

The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
A life of faith was never meant to be safe and clean. It’s an unpredictable, aggressive ride that will push you to your limits—and it’s the only way to live. On The Aggressive Life, author, adventurer, and pastor, Brian Tome, shares his honest, gritty, and faith-filled life, one built on the foundation of making aggressive moves. He is joined by guests from all walks of life who are doing the same. In a world that thrives on conflict, the real enemy is passivity. It’s time to punch back.
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Nov 21, 2023 • 36min
Thanksgiving Special: Gratitude Phone Calls
Science is beginning to show what the Bible already teaches: gratitude can change your emotional, spiritual, and even physical health. This Thanksgiving, Brian is picking up the phone and making the aggressive move: calling friends and family, to tell them exactly how much they mean to him. Listen in, and then take the aggressive gratitude challenge for yourself. This Thanksgiving, let the people you love know it, and see just how much gratitude changes things.

Nov 14, 2023 • 1h 10min
Play is the Key to a Better Life with Dr. Stuart Brown—National Institute for Play, Founder
Dr. Stuart Brown, founder of the National Institute for Play, is a leading expert on the importance of play for well-being. In this engaging conversation, he shares how play fosters creativity, resilience, and emotional health. He discusses shocking connections between a lack of play and violence, revealing insights from his early research after a school shooting. Brown emphasizes play as a public health necessity and its pivotal role in enhancing relationships and overall life satisfaction. Embrace play for a more fulfilling life!

Nov 7, 2023 • 1h 18min
“They May Take Our Lives, But They’ll Never Take Our Freedom!” with Randall Wallace—Braveheart Screenwriter
Randall Wallace spent years writing the screenplays he thought Hollywood wanted, only to see them go nowhere. With his back against the wall, he decided to take one final attempt, focusing on the story he wanted to tell. That script, Braveheart, found its way into the hands of Mel Gibson—and the rest is history. From there, Randall went on to write and direct The Man in the Iron Mask, We Were Soldiers, Pearl Harbor, and Disney’s Secretariat. In this conversation, Randall explains how a chance encounter in Scotland led him to the story of William Wallace, how pressure fuels creativity, and what it’s like to push all your chips in. Randall is a creative and aggressive man who will inspire you to keep moving.

Oct 31, 2023 • 1h 10min
Meeting God on the Other Side with John Burke—Near-Death Experience Expert
The most listened-to guest in the history of The Aggressive Life, John Burke, returns to share new insights and research from his lifetime of studying near-death experiences. This time, he’s focusing on what near-death experiences can teach us about God—what He is like, what He values, and what He expects of us. After interviewing thousands of NDErs, John discovered incredible similarities in their stories, despite these people coming from all walks of life, backgrounds, and countries around the world. The stories John shares will give you hope, paint God in a new light, and just might change the way you think about the afterlife.
If you haven’t yet, check out Brian’s first conversation with John, “What Happens When We Die?” at the following links: Apple or Spotify.

Oct 24, 2023 • 31min
Stories from MAN CAMP 2023
Over the weekend, 2,700 men from all over the United States, and multiple international countries, descended on 400 acres near the Ohio River for MAN CAMP 2023. They laughed around campfires, drank some 80 kegs of beer, and pushed themselves past their spiritual, emotional, and physical comfort zones. And they came out different.
These are some of their stories.
Inside a decommissioned outhouse, speaking into an old military field telephone, man after man spoke of heartache, learning to seek God, and finding redemption. From tales of past traumas, to new life breathed into marriages, to learning the importance of friendships, these stories are what MAN CAMP is all about.
If you need a reason to hope, to believe that God still moves in the lives of men, this is it. Step into the outhouse with us, and find your life changed in the process.
Find out more about MAN CAMP, and get early bird tickets for next year’s event, at mancamp.us

Oct 22, 2023 • 28min
Bonus: MAN CAMP Worship—Live Under the Big Tent 2023
Today, nearly 3,000 guys are wrapping up a weekend off-the-grid. They camped. They worked. They laughed. They shared their lives. And they sang at the top of their lungs. While we don’t think of men singing, this is something warriors have done for all of history—huddled together, singing songs, before going into battle. As the men of MAN CAMP 2023 head back to their normal lives, they’re going with these songs in their hearts and in their minds. There is nothing like worship with 3,000 of your brothers. If you attended MAN CAMP this year, let these worship songs steel you for the battles ahead. If you want a taste of MAN CAMP, this is a great place to start. Find out more at mancamp.us or on Instagram @mancamp.us

Oct 17, 2023 • 49min
The Road to MAN CAMP with 512 & Windex—MAN CAMP Cofounders
512 and Windex, cofounders of MAN CAMP, discuss the origin of the event, the importance of friendships, and the transformative power of vulnerability. They also cover the welcoming atmosphere, middle age, and clothing choices at MAN CAMP. The speakers share their thoughts and expectations for the upcoming event.

Oct 12, 2023 • 34min
Bonus Replay: Unpacking the Conflict in Israel with Calev Myers—Civil Rights Lawyer & Activist
Civil rights lawyer and activist Calev Myers discusses the Israel-Palestine conflict, advocating for economic collaboration as a pathway to peace. Topics covered include historical roots, tensions between factions, ideal solutions, and the role of faith in managing fear. Support Calev's work at www.ariseforisrael.com.

Oct 10, 2023 • 1h 1min
An Exorcist Answers Your Questions about Ghosts, Possession Movies, and Halloween with Fr. Vincent Lampert—Exorcist
The Aggressive Life’s favorite exorcist is back to answer questions you submitted via Instagram. He covers everything from ghosts, to Halloween, to what he thinks about possession movies, and everything in between. Despite his heavy job—this man does cast out demons as part of his workweek—Father Lampert is a light, joyful, and smiling presence. He is contagious, in the best way possible, and his answers are thorough, helpful, and even surprising. He is a good man aggressively going after God, and this episode will push you forward.
Check out Brian's first conversation with Fr. Lampert, "Standing Up to the Devil," at the following links: Apple, Spotify, Briantome.com

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Oct 3, 2023 • 50min
Redefining Masculinity—Brian on “Still Standing with Alli Patterson"
A few weeks back, Brian had the opportunity to switch seats, appearing as a guest on the “Still Standing with Alli Patterson” podcast. Together, they talked about masculinity, why it’s hard to feel compassion for men, and the five things men always do that boys will avoid at all costs. It’s a hard-hitting conversation that will push you to keep taking ground in your own life. This is your last opportunity to pre-order two new books in the Five Marks of a Man library—a fully updated version of the original The Five Marks of a Man, as well as a new Tactical Guide designed to implement the marks into your life. All pre-orders qualify for a free poster download. Find more information at briantome.com/fivemarks.


