

ADHD with Jenna Free
Jenna Free
When you're tired of trying the latest ADHD tips and tricks it's time to do some deeper work.
This is what we do here.
No more rushing to get everything over with so you can go lay down.
We are here to regulate and start truly living (and enjoying) your life.
Through ADHD Regulation work we will change the way you experience life with ADHD (think more fun and less dread).
This is what we do here.
No more rushing to get everything over with so you can go lay down.
We are here to regulate and start truly living (and enjoying) your life.
Through ADHD Regulation work we will change the way you experience life with ADHD (think more fun and less dread).
Episodes
Mentioned books

Sep 8, 2025 • 24min
EP. 24: Overstimulation vs. Dysregulation - Why ADHDers Need to Know the Difference | ADHD with Jenna Free
You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding Overstimulation and Dysregulation 10:49 Coping with Overstimulation 24:16 Long-term Regulation Strategies Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, we dive into the concepts of overstimulation and dysregulation for ADHDers. I explain the differences of overstimulation and dysregulation and where they overlap. It's important to understand these two concepts so you can make the best decisions in how to cope. Dealing with the immediacy of overstimulation and long term dysregulation will improve your quality of life 100 fold! Takeaways Overstimulation is a state where the brain receives too much sensory information. Dysregulation occurs when the nervous system is imbalanced, often stuck in fight or flight mode. Dysregulation can make individuals more sensitive to overstimulation. Understanding the difference between overstimulation and dysregulation is crucial for effective coping. You deserve to have a life that's easier and more enjoyable. Connect with Me Instagram TikTok

8 snips
Sep 1, 2025 • 18min
EP. 23: The ADHD Overconsumption Trap - Why We Buy, Eat & Scroll When Dysregulated | ADHD with Jenna Free
Discover how the fight-or-flight response fuels overconsumption habits in those with ADHD. Chronic stress can lead to unhealthy eating, shopping, and digital consumption as quick fixes for emotional dysregulation. Learn the importance of balancing consumption with creative activities, which fosters a sense of purpose and boosts mental well-being. Tips for daily creative practices highlight how they help stabilize emotions and enhance self-esteem. Reflecting on consumption habits could pave the way for better self-regulation and fulfillment.

Aug 25, 2025 • 21min
EP. 22: ADHD People-Pleasing Explained - When 'Being Nice' Is Really About Staying Safe | ADHD with Jenna Free
Explore the hidden fawn response in ADHD and how it drives people-pleasing behaviors rooted in survival instincts. Learn how being in survival mode can skew relationships and hinder self-advocacy. Discover practical strategies to break free from these patterns, set healthy boundaries, and embrace vulnerability. It's essential to express your needs, take up space, and feel empowered to say no. By understanding these dynamics, you can foster authentic connections and prioritize your well-being.

Aug 18, 2025 • 26min
EP. 21: Why Can't ADHDers Ever Relax? The Fight-or-Flight Trap That Follows You on Vacation | ADHD with Jenna Free
You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding ADHD and Rest 00:49 The Impact of Dysregulation on Enjoyment 04:26 Chronic Fight or Flight and Its Effects 07:44 Challenging Thoughts and Beliefs 11:08 Nervous System Regulation Strategies 13:56 All or Nothing Thinking in Rest 16:35 Finding Balance in Rest and Productivity 19:30 Transitioning Between Tasks 25:51 Overcoming Barriers to Rest Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I dive into rest and ADHD, exploring the struggle between dysregulation and the ability to relax. I get into how external factors often get blamed for difficulties in resting, while the real issues may lie within our thoughts, beliefs, and nervous system regulation. I talk about how to challenge all-or-nothing thinking, the importance of finding balance in daily life, and practical strategies for achieving a more regulated state that allows for genuine enjoyment and rest. Takeaways Rest is often hard for those with ADHD due to dysregulation. Chronic fight or flight states hinder relaxation. External factors are not the sole cause of our inability to rest. Nervous system regulation is crucial for relaxation. Slowing down can help manage dysregulation. All or nothing thinking can prevent effective rest. Regulated rest is about balance, not extremes. Rest should be integrated into daily life, not seen as a reward. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok

Aug 11, 2025 • 31min
EP. 20: The Missing Piece in ADHD Treatment - How Nervous System, Thoughts & Behavior Work Together | ADHD with Jenna Free
Explore the complexities of ADHD regulation and how the nervous system plays a pivotal role in emotional balance. The podcast uncovers the dysregulation cycle and its impact on daily life, particularly how the fight or flight response can heighten ADHD symptoms. Listeners are introduced to a holistic approach that combines nervous system management, cognitive restructuring, and behavioral changes for lasting improvement. Discover practical insights for achieving emotional regulation and a more balanced life.

16 snips
Aug 4, 2025 • 17min
EP. 19: ADHD & Food - Why ADHDers Struggle & The Intuitive Eating Solution | ADHD with Jenna Free
Explore the unique relationship between ADHD and food, focusing on challenges like binge eating and emotional dysregulation. Hear a personal journey from rigid dieting to intuitive eating, emphasizing the importance of nourishment and enjoyment. Discover how dismantling diet culture can create a healthier mindset, along with practical tips like honoring hunger to avoid binge cycles. Learn about the transformative power of regulation work and how it fosters a balanced approach to eating.

Jul 28, 2025 • 23min
EP. 18: The ADHD Negative Self-Talk Trap - Why Your Brain Thinks Criticism Keeps You Safe | ADHD with Jenna Free
Check out ADHD Groups here - adhdwithjennafree.com/groups You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding Negative Self-Talk in ADHD 04:00 The Impact of Negative Self-Talk on Regulation 07:26 Shifting from Negative to Neutral Self-Talk 12:01 Learning from Mistakes and Reflection 16:51 Embracing a Kinder Inner Dialogue Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the pervasive negative self-talk among ADHDers. I explore the reasons behind this, and share how it stems from a dysregulated state and serves as a misguided defense mechanism. I provide practical strategies for you to shift your mindset from negative self-talk to a more neutral perspective, encouraging self-compassion and reflection on mistakes without harsh judgment. The conversation highlights the importance of awareness and the need to create a positive mindset to improve overall well-being and reduce ADHD symptoms. Takeaways Most ADHDers experience a lot of negative self-talk. Negative self-talk serves as a misguided motivator. You are safe without negative self-talk. Shifting to neutral thinking can help reduce self-criticism. Curiosity about mistakes leads to better understanding. You deserve to live a life that's enjoyable and easier. Negative self-talk hinders personal growth and happiness. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok

Jul 21, 2025 • 32min
EP. 17: The Real Reason ADHDers Struggle With Money - From Survival Mode to Financial Balance | ADHD with Jenna Free
Get your spot in the Free ADHD Beliefs Workshop here - adhdwithjennafree.com/beliefs You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 Understanding ADHD and Money 02:16 Survival Mode and Short-Term Thinking 03:39 Shopping as a Coping Mechanism 10:27 The Rush and Its Impact on Spending 13:17 Dysregulation and Financial Avoidance 18:29 Facing Financial Discomfort 23:44 Balancing Short-Term and Long-Term Goals Summary In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I discuss the complex relationship between ADHD and money management from a dysregulation lens. I explore how ADHD (particularly dysregulated ADHD) can lead to impulsive spending, avoidance of financial responsibilities, and the impact of survival mode on long-term financial planning. We are talking about why money can be hard and what we can do to make it better. Takeaways ADHD can complicate money management due to impulsivity. Survival mode affects our ability to think long-term about finances. Shopping can provide temporary relief from dysregulation. Rushing leads to poor financial decisions and increased spending. Avoidance of financial responsibilities can create a cycle of shame. Slowing down can lead to more thoughtful spending decisions. Urgent purchases often indicate dysregulation. Balancing short-term enjoyment with long-term goals is crucial. Mindfulness and regulation are key to improving financial health. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok

5 snips
Jul 14, 2025 • 37min
EP. 16: Beyond Nervous System Regulation - Why Your ADHD Beliefs Need Healing Too | ADHD with Jenna Free
Discover how dysregulation deeply affects those with ADHD and the link between the nervous system and personal beliefs. Learn about the three layers of regulation—nervous system, thoughts, and behavior—and how shifting limiting beliefs can enhance emotional well-being. The discussion highlights the dangers of a scarcity mindset and the ongoing struggle individuals face in striving for a sense of completion. Strategies for relaxation and mindset transformation offer hope for moving beyond chronic stress.

6 snips
Jul 7, 2025 • 23min
EP. 15: The 6 External Changes That Transformed My ADHD - Simple Tools for Better Regulation | ADHD with Jenna Free
You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdguide Chapters 00:00 External Regulation Tools for ADHD 03:45 Slowing Down Household Dynamics 07:01 The Power of a Calendar 09:43 Managing Social Media and Scrolling 13:28 The Importance of Breaks 16:58 Implementing Changes Gradually Summary In this episode, I dive into 6 external tools and strategies for managing ADHD, focusing on how to create a more regulated environment. I emphasize the importance of slowing down schedules, simplifying household dynamics, utilizing calendars effectively, managing social media use, listening to one's body for breaks, and implementing changes gradually. I share personal experiences and practical tips to help you find balance and regulation through external supports and strategies. Takeaways External regulation tools can support internal regulation. Slowing down your schedule can prevent dysregulation. Simplifying household dynamics can create a calmer environment. Using a calendar is essential for managing ADHD effectively. Social media scrolling can exacerbate dysregulation. Taking breaks is crucial for maintaining mental health. Implementing changes gradually leads to better long-term results. Rest is as important as productivity. Finding balance is key to managing ADHD. Connect with Jenna Instagram TikTok


