Stronger Marriage Connection

We welcome Les and Leslie Parrott to unpack how preparation, empathy, and practical tools create stronger marriages, from the origins of SYMBIS to the launch of the four-minute Heart Chart. We explore healthy conflict, invisible rule books, and thought patterns that quietly shape connection.• SYMBIS origin story and why premarriage prep matters• moving from traits to state for real-time insight• the invisible rule book and expectations• how to fight a good fight without harm• empathy as the core skill for repair• toxic thoughts like irrational guilt and entitlement• Heart Chart’s commitment and connection coordinates• simple presence habits that boost attunement• laughter, awareness, and small daily choicesVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ 

Shane Burkle, a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in couples work and emotionally avoidant men. He discusses emotional safety, consent in conversations, and nervous system regulation. Hear about the six-hour intensive approach, RLT’s “truth with love,” practical validation and listening phrases, and a simple speaking-listening exercise couples can try today.

Dr. Stan Tatkin, clinician and creator of the PACT approach to couple therapy, explains why human nature makes intimacy hard. He covers attachment biology, the sensory 'ick', clean repairs and real apologies. He describes PEPPER prevention, social contracts and shared leadership, plus daily micro-connections and systems to stop repeating hurt.

We sit down with Susanne Alexander to explore unity as a daily practice and walk through research-based tools that help couples merge hearts and minds. Small habits, virtue-based praise, and playful rituals turn conflict into clarity and make friendship the backbone of marriage.Susanne M. Alexander is a relationship and marriage educator, coach, author, and publisher with her company Marriage Transformation®, www.marriagetransformation.com. She meets with clients globally via the internet for relationship and marriage preparation and marriage strengthening. Susanne is certified to offer couples assessments and coaching through Prepare-Enrich® and for individuals with the Character Foundations Assessment™. She has completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. Susanne has written or co-written over 30 books. Her most recent is “Growing Our Unity: 19 Vital Practices for a Thriving Relationship”, coauthored with Grant Peirce. Susanne is co-lead on Accordia Way, a project to assist couples with excellent communication and decision-making skills, https://accordiaway.substack.com/subscribe.She is passionate about helping individuals and couples make good relationship and marriage choices through knowledge and skill-building and thereby prevent divorces. Susanne has been single, dating, engaged, married, divorced, and widowed. She is a child, stepchild, parent, stepparent, and grandparent. All of this has given Susanne a diversity of experience to share. She is originally from Canada and is married to a wonderful man named Phil Donihe in Tennessee, in the United States. They live on a lake and love to do romantic boat trips together that include nature photography.• how lived experience shapes Susanne’s approach• unity as a shared daily language• 22 virtues that support connection• Unifier 10 choosing to merge in a distracted world• micro practices celebrations greetings and check ins• bids for connection and sunset moments• a commute tweak that transformed evenings• rethinking conflict with the bowl method• appreciation using virtue language to affirm identity• laughter dates and rediscovering fun• service balance and community ties• friendship as the foundation for lasting closeness• learning in action as a lifelong mindsetVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ 

Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, a relationship and sexuality coach with a PhD in counseling psychology, connects sexuality and spirituality as sources of joy. She explores self-honesty as the basis of intimacy. Conversations cover reframing eroticism as life force, how roles hide the self and stall desire, negotiating change with responsibility, and first steps when sexual intimacy feels stuck.

Julia Garcia, psychologist and author of The Five Habits of Hope, shares how hope is practiced daily through five habits. Short, actionable themes include reflection, risk, release, receive, and repurpose. Conversations cover transforming pain into purpose, using curiosity to repair conflict, the power of a single word like maybe to shift momentum, and modeling hope for others.

We talk with therapist and author Marc Cameron about how childhood bonds shape adult love and how anyone can “earn” secure attachment through story, skills, and practice. Practical tools like boundaries that invite connection and the Comfort Circle help couples move from reactivity to responsiveness.• what avoidant, pleaser, vacillator, and disorganized styles look like in childhood and adulthood• how a coherent narrative links emotions to needs• why empathy, validation, and clear language reduce conflict• boundaries as doors back into connection• style-specific growth goals and daily practice• co‑soothing before self‑soothing and nervous system regulation• the Comfort Circle listener-speaker tool• research roots from Bowlby, Ainsworth, and Main• resources from How We Love and Marc’s new bookMarc Cameron's Resources and Links:Free How We Love Attachment Style Quiz:https://understandingyourattachmentstyle.com/How We Love: https://howwelove.com/Marc's Social Media:https://m.facebook.com/marc.cameron.mft/https://www.instagram.com/marc.cameron.mft/How We Love Social Media:https://www.facebook.com/howwelovebook?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.instagram.com/howwelovebook?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrhttps://www.tiktok.com/@how.we.love.tiktohttps://www.youtube.com/@HowWeLoveVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ 

We dig into holiday spending habits with Amanda Christensen and show how couples can protect peace and pocketbooks. From impulse triggers to simple tools and a revolving savings plan, we share practical steps to keep joy high and stress low.• impulse buying traps and how to slow down• agreeing a shared goal for the season• setting a total budget and four key categories• choosing cash for high-risk spending areas• using price trackers to time purchases• organizing gifts with lists and simple apps• planning for hidden costs and last year’s data• revolving savings that fund December in advance• a mantra to reduce comparison and pressureVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ 

We explore how to handle family “emotional storms” with practical, science-backed tools so parents can stay calm, help kids feel seen, and keep their partnership strong. Dr. Alyssa Jerud shares the ART and CARE frameworks, opposite action, and simple mindfulness moves that work in the real world.• why emotional agility matters for parents and partners• how ART helps accept, regulate, and tolerate emotions• everyday mindfulness as a fast acceptance tool• the CARE skills to lower arousal quickly• opposite action to disrupt anger-driven habits• validating feelings while holding boundaries• using calm moments for quality attention and reconnection• aligning different parenting styles without blame• book details and where to find resourcesHey, do us a favor and take a second to subscribe to our podcast and the Utah Marriage Commission YouTube channel at Utah Marriage Commission, where you can watch this and every episode of the showBe sure to smash the like button, leave a comment, and share this episode with a friendYou can also follow and interact with us on Instagram at StrongerMarriageWife and Facebook at Stronger MarriageIf you want even more resources to improve your marriage or relationship connection, visit strongermarriage.org where you'll find free workshops, e-courses, in-depth webinars, relationship surveys, and moreVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ 

We explore how the Enneagram, mindfulness, and personal values help couples understand patterns, reduce conflict, and build trust. Amanda Ford shares practical tools to translate differences into connection, redefine compatibility, and communicate requests with clarity and care.• Nine types as lenses for patterns and needs• Head, heart, body centers explained with examples• Using insights without labeling or blaming• Mindfulness as embodied awareness for self-regulation• Yoga practices that calm the nervous system• Brené Brown’s values exercise for clarity and alignment• Nonviolent Communication for value-based requests• Gottman love maps to stay current and curious• Compatibility across practical, wavelength, and intimacy• Acceptance over sameness to fuel repair and goodwill• Tools and resources: test links, books, and appsSubscribe to our podcast and the Utah Marriage Commission YouTube channel at Utah Marriage Commission, smash the like button, leave a comment, and share this episode with a friend. Follow us on Instagram at StrongerMarriageWife and Facebook at Stronger Marriage. For more resources, visit strongermarriage.org.Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/