

The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
A life of faith was never meant to be safe and clean. It’s an unpredictable, aggressive ride that will push you to your limits—and it’s the only way to live. On The Aggressive Life, author, adventurer, and pastor, Brian Tome, shares his honest, gritty, and faith-filled life, one built on the foundation of making aggressive moves. He is joined by guests from all walks of life who are doing the same. In a world that thrives on conflict, the real enemy is passivity. It’s time to punch back.
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Aug 20, 2024 • 27min
Riding on God’s Shoulders—Your MAN CAMP Stories
700+ acres of rolling hills, down by the Ohio River, has been the site of profound moments of spiritual transcendence for thousands of men. It could be the same for you. On today’s episode, nine men share their MAN CAMP stories of freedom, grit, and transformation. Registration for MAN CAMP 2024 is open until September 1st. Stake your claim here.

Aug 13, 2024 • 1h 8min
Is AI the Boogeyman or a Creative Breakthrough? with Chad Reynolds—Vurvey AI Systems
Chad Reynolds is an AI-insider and expert. The founder and CEO of Vurvey, he is on the cutting edge of developing people-powered AI systems, work that’s led him to collaborate with the world's top brands like Adidas and Google. In this timely and aggressive conversation, Chad unpacks the promise, and pitfalls, of artificial intelligence… and why he ultimately has more hope than fear.

Aug 6, 2024 • 59min
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby with Kingdom Sexuality—Sex Podcasters and Content Creators
There’s no topic more exciting, and rife with landmines, than sex. That’s where Kingdom Sexuality comes in. With a popular podcast, resources, and content, the team is helping married couples reclaim active and satisfying sex lives. Brain is joined by Alana and Tiera, 2/3s of the Kingdom Sexuality team, for a conversation as lively, hilarious, and helpful as you’ll ever hear around the topic. Put their advice into action, and who knows how tonight might end.

Jul 30, 2024 • 51min
You're Stronger Than You Think You Are—Live at MAN CAMP
Life can be hard, but God believes you can face it. He isn’t unaware of your pain; instead, He may be giving you the opportunity to show your tenacity, strength, and endurance. That’s what happened when Jesus’ cousin, John, ended up in jail. He was hoping Jesus was coming to set him free, but Jesus had other plans.
Recorded live in front of nearly 3,000 guys at MAN CAMP 2023, this final live talk of the summer combines grit and encouragement we all need.
Sign up for MAN CAMP at www.mancamp.us, and take 15% with the code podcast15.

Jul 23, 2024 • 47min
The Power of Spiritual Gravitas—Live with Student Influencers
Certain people have a gravitas to their lives, a weightiness that you notice whenever you are around them. This isn’t an inborn trait, it’s a muscle that can be developed—if you’re willing to make decisions that go against cultural norms. In this talk, recorded on an iPhone in a room full of high school leaders, Brian unpacks this idea, the importance of youth, and why it’s never too early (or late) to develop gravitas.

Jul 16, 2024 • 46min
If God is Good, Why Do Bad Things Happen?—Brian on the "Surviving Grief" Podcast
It’s likely your best—and worst—days are still ahead of you. How you prepare for, and face them, could make all the difference. In this appearance on the new podcast, “Surviving Grief,” Brian discusses making it through difficult days with your faith intact, and tackles one of life’s most challenging questions: why do bad things happen?
If you are facing grief of your own, or walking through grief with a loved one, be sure to check out Surviving Grief wherever you listen to podcasts (Apple | Spotify)

Jul 9, 2024 • 32min
Punching Back at Loneliness—Live with Crossroads Staff
Nothing will affect the trajectory of your life like the people you surround yourself with. Friendship matters, much more than most of us understand or are willing to admit. In this live talk, delivered to a gathering of male staff members at Crossroads, Brian explains the importance of having good people around you—and what it takes to find friendship in a world drowning in loneliness. Listen, put it into action, and your life will begin to level up.

Jul 2, 2024 • 32min
Growing Lifelong Friendship With Your Kids—Live at Father+Son Camp
Every parent wants to cultivate a lifelong relationship with their kids, but how do you actually get there? In this accessible and incredibly practical talk, recorded at Crossroads Father+Son camp, Brian shares the steps he took to grow genuine friendship with his kids. Hint: it’s all about the transition between each stage of parenting.
Learn more about Father+Son camp, including registration for the next one, here.

Jun 25, 2024 • 1h
Cattle Drives, Leading at Home, and Wake-Makers—Listener Q&A with BT
You asked, BT answers. Fielding questions submitted by listeners via Instagram, Brian tackles everything from what he learned on a legit cattle drive, to his favorite forms of tobacco, to how he processed the online uproar over the Super Bowl of Preaching. Along the way, he also takes time to consider what items he’d take into the wilderness, why he’s so interested in learning new things, and how wake-makers are key to any organization. This unscripted Q&A is just the boost to keep you moving aggressively this summer.

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Jun 18, 2024 • 1h 2min
What to Expect in Each Decade of Life with Bobb Biehl—Executive Mentor, Author, Sage
What if life wasn’t nearly as unpredictable as we think? That’s what executive mentor, Bobb Biehl, believes. After 50 years working with some of the most successful executives and brands on the planet, he’s uncovered patterns, challenges, and opportunities that every person will face in life—and he’s organized them by decades. According to Bobb, your 20s are for discovering what you don’t want to do; your 40s are about survival; and your 60s are the most impactful decade of your life. In a world that leaves us all feeling perpetually behind, Bobb’s learnings are a breath of fresh air.


