Jason Mellard

Jason Mellard, founder of Own Your Identity and certified high performance coach who helps men overcome unwanted same-sex attraction. He explores reclaiming curiosity, childlike wonder, and awe as tools for recovery. Short takes cover observation versus obsession, imagination for building instead of escaping, appreciation versus idolatry, and practical ways to pause, notice, and choose wonder.

In this engaging conversation, Jason Mellard, a coach and podcaster, shares his transformative journey from childhood trauma and same-sex attraction to healing and faith. He introduces his Four S Framework—Separation, Sensation, Sin, and Story—designed to help men understand their struggles. Jason candidly discusses his experiences with sexual abuse, family dynamics, and the profound impact of his father's struggles. Ultimately, he highlights how rediscovering faith and community led him to a fulfilling life as a husband and father.

Jason Mellard, the founder of Own Your Identity and a certified high-performance coach, shares his powerful journey of overcoming unwanted same-sex attraction. He discusses his struggles with masculinity and the impact of past trauma on his self-identity. Jason emphasizes the importance of embracing one's identity in Christ and finding purpose beyond addiction, detailing transformative healing methods like visualization and mentorship. His insights provide hope and practical tools for men seeking clarity and empowerment.