

Psychoanalysis and Addiction
Graeme Daniels
A further play upon this podcast's former title, "Getting Real About Sex Addiction" is a discussion forum about matters relating to psychoanalysis, including matters of training, of old and new ideas pertaining to addiction, analytic situations and technique, contemporary events such as Covid and DEI initiatives. Graeme's latest book is entitled, An Analyst in Training: Psychoanalytic Candidacy Amid Covid and other Distractions
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Sep 17, 2024 • 28min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (9): Deconstructing the sex positive
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, published by Rowman & Littlefield, discusses the implications, the subtext, and the truer meanings within the increasingly popular sex positive therapy movement.

Sep 3, 2024 • 34min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (8): The Unconscious
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, talks in historical and Freudian terms about the unconscious as a centerpiece of a psychoanalytic approach to the treatment of somatic symptoms, inhibition, guilt, and loss.

Aug 20, 2024 • 35min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (7): A further reflection on women's infidelity
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, published by Rowman & Littlefield, reflects upon the recent guest appearance of Michelle Langley on the podcast, and considers further her opinions about female sexuality and the myths that society attaches both to women's infidelity and domestic violence.

Aug 6, 2024 • 49min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (6): A discussion about women's infidelity with author Michelle Langley
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, welcomes guest Michelle Langley, author of Women's Infidelity: Living in Limbo: What women really mean when they say "I'm not happy", to discuss myths that men and society have about women's sexuality, and debunk the idea that women are less inclined towards infidelity than men

Jul 9, 2024 • 36min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (5): the paradox of marked distress
Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses the World Health Organization's category of compulsive sexual behavior disorder (CSBD), focusing upon its ambiguous and complicated "marked distress" criteria for diagnosis

Jun 27, 2024 • 35min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (4): Empathy, validation, and projective identification
Explore the nuanced dynamics of empathy and validation in treating sex addiction. Discover how betrayal trauma affects partners, often resembling PTSD, and the critical role of validation in their healing. Dive into the complexities of accountability and communication, and examine the gender disparities in treatment perceptions. The discussion reveals the importance of creating supportive environments for both individuals struggling with addiction and their affected partners.

Jun 18, 2024 • 30min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (3): Jails, Institutions, death, and hurt feelings
Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, discusses the emotional impact of problem sexual behaviors, both for PSBs and their impacted partners, and features a case illustration of a group discussing whether to reveal porn use to an impacted partner

Jun 10, 2024 • 46min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (2): religious bias with a progressive nod
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, riffs on numerous ideas previously addressed in this podcast series: where analytic perspectives on addiction fit in with the sex addiction field; the ethical/moral biases of practitioners, and how those biases play out among gender divides

Jun 3, 2024 • 42min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (1): A positive review of the book!
Opening podcast of season, Graeme Daniels, lead author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, outlines topics that will be addressed on upcoming podcasts, including the re-framing of "the problem"; he then discusses a positive review of his and Joe Farley's book by Kirkus magazine, examining reviewers' comments in detail.

May 8, 2024 • 39min
Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (25): Shame
In this episode, Graeme Daniels, psychoanalytic psychotherapist and lead-author of Getting Real About Sex Addiction, contemplates the pros and cons of the sex addiction label from the point of view of the would-be addict and the impact partner, and then speaks of the intertwining of guilt and shame, in which false guilt, as perpetuated by sex addiction treatment models, often obscure attention to underlying shame


