A Gay and A NonGay

Does getting married make LGBTQ+ people ‘normal?’ Is getting married selling out to the patriarchy and heteronormativity or it is an act of activism? We are joined by singer, drag queen, writer Tom Rasmussen. Tom's new book, First Comes Love is an exploration of marriage in the 21st century and is one of our favourite reads this year.You can now get ad free episodes of our podcast, visit www.gaynongay.com/donate to sign up to our patreon.Visit www.gaynongay.com for merch, live dates & more. Love you babes xGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan is parading around as a Madonna expert and James is worried about getting trench foot. Plus, should straight people pay a tax to attend LGBTQ+ events? Let us know in our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/Get tickets to our fabulous live shows, visit www.gaynongay.com/live.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Salutations... Today we welcome the icon, the myth, Lady Vanessa Feltz.See us live babes. We're playing Underbelly Festival London on Friday 10th September! Visit www.gaynongay.com/live for tickets. We can't wait to see you.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's taken James to Bloodstock Open Air, the UK's biggest Heavy Metal Festival. We’ve been working on a top-secret project and we can’t wait for you to see it!!! More soon 😘.Our Big Gay Show is coming, visit www.gaynongay.com to see us live.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're joined by British-Jamaican swimmer Michael Gunning. We chat about his journey as an openly gay member of Team Jamaica, Team LGBTQ+'s success at The Olympics 2020. plus Tom Daley's speech and what it means for LGBTQ+ representation sport.We've announced our first iconic guest at our Big Gay Show! The hilarious Felicity Ward. Get tickets now at www.gaynongay.com/live. We can't wait to see you on Friday 10th September.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ringlight my Fire. James keeps sending ring lights to Dan. Meanwhile Dan's been busy telling everyone he’s not an LGBTQ+ ally?! Plus we discover that sourdough is 'too long, wide and thick' for a conventional toaster.Get tickets for our Big Gay Show the night before #PrideInLondon, tap here or visit www.gaynongay.com/live. See you there babes. KISSES. xGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James and Dan are joined from Los Angeles by film executive, TV host & creator of the hilarious podcast Don't Tell My Mother, Nikki Levy. We hear the story Nikki doesn't want her mother to hear, plus there's vibrator chat and we find out why she hardly has any straight guests on the show.Listen to James and Dan on Don't Tell My Mother - https://pod.fo/e/dc67eGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan thinks he knows a thing or two about 'bottoming' 😂, and we welcome the return of an old friend, The Velvet Rage.Our Big Gay Live Show is coming to London, see us live on Friday 10th September at 9.15pm! Get tickets at www.gaynongay.com/live.This week’s episode is sponsored by Transport for London. Visit madeby.tfl.gov.uk/i-stand-with to find out more about how TfL are standing up against hate crime on the public transport network.Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James thinks this was the 'straightest' Pride Month yet? Meanwhile Dan has a revelation about his favourite Ace of Base song - and do gays deliberately mis-spell? Plus we chat mental health and botox!See us live in London this summer! We're playing Underbelly Festival on Friday 9th September and can't wait to meet you in real life, visit www.gaynongay.com/live for tickets.Check out our Attitude x Spotify playlist 'Only A Gay and A NonGay'. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan and James are so excited to be joined by the hilarious Tom Allen. On the agenda - Why Tom is no longer waiting for the weather with Tomas Schafernaker, Dan sellotaping headphones to his ears, regifting, sourdough pride and are The Apprentice candidates all sleeping with each other? All this and more in our final episode of Pride Month.Get tickets to our Big Gay Show at Underbelly Festival London now, we can't wait to meet you in person. Visit www.gaynongay.com/liveGet bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices