Thankful Homemaker: A Christian Homemaking Podcast

How many imperfect parents out there? Raise your hands. I’m hoping all my parents out there raised their hands. We are going to experience failure in our parenting – it’s not an option but a reality in our lives on this fallen earth. Don’t we all find ourselves at times sure that we’ve ruined our children? How many times have we yelled, acted rashly in our correction and the list of mistakes and sinful responses towards them we’ve made over the years sadly goes on. We’re going to fail – and in saying that it doesn’t mean our failure shouldn’t affect us. I know we all are saddened by the times we’ve caused hurt in any way to our children, and this isn’t a podcast to just give us a pass to the failures we’ve caused our children. We need to seek the forgiveness of our children, repent to the Lord of wrongs we’ve caused to them and to the best of our ability and by the grace of God avoid hurting them in the future when possible. We must remember always that we are sinners’ parenting sinners. Sin affects every one of our relationships. Romans 7:18-19 is true in my role as a parent just as it’s true in my relationship with all others on this earth. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. We are not perfect—we already know this. Remember that it is God’s grace that transforms our lives and the lives of our children – it’s not our perfect or more likely imperfect parenting.  He is the only One that has the power to transform their hearts and minds.  This doesn’t mean we don’t strive to set a pattern and routine for our homes that directs the hearts of our children towards Him.  It is our duty as parents to train up our children in His ways but we can’t trust that our parenting is going to save them. Scripture & Resources: Romans 7:18-19 Ephesians 6:1-4 Deuteronomy 6:4-9 Matthew 19:25-26 John 6:37 1 Corinthians 15:10 Romans 3:23 Psalm 119:11 Matthew 18:22 2 Corinthians 12:9 Parents, Require Obedience of Your Children  God's Blessing Does Not Depend on Our Performance Podcast Ep 20: The Blessings of Loving Our Children Podcast Ep 18: Putting on an Attitude of Love in Our Homes Parenting: 14 Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul Tripp Give Them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus by Elyse Fitzpatrick Free eBook - Motherhood Delighting in Our Children by Marci Ferrell Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite app Find all podcast episodes with show notes here Visit Thankful Homemaker on Facebook, Instagram & Pinterest The rest of the show notes are at ThankfulHomemaker.com 

As we start getting back into fall and a routine (as we talked about last week at the podcast), I wanted to share a bit of encouragement for all of us today. Who doesn't like to be encouraged? Our time today is just a reminder that no one out there has it all together. We are a continual work in progress in the Lord's hand. If I shared only what I had mastered on this podcast, it would be non-existent ;). So today listen in and be reminded that no one has a perfect marriage, family or home while living on this fallen earth but that doesn't mean we just throw in the towel and stop trying. I'm reminded and reminding us today of God's Word to persevere and work heartily as unto the Lord, and this includes my normal day to day life of caring for a home and family. In the spirit of Titus 2, I want to be an encouragement in the areas of loving our husbands and children, being keepers of our homes, being self-controlled and submissive to our husbands so God's Word will not be reviled. We need to share our struggles but not leave each other there. But we need to spur one another on to love and good deeds. My hope always is to point one another back to Christ and to live by and abide in His Word. My greatest comfort in this world is that Jesus Christ is enough.  He is enough on the days when everything goes wrong and on the days when it seems that everything is falling apart.  Come listen in with us today. For the full show notes head to ThankfulHomemaker.com  Follow Thankful Homemaker on Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest Subscribe to the Podcast  Scripture & Resources: 2 Timothy 3:16-17 1 Thessalonians 5:18 Homemaking 101 Series: Getting Dressed Are You Kind to Your Husband? What's for Dinner? Weekly Home Blessing 18 Ways to Be Your Husband's Helper Busyness is Not Godliness Podcast Ep 32: Preparing Our Families for Sunday Morning Worship Battling Our Sins of Envy & Jealousy Podcast Ep 28: Dealing with Our Anxiousness and Worry (Matthew 6:25-34) How to Resist Gossip Homemaking Ministries Online Conference - The Deep Dive Summit Thankful Homemaker Facebook Group

Are you struggling with getting back into a routine after the summer months? I know for us our summer months are a bit more spontaneous and flexible so I'm out of a daily routine quite often. Summer brings a sense of unpredictable days in our home. We don’t always have a regular schedule, and we’re on the go or outside more than usual so we may find our inside tasks take a back seat and our regular routine schedule doesn’t happen as often as it does in the fall, winter and even spring seasons. For me, I’m not sure why this is because I’m not even dealing with kids in school anymore but it just seems to be a rhythm in my life too in this season. I love to be open to spontaneous adventures and not get caught up in what needs to be done at home because I’ve learned over the years - the reality is – it always gets done. I do still get things accomplished in the summer, and my home is still running pretty smooth – it’s not a total disaster, but I have to share – I honestly miss the regular routines I’m used to. I am a creature of habit. I don’t find myself deep cleaning or de-cluttering or overly organizing anything. For some reason, I tend to drift towards those chores in the fall and winter months. So listen in as we talk about what it looks like on getting back into a routine after summer. Show Notes: Planners Mentioned: Brilliant Life Planner iBloom Planner Living Well Planner Articles & Podcasts Mentioned: Homemaking 101 Series: The Routines of the Day The Joy of a Morning Routine The Peacefulness of an Evening Routine Podcast Ep 21: The Routines of the Day - Making the Most of Your Morning and Evenings Menu Planning 101 Podcast Ep 12: Simple Menu Planning Tips Homemaking 101: My Daily, Weekly, Monthly Tasks Podcast Ep 16: Simplify Your Housekeeping with a Cleaning Schedule for Your Home Podcast Ep 27: Planning Our Days as Homemakers How I Plan my Days Bringing Order to Our Homes Podcast Ep. 14: Simple Tips for a Clutter-Free Home Podcast Ep. 29: Where to Begin When You're Overwhelmed in Caring for Your Home Grab your Free Weekly Menu Planning PDF Find the show notes and resources mentioned at ThankfulHomemaker.com Follow Thankful Homemaker on: Facebook Instagram Pinterest Subscribe to the Podcast on Your Favorite App

Sex is a beautiful gift from God. As Christian’s we have God’s permission to enjoy sex within our marriages – God invented it. We can learn not just to enjoy it but delight in intimacy with our husbands Martha Peace shares: The physical union of husband and wife is designed by God to meet God-given desire for companionship, to protect the husband and wife from temptation, and for the mutual giving and receiving of great pleasure and joy between the husband and wife. Companionship is strengthened by the private, intimate, physical bond of a married couple. Even as Christians we can too easily let the world or other voices in the church give us our view of sex when it has to come from God’s Word. God’s Word is sufficient in all ways and especially and even in our sexual relationship with our husband. Resources: Thankful Homemaker on Instagram Homemaking Ministries 2018 Online Conference - The Deep Dive Summit Marriage Series at the Blog My Favorite Resources on Sex and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage The Excellent Wife: A Biblical Perspective by Martha Peace Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage by Ed Wheat Intimate Issues: 21 Questions Christian Women Ask About Sex by Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus When Sinners Say I Do by Dave Harvey Rekindling the Romance: Loving the Love of Your Life by Dennis & Barbara Rainey A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy by Dr. Doug Rosenau Strengthening Your Marriage by Wayne Mack The Intimate Marriage: A Practical Guide to Building a Great Marriage by R. C. Sproul My Abortion story & Why I Counsel at Abortuariesat Thankful Homemaker The Devilish Puppet Master of the Word-Faith Movementsermon at Grace to You on False Prophets Weekend to Remember from Family Life Today Podcast Ep. 35: Marriage Series #2 - To Love Their Husbands at Thankful Homemaker Podcast Ep. 17: What it Looks Like to Cherish Our Husbands at Thankful Homemaker Follow Thankful Homemaker at: Facebook Instagram Pinterest Twitter Subscribe to the blog to never miss a post here.  For all the show notes, quotes and resources head to ThankfulHomemaker.com

Explore the art of communication within marriage, emphasizing the beauty and intimacy intended by God. Discover practical strategies for listening well and engaging in daily conversations. Learn how to face conflicts with grace and unity, drawing on biblical principles for resolution. The discussion highlights the transformative power of kind and honest speech, encouraging emotional and spiritual connection between spouses. Embrace the gospel's message to cultivate a home filled with grace, humility, and forgiveness.

Explore the profound concept of submission in marriage from a biblical viewpoint. Discover how mutual respect and love can transform relationships, particularly in the context of an unbelieving partner. Learn practical strategies for conflict resolution, emphasizing that true strength lies in voluntary submission, not control. The discussion challenges misconceptions, highlighting how a wife's honor and support can reflect God's grace in everyday life, fostering homes filled with joy and peace.

Doug Ferrell, a teacher of God's Word and Marci Farrell's husband, joins the conversation about biblical submission in marriage. They delve into Ephesians 5:22-24, unpacking the theology behind a wife's submission to her husband. Misunderstandings abound, but Doug emphasizes that true submission fosters mutual love and respect, not domination. The discussion highlights the role of the Holy Spirit in nurturing a supportive relationship, clarifying that equality in value exists alongside distinct roles, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling Christ-centered marriage.

The discussion delves into the vital concept of respect within marriage, rooted in biblical teachings. It highlights how a wife's admiration can uplift her husband, influencing his behavior positively. Personal anecdotes illustrate the importance of encouragement and recognizing strengths over flaws. Spiritual maturity is explored in relation to marital respect, emphasizing growth through challenges. Prayer and selflessness are presented as key practices to cultivate respect, showcasing Christlike love as essential for a thriving relationship.

This discussion highlights the vital role of love in marriage, examining its Biblical importance and implications. It delves into the concept of agape love, emphasizing love as an action-driven commitment rather than just a feeling. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their relationships and pursue unconditional love, emphasizing the necessity of a strong relationship with God as a foundation. Practical strategies for embodying Christ-like love and overcoming challenges in marital bonds are also explored, reinforcing respect and safety.

The podcast dives into God's design for marriage, emphasizing the unique and equal roles of partners as outlined in Genesis. It redefines the term 'helper,' highlighting the supportive and integral role of women in a marriage. There’s a focus on intentional communication and the biblical concept of 'cleaving' for unity. The discussion also connects marriage to the profound relationship between Christ and the church, encouraging listeners to reflect their faith through their marital relationships.