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It's the end of another year. 2021 has had some ups and downs but 2022 is hopefully looking brighter. We had to end the year with our own kinky New Year's resolutions. Think we can make them possible? Only time will tell. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

We thought it would be fun to answer questions asked on the BDSM Advice subReddit. And we had so much fun that we think this will become a regular thing. If you come across some questions that you would like to share, please send us the link.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

WARNING -  Any activity which constricts or blocks a person’s air or blood flow comes with risk, and can never be 100 percent safe. There’s always a chance of something going wrong, and anyone who takes part in this kind of play needs to be aware of this prior to engaging. DO NOT try anything involving breath play without being aware of the risks involved. This is not something to be done lightly, it requires extensive knowledge of human anatomy and significant self-control to even consider the prospect. There are ways to mitigate some of this risk and keep people safer - but it’s important to state right up front that it’s never zero risk.  This episode is intended to help people understand the risks involved in breath play, as well as understand some common harm-minimization techniques/strategies if you do decide to engage in this type of play. Pink Kink Podcast is not encouraging this type of play. The discussion and advice provided are for educational and harm-minimization purposes only. Breath play and choking have become very popular in mainstream media. Even within the kink community, a hand around the throat has become symbolic with Domination and submission. But breath play is probably one of the most dangerous kinks, you are literally controlling a person's ability to breath. We felt it important to talk about the risks involved in such a dangerous activity, so we brought in an expert on the subject. To contact our guest/expert Kink Goblin - https://fetlife.com/users/1595?sp=1 Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

What exactly is vetting and how does it pertain to BDSM? What are some questions to ask during the vetting process? We answer these questions and so much more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

We couldn't let Thanksgiving pass without sharing all the kinky things we are grateful for. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

We often hear in the kink lifestyle that submission is a gift. But is it? You can't take a gift back but you can rescind your submission. And if submission is a gift, then what about dominance? Should you earn someone's submission? Should you earn their dominance? We have a very lively discussion answering these questions and more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

When we think of kink including floggers, wax play, or restraints, we generally don’t include disabled people in that image. And why don't we? Being disabled shouldn't cut you out of the kink scene. For many people with disabilities, BDSM is just one facet of life in which they have learned to make adjustments so that they can enjoy the lifestyle. Kink can be a powerful tool for managing their chronic pain. We speak to two amazing kinksters who identify as disabled. They told us what kink can bring to the disabled experience (and visa versa), about being disabled in BDSM spaces like play parties or dungeons, and some of the complications disabilities can create in the kink world.  Check out our guests on Tik Tok @gothic_metalhead93 and @misskittylash  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com  Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order); Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50); BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order)  Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast  Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast  Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast  Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It's the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourselves judging instead? And what about people who use YKINMKATOK to try to justify abuse? It's never simple when it comes to kink and judgement.  Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example would be saying you can't be a dominant if you are female or you can't be a rope bunny if you are overweight. People who decide that their way to kink is the only way to kink are bad for the community. It invalidates people's lived experiences and it takes away people’s right to decide for themselves. Gatekeeping does nothing but hurt communities, both members and outsiders. It’s an elitist practice that more people should be concerned and speaking out about. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast

We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. We talk about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all three. We cover both the basics including fundamentals, safety guidelines and ethics. Sir Ezra breaks down where mindfucking ends and abuse begins. You will also get to hear hot and informative mindfucking stories that will your imagination. Mindfucking Mindfully is available in e-book, audio or paperback at Amazon.  Links to reach Sir Ezra: Website: HouseOfAlgos.com Link for Sanctuary: SanctuaryLAX.com Email: HouseOfAlgos@gmail.com Instagram: ask_ezra_ Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates -  SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) BDSMandPolyOutlet (use code PINK to save 10% on your order) Check us out on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Check us out on Tik Tok at thepinkkinkpodcast Join our Facebook group - Pink Kink Podcast Help support us at Patreon.com/Pinkkinkpodcast