

Psychoanalysis and Addiction
Graeme Daniels
A further play upon this podcast's former title, "Getting Real About Sex Addiction" is a discussion forum about matters relating to psychoanalysis, including matters of training, of old and new ideas pertaining to addiction, analytic situations and technique, contemporary events such as Covid and DEI initiatives. Graeme's latest book is entitled, An Analyst in Training: Psychoanalytic Candidacy Amid Covid and other Distractions
Episodes
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May 10, 2023 • 37min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (15): The Group Behind the Group
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, psychoanalytic psychotherapist, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, wades again into the intersection of addiction theory and social mores, exploring how societal "groups" that are institutions, niche fields in psychotherapy, recovery movements, philosophical traditions, shape the values that are insinuated into mental health treatments.

Apr 30, 2023 • 1h 3min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (14) You Have Been Lied To!
In this episode, Graeme Daniels and Joe Farley, authors of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, talk about how the consumer of psychotherapy and addiction services has been lied to about what is effective treatment, providing illustrations from their book, including contemporary empirical research on treatment efficacy.

Apr 18, 2023 • 33min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (13): a commentary on verbal and non-verbal communication and addiction
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, psychoanalytic psychotherapist and co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, again remarks on the staples of psychotherapy, this time time commenting upon non-verbal versus verbal communication, citing illustrations relevant to addiction and couples' communication, and relaying theory by the likes of D.W. Winnicott, Jacques Lacan, and Sigmund Freud.

Apr 12, 2023 • 37min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2(12): calling out the staples of psychotherapy
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, psychoanalytic psychotherapist and co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, critiques some commonplace ideas within psychotherapy, remarking on the verbosity with which ideas of empathy, "boundaries", "I" statement prescription, love language tropes are invoked and dispensed in the field of treatment

Apr 4, 2023 • 31min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (11): Flowers are (not) the solution
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, shares a short story that illustrates conflict avoidance, inhibition, plus fantasies of disinhibition and redemption via a symbol of romance and apology, in the context of a group experience.

Mar 28, 2023 • 52min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (10): Schizoid personality type
No tik tok video with someone reading off symptoms from a diagnostic standards manual. Graeme Daniels and Joe Farley, authors of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discuss Schizoid personality disorder and/or type in the context of recent podcasts about Narcissism and Borderline Personality disorder, trace the history of psychoanalytic theory relating to Schizoid personality, and relate the phenomenon to a certain profile of sex addict

Mar 22, 2023 • 32min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (9): listening to and reading about sex addiction
Teasingly curious title, maybe? Graeme Daniels reads a few passages from his and Joe Farley's book, Getting Real About Sex Addiction, contextualizes its content, both in terms of sex addiction treatment and psychoanalytic theory, but also with respect to current events

Mar 14, 2023 • 28min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (8): is sex addiction an excuse
Right up there with the question, is this a thing? In this episode, Graeme Daniels, psychoanalytic psychotherapist and co-author of the book, Getting Real About Sex Addiction, takes a brief swipe at this topical question/issue, observing nuances from previous discussions on this subject, most notably how notions of "sickness and health" as it pertains to the disease concept of addiction, influence strong reactions for and against the concept of sex addiction in particular

Mar 7, 2023 • 60min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (7): Borderline Personality Disorder
No, not a cheesy "how to spot and deal with a borderline" show. Graeme Daniels and Joe Farley, psychoanalytic psychotherapists and co-authors of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discuss the controversial diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), comparing it to Narcissistic Personality Disorder, reviewing its history in the field of psychoanalysis, tracing its theoretical etiology, and comparing psychoanalytic treatment of BPD with contemporary methods like Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Feb 25, 2023 • 48min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (6): Misogyny and Misandry
Graeme Daniels, co-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses the undercurrents of hate, and in particular gendered hate, that exist within sex addiction, and with the human mind in general, as a product of our primitive capacity for splitting defenses


