't have an issue with pornography, this is an episode that you will still want to listen to.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Oct 20, 2023 • 33min
202. Is A Wife's "Needs List" Really Longer Than A Husband's "Needs List?"
We did a fun video on our social media sharing a wife's needs list compared to a husbands needs list and of course it went viral and we got a ton of great comments and feedback on the video. Most the people who saw the video did agree with what we stated, but shared the reason why they believe it was like that. In this episode we share many of the comments from the video and discuss why a woman's needs list is typically longer... but this is not the case in Nick and Amy's marriage :)If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 650,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!


