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Mar 3, 2021 • 9min
55 - I Married a MGTOW
Today's video is brought to you by a donation by Ronaldo. He had a few questions he wanted me answer and I'm going to paraphrase his questions. The first one is: "Do you have a girlfriend and are you keeping your MGTOW beliefs a secret from her?" Well I'm single and don't see myself in a relationship at all. I'm thinking of hiring a call girl in the next little while for sexual services, maybe I'll do a video on my experience. Maybe I'll find one that wants to trade photos for her services. I'll take pictures for her ads and she can show me a good time. Then I can share the photos with everyone here. But of course she'll have to be wearing something in the photos I put up. But I'm getting way off topic. For me it's probably a bigger deal sharing my MGTOW beliefs with my parents then any potential female partner. My mother is already trying her hardest to shame me simply for not dating. I can't imagine the guilt that would be thrown my way if she finds about my MGTOW values. Ronaldo you also say that you don't believe in marriage, having kids or cohabiting but the woman you're dating you haven't told her about your preference to continue living on your own, in your own place without moving in together. You also haven't told her that you have no interest in a traditional life with all of its treacherous trappings of a usual relationship. And this is your question: "What's the the best way for me to tell her that I don't want a traditional relationship and about my MGTOW beliefs?" Ronaldo I honestly feel that you are expecting some kind of a backlash from her when you tell her but at the same time telling me you don't care if he tells her and then she leaves. I think you do care if she leaves. otherwise you wouldn't be asking me this question and bringing up these issues. I believe that you want her to accept your MGTOW beliefs and then validate your point of view and stay with you in a relationship. I think you want me to validate how you feel and confirm that you will be fine regardless of if she stays or leaves. I think you want me to play the role of a life coach? Please correct me if I'm wrong but it's almost like you are asking me to make a choice for you? Or possibly you are looking for another option that you haven't thought about before. Murdering Marriagehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFpmZ...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 28, 2021 • 11min
54 - Briffaults's Law
A few weeks ago I did a video for CCRoxtar and now he wants me to do another one. So he made a donation and has a new topic idea. This is the question he asked me: Having heard Stardusk (& to a lesser extent Barbarossa) talk often about Briffault's Law, I wonder what your take on it is. It is quoted from Robert Briffault's book, The Mothers: A Study of the Origins of Sentiments & institutions (1927) & states as follows: "The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place." I deem this to be true to the extent that in nearly every sexually dimorphous species, the females are the selective sex while the males compete to be selected. Yet in other ways such a statement could apply to anyone regardless of gender. For instance, MGTOW like you & me realize that if we cannot benefit from associating with females, we need not do so. Hope to hear from you soon on this topic. :) Thanks for the question CCRoxtar this is my take on it: Men have to be less picky about their sexual partners. I believe that as men it's not that many of us want to consciously have constant sex outside of a relationship with multiple partner but it's actually part of our subconscious mind. Biology makes us interested in many of the young and attractive women simultaneously so we can meet our biological imperative and procreate. Biology makes us want to have sex all the time but the emotions of love want us to have one female partner. It's almost like love and the lust attraction are balancing themselves out in many cases. I'm speaking of my own personal experience here. In the end I've always sought out emotional intimacy and closeness and sex. And I'd say the seventy to eighty percent of my male friends see relationships with women the same way. They are in committed long term relationships or looking for such relationships. The ones looking for relationships have no problem having no strings attached sex but once they fall in love that changes for many of themAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 26, 2021 • 12min
53 - MGTOW Infiltrators
A couple of weeks ago I noticed that there were more women then usual frequenting my youtube channel. It seemed like all of a sudden women were trying to contact me an prove that they too were MGTOWs. Since then the female attention to this channel has died down a bit. But it got me thinking, why are women drawn to MGTOW. How can you be a man going your own way if you're a woman? And I've chatted back and forth with two women that tried to use the rationalization hamster to convince me that they were MGTOWs. One of them was married. But this makes me think that these women are either male trolls, feminist infiltrators or possibly the real deal, actual women that are here to somehow become part of MGTOW. You can't really take things at face value on youtube. This is one of the few remaining places where people still have their anonymity. And anonymity was one of the cornerstones the internet was built on.Tommy Sotomayorhttp://youtu.be/WckewBBUNZ0"Ain't That Sumthin'"http://youtu.be/g15l_ROE3TcAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 24, 2021 • 12min
52 - Canadian Beavers
A few days ago I received a message here on youtube about a recent post called "The Marriage Strike Hitting Women Hard, Why Men Aren't Dating Women." Along with the article link I received some of the text that had been pulled, out from a post at the bottom of the article. I took personal interest in the post because it mirrors some of my own personal experiences over the last year. Let me read the post first and then I'll dive right in with my analysis and personal information. This is what an anonymous office worker from my city had to say: "Let me explain. The office tower that I work in.... in Toronto, Ontario, Canada (Int'l real estate and securities investment) there are ALOT of single women. The single men that I am associated with are making high 6 figures, low 7 figure incomes and they want NOTHING to do with women. Last month a Matchmaking business in the office tower had a singles night after work....of which I was invited as well as many friends and associates. 105 single women showed up...how many men showed up?....you ready for this?...3....that is correct..THREE! The dating service was astounded and did not know how to explain it. Of course they blamed it all on the MEN.....What a joke! This is just one example. Another example: When we go for drinks after work we will walk into the bar and the bar is filled with single women aged 25 to 50 (all from the same area). The women always motion to my friends and I to "sit down and have a drink with us". Our response: "Thanks but we have some business to discuss"...and then we go grab our own table AWAY from them. They are never approached and hang out amongst themselves....usually with a bitter scowl on their faces as they do not deal with rejection very well.The Marriage Strike Hitting Women Hard - https://rmaxgenactivepua.wordpress.co...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 21, 2021 • 10min
51 - Purple Pill Of Purgatory
Patrick had a question that he wanted me to answer. So here it is: "The female friends, acquaintances, and my buddies girlfriends are mostly all decent chicks. I enjoy their company. But, that's a lot of supposed NAWALTs all in one place. statistically improbable. having already accounted for the public persona that they might put on, (I've known a lot of these girls going on a decade, and no cracks in their persona) how is it these girls are alright, but the ones in my relationships are princesses or worse?" Thanks for question Patrick, I'm going to try and answer it the best way I can. A couple of weeks ago I did a video called "Self-Sabotage" about a woman that I'm friends with that seems to be a nawalt. But now that I've gone MGTOW even the supposed women that just want to be friends exhibit behavior that is stereo-typically female if I look hard enough. Just god forbid you should call them on it or they might take it personally and show you their true colors. The more I look around to find the mystical Nawalt the more I realize that she is a purple squirrel. When I was briefly in the world of job recruiting "purple squirrel" was the term used to describe the perfect job candidate. Their resume looked like a perfect match for employers. Every person in my company was talking about them. Purple squirrel this and purple squirrel that. It's similar to the way MRA's and MGTOWs talk about the NAWALT. But for most people in recruiting world the purple squirel never existed they were just making it up or fitting sub-par candidates into a classification they made up and that doesn't exist. Just like many men are fitting sub-par women into the candidacy role of Nawalt. This reminds me of an online exchange I had with Dean Esmay from a voice for men where he told me that many men went MGTOW, couldn't take it anymore so they went back to women and convinced themselves that the women they were with were NawaltsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 19, 2021 • 10min
50 - Women hate Bi Guys?
Black Women Not Prefering Bi Guys:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HD3fg...Today's video is brought to you by a donation from Mando Zero. He's from Australia so I'm going to show you pictures of Australia in this video from my journeys. Sorry Mando but there are only pictures from further east ofyou. I never got the chance to go to Adelaide. The furthest I got was to Warnambool along the Great Ocean Road. Hopefully you've been to the Great Ocean Road and can appreciate some of the pictures I took there? Mando Zero wants me to cover the topic about why women hate bisexual men. This is what Mando had to say: "The subject I had in mind is about bisexuality. Specifically, women compared to men and how each are viewed. There seems to be a huge bias from women, even bisexual women, when it comes to a partner that may be bisexual. You could probably ask any girl in a bar in casual conversation if they have had a bi-sexual experience and not only would you get many positives, the question wouldn't be a real issue. But ask them if they would mind of their partner has...then the reaction wouldn't be so positive. Mando Zero also found a video that I'm adding in the description that shows a bunch of women in California being asked if they were open to dating a bi male. I think this video is not very broadly representative of our society and it focuses on black women and their preferences. I'm sure that many people will agree that with regards to sexuality Black and Latino culture is less accepting of non-traditional sexuality. In Jamaica men are killed on the simple suspicion they may be playing for the other team. And it's like that in many parts of Africa. Personally, I don't know if the lack of acceptance for male bisexuality has to do with social and cultural beliefs or if it has something more to do with biology. I've never been with men, but I have gay male friends and some of them dated women while they were younger. They never spoke about what made them choose one over the other. I do agree with Mando that many women wouldn't like it if their male partner was bi. And I think it can be for a number of different reasons. Maybe these women think either consciously or subconsciously that men experience love differently. Women might be insecure and might be afraid that if their male partner falls in love with another man he might run off. Female bisexuality is accepted more because of the pornography business which has been promoting Lesbian and bisexual female behavior for many decades. But we haven't seen the same in with regards to men until recently.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 17, 2021 • 10min
49 - MGTOW Vs Feminism
Firstly I'd like to thank everyone for subscribing to my channel. I just passed four thousand subscribers today and still going strong. My goal is to get to fifteen thousand subscribers by the end of the year and between two to three million views. I want to spread the red pill to hundreds of thousands if not millions of men around the world and keep MGTOW growing. Anyway, a while back Anthony contacted me and sent a donation because he wants me to put together a video about MGTOW and the Feminist threat narrative. This is what he has to say: "Hey Sandman, You should do a video on threat narratives and the ongoing threat narrative against men by feminism and how MGTOW is simultaneously pushing back against the threat narrative but also not a 100% cure for ongoing misandry by political feminists." Thanks for your question Anthony. I really enjoy it when people send me these types of open ended questions. I can take it in many different directions. As far as I can see MGTOWs as well as MRAs are a threat to feminism because they take attention and resources away from women and put them back in the hands men. That's the basic thing feminists hate about us. We are bringing attention to the injustice that men face and in many cases we are proving the injustice is directly linked to women. Not only are we saying that men are getting the short end of the stick but that in many cases women are the ones hurting us. MGTOW works because it takes us away from women and prevents them from getting the one thing they want the most, attention. And feminists are using different strategies in an attempt to have the attention put back on them. Where have all the good men gone has to do with shaming wealthy, single and attractive men that are MGTOWs who in many cases don't even know they are MGTOW. Once a man becomes aware that there is such a thing as MGTOW it creates a system of validation for him. And this is what political feminism is trying to stop. They don't want men validating their own roles and individuality outside those setup for them by gynocentric society. This is what all those women protesting at men's rights rallies are trying to do. They want men to feel ashamed of themselves and to equate shame and low self esteem with men's rights.Why Feminists Hate UShttp://theprivateman.wordpress.com/20...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 14, 2021 • 9min
48 - Blue Pill Blues
Joseph liked the first video I put together for him called "Out of her league" so much that he decided to donate money to have me put together a second one. He wants me to cover the interactions between blue pill and red pill men. Specifically, he felt it's incredibly important to warn men that had already taken the red pill to be aware of the risks associated with telling blue pill men about it. This is what he had to say: "I work among many married men and they all discuss their marriages together at lunch. As a mgtow man, I naturally have very little to contribute to these conversations and its quite common for such types of men as stardusk has coined them, "Nether Apes", to become aware of a difference among them. For these types of men if one chooses to "radically" go in a different direction from what they are so adamantly bound to for their own validation and agency, he is immediately questioned." Why aren't you married or have kids"? If his answer makes them question or have the slightest doubt in their own marriage its usually accompanied by a group think like series of more questions and eventually their questions turn into a flat out firing squad of high school esque locker room teasing sessions. Its rather pathetic and empowering at the same time to experience. Unfortunate to have to be around and empowering in understanding how much more free and advanced you are over them as a mgtow man and that you no longer need this childlike validation these men are beholden to through their marriages and their "conquests" of chasing after women. To mgtow men, its foreign to us to live for someone else other than ourselves and to put our dreams, passions, and goals on the back burner to be what is in the minds of the "Nether Ape" men as a "fulfilled and enjoyable life". Well, Joseph doesn't mention any specific things that his married co-workers said but he did say that these nether ape jokes usually turn into a situation where co-workers might end up calling a man gay.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 12, 2021 • 9min
47 - Red Pill Rage
Taking the red pill and getting angry because of it is a great MGTOW topic and I hope to do it some justice. Dan Man Dingo has seen a lot of anger in MGTOW videos and he's worried that men are becoming woman haters. One of the smartest people I know, a woman no less, told me that you can't hate something unless you've love it first. All of us recovering manginas loved women at one point in our lives. But what we were really in love with was the idea that women could reciprocate that love back to us and we loved being useful to women. We turned off the rational parts of of our brain and had an almost religious faith regarding women. Once we took the red pill it was like unplugging from Religion. I was once a Christian and when I let go of organized religion and Christianity my life felt kind of hopeless and I was angry about it. But at the end of the day, religion was just a crutch I didn't need anymore to make me feel whole. I had outgrown it. Now that I'm a MGTOW I've outgrown the need to love the illusion of women. I see them for what they are and my higher functions are over-riding my lower base urges found in my lizard brain. I have been burned by the hot coals of a fire that represents relationships and now I know what it feels like to put my hands in the flame. And my higher reason is over-riding my lower brain and feeding it a healthy dose of fear and anger. Especially when I'm around women when they do things to try to manipulate me or other men. Our anger awakes when we see the world of the red pill. Over time we calm down a bit but if I see a woman trying to take advantage of a friend then it makes the blood boil. If you listen to my first 10-20 videos there is a lot of passionate anger and I'll have to say that I honestly hated that women took advantage of me my whole life. But what I hated more was letting it happen to me because of my subconscious mind. When I started this channel I was winding down my interactions with women when it came to possible romantic and loving relationships. I kept getting chased by women trying to use me by putting me in their friend zone and knew I had just gotten out of a very long term relationship so they could smell the surplus resources on me and wanted some. They just wanted someone to talk to or use me as an emotional dumping ground. Or they wanted me to take them out as friends and pay for everything.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 10, 2021 • 8min
46 - White Feathers & Pink Women
The white feather girls used to shame random men on the street to sign up for military service. They would come up to any man in civilian clothing that was of the right age to enlist and they would pin a white feather of cowardice to his chest to signify that he wasn't doing his part. On the other hand the "Code Pink Women" are a self described social justice movement working to end US funded Wars and occupations in places like Iraq and Afghanistan. As far as I can see the white feather girls were just a temporary fad but the "Code Pink: Women for Peace." seems to be a social justice movement created to help get America away from foreign entanglements with enemies. And the Code Pink Women were created by mothers and wives of soldiers to prevent them from going to war and coming back in body bags. CCRoxtar seems to think that the reason code pink was created so that women would have husbands and male children to take care of them in their old age. While that is certainly a part of the argument, the issue goes a lot deeper. I was born five years after the Vietnam war ended and many of you listening to this video have little or no recollection of the Vietnam war. And if you do remember it then you remember how terrible it was for the United States. Tens of thousands of US soldiers coming back in body bags and losing their lives limbs and futures due to post traumatic stress disorders. Code Pink Women could see the Iraq war dragging out the same way and potentially tens of thousands of US Soldiers dying while they fought Saddam Hussein and Al Qaeda. And of course they don't want their men coming back unable to help support the family. During the Vietnam was a family could subside on the income of a single parent. Today that's impossible with the price of food, energy and houses.The Century of Self Happiness Machines part 5https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-Mks...Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy


