

Calmversations
Benjamin Boyce
“Talk calmly, and carry a quick wit.”
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Aug 24, 2021 • 1h 34min
s03e112 | Gender & Autism, with Ash and Raphael
As a child and into his teen years, Ash had a very difficult time understanding people and getting along with them—especially boys. This lead him, as a freshman in high school, to consider if he was in fact trans. Fast-tracked by his therapist, but held back by his father, a closer, more careful inspection of how he makes sense in the world lead to a diagnosis of autism. Once that connection was made, things became a lot easier for him to manage.
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Aug 20, 2021 • 1h 14min
s03e111 | Hardship and Hope: a Detrans Story, with Veera
Veera is a detransitioned Finnish youtuber who shares a very personal story about struggling to love and care for herself through a life of foster care, anorexia, and other mental and emotional difficulties.
Watch her content at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG0-O3zN9yp0jgd5a4-VL2g
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Aug 18, 2021 • 1h 28min
s03e110 | Are US Public Schools Beyond Saving? Deb Fillman Argues for Abolition
Deborah Fillman is a mother and writer who, shocked by the treatment of her daughters in public education, has done her research and decided that public schools are beyond reformation, and should be abolished. Find her on twitter @insomnochick, on youtube at The Reason We Learn and on locals https://thereasonwelearn.locals.com
If you're interested in homeschool resources visit the Homeschool Legal Defense Association at https://hslda.org
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Aug 14, 2021 • 1h 11min
s03e109 | Cult Thinking Then & Now: An Okay Boomer Story, feat. Jim Heller
I'm not the first to notice symmetries in the political and social arc of The Me Generation (Boomers) and The Me² Generation (Zoomers). Jim Heller talks about his experience in a 70's era cult and how he sees the same thinking going on at present.
Jim Heller lives and works in the costal town of Victoria, British Columbia
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Aug 11, 2021 • 1h 15min
s03e108 | Teen Mental Illness & Trans Identity, with Ella Washington
Ella Washington (@rhetorical_joke on twitter) speaks to me about the years she devoted to a child with severe mental health issues, and how she gracefully managed his foray into a trans identity.
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Aug 8, 2021 • 1h 10min
s03e107 | Writing About Women & Reviled for Writing "Woman" with Milli Hill
Milli Hill (@millihill on twitter) has been writing about women's reproductive health for many years, and was recently shunned and abused for putting women first.
Find her writing at https://www.millihill.co.uk
"Give Birth Like a Feminist" https://bit.ly/3s1XuMu
"My Period" https://bit.ly/3fCCIOv
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Aug 6, 2021 • 1h 32min
s03e106 | GenZ: The Politicized Generation, with Elika Imanaga
Elika is a university student whose proclivity for critical thinking, logic, and humor makes her somewhat of an outcast among her peers. We talk about navigating a social landscape that is highly moral, ideological, and vengeful (in the name of fairness, justice, and equity), and how she's coming to terms with thinking out loud and for herself.
Find the beginnings of her impressive writing career at https://rimeslikedimes.substack.com
Follow her on twitter at @rimeslikedimes
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Aug 4, 2021 • 41min
s03e105 | Canceled out of Counseling, with James Esses
James Esses found working in counseling very fulfilling, and decided to pursue a degree in the field. Three years in to a five year degree, someone complained about his views on the affirmation-only approach to gender issues, and his educational institute unceremoniously kicked him from his program. What follows is his story, and what he's doing to fight back.
Find James at @JamesEsses on twitter and check out his legal fund if you feel so moved at: https://www.crowdjustice.com/case/expelled-university-free-speech/
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Jul 26, 2021 • 57min
s03e103 | Crowdsourcing COVID & Vaccine Facts, with Alexandros Marinos
Alexandros is an entrepreneur practice solutions to design-based problems. He's also keen on making sense of the world, in order to optimize human life and ingenuity. Pulled into the controversy surrounding Bret Weinstein's questions of the COVID vaccine and alternatives thereto, Alexandros found a lack of substance in these critics' complains. So he has put together a crowdsource sort of fact checking mechanism which I think might give us clues to fielding the broadest amount of input and truth in a world overloaded with information and personality quirks.
Find out more by following @BetterSkeptics and @alexandrosM on twitter, and learning about The Ground Truth Challenge at https://www.betterskeptics.com
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Jul 24, 2021 • 38min
s03e102 | Bullying in the Trans Community, with Aaron Kimberly
Aaron Kimberly (@Aaron_GDAC) is a long time mental health professional and transman. He has been advocating for evidence based trans health care, while Canada is implementing laws that ban people from exploring gender identities in any way other than affirmatively (casting this as "conversion therapy" and outlawing even talk therapy). A vocal advocate for Gender Identity, who has been working nationally and internationally, has decided to harass and bully Aaron for not toeing the line of an ideology that isn't based on facts, but rather internal feelings. I have Aaron on to discuss what he is really standing for and trying to teach people about.
Learn more about Aaron's trans health advocacy: https://www.gdalliancecanada.com Also: https://www.trevoices.com Support this channel: https://www.paypal.me/benjaminboyce


