

A Gay and A NonGay
James Barr and Dan Hudson
In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.'Highly Recommended' Guardian'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOutAn independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongayGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
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Dec 11, 2019 • 23min
No Bumming Please
The Bumming Tour is now called 'The Podcast Tour' in some places because we can't promote 'Bumming' on Facebook'. Dan met the Cock Destroyers and James is having trouble adjusting to having a boyfriend. Plus there's an important update on the protests against LGBTQ+ inclusive education at schools in Birmingham.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat. www.Facebook.com/groups/gaynongay.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 6, 2019 • 23min
LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike
We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children's Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying and suicide.Donate one of Olly's inclusive books to your school this Christmas, click here.Join us for our 2020 'Bumming Tour'! 'Bum' someone you love this Christmas by surprising a friend with tickets to one of our shows, tap here for more info :).Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 27, 2019 • 17min
#NotAllStraightMen
James has had enough of NonGay's after Dan moved in... for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but refuses to talk about it.We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 2019 • 54min
Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey
Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out 👀. The boys are joined by our voiceover Fiona live, plus we chat to one of our favourite comedians Stephen Bailey. We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopThanks for listening xGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 14, 2019 • 36min
Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper
The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian organisations in the world. Megan Phelps-Roper was born to hate, joining her family at an anti-Gay picket at just 5 years old. The pain, sadness and shame Megan and her family have caused LGBTQ+ people around the world is difficult to comprehend, but since leaving the church in 2012 Megan has dedicated her life to spreading love, compassion and understanding. In this episode, James and Dan chat to Megan about her journey. This episode contains strong language, offensive ideology and religious rhetoric you may find offensive.Read #Unfollow, Megan's story about the rarest thing of all: a person changing their mind. It's a fascinating insight into a closed world of extreme belief, a biography of a complex family, and a hope-inspiring memoir of a young woman finding the courage to find compassion for others, as well as herself. Tap here https://www.quercusbooks.co.uk/titles/megan-phelps-roper/unfollow/9781787478008/We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 8, 2019 • 17min
Ellen loves Bush
Dan still hasn't watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen's friendship with George W. Bush 👀.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 30, 2019 • 15min
Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno
The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns all about Dan’s ‘weird’ life at university.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 23, 2019 • 13min
James' Feet
James can't walk, and the doctor thinks it's chlamydia. What?!We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' This week the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 17, 2019 • 44min
Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay
Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight Jacket and Pride, and welcome their first ever drag queen ShayShay.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 9, 2019 • 21min
An Outing
Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shopGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


